Paul Alfred Desarra

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Nancy and Eileen Grah

My heart breaks for you, and all who knew him.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Pauly and I spent a summer together working on a farm about 20 years ago!- the group of 4 of us working had so much fun, dressing up for little kids, driving tractors where they never should have been, and taking animals to islands in the pond for prank filled days (along with a lot of hard work!). We understood one another as siblings of special siblings- and as adults our board work was fun and a different kind of exercise in maximizing resources than the farm. I have never met anyone as deep, genuine, and thoughtful. He always booked out early on and around Valentines Day to make sure he was around for his family, who he delighted in..in a palpable way. Im so sad for us still here that he has shifted into an eternal form.. Ill carry our sibling work with him ever present- and Ill likely never have a valentines pass without thinking of how he loved his loves- his sister, parents, and especially wife and kids.