Patricia Ann Wilcox

1945 - 2025

Patricia Ann Wilcox obituary, 1945-2025, Epsom, NH

Patricia Ann Wilcox

1945 - 2025

BORN

1945

DIED

2025

Patricia Wilcox Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 24, 2025.
Epsom - Patricia Ann Wilcox, 79, of Epsom, passed away unexpectedly at her home on Friday, April 18, 2025.

She was born on August 8, 1945, in Throop, PA, daughter of the late James and Sandra (Oshetski) McCooey.

Patricia received her undergraduate degree from Regis College and master's degree in library science from Simmons University in Boston, MA. She worked for many years as a librarian for the NH Department of Environmental Services, Bishop Brady High School and went on to work and subsequently retired from Southern NH University in Manchester. Through her years of working at the libraries she became an encyclopedia of knowledge on many subjects and enjoyed guiding students in their studies.

Patricia enjoyed volunteering at the Epsom Town Library, gardening, thrift shopping and reading. She looked forward to visits with her granddaughters and enjoyed her time traveling to the west coast.

In addition to her parents, Patricia was predeceased by her husband, Howard Roy Wilcox; and her sister, Eileen McCooey.

She is survived by her daughter, Mary Wilcox and her husband, Lee Fried of Seattle, WA; her granddaughters, Aleah and Emelie Fried; her sister, Kathleen Hering of Dover, NH; her niece, Jessica Barnes and her husband, Nick of Hooksett, NH; her nephew, James Hering of Concord, NH; and her brother-in-law, Richard Hering of Concord, NH.

There are no services scheduled at this time. Patricia will be laid to rest with her husband, Roy, at the New Rye Cemetery in Epsom at a later date. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to A Community Center Open To All - Epsom Public Library at https://epsomlibrary.com/. The Roan Family Funeral Home - Still Oaks Chapel in Epsom is assisting the family with arrangements. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com.

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August 2, 2025

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May 16, 2025

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April 28, 2025

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Gloria Reeves

August 2, 2025

Sorry to hear of Pats passing thoughts & prayers are with the family.

Gloria J Reeves

May 16, 2025

To the family of Pat Wilcox my deepest sympathy for your loss. Pat was a really good person & will be missed by many.

Bernadette Pelczar

April 28, 2025

I was deeply saddened to hear about Pat´s passing. She was a wonderful friend, neighbor, and collaborator during my time in Epsom. I always enjoyed our chance encounters - her insight, warmth, and genuine care for others made every conversation meaningful. Pat's spirit and contributions to the community will be remembered and missed by many.

Claire Dusseault

April 26, 2025

We are saddened to learn of Pat´s sudden death. We offer our condolences to her family. My husband and I, Andy and Claire Dusseault, taught at Bishop Brady High School. We retired in 2010. We appreciated Pat´s passion for helping students navigate the library. She inspired them to see the importance of research, and to make leisure reading a daily habit. We will always remember her contributions to BBHS´s academic success!

Bob Parichand

April 26, 2025

My deepest sympathy to Mary and her family and also to Kathy. Pat was a wonderful person and will be missed.

Steve Arling

April 26, 2025

You will be missed Pat. My condolences to Mary and family. The Wilcox's were long time neighbors of ours. Pat was a pleasant person and great member of the Epsom community. I remember skating on the family's pond in the winters with you all and catching frogs in the summers. Rest in peace Pat.

Joy Degnan

April 26, 2025

Rest in peace Pat. Thanks for everything you did at Bishop Brady.

Susan (Findlay) Wadworth

April 26, 2025

To the family of Pat:

John and I send our deepest condolences on the passing of Pat. It´s never easy to lose a loved one but she will always be in your heart, thoughts and memories. God bless.

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