Paul Renaud

Paul Renaud

Paul Renaud Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 16 to Dec. 17, 2009.
RENAUD, Paul Passed away after a short but courageous battle with cancer at the age of 62 with his family by his side. Cherished husband of 39 years to Eleanor (nee Cloutier). Loving Dad of Scott & Adam (Tracey). He will be sadly missed by his grandson "Grandpa's little buddy", Brody. Beloved son of Lawrence Renaud Sr. and predeceased by his mother Mary Jean. Dear brother of Theresa Medd (Steve), Pauline Renaud, Larry (Sue), Mike & wife Brenda. He will be missed by his Uncle Denny & Aunt Pam. Dear brother-in-law of Ray (Anne), Irene (Gerry), Roland (Judy), Rick (Percy), Aline (Joseph), Robert (Karen), Dianne (Ken) & Maria (Darrell). He is survived by his aunts, uncles, many nieces, nephews & friends. Paul & Eleanor own Rags to Riches Upholstery and Paul was a proud member of the Amherstburg Town Council since 1988. He also was a member of the Essex County ATV Club. As your expression of sympathy donations to the Windsor Regional Cancer Centre would be greatly appreciated. Visiting at the JAMES H. SUTTON FUNERAL HOME, 401 Sandwich St., South, Amherstburg (519-736-2134) on Thursday, December 17th from 2-5 & 7-9 p.m. with parish prayers at 8:00 p.m. Funeral Friday, December 18th , 2009 from the funeral home at 10:00 a.m. to St. John the Baptist Church for Mass at 10:30 a.m. Interment to follow at St. John the Baptist Cemetery. Paul's family would like to extend a heartfelt "Thank You" to the palliative care nurses & Dr. Kanjeekal & Dr. Hirmiz at Met Hospital for the outstanding care & compassion shown to Paul and his family. Online condolences & cherished memories may be shared with the family at www.jhsutton-funeral.ca

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BART DIPASQUALE

January 16, 2011

To PAUL'S WIFE ELENOR AND FAMILY

I MET PAUL OVER THIRTY YEARS AGO.HE BECAME A GREAT FRIEND TO ME.HE WAS THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO WOULD DRAW PEOPLE WITH HIS FUN ANTICS AND WARM HEART.
HE SERVED THE PEOPLE OF AMHERSTBURG WELL AS A COUNCILLOR AND FRIEND TO ALL THE PEOPLE.HE HAS LEFT A TRUE LEGACY BEHIND FOR HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS TO FOLLOW.
WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER PAUL RENAUD AND THE GOOD HE DID FOR ALL THE PEOPLE OF AMHERSTBURG..

Eleanor, Paul and Brody 2005

January 9, 2011

Dear Eleanor & Family,
Our family has such great memories of Paul when we would visit from Florida.
Your uncle Leon loved the two of you very much! Our dad & Paul had a special bond and dad was always anxious to see you both when we would visit.

We will always cherish our visits with the two of you.
Paul's personality and zest for life was evident in his brilliant smile. My sister Laura and I did not know him like our dad did, but we will always cherish our time spent with all of you.
The postings in this guest book & the article in your Amherstburg newspaper about Paul, clearly show the love and respect that everyone has for him.
We hope that the love that surrounds you, along with your memories and the prayers that continue to come, give you added strength in the days, weeks and months ahead!
With Love from,
Anita Cloutier and
Laura & Barry Brandenburg

Patty and Ron St. Denis

December 31, 2010

Hi Eleanor - We just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and your family. And of Paul whom we think of so often (with smiles of course). Our friends are always in our hearts. They make us who we are, so thank you for being our friend.

Pam & Bob Coulson

December 16, 2010

Our memories of Paul put a smile on my face - his openness, sincerity, and his great BIG hugs!
He's always in our thoughts.

Janice Busch

December 10, 2010

I still see Paul on occasion. I see him in the faces of his sons Scott and Adam, I see him in Eleanor's smile. I see him everytime a man with "salt and pepper" hair walks past my office window. I hear him as well. I hear him when I hear a man's voice laughing in the parking lot. I hear him when I hear the words "Janice, I have a question for you..." He is greatly missed and yet I feel that he is still with us and always will be in many ways.

Ray Cloutier

December 3, 2010

Our brother-in-law Paul was very special and we will never forget him. Paul was completely devoted to his family and to his community of Amherstburg. We all saw his love and sense of pride whenever he spoke of his beloved family and community. He was one of those lucky people who found that one true thing in life that kept him secure, grounded and inspired to do so much- his love for our sister, Eleanor. Together Paul, with Eleanor worked hard for family, in their business, Rags to Riches and for the Amherstburg community.
Paul loved a good joke and always had an interesting story to tell. We will always miss his laughter and his sense of humour and fun. We can hear him chuckling now. He is dearly missed.

