Dr. Paul M. Benson

Dr. Paul M. Benson

Paul Benson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 5, 2008.

SOUTH PARIS, Maine — Paul M. Benson, 43, of Auburn, Maine, died Tuesday, Jan. 29, 2008.

He was born in Revere on Aug. 6, 1964, a son of Charles and Margaret (Ferry) Benson. He grew up in Peabody and in 1982 he entered the United States Air Force Academy, graduating as 2nd Lt with a degree in Chemistry. Following graduation he entered Pilot Training in Vance AFB OK. He continued with Navigators training, becoming an electric warfare officer for B-52's.

In 1988 he married Kathleen Schaeflern and together they were stationed at Paul's first duty at Barksdale AFB in LA, 1st Lt Benson was involved with the first mission in the Persian Gulf War, for the duration of the war he was stationed in Spain.

Upon his return he worked towards entering medical school and was accepted into the University of Massachusetts Medical School in Worcester. In 1996, he graduated with high honors and chose family practice for his residency. He joined the CMMC family practice residency in June of the same year. For several years he worked at the Gray Family Health Center with Dr. Fred vanMourick, a job he loved and was very proud of. His gentle, sensitive, knowledgeable manner was a comfort to many of his patients.

In October of 1996 one of the joys in his life entered the world, a beautiful son, followed by a beautiful younger brother in 1998. His most prized possessions were his family, particularly his two boys. They were the sunshine of his life; he was so proud that they were developing into such wonderful young men.

Paul participated in their athletic endeavors as a t-ball, little league and soccer coach for many years. Other family favorites were chess and basement hockey.

He will be sadly missed by his family and friends. We are comforted to know that he is with Jesus in heaven now. He leaves behind his wife Kathleen of 20 years of marriage this Jan. 2, and their two sons, Colin Patrick and Liam Michael of Auburn; his mother, Margaret Benson of Massachusetts; two sisters, Kathleen McQuade and her husband Timothy of Virginia and Josephine Flaherty and her husband John of Massachusetts; two brothers, John Benson and his wife Gail of Massachusetts and Charles Benson and his wife Susan of Massachusetts; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father, Charles O. Benson.

ARRANGEMENTS: His funeral was held on Monday at Sacred Heart Church. Committal will be held in the spring. Family and friends are invited to visit www.mem.com to pay tribute and send condolences to Paul's family. Those wishing to make donations in his memory may do so to Lewiston Area Youth Hockey, P.O. Box 7243, Lewiston, ME 04243 or Auburn Youth Hockey, P.O. Box 1505, Auburn, ME 04211-1505. A service of The Fortin Group Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 217 Turner St., Auburn, ME 04210 207 783-8545. www.thefortingroup.com.

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Chuck Wallace

February 17, 2008

Kate:

Nana and I are very sorry to hear about loosing Paul. Paul was a good friend at the Academy and a great person generally -- I look back very fondly of our time together in college and our friendship. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.

- With deepest sympathies,

Chuck and Nana Wallace

Sheryl

February 11, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. During the short time I was his patient, he spoke of his sons so often - a very proud Daddy!! May your family have great memories to carry you through this difficult time.

Scott Cilley

February 7, 2008

Kate,

I am so very sorry to hear about Paul. We began BCT together on 29 Jun 1982 (how could we all not forget that first morning?) and since we both came from the Northeast, we had an instant connection.

Jodi and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Please know that despite the miles that separate all of us, your AFA family cares deeply for you and the boys.

May God grant you peace, comfort and great support from your friends during this time.

Kirk & Susan Lear

February 6, 2008

Kate, our deepest condolences. Seems like our time together in Colorado and Oklahoma was just a few years ago, and I even find it hard to believe it's been well over a year since we saw you both at our 20th in C-Springs. Grace & peace to you, your sons, family and community in this tragic time.

Michael Mercier

February 6, 2008

Kate,

Like everyone, I am shocked and deeply saddened by Paul's passing. You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. May Paul rest in Peace.

Love,
Michael & Susan Mercier

Lisa Thomas

February 5, 2008

To the Benson's,
I am deeply grateful to Paul for helping me through his practice. I will always remember him fondly.My deepest sympathies to you.

Robin Richard

February 5, 2008

Dear Benson Family,

It is with great sadness to hear about your loss. We knew Paul since he was a young boy growing up on Dexter Street. What wonderful memories we have. Paul will be sorely missed. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Sincerely,
The Carpenter Family

Jerry and Angela Toms

February 5, 2008

Katie,
Even though our families have been separated by time and distance, the memories of you and Paul when we were younger in Louisiana will always be there. We were deeply saddened this morning to hear about Paul. We pray that you can find comfort and want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and will be for a long time.

Our love and sympathy.
Jerry and Angela

Graduation Party in Cleveland Ohio 1986

Dan Norton

February 4, 2008

Dear Kate,
Mary Ann and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Words cannot express how saddened we are after hearing about Paul. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you during this trying time.
Your friends forever,
Dan and Mary Ann

Mark Baggerly

February 4, 2008

Kate:

My heart aches for you and the boys. You are and will be in my prayers. I will always remember Paul as someone quick to smile and laugh - he was one of the good guys!

"Baggs"

Merri (Ruddock) Norton

February 4, 2008

I was very sorry to hear of your loss. I grew up with Paul in Peabody and he was a wonderful person. He was always fun, bright, kind, compassionate and a true friend. We had some wonderful times together. He will be greatly missed. I hope that your memories of him will help to ease the pain of your loss.

Rosemary Astrofsky

February 4, 2008

Dear Family & Friends,
please accept our deepest sympathy. Paul touched many hearts and was a beautiful kind person. We had a special relationship that I will always treasure and remember. Our thoughts and prayers are with his whole family and I hope we can all be grateful for the short time we were able to have Paul in our lives. I know his memory will live on because of the beautiful way he touched my life and the many people around him.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Rosemary & Scott Astrofsky
(Pooh Cronan)

Stephanie Buzzell

February 3, 2008

My heart is heavy with sadness, for both Dr. Benson and those he leaves behind. He is a man I will never forget, and a doctor who's gentleness and caring I doubt can be matched.

Patricia Pasquale

February 3, 2008

Dear Kate--It is difficult to find the right thing to say at such a sad time. I watched Paul grow and achieve so much in his short life. May his memories surround you with strength and love. We are all better for having known Paul. Find comfort in knowing that he is at peace.
With Deepest Sympathy Pat Pasquale

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