Nicolas Columbo

Nicolas Columbo obituary, Portland, OR

Nicolas Columbo

Nicolas Columbo Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 25, 2024.
Nicolas was an amazing human being. He loved animals and insects and nature. He loved going too fast on his motorcycle. He loved learning about anything and everything. He loved space and science. He loved kind humans. He had a beautiful smile and an infectious laugh. He cared deeply for his friends and family. He was someone people found easy to confide in. He was thoughtful and compassionate. He wanted the best for everyone. He sent sweet messages to friends on birthdays and holidays and when they were down in the dumps.

He loved snacks. I asked him once what his favorite foods were and after an incredibly long pause his answer was "wedges". Pressed further he listed wedge shaped foods for me, "pizza, cheese, quesadillas, pie, Jo-jo's, taco's, etc". He also had an obsession with dumplings of any variety from every culture.

His passion in life was art and music. He spent as much of his free time as possible creating. He made oil paintings and collages and shadow boxes and ink drawings and charcoal drawings and pastels and beautiful cards and linocut prints and sculptures and little wax boxes with peekaboo holes and surprises inside. He wrote stories and acted and created a web series with close friends. He played in many bands with many friends throughout his life, such as Atomic Slaughterhouse, Narwal vs. Narwal and the well known local band Sissyface.

His head was filled with songs and he wrote them down and taught himself many instruments, bass, guitar, keyboards, drums, and weird boxes with springs on them. I don't know what they are called. He built himself a studio and a whole bunch of pedals and learned about recording and editing and recorded his music and worked in there endlessly until his last day at home.

He never stopped making things. He was an idea man with a direct link to the universes endless supply. He loved reading. He was quick witted and intelligent and well informed. He was hilarious and he made me cry laugh on a regular basis. He was a beautiful man who was secure in his very well balanced mix of masculine and feminine. He wasn't afraid to express either side. He loved hats and boots and jackets. He often changed those items several times before leaving the house. He was someone you didn't need to make a plan of what to do to hang out with because being with him was the event.

Nicolas was loved immensely. If you knew him you loved him. No matter how long you didn't talk or see him, when you did you were right where you were the last time you were together. He was a special kind of human that will live in our hearts forever.

Nicolas left this world on May,15th 2024. The week he was in the hospital you could see the Northern lights in Oregon. I felt like it was the universe celebrating his return. He was surrounded with close friends and myself, his partner of 20 amazing years, Rachelle.

I love him more than I knew I could ever possibly love someone and I am beyond grateful for every second I got with this most beautiful amazing human being.

Thank you for being part of his life. Thank you for loving him too. Thank you for celebrating who he was to you. We all had our own special version of Nicolas and I know we are all better off in this world for having known and loved him.

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December 17, 2024

Sadie Broillet posted to the memorial.

December 10, 2024

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November 11, 2024

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Sadie Broillet

December 17, 2024

First Memory: I went to visit a friend on a rainy day in Eugene, OR. He said he had to go pick up his band mates in the parking lot of a US Bank. These were Nicolas and Jeff. We were all 20 years old. He played bass and Jeff played the bagpipes in a band called Atomic Slaughterhouse. We went back to Keith's house and a lifelong friendship began. Jeff and I both loved him so much that we thought we hated each other, but it was just wanting to be in Nick's light. Turned out, he had enough light for both of us and we all remained friends forever, all living within a few miles of each other and though I didn't see him as often as I would have liked in the last few years, it was always as though no time had passed when we did see each other or randomly talk on the phone.

One of my favorite memories is much, much later. We were hanging out and I was playing a David Cross CD for him. I can hear him laughing right now. I'll never, ever forget his laugh.

I often think of him when I make pasta! We had the biggest fight over whether to put oil in the water or not! So dumb! (Spoiler alert - oil isn't necessary)

We played a lot of chess back in the day and I still have his chess set and Jeff and I play regularly. We watched the very first episode of The Simpsons together. I was the only one with a TV! We bought a Nintendo together. I still have it. We loved Public Enemy and Lou Reed.

We had a bunny. His name was Oliver Bumble Broillet Columbo. We buried him at The Grotto.

I have no words to describe how much I miss him.

Edgar Santiago

December 10, 2024

As shared at Nicolas's Celebration of Life, November 10, 2024:

We hold dear one simple fact in what is most evident today as we all gather here together, LOVE.

So very glad to be here, right now, to see this fitting representation as Nicolas will always be mine, yours, and ours. What an incredible gain in our lives.