Ray and Anne Cloutier

Bill/Mary Ferguson

December 3, 2010

Time passes so quickly. Every time I think of Paul, I go back to his first term on Council. We all knew Paul had a talent to speak to whatever the issue was at the time. It could have been anything from Tourism to stray dogs and Paul would always have an opinion. What was amazing was that Paul would put his point forward and always end his debate with the phrase, "Etc.,Etc.,Etc.. As a fellow Councillor, you were left with that one question, what did he include in the etc.,etc.,etc. He added a new dimension to municipal politics. I miss his tenacious spirit.

Patrice Bedard

November 30, 2010

TO: The wife and widow of Paul Renaud
FROM: A ghost from the past

There are many Paul Renaud's and when I met one, I always asked them if they knew "my" Paul Renaud, sister Theresa and Pauline and brother Larry.

This is going to be a 'weird' letter - but it will be filled with love, for you see, I loved your husband very much. He was my childhood "HERO".

The attached letter that I sent to the Windsor Star will show you how much Paul Renaud meant to me. We were in the same class for grades 4, 5, 6, 7 & 8. He then went to Massey High School, and I went to W.D. Lowe. After grade 8, we only met when Paul went to Mass. I am smirking at that one. Paul's dadsent Paul to Mass at Christ the King Church and Paul had to bring home a bulletin to prove it.

I DID go to Mass. I had a French Canadian mom. She'd kick my butt if I didn't. Sometimes, I'd go to Top's Dairy Bar after. It was a "Happy Days" Dairy bar before Happy Days. The first time I met Paul there, I was puzzled and asked him why are you here? "I'm at Mass" Paul replied with that twinkle in his eye, the one he could turn on and you knew he had a line coming. He pulled out the Church bulletin and announced "see this - its for my old man". He said he grabbed the bulletin and ran because the usher was after him.

But during our grade school days together, we were very close. I failed gr. 2 as did Paul, so we were the oldest in the class. I'm 61, Paul passed away at 62. We both sat in the back and got into trouble and Miss Slavik, who was really nice made me sit closer to her and further away from Paul. Paul continued to get into trouble (imagine that) - I couldn't keep up with him.

I was very small and I had lost my father in gr 3 and was an easy target - at first. Paul took a shine to me, and I definitely took a shine to the cool guy with the wicked sense of humour. He was our 'FONZIE' before there was a Fonz. Paul didn't fight my battles, he did better, he encouraged me to fight back. And I did, and after awhile I was no longer any easy target.

I liked Paul so much that I went to his house on a couple of Saturdays. My mom was livid, but I told my Dad to trust me, that I was going as a friend to visit a friend. My dad did. Not once did Paul try to talk me into anything foolish. I had high moral standards and Paul always told me he liked how I was spiritual. I was naive and Paul kept me that way. I'm willing to bet that I was right and you watched a wonderful man raise his kids with love and lots of energy.

Paul was often late for school. His sister Theresa wrote him a note with his mom's name on it - so he got away with it. Actually Miss Slavik (gr 4 &5) and Miss Renaud (gr 6) knew the truth - but he had to tell the whole class why he was late. Well, some of his 'stories' and his wonderful deliveries made the class roar. But the best was gr 6 - Paul came in a 10 o'clock. Now this was really late - so Miss Renaud (by the way - of no relation - as she claimed) she said: "and your excuse Paul .. well you know Paul, with that twinkle and that slight smile he shouted out with joy "my dog had puppies"... for weeks after that we all shouted out that verse. (But the best part is - he didn't have a dog).

Paul taught me how to dress better, how to comb my hair, how to look good for the girls. He was the big brother I never had. I was the first male, so I didn't even have a cousin. Paul Renaud brought me into manhood. I did not drink, smoke, or swear when I was in grade school and Paul encouraged and positively spoke about my innocence and my practicing my Catholic faith. I still do not smoke nor did I ever take drugs.

One more story - Gr 4 & 5 I was a little kid, gr 6 there was a noticeable change. I was tough. I was cool, not as tough or cool as my master, but I did all right. Well, in gr 7 Paul had a fountain pen - when Mr. Gravelle was out of the room Paul accidentally splashed ink all over the back of my brand new pullover. Lots of kids went OH! OH! Paul's eyes popped out of his sockets. My french temper got the best of me. I challenged him to a duel, actually a fight after school in the constructions sites of Askin Blvd. We went. I kept swinging at my idol, my hero, he kept dodging the blows. I didn't hit him once... but ...he never hit me either. He watched my eyes not once teasing me nor edging me on ... once I cooled down, he gave a grin. Remember for 4 yrs he was my idol, I could read him. And you would know that grin. We both hugged and laughed and my mother spanked me and grounded me for getting my new pullover stained

May all your memories of Paul Renaud ....be wonderful ..... mine are

November 30, 2010

Paul really loved his toys!!

Pamela Malott

November 30, 2010

November 30th, 2010

It has been almost a year since Paul's passing yet his laugh lives on at Town Hall in Amherstburg.

