Paul Mateer

Paul Mateer obituary, Westbrook, CT

Paul Mateer

Paul Mateer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 19, 2025.
Paul R. Mateer, 82, of Westbrook, CT, died May 12, 2025 at Middlesex Hospital. Born in Yonkers, NY, he was the only son of the late Archie and Carol (Allison) Mateer. He was predeceased by many beloved pets including Tigger and Shadow. He will be buried in Verbank, NY alongside his parents and other family members.

Paul received his Bachelors and Masters in teaching for High School Industrial Arts at State University College at Buffalo. He moved to New Milford, CT in 1972 with his wife and taught at Brookfield High School for 32 coffee fueled years making a lasting impression on so many students. He was an avid train collector and always made time on Sundays to watch his NY Giants and Jets play during the NFL season. He enjoyed his retirement in Westbrook, CT listening to music and watching classic television shows. He always had a good joke to tell if you had the time and loved the occasional good natured prank. He had a great fondness for pyrotechnics as well. Paul was a devoted and dedicated husband to his wife, Judy.

He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Mrs. Judy (Alise) Mateer, Westbrook, CT, his daughter and son-in-law, Allison and Craig Strzelecki, Westbrook, CT and his grandson Cole Strzelecki, Westbrook, CT.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made, in his memory, to the American Heart Association or the American Diabetes Association.

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May 21, 2025

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Anne Mateer

May 21, 2025

So many familiar places, Yonkers, Gorton High School, Buffalo State and now Verbank. You are joining family in this special cemetery. Rest in peace.

Anne Mateer

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May 21, 2025

Dear Allison my thoughts are with you during your time of sorrow

Sharon and Mark Chamberlin

May 19, 2025

We enjoyed being neighbors with Paul and Judy for many years, in New Milford, Connecticut. They became second family to us and enjoyed watching our children grow up. We are sending all the best to Judy and Allison and her family the Chamberlin“s

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