Michael Urday

[email protected] & [email protected] is who, what, where, when, & how and when it all began. I left out "why", so I could explain. Back in 2002, when "A/S/L/P" was a thing, we met in an AOL Chat- Room.
I was an Italian & Irish musician who loved playing video games, and cats. You were a Peruvian & Spanish electric guitar player who also loved video games.
We communicated online & by phone everyday for awhile. Then we decided to meet up. We were both pretty nervous, timid, and shy, - although we pretended otherwise. We went to the Big Creek Metroparks near Brookpark and went for a walk. Prior to heading back to your car, we saw a picnic table and awkwardly decided to sit for a little bit.
I randomly asked if you'd be willing to arm wrestle. You were like, "Uhmm seriously" I said, "You have to win against me in order to go on a 2nd date."
I was as serious as a heart-attack!
We went at it pretty strong, and to my surprise, you won with flying colors!
I said, "One more time, one more time!", And so we did.
You won every single time!
This is literally what led to our future dates and friendship thereon after.

We ended up spending more than 3+yrs together.
You were my absolute best friend. My entire family loved you immediately!
That love has not stopped, nor will ever stop.
As we grew older, we parted ways and began our own families.
The joy, fun, laughter, teachings, memories, up's, down's, and/or time shared together will NEVER be taken for granted, forsaken, regretted, nor ever be forgotten.

You were & are such an amazingly awesome person, Mike. You will always be in my heart, mind, body & soul.
Although you may be physically gone from this thing we call, "Planet Earth", your spirit will shine on forever.

Rest in Paradise, Michael.
You're now officially a legend!

Much Love, Appreciation, &
Respects,
°oBatao°o

Oh Michael.
The time we've shared together were some the best times of my entire life. We met when I was 15yrs old. You were a little older.
You instantly became familia.

I'm so sorry for all & any pain you've suffered. Whether it be mental, emotional, physical and/or spiritual.
May you sincerely be in true & utter peace.
I'm still in shock that you're physically "gone".
However, I trust that you're not spiritually gone; your soul continues forever. Brandi's too.
I pray that your soul is healed, and that your sins are forgiven. I'll never stop praying for both of you.
I trust that you both are truly at peace now.
Wherever you are, please take care of yourself as well as Brandi.
Apparently God needed another flower for His garden to grow, and another color for His rainbow to glow.

My heart is forever both of yours.

Happy 41st Birthday, Bato aka Miguel Andreas Urday.

All my love, honor & prayers,
Bata -AKA-
C.A.P.F.
XxoXoxX

Only knows his grieving mother...

Que descanse en la Paz del Señor tu querido/amado hijo Michael! Partió
demasiado pronto! Que tristeza. QDEP. CONSUELO y FORTALEZA para ti. Rosy. esposo familia......

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.