Patricia Robin Herbst

1943 - 2019

Patricia Robin Herbst obituary, 1943-2019

Patricia Robin Herbst

1943 - 2019

BORN

1943

DIED

2019

Patricia Herbst Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 1, 2019.
Dr. Patricia Robin Herbst was a very accomplished Psychologist in the Chicagoland area. She also was a founding member and practitioner for the Marjorie Kovler Center for the treatment of torture survivors. Pat was born in Racine, WI on April 26 1943 and passed peacefully in her sleep on October 1, 2019. The cause of her death was Myocardial Infarcation/Coronary Heart Disease. She was the daughter of Emmanuel Marvin Kesert and Shirley Hazel Mielke. Pat was happily married to Cal J. Herbst for 28 years and is survived by daughters, Dana Frenier Woodward- (Shawn Woodward), Lisa Seebacker- (Jay Seebacker), Tami Herbst, and son Brad Robin-(Nicole Cook), with grandchildren Jessica and Landon Seebacker, and Addisen and Logan Frenier. She was a very loving person to her family, friends and business associates. Please Celebrate and Remember Patricia!

Her Life

In her early years she lived in Racine, WI with her grandparents and attended Horlick Schools where she was a Cheerleader-Her Grandfather died in her Arms.
She relocated to Evanston with her Mother and Manny Kesert.
Pat worked with her father, Manny, in his Drug Store in Chicago.
[The store was frequented by the Chicago Bears and Matty Pettibone had wanted to take her on a date. She said, "I'm not going out with any football player!"-So Pat!!]
She attended and Graduated from Evanston High School
Pat entered Pre Med at U of I in Champaign.
[She was an avid reader, picked up a Psych Book and that was it]
She graduated with a degree in Psychology
Pat met Mischa and Sonja Zaks and began her Clinical Psychology practice in Highland Park, Il with Mischa. Sonja owned an Art Gallery in Chicago. She also was great friends with the Head Rabbi from Chicago, David Graubart and his wife Eunice. Very influential people, and is another beautiful story.
Prior to this, she was instrumental in selecting Liver and Kidney transplant recipients in Chicago. Also, she was working with Inmates- along with a study that Mischa was heading. This was during the Martin Luther King riots! When she left the building there were two black gentlemen waiting for her and they escorted her safely to her car. Again, Pat was so loved!!
Pat earned her Masters Degree from the University of Illinois in Chicago
She moved to Evanston in1968, where she and her Life Long friend, FE Rosenfeld raised their collective four children, and they are indeed cousins-Brad and Dana-Pat and Sid Robin's children, and, Allison and Jill-FE and Neil Rosenfeld's children.
Pat was a founding member and practitioner at the Marjorie Kovler Center for the treatment of torture survivors from across the world. She was honored as one of the Top Ten Women in Chicago for that work.
Pat married Cal Herbst in 1991 and resided in Deerfield and Buffalo Grove. They are very close with their Children and four Grandchildren, other family, and many friends
Pat and Cal studied at the Japanese Garden in Botanic Gardens while Cal earned his Masters Degree and Pat her Doctoral Degree PSYD. She graduated Suma Cum Laude-again, so Pat.

Pat was a Brilliant Light and had a Brilliant Life!

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March 22, 2025

Cristina posted to the memorial.

December 26, 2020

Marne Hunter posted to the memorial.

August 2, 2020

Cal Herbst posted to the memorial.

Cristina

March 22, 2025

Dr. Robin,

I think of you often. You saved my life and I am forever grateful for your love and wisdom. You gave the best hugs.

Marne Hunter

December 26, 2020

Man, you saved my life, I'm so sorry to hear you've died. Thank you for including me in your tikkun olam, you've made a world of difference in my life.

Cal Herbst

August 2, 2020

Sweetie, Tom, Dorothy and I shared very loving thoughts about you this weekend from Winter, Wisconsin. We all miss your laughter and wisdom!
Cal

Liz C.

July 31, 2020

I'm so sad to hear of Pat's passing. I will always carry with me her words, her smile, her ability to share her strength and wisdom, and her ability to call out pretending. Thank you, Pat.

Carol Donoso

June 30, 2020

Hi Dr Robin, I will always remember how much you helped me, you brought light and peace to my heart. You will always shine, thank you for everything!

Cal Herbst

June 29, 2020

Not a day goes by that I do not miss and Love seeing your beautiful smile, soft green eyes, and your unbelievable caring nature. You are so Loved by everyone you came in personal contact with and your Legacy is that of being a devout sincere Healer from the day our Good Lord placed you on Earth. I continue to Live with you, in the remembrance of all that we ever shared together. Thank You my sweet heart for always being there!!

Paula

February 5, 2020

To Pat's Family,
She worked and helped me for many years. She saved my life and i will always be grateful to have known her. She was an amazing person. My deepest sympathy.

Rob Frenier

October 19, 2019

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Rob Frenier

October 19, 2019

Pat welcomed me with open arms into her family and cared for me like a son. Such an amazing women, her smile and positive attitude will be missed by all. I will cherish my many loving memories of her always.

kathy

October 17, 2019

I am grateful your Tikkun Olam included me among so many. Your beauty will be in countless hearts forever.
Rest In Peace.
Kathy

Dorothy Goodwin

October 12, 2019

Twenty-eight years ago this beautiful lady joined our family. We are all so blessed by knowing and loving her all of those years. Pat saw the good in everyone she met. I couldn't ask for a better sister-in-law (truly a sister) if I had picked her out myself. While I will miss her presence greatly, I am so thankful for, and treasure our shared love and, so many fun, happy memories

Dana Woodward

October 11, 2019

My amazing Mom

Dana Woodward

October 11, 2019

I love you so much, Mom. You were my best friend, my rock, my confidence and my biggest supporter. I will hold you in my heart always. I will continue to make you proud by being the woman you made me. I love you to the moon and back.

Christine

October 11, 2019

Such a tragedy to lose such a wonderful woman. My prayers will be with the entire family during this time of remembrance. She will continue to shine bright, through those that knew her. Her memory lives in us all forever.

Dianne

October 10, 2019

To Pat's Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow at the loss of one of the most beautiful people I have ever met in my life. She was loved by so many people and made a huge impact on the world. I am very sorry for your loss.

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