Nicolas Columbo : Sketching, Painting, Crafting, Musician, Singer Songwriter, Scoring, Graphic Designer, Writer, Actor, tackful Constructive Critic, all around Studio Mad Scientist with a soldering tool, with an overt passion for Motorcycles and Racing.

Nic was ALWAYS doing something.

Rooms fill with laughter for the ridiculous and absurd with your infamous chuckle that made anyone in the room laugh harder.

How I could EASILY egg you on towards a passionate diatribe by asking :

"do those Italian Ducati motorcycles really suck?", or in shared anger over a burning world topic as Brothers in Arms.

Butch Cassidy / Sundance Kid : Wes Fodder / Sonchez Sandoval. "Bingo, man? Bingo? Will never be the same, but will always have his name." Shoutout ShamShamProductions : and my brother, Greg Leblond. Shammy Pros. Shoutout dear Rachelle for the introduction to our circle, and to one of the absolute best, easiest, and most fore-filling friendships of my lifetime.

Now, Nic has kindly provided us with an AMAZING display and array of HIS Artistic vision as a historical catalog of various Mediums for us to always enjoy. Profound mark. Renaissance man, as I often called him.

Time can desperately hold the hands of a clock that has reset itself.

My hope for this room, and those at large that enjoyed their own life experiences crossing paths with Nic, is that we all find some definition and peace when grief and sadness presents itself in our own forms, but let´s also agree to believe in ourselves, our creativity, innovation, lifting our energy, blocking out needless noise.

Find the spark. Creating the fire. YOUR Catalog. Nic, would be 100% onboard in that conversation, as he´d been doing that himself all along, which I was lucky enough to have experienced, learned from, and now hold dear.

I often think/speak towards the evening skies of coastal stars, how I´d love to hear about what it feels like to race amongst the universe, bouncing along the galaxies faster than any blink of an eye, or any motorcycle you could have ever imagined, or had lovingly and methodically could have repaired or rebuilt yourself.

I will forever second guess shooting stars.

Endless speed dear brother with my eyes towards the skies, and endless love throughout time, Nicolas Columbo.

Then, now, and always. Legend.

David Lloyd

November 11, 2024

Words I shared at Nicolas's Celebration of Life, November 10, 2024:

As much as I don´t like that we are here, I am so happy to be in this room today with friends that Nicolas loved and of course in turn you loved Nicolas.

As devastating as it has been to lose his physical presence, I see Nicolas´s smile in every person that his smile touched. I feel Nicolas here in the facets of him that you all reflect.

While the grief has been immense, today I want to focus on and share the joy of Nicolas.

Knowing Nicolas is one of the great joys of my life. Nicolas was truly my brother in all ways other than blood. Nicolas was the most beautiful, brilliant, sweet and talented man I have ever had the deep privilege in knowing. For 30+ years Nicolas Columbo has been my dearest friend, my most encouraging compatriot and my deeply trusted lighthouse when my life was adrift. If you knew Nicolas, you loved Nicolas.

30 years of the truest friendship and the deep levels and joyful banter we had was a gift in this life that I will be eternally grateful for. His intense desire to push further into the recesses of knowledge, art, of our inner selves, of wonder and self-expression was always a joy to engage and expand with. Nicolas was so talented in everything he pursued, whether music, art, philosophy, science, motorcycles, you name it Nick was a true polymath. Making the fodder for deeply enriching banter never ending for both of us.

I always left our hours long discussions with a renewed compass bearing in my life. If fact I always knew if I was adrift that I could count our friendship to help me find my true north.

And, as amazing as our discussions always were, some of our best times together were wordless. Chasing each other through the curves on motorcycles, each pushing the other to find the perfect line through a tightly winding path at thrilling and wonderful speeds. One of the best prizes was always that Columbo grin reflecting my own when we found a choice stopping point to rest. Finding our individual flow state while together on motorcycle or creative expression was always a prized gift.

Loving Nicolas was always easy. Understanding the depths of our brotherly love over 30 years is something I am still discovering and that is helping hold me through his physical absence. My relationship to Nicolas changed me in ways I am still realizing. I know that I will never know a better friend, but his influence on me, his encouragement for me personally and creatively, and his love for me all continues.

By honoring that of his to being a better, kinder human, in pushing for greater knowledge, in making the art that is most true to myself, I honor both myself and Nicolas.

I love you Nicola, always. I miss you so much.

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