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Patrick Decea Obituary
Patrick J. Decea of White Plains, 58, beloved husband, father, son and brother passed on March 11, 2012. Patrick, graduate of Harrison High School, received his Bachelor's Degree in political science from SUNY Oneonta. Patrick was a co-owner of a successful painting contracting business in Harrison, NY. Patrick is survived by his loving wife, Marisa (nee Bernabei), sons Patrick, 16, and Alex, 14, mother Virginia Decea, siblings Regina, Michael, Janice, Diane, Mark, Thomas, Kathy, Nanette and Cynthia, many nieces and nephews, father-in-law, Arnold Bernabei, and his children Stephen, Richard and Chrissie and large extended family. He was pre-deceased by his father Pasquale, and mother-in-law Christine. Patrick cherished his wife, sons, family and friends. Friends may call on Wednesday from 7-9 PM and Thursday from 2-4PM and 7-9PM at the COXE & GRAZIANO FUNERAL HOME, 767 E. Boston Post Rd., Mamaroneck, NY. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10AM on Friday at Our Lady of Sorrows Church, White Plains, NY. To leave an online condolence or pay tribute to Pat please visit www.coxeandgraziano.com Rest in peace Pat.
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Jill (Zuccarelli) Cody
March 20, 2012
My deepest sympathies to all family & friends. You have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathleen Briotte
March 17, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the extended Decea family. Rest in Peace Pat.
March 16, 2012
What wounderful childhood memories I have of spending holidays in Harrison with "family" So sorry for our loss, Tom and Cathy Delzio Lake Havasu City Arizona
Bruce & Marie Bonneau
March 15, 2012
Marisa & Family,
May the memories of the good times comfort you during this time of pain and suffering. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Marianne Buono Hubbell
March 14, 2012
Marisa,
I was very sorry to read about Pat. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Gina Lesnefsky
March 13, 2012
To Marisa and sons, the entire Decea family and friends, I am truly saddened to learn of your loss :( Rest in peace, Pat, and know that you've left a legacy behind to be admired and remembered by many.
Gina LaBrusciano
March 13, 2012
Dear Cindy, Kathy and Decea family, so so sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Joyce DeRenzis
March 13, 2012
Dear Cindy and family, So very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Billie Jo Labrosciano
Marianne and Frank Pellegrino
March 13, 2012
Marisa,
Our hearts just breaks for you, Pat and Alex. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Pat's whole family.
What a terrible few years you all have endured. Pat is at peace now and his suffering is over.
Our love to all of you.
Maryellen Howard
March 13, 2012
I found this quote and thought of Pat. My sincere sympathies to all.
Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
March 13, 2012
To The Family
Danny and I were shocked and saddened to learn of Patrick's death. May the happy memories you shared bring you some comfort. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this sorrowful time. Rest in peace Patrick
Danny & Carole Tamucci
Ann Jerie & Rocco Grillo-Damiano
March 13, 2012
Our deeptes condolences to the Decea family. Our hearts are broken for your loss. May Patrick's memory forever be a blessing in your hearts, we pray for comfort and healing for each of you,
With love and deepest sympathy,
Ann Jerie Grillo Damiano and Rocco Damiano
Patty Brunner Loffredo
March 13, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the the entire Decea family.
Tony Rizzaro
March 13, 2012
Just heard... So very sorry for the entire Decea family and friends. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
March 13, 2012
My cuzin my friend I'll miss you I love you nancy
Lisa NewCastle
March 13, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Prayers to the family
March 13, 2012
My heart is with you and your family. Rest in peace,
Pattie Scelia-Kelly
Palm Harbor , Fl
March 13, 2012
March 13,2012
My prayers are with you and the Boys.
Roz Keys M.A.S.School
Julie and Charlie Cianci
March 13, 2012
Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rest in peace Pat.
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