Olivia Malekos

Olivia Malekos obituary, Modesto, CA

Olivia Malekos

Olivia Malekos Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 3, 2022.
It is with heavy hearts that the family of Olivia Ann Malekos, 73, announces the passing on 3/28/22, of their eldest female cousin, familiarly known as Betza. She was born in San Francisco to Nicholas & Ann Malekos. The family later moved to Millbrae where she & her brother Leon attended Mills High School. Betza received a Bachelor of Arts Degree & teaching credential from California State University, Chico & a Master of Arts Degree in Education from University of San Francisco.

After college, Betza spent a year traveling throughout Europe, including several months in her paternal family's homeland & village of Vamos, Crete, Greece. An avid traveler, she returned multiple times to visit Europe & the Middle East where she experienced the Running of the Bulls in Pamplona, Bastile Day in Paris, & Oktoberfest in Munich. She also enjoyed trips to the East Coast & Hawaii with her mother & niece. One of her last trips was to New Mexico, accompanied by a cousin to see her niece's Master's degree graduation.

She began a 43-year teaching career in Napa where she dedicated her life to teaching elementary school-aged children for 27 years. She married, & had an unparalleled love of large-breed dogs, some of which she entered in dog shows. She enjoyed The Beach Boys (whom she once met backstage), sporty cars, the ocean, & white chocolate! She grew up in the turbulent 1960's & was an advocate for peace & justice all her life. She later moved to Modesto and taught in the Lodi Unified School District for 16 years, including summer school, inter-sessions, and after-school programs.

Betza was extremely generous with family, friends, neighbors, co-workers & students who enjoyed her delicious desserts, Greek pastries, & other culinary specialties. It was a special tradition for cousins to gather several times a year to make her famous baklava & kourambiethes, passing down her mother's recipes to the next generations.

Because teaching five days a week was not enough, she also taught Sunday School for 30 years at the Greek Orthodox churches in Novato & Modesto. She had a deep faith in God & attended church every Sunday. She helped at the annual Greek Food Festival & was a member of Philoptochos & Sisterhood Eleftheria clubs. In retirement, Betza continued her love of education as a volunteer at the Stanislaus Literacy Center teaching adults to read.

We have lost our trailblazer cousin to whom we all looked to for advice, counsel, & direction, & to whom we especially looked up to as our role model. As the eldest cousin, she lovingly guided, supported, & encouraged us. She was always hospitable, from the days when she would host us in downtown San Francisco where her father owned a grocery store, to later years when she warmly opened her homes in Napa & Modesto. We will miss our cousin group trips to Wente Vineyards for lunches & wine tasting, Greek Festivals, southern California to watch our children's Greek folk dancing. We each have our own experience with her - traveling, attending a show or just sharing a meal. A special thank you to all her kind caregivers, Fr. Jon & Fr. Michael, & to all who visited her.

We know Betza joins her parents, brothers, & family who have pre-deceased her. She was a beautiful soul on Earth, & now she is a beautiful soul in heaven. Betza is survived by her nieces Ann (Becky) Malekos & Irene Gray, & great-nephew Wes Gray, along with many cousins who treasure her. May her memory be Eternal!

Trisagion Service, Tuesday, April 5, 2022, Salas Brothers Chapel, 419 Scenic Dr., Modesto, CA at 3:00 p.m. Private Funeral Service, Greek Orthodox Memorial Park Chapel, Colma, CA

In lieu of flowers the family requests donations to any of the following: Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church Modesto; Stanislaus Wildlife Care Center; Stanislaus County Animal Services

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Chuck Schoonmaker

April 26, 2022

My sincerest condolences to your family. Mrs Malekos was my 5th grade teacher at Phillips Elementary in Napa CA. She was such a wonderful, patient woman. And I'm sure my classmates and I (mostly me) tested her patience that year.

Carole Young

April 4, 2022

My Sister-in-law was a very kind person. I am so glad I was able to spend time with her in Albuquerque at my daughter's graduation. I will treasure these moments forever.

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