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Pamela Lea Stephens McGregor
1962 - 2012
Pamela Lea Stephens McGregor
1962 - 2012
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BORN
1962
DIED
2012
Pamela McGregor Obituary
June 8, 1962 - Oct. 2, 2012
Pamela passed away peacefully at home in Mesa, Ariz. She was a resident of Simi Valley for over 30 years and always called it "home." Pam asked for us to remember her as "a mom who loved her son" and to remember the "laughter and the good times." We honor and celebrate Pam as a wonderful friend, a true friend, and a beautiful mom. She had a pure heart.
Pam always saw goodness in people, this was her gift. She was a once in a lifetime kind of friend. Every relationship she had was truly unique. She made a difference in every life she touched. We will miss her sense of humor and her generosity of spirit.
Pamela was preceded in death by her son Joshua Wayne Stephens; her first husband, Wayne Stephens, and her later husband Robert McGregor, her mother Norma Jean Porter, and her brother Bobby Porter. She is survived by her father Robert Porter and stepmother Ana Porter; her grandson Maddox Sloan, and her sister Brenda Porter, as well as nieces, nephews, and numerous friends.
Services for Pamela will be held on Saturday, October 20, 2012 at 12 p.m.: The United Methodist Church Simi Valley, 2394 Erringer Rd Simi Valley, Calif. 93065 Burial immediately following the service at: Assumption Cemetery, 1380 Fitzgerald Rd Simi Valley, Calif. 93065
Assisting the family with Funeral Arrangements is the Family owned and operated Rose Family Funeral Home & Cremation Our Family Helping Yours.
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6 Entries
Tyler Schroeder
November 13, 2012
Pam I love you and will miss you but will never forget the memories I shared with you and Josh.
Jennifer Harre
November 6, 2012
Pam, I am saddened by the loss of your beautiful presence in this life, however I am truelly happy for you to finally be reunited with your family. You are a very special person and I love you and Josh and Brian too. God Bless
Sara jo Tritt
November 5, 2012
Pam you were an amazing person! Im so glad I was able to call you one of my closest friends! you were always there if I needed someone to talk to I really will miss you greatly but i now you are happier where you are tell josh brian and bobby i said hi!<3 on a side note remember that tony stewart touch lamp you got for Terry? stop turning it on its freaking me out ! love you and i cant wait to see you again! -Sara ho (HAHA)
You will always be a part of me and live in my heart...
Bianca Siedenburg Hicks
October 29, 2012
You taught me so many things about the bigger pictures in life--love, family, joy, sorrow, friendship, and what it means to be human. I will miss our intimate talks about all these things... The many hours we spoke on a weekly basis. Our friendship that lasted over thirty years...You were so loved, Pam. I will miss you more than words could ever say...
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Donna Gutierrez
October 18, 2012
My prayers for Pam and her remaining family. I met her many years ago while bowling on Saturdays and it was Kathy Ross who was our common thread. I have oftened wondered about both of them. I know now she is safe in the house of the Lord.
October 18, 2012
I loved our crazy relationship. You are amazing,I admire the strength you showed after Josh passed away. I am sorry for your struggles and it gives me comfort to now about your current joy.You will never leave my heart. I will miss for the rest of my life. I love you "Paum"
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