Paul A. Montalbano

Paul A. Montalbano

Paul Montalbano Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 28 to Apr. 29, 2004.
Paul A. Montalbano, 43, departed this life suddenly April 24, 2004 at his residence in Virginia Beach. He is survived by his sons, Matthew and Drake. He was preceded in death by his father, Joseph J. Montalbano and is survived by his mother, Delores; brothers, Michael and Joseph; sisters, Joni and Gina. Paul was born and raised in Richmond and attended Douglas Freeman High School. He was an avid golfer, part time musician and an outstanding territory sales manager with Suntrust Merchant Services. The family will receive friends from 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, April 29 at the West Chapel of Bennett Funeral Home, 11020 West Broad Street, Glen Allen. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. on Friday, April 30 at St. Mary's Catholic Church, 9505 Gayton Rd, Richmond. Rite of Committal will follow in Greenwood Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 5216, Glen Allen, Va 23058.

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May 4, 2004

Gene & Dawn Hawkins posted to the memorial.

May 3, 2004

Elizabeth Fritts posted to the memorial.

May 2, 2004

Greg Bush posted to the memorial.

Gene & Dawn Hawkins

May 4, 2004

Our heartfelt sympathy is extended to the Montalbano family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this very difficult and sad time.



May God Bless.

Elizabeth Fritts

May 3, 2004

What a shock! Paul is just one of those guys you always expect to be there. I met Paul through my husband, and there was never a dull moment with Paul around. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. God bless.

Greg Bush

May 2, 2004

I remember good times playing golf with Happy. Here's your chance to get that hole-in-one you always wanted. It's a perfect world up there from what I hear. Keep your head down and follow through!

Steve Magruder

April 29, 2004

My wife and I just spent some time with Paul at a charity function on Saturday. We were shocked to read of his sudden passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Paul's family.

Khaki Weber

April 29, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. May happy memories be a joy forever! I have fond memories of growing up with my 4 siblings and the Montalbano's in Farmington. Happy was always the "jokester" in the bunch of my younger brothers' group. God Bless and may He keep you all well and safe! Khaki Duggan Weber

Pattie Walsh-Watson

April 29, 2004

MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HAPPYS FAMILY. HE WILL BE MISSED GREATLY.

Pam Dutile

April 29, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with family and friends.

Martha Walsh

April 29, 2004

I have known Happy and his family my whole life. We all grew up together. My heart aned prayers go out to the entire family at this sadden time in their lifes.

Jennifer Shives

April 28, 2004

I met Paul shortly after he started working for First Data as a sales rep in 1999. At that time I was working in a support role for our Sales Team on the phones. Paul always made me smile--it would make my day to pick up the phone and hear his voice on the other end. Often we would be on calls together with unhappy merchants or bankers. After the call I'd be completely stressed and Paul would immediately call me back-laughing- and that one of a kind laugh I'll never forget. He taught me not to take work and life so seriously.



He often talked about his family especially his sons and although Mike was his 'little brother' I know he looked up to him and was extremely proud of him.



I am truly blessed to have had the opportunity to meet and work with Paul. I will always cherish my memories of him.



My thoughts and prayers are with his children and his family.

Maggie Boss

April 28, 2004

My deepest sympathies to the family. May the memories in your hearts comfort you during this difficult time.

Kathy Montalbano

April 28, 2004

I will always remember Happy's smile, sense of humor, and generous heart. He was always there to help someone. "Dang", Happy! Why did you leave us so soon? Family gatherings will never be the same. Peace and love to you. Say hello to our Fathers and Grandmom for me.

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