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Tony and Joanne Di Bona
June 5, 2024
For the brief time that Kathy and Paul were in San Diego, we enjoyed their gatherings and I had a great time picking Paul's brain about his flying experiences. It is difficult to have time to console one's soul. He is one soul that can't be easily forgotten. Our blessings to Kathy and family.
Christy Visher
June 5, 2024
Kathy, I'm thinking of you today on your anniversary. I believe you are on a cruise to Greece with your friend. I hope you are having a fabulous time!
John Fox
June 4, 2024
I retired from AA in March and when I think of Paul a smile always crosses my face as I recall all the great times we had flying to Europe together. He also taught me a lot about being an airline captain. Paul was a great gentleman and a true professional in the air! Many Blessings to the Kalland family on this difficult anniversary.
Brad Ewing
July 9, 2021
My condolences to Paul's family. I was Paul's FO on many flights on the 757 and 767 in the late '90s and early 2000's. I liked him a lot. He was a great teacher and mentor. I learned a lot from him. I am grateful to have known him.
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Susan L-M.
June 30, 2021
Kathy, Sarah and Robert,
Thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Katrina Johnson
June 30, 2021
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Christy Visher
June 29, 2021
I was a bridesmaid in Paul & Kathy's wedding 40 years ago in Minnesota. I remember thinking that Paul looked so handsome in his Navy uniform in their wedding! Kathy and Paul were a happy couple and enjoyed entertaining. I fondly remember some of their parties in Virginia. Paul was taken from us much too soon. Hugs to Kathy and their children, Sarah, and Robert.
Robert Cameron
June 29, 2021
I flew with Paul on the 767/757 out of DCA. I always looked forward to every trip, because there were no bad trips with Paul. Whenever you were around him you could not help but notice his infectious good nature and charm. Something negative happen, and I would start to say, "Well,..." and he would interject, "Yes, deep subjects for shallow minds." He would tap that positive energy that was so visible at all times.
To Kathy and his family, we share a very small part of the tragic loss you are experiencing. You have my deepest condolences for your loss. The time he spent on the road, touched and brightened the trips of so many of us. He was an outstanding aviator and a shining example that I try to emulate.
I have made a contribution to the Fauquier County 4-H Bow Benders and Air Pistol Club to support Shooting Sports among the youth of Northern Virginia.
Rand A Wickham
June 28, 2021
Paul was the best and I loved flying with him on the 757 in Washington. I will always remember debrief times with him. A cigar and a drink was always offered. He will be missed. My condolences to the entire family.
Fran Eckley
June 28, 2021
I was so sad to hear of Paul's passing. I miss him terribly. He always was smiling and he was always helpful. I know this has to be awful for Kathy, Sara, and Robert. My Brian was in Robert's class. We send our love and wish you peace. It is good to know he is in God's arms even if for us it was much too soon. I hope you are enjoying your new flight path and looking out for us down here like you always did. God knew what a breath of sunshine you were and after this year we have had maybe he needed you up there to cheer him up. Your smile was a Godly gift. I will never forget it or you. Please rest in peace. I will miss you.
Patrick Norris
June 27, 2021
Paul and I met on November 22, 1977, our first day at Naval Aviation Officer Candidate School. After our time in the Navy, our paths crossed regularly as we both worked at American Airlines.
He was a true brother this whole time, and I always looked forward to his smile and dry wit.
Peace to Kathy and the family. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Maria Taraszkiewicz
June 22, 2021
I flew many years with Paul on the 767 out of IAD. He ALWAYS had a smile on his face, was ALWAYS positive and easy-going and never seemed to have a bad day. He was our captain on a friend’s retirement trip and surprised us all by getting a separate room at our layover hotel and ordered snacking food and wine to celebrate! What a wonderful memory for us and such a genuinely kind gesture on his part!! Truly a genuinely kind and great person to have on our side!! And one of the BEST pilots I’ve had the pleasure of working with! Thank you for the memories, Paul!
