Paul Reed

Paul Reed obituary, Tampa, FL

Paul Reed

Paul Reed Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 30, 2025.
Paul Reed was born in Encino, California, to Jacqueline and Frank Reed. He grew up alongside his parents and his older sister, Lesli, spending much of his childhood exploring the deserts and mountains of California. As a child, Paul was very adventurous - he loved climbing trees, riding bikes, and playing with GI Joes and army men. Though often accident-prone, Lesli was always close by to help patch him up.

A dedicated student, Paul attended Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. After college, he began his career with IBM, where he eventually met Valerie during a training in Dallas, Texas. Even though Paul lived in California and Valerie in Puerto Rico, they nurtured their long-distance relationship with handwritten letters and nightly phone calls, long before cell phones! Paul later moved to Puerto Rico to be with Valerie, and the two were married. This year, they celebrated 40 wonderful years of marriage on July 20, 2025.

After welcoming their daughter, Sofia, Paul and Valerie relocated to Atlanta, Georgia, where they both continued working with IBM. Before long, the family moved to Tampa, Florida, where their son, Jonathan, was born. They built a loving home in Tampa - the same home Paul and Valerie continued to cherish throughout their lives.

Paul's career journey eventually led him to the nonprofit sector, reflecting his deep commitment to helping others. His most meaningful professional chapter was at Morning Star School, where he served for 20 years. Morning Star brought together Paul's faith, his love for youth, and his passion for education, providing him with a deep sense of purpose and community. He built lasting friendships with fellow administrators, teachers, students, and parents - the school became an extension of his family.

Paul's faith was central to his life. He regularly read the Bible, filling notebooks with reflections and sharing passages that touched his heart. He prayed for a pure heart and for God's healing of his "temple," and those prayers were answered in profound and peaceful ways. His spiritual journey inspired those around him, showing a steadfast trust in God's presence and love.

He is survived by his wife Valerie; daughter Sofia; son Jonathan; and sister Lesli. He was preceded in death by his parents, Jacqueline and Frank. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Morning Star School of Tampa.

Paul will be remembered as a devoted husband, father, brother, colleague, and friend. His faith, kindness, generosity, and love for family will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

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Beth Somers

September 20, 2025

I am so sorry to hear this. Paul was my manager and one of the nicest people ever.

Brian Gravelle

September 12, 2025

I met Paul in the freshman band at Burroughs HS in Ridgecrest, CA. Paul´s friendly personality made it easy to become friends and form a connection of mutual interest, respect, and fun over numerous and various activities and events over our years in high school, particularly our years on the tennis team together which included numerous bus trips for away tennis matches. We were all required to wear a tie to school on the days we had tennis matches against other schools, including on the lengthy bus rides across the desert to and from our opponent´s school tennis courts.

Near the end of our senior year I remember my surprise and excitement when I told Paul I was going to attend Cal Poly San Luis Obispo and he said he and friend Tom were also. Once there, despite our different situations with me living in the dorms and a member of the band, and Paul and Tom living off campus, we made sure to stay connected with weekly touch football games and we played golf occasionally at courses all around the area. Our friend Keith played in that golf group too.

Once we graduated and went our separate ways, we lost touch for many years until social media enabled our finding and reconnecting with old friends. I was very glad what is now many years ago to reconnect with Paul over Facebook and touch-base occasionally. We had hoped to get together in person one day but living on opposite coasts we never made it happen. That´s now a big regret for me.

I´ve been thinking of Paul every day since I heard the sad news. I look back with fondness on these and other fun times with Paul. He was ALWAYS such a great guy. I wish Paul's entire family and loved ones my love, condolences, and strength for your loss. I will be viewing Paul´s celebration of life online from my home, and will be contributing to Morning Star School in his honor. I will always miss my friend Paul.

Eli F

September 12, 2025

I was a former student at the school. I was often sent to Room 10, which was Mr. Reed's Room. He would often help the students myself included there with homework and how to better themselves. He always believed in second chances, the message of his death made me sad. But atleast he lived a good life.

Ken Colbert

September 2, 2025

I was proud and lucky to have a nephew like Paul. He was a pleasure to be around. I love you Paul, I know the love you have for God is great. Love Ken

Jamie Colbert Ballesteros

September 2, 2025

I love you and miss you. Thank you for sharing your love and trust in God.

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