Neil M Agnew

My first faculty appointment was at York U in the mid 70's. Neil was the best colleague/mentor one could ever hope to have. His creativity and humour were something that I still cherish in my memory. Thank you, Neil.

So sorry for your loss. I remember your Dad as a wonderful man. He was very instrumental in my husband Mike becoming a teacher as he gifted him with a battery of psychological tests when he was at the University of Saskatoon. I really liked the poem you put in his beautiful obituary. He has always had a special place in our hearts.

I'm so sorry Wendy and Tim to hear of your father's passing. Give your mother a big hug from all of the Trenamans. Linda

I met Neil but once and it remains a memorable occasion. He was a fine, gracious and accomplished man.....a father to be proud of. He and Mary were great together and his devotion to her speaks volumes about his character.
My sincere condolences.

Safe travels Neil may your next journey be as meaningful and impressive as the times that have left their mark on me. If there is a directory to connect us in the afterlife Neil is close to the top of the list. Thank you to Neil, Mary, Tim and Wendy who have left a profound imprint on my life.

Dear Wendy and Family, We are deeply saddened by the passing of your father. Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow. Someone so special can never be forgotten. We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family.
Neil, our mentor, professor and a true friend. We will always keep him dear at heart.

We're so sad to hear of your dad's passing. Such a bright spirit! We're holding you in our hearts with love.
Kathie and Nick Caple

Dear Wendy and family...My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May all the wonderful memories you have, with what sounds like an amazing man, comfort you now and always.

Neil, you were there for me when I lost my Mary. I will always remember and cherish our conversations. You will be truly missed my dear friend.

Neil Agnew was a large presence in my life. He was my employer, my PhD dissertation advisor, my friend and confidant during my formative years in graduate school and best man at my wedding. He mentored me on psychology while I was still in transition from being an engineering graduate student, on research methodology when I worked in his laboratory, and when we carried out research on LSD for the provincial psychiatric services branch he shepherded me through my first psychedelic experiences. He made a big impact on my life as he did on the lives of many people and we continued our friendship by email until he passed away. I will sorely miss his sense of humour, warm companionship and support.

Zenon Pylyshyn, New York City

I will forever be grateful to Neil and Mary for inviting me to live in their home during my third year of university. Wednesday nights were set aside for special dinners where ideas and the art of conversation were nurtured. Neil and Mary opened my eyes to a larger world.

Tim, so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. Although I didn't get the opportunity to meet your Dad it sounds like he was a very dynamic individual who lived a very fruitful life.
Our condolences to both you and Trish,
Grant & Tina

We got to know Neil over the past two decades, through the many gatherings at our sister Trish and Tim's home. Neil was truly a man of influence, who left those, with whom he came in contact, energized and inspired. He will be genuinely missed. Our deepest condolences to Mary, Wendy , Rick, Tim, Trish and the entire family.

I met Neil in Saskatchewan in 1963. While struggling with a PhD in Physics, and unsure of just what to do with myself, I found Neil to be most helpful. He provided me with a kind and thoughtful glimpse into a different sort of research and lifestyle than I had experienced before meeting him.

Though we didn't know Neil, we have been privileged to see the incredible impact that he had on Wendy and Rick.

All of our love and support to the Agnew family from Calgary.

Neil was one of those who hired me at York in 1970, and one of the most important in making our department one of the most diverse and tolerant in the world. He was also one of the most creative, funny and witty people I have ever been privileged to know, whose humor was always kind and constructive, never mean. I cherish his memory and will miss him

I am saddened to learn of Neil's passing. I enjoyed every interaction I had with him, and these started in 1968.
My condolences to Mary and his family.

Tim,
I was sad to hear about your Dad.
My condolences to you and your family.

Ed Brewerton

I have been a secretary at York's Psychology Department since 1986. Dr. Agnew was always a live wire, always ready with a smile and a witty remark. He was a natural storyteller and I always enjoyed his speeches at parties. He treated everyone as valuable and worthy of attention. I am very sorry for your loss, and hope memories of Dr. Agnew will be a comfort. Barb Thurston, York U.

Wes and I first met Neil and Mary at Tim and Tishys about 15 years ago. We were very proud to know them and looked forward to seeing them each year at Tim and Tishys. Such a dynamic and fun loving couple. Striking up a conversation with Neil was always fun and enlightning. Such a wonderful man. Love to Mary, Wendy and Tim. Wes and Penny Anderson.

I was lucky enough to be "adopted" into the Agnew family as a teenager. Mary and Neil have been huge influences. Mary, Wendy, Rick, Trish and Tim - you will miss him terribly and my heart goes out to you.
love
jane (and Kate and Jess - remembering Boxing Day charades)
xxx

It would be safe to say that throughout the years, many people have an influence on you, sometimes with actions and sometimes with words. Without a doubt, Neil was both. Having known him though my crazy teen years, he was wise with tidbits of advice, never force-fed but subtle. How many fathers can you remember who danced to the Rolling Stones Flowers album. He was truly one of a kind that you never forget. We will all miss him. Heather and I want the family to know we are with them in spirit even though we can

My heartfelt sympathies go out to your family and friends during this difficult time, I hope that Gods promise found at 1Thessalonians 4:14, can bring comfort.Know that there is a future for ones we have lost in death.