John W Pedersen
June 21, 2021
I remember Paul and his Brother Kurt from Mount Olivet Church and C.O.P being on workstaff in the late 70's. His quick wit and humor were things no one will ever forget. Between his and his family's commitment to God and Mount Olivet will always live on.
My wish is for God's arms to wrap around your family and keep you strong, Paul was many things but he was always a child of God.
i'm so Sorry for your loss
John Fox
June 20, 2021
I worked a number of trips to Europe with Paul and when I saw that he was the captain, I knew we would have a good time. He was a gentleman, a family man, a man of God, a history buff, a Patriot, and an aviation pro - always a pleasure to be around. Heaven is made brighter by his presence, but a big loss to the Kalland family and friends!
Brandon Deshler - Edina Police Retired
June 19, 2021
Paul, although I never knew you, my gut tells me that you were a role model for your “little brother” Kurt who I first met some years ago when he served as a Police Chaplin with the Edina Police Department, and for whom I have absolute respect. I know you shared a love of fine firearms and shooting, as became Kurts and mine common ground, along with fine cigars. I lament the fact that we never did meet, as I believe you would have “clicked” with me as your little brother did so effortlessly.
May you have Eternal Peace brother.
BD
Danny Peterson
June 18, 2021
Kathy, words cannot express the sadness with Paul's passing. We do hold your family up in prayer and know the hope we have in Jesus.
Great is the joy of heaven - which we cannot even fathom. Paul trusted Jesus as his Savior and is in heaven. That is the joy we have. He has gone before us and his memory will be long. I will miss him with our trip to the lake. I am so thankful for knowing him.
God Bless You!
Dana MacKimmie
June 17, 2021
I knew Paul well throughout the last 25 years of our careers together at
American Airlines. Paul always put a smile on my face, and for that I am grateful. May God rest his soul, until we meet again,
Dana MacKimmie
Captain, Retiredp
Frank Titus
June 16, 2021
Gone too soon
RIP Paul
Tanya Gamble
June 15, 2021
One of the kindest, most pleasant and fun Captains I've had the honor and privilege to work with. It was always a good trip when you were on his flight. He was special.
Tris Tupa
June 14, 2021
So many fond memories beginning at Cathedral of the Pines.
Paul and Kurt doing comedy routines. So much laughter!
My heart goes out to all of Paul’s family.
Rest In Peace my friend, now in the sky forever with your own wings.
Jim Cavanagh
June 14, 2021
A true professional and always proud to be an American Airlines pilot.
It was an honor and a privilege to fly with you. Thanks for all the great
trips. Fly on my friend. Fly on. My deepest sympathies to Kathy and family.
Stan Jaicks
June 14, 2021
What a wonderful person. Truly, someone that made our world a better place to live. Thanks for all the laughs.
Frank Titus
June 13, 2021
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Tony Di Bona
June 13, 2021
This is such a tragic event. Paul was a talented aviator serving his country and bringing passengers safely to their destinations aboard his AA airliners. I loved chatting with him during our neighborhood encounters. Paul and Kathy were always a welcome couple. I looked forward to seeing Paul. My blessings to this great guy.
Lauran Murphy
June 13, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was truly a pleasure to work with, and I always enjoyed seeing his smiling face. This is a loss to many.
David Collie
June 12, 2021
I flew with Paul many years and on three different American Airlines aircraft. Paul was a Great Leader, a Chosen Mentor and Beloved Friend. I loved him and will miss him terribly.
Edward Zumstein
June 12, 2021
Paul was a colleague of mine at American Airlines and I shall miss him. My sincere sympathies to his family.
Capt. Dave Rogel
June 11, 2021
I knew Paul as a fellow AA crew member at the DCA base. We also spent a few days hunting together at our friend Steve Egge's property in VA. We also corresponded via e-mail. I will miss hearing from him and send my heartfelt condolences and prayers to all of his family members. I would attend the memorial but will be out of town on that date.
Al Aitken
June 11, 2021
Enjoyed flying with Paul. Was fortunate to be DCA Chairman at a time when when Paul was Captain on the Super 80. A favorite of mine.
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