Palmer "Hef" L. Heffner

Palmer "Hef" L. Heffner obituary, Red Lion, PA

Palmer "Hef" L. Heffner

Palmer Heffner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 24, 2013.
Palmer L. "Hef" Heffner, 69, was carried home on Angels Wings, to be with his Lord and Savior at 5 p.m. on Saturday, August 24, 2013, at York Hospital. He was the husband of Glenda L. (Arnold) Heffner of Red Lion, whom he married on February 17, 1968. He was born in Windsor Twp., on December 22, 1943, the son of the late Mervin L. and Viola P. (Strayer) Heffner. Hef worked at Dean's Body Shop and then went to the Quality Auto Salvage for 46 years and then the Dallastown Post Office retiring in 2006 after many years of service. He was a United States Air Force Veteran, who served in the Vietnam War. He was a longtime member of Winterstown UM Church, and the American Legion Post #0945 in Harrisburg. In addition to his wife, Glenda, he is survived by two daughters, Stacy L. Werner and husband, Donald of Windsor and Pam L. Johnson and husband, Keel of Airville; two grandchildren, Thomas Keel Johnson and Tiffany Ann Johnson; three brothers and two sisters, Delores Parlett (Marvin) of Red Lion, Denton Heffner (Sylvia) of Red Lion, Robert Heffner (Kathy) of Felton, Bruce Heffner (Bernita) of Red Lion and Linda Joines (John) of Stewartstown; sister-in-law, Nancy R. (Craley) Heffner of Red Lion; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by a brother, Mervin H. "John" Heffner. Viewing will be Friday from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. at Burg Funeral Home, Inc., 134 W. Broadway, Red Lion. The service will be Friday at 11:30 a.m. at the funeral home, with the Rev. Ronald Doverspike, of Bethany UM Church, Red Lion, and Rev. Joseph N. Yorks, of East Salem UM Church in Mifflintown, officiating. Burial will be in Susquehanna Memorial Gardens with full military rites by the York County Veterans Honor Guard. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be offered to: Hospice and Community Care, 685 Good Drive Lancaster, PA 17604-4125; or to Lebanon VA Medical Center, 1700 S. Lincoln Ave., Lebanon, PA 17042. Palmer was a wonderful husband to Glenda for 45 years and a great Father and Grandfather. He loved fishing and hunting and spending time with his family. He will be sadly missed. "It's quitting time!! Love, your family". On line condolences may be made at : BurgFuneralHome.com

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September 14, 2013

Jennifer Arnold posted to the memorial.

August 30, 2013

tabitha gilbert posted to the memorial.

August 30, 2013

Bonnie & Nelson Bonager posted to the memorial.

Micky and Billy Mitchell

August 27, 2013

Our prayers are with you always, especially in this difficult time. May you find comfort in the many memories that you have made.

Jennifer Arnold

September 14, 2013

Glenda, Stacy, Pam and family,

I am so sorry to hear of Palmer's passing. I always remember Palmer being of good spirits and a jovial man. He was one of many that I looked forward to seeing at the family reunions. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

tabitha gilbert

August 30, 2013

I'm sorry for you loss. I hope you're doing well Glenda

Bonnie & Nelson Bonager

August 30, 2013

My heartfelt prayers and condolences go out to Glenda and the Heffner family. Palmer was a great guy and loved the Lord and his wife and family very much. No matter how bad Palmer felt at times, he always would crack a joke. He will we missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing him. We shared many memories with Palmer and Glenda in the past few years and we will cherish them forever. RIP dear friend. We are honored that he shared our wedding day just 3 weeks ago.

Jetty zarfos

August 29, 2013

Dear Heffner FAmily,
With great sadness I read of Palmer's death. Memories go flooding back to the carefree day of our youth. Prayers to Glenda and each brothers and sisters.
With sincere sympathy. Jetty

Rhonda Gardner

August 29, 2013

So sorry to hear of your family's great loss. He filled in as a Dad for me when mine was absent and he was always the best. He will be forever missed. Love you all!!!

Bernita Heffner

August 29, 2013

I will always treasure the time we had with Palmer. He was not only my brother-in-law, but he was also a dear friend. I'll never forget the times we had in the mountains hurting for deer and the times we played cards. Love Bert.

Luther (Skip) and Janet Riley

August 28, 2013

We both knew Palmer as a great classmate. Haven't seen him in may years but we both remember his sense of humor. We don't remember his having any enemies, just friends. He was just an all-around good guy, Mrs. Heffner, we are sorry for your loss and you and Palmer and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Pauline & Dale Tyson

August 28, 2013

Dear Glenda & Family,
We were so sad to hear of the Palmer's passing. We have enjoyed the fellowship with you over the years. God is all-sufficient in this time of sorrow. Continue to lean upon Him and His love. You are in our prayers.

Tina and Mike C

August 28, 2013

I'm glad we got to know Palmer like we did in the past 2 years in our small group through church. He has tought us both life lessons. We will miss you and send our sympathy to Glenda and family. <3

Tyler Jackson

August 28, 2013

I'm going to really miss getting to see Palmer almost every week at church or at church meetings. Palmer was a great guy and I considered him to be a good friend. Prayers to the family and I hope you're doing well Glenda.

PA Retina Specialists

August 27, 2013

To Mrs. Heffner-
We will miss seeing Palmer at his eye appointments. What a nice man he was! Prayers and thoughts are with you and his whole family.

sandie farrell

August 27, 2013

so sorry to hear of your loss bob and kathy.

Ruthie and Butch Markel

August 27, 2013

We I have very fond memories of Palmer He was my sub at the Dallastown Post Office. He loved to tease me all the time. He will be missed Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Ruth and Butch Markel

Suzanne & Bernie Schott

August 27, 2013

May God Bless you and comfort you at your time of loss. With our deepest sympathy. You are in our prayers.

August 27, 2013

Dear Delores and family.....
So sorry to read of the loss of your brother. I miss seeing you guys on my trips to PA. May the Lord bless you with peace and comfort at this time and always... Alma Ferree Campbell

August 27, 2013

Palmer will be greatly missed! He always liked to tease and he had a great laugh. I still remember the day he and several other cousins came to visit my Dad(his Uncle Dale) who was dying at home with lung cancer. Palmer was the only one who got a response from my Dad who was slowly slipping deeper into a coma. I wish I could be there to give a hug to Glenda, Stacy and Pam. Please know that you'll be in my prayers. Remember that Palmer is now your Guardian Angel watching over you from Heaven.
Love, Tana (Heffner)Barkhymer

August 27, 2013

I have some very good memories working with Palmer & Glenda at our boys & girls fellowship at PG. Your family always held a special place in my heart even though our paths didn't cross very often in later years. Rest assured Palmer is at rest in his Father's hands and free of pain and has no problem breathing, Love you all, Andrea Gemmill

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