Staff often comment they expect him to just 'come walking round the corner' with a jolly greeting and a smile.

Paul was always 'managing by walking around' and had a great rapport with all staff.

He knew the success of being an elected official was in listening to people and appreciating all sides of any situation.

He was a special man- and he is thought of fondly and often.

Kurt

March 14, 2010

I remember it was Paul who was the first person to come up and welcome me to my first EC-ATV club meeting back in October 2006 In the 3 yrs I have known him (and Eleanor) he always exemplified the true spirit of the Club ... always helping where he could, giving advice to further the Club efforts, a good example to all members and a fine trailsman. My sincere condolances to Eleanor and her family.

Vince & Joanne Masse

March 14, 2010

We were very sadden to hear of the passing of Paul. Joanne and I had the pleasure of meeting Paul and Eleanor in the late summer after joining the Essex ATV club. We were talking tonite how we noticed a very close & loving family, we admired the way Paul enjoyed his grandson and was showing us how he could load them quads up in the trailer with a little of grandpa's help. We only talked with Paul a few times and he and Eleanor made use feel very welcomed to the group. Rest in peace Paul and thanks for getting a great thing going for atv riders of all ages. God bless the Renaud family

Dick/Elaine Putnam

March 2, 2010

Eleanor and Boys
We enjoyed Paul's sense of humour, his kindness and fairness, his positive way of looking at life; We liked that he called a spade - a spade; worked with gusto to accomplish whatever was the current project, be it a personal, family, betterment of community.
Eleanor, it was heartwarming to observe and enjoy the dedication you and Paul shared with each other.
We will miss Paul, and look forward to seeing you.
Brody, you were the apple of your Grandpa's eye.
Elaine and Dick Putnam

Rick Medd

February 19, 2010

DEAR ELEANOR; I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU GUYS AND HAVE ALWAYS LOVED PAUL AS MY FAVORITE BROTHER-IN-LAW EVEN THOUGH THERESA AND I SPLIT UP YEARS AGO. I WAS PRIVILIDGED TO BE THERE TO MOVE YOU INTO EVERY OLD/AND/OR HERITAGE HOME IN THE BURG. I REALLY DID NOT THINK THAT PAUL COULD NOT WIN HIS BATTLE WITH THE BIG "C". I WILL MISS HIM FOR EVER AND I HOPE I WILL SEE HIM IN HEAVEN TO TALK OVER OLD TIMES. ALL MY LOVE TO YOU, SCOTT, AND ADAM AND FAMILIES. RICK.

Paul Renaud

January 23, 2010

We have a lot of fine memories of Paul, we specifically remember the day we travelled to Port Stanley to look at post people as we had the bright idea we could make a couple. We were in his van driving around & we drove up in the foot hills and came to the end of the road, where we had to turn around and come back down the hill. After we had turned around to come back we came to this man that was BBQ on his terrace which was next to the lane we were on, Paul stopped the van, rolled down the window saying to the gentleman how do I get to the 401 from here? The man was dumfounded and didn’t say a word. We laughed for a long time and have talked about it for years. We camped at Wildwood with Paul and Eleanor and became best friends and you just never knew what was coming out of Paul’s mouth. He held different positions on the Board of Directors at the park over the years and was a very respected member. Paul always did all the back ground work so when he got up to talk about a issue he knew the answers honestly. Brody was a special grandson for Paul he helped him through the tough times singing Old Man Tucker to him. Paul's family always came first he was so proud of Scott, Adam & Brody. We also remember the day about 3 yrs ago when Paul and Eleanor drove up on their new Pumpkin coloured Trike, he hadn’t said a word about ordering it and he was so proud of it. Eleanor always went along with what Paul wanted and they really did enjoy their time together, although it was to short – Eleanor will have many memories.
We miss Paul he was a best friend forever.
Carole & Larry Sparks

January 21, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Paul. We will fondly remember Paul as a fellow with a 'sandpaper exterior' but 'marshmallow to the core'. He had a sense of humour and wit that were razor sharp. He will be terribly missed.
Bill & Lee Sparks

Bill Wark

January 18, 2010

One of the memories that I will never forget, is a couple of Santa Claus parades ago, siting in the van sivering almost uncontrollably. We talked about a lot of things, how nice it was to see the great turnout and why we were doing this. The reason Paul did things like that is simple, he loved Amherstburg.
Eleanor and family my condolences. Paul may not be here but his legacy and work will live on forever.

vince renaud

January 16, 2010

our memories of paul when we seen him he was always smiling or had something good to say. my biker bud our condolances vince&sandy renaud

January 12, 2010

(1974)I remember a weekend camping trip to the Smokey Mtns with our dear friends Randy and DeeDee who had brought along their brand new 10 speed bikes. The campsite was on the top of a rather good size mountain. The winding road to the top was newly paved and Randy & Paul thought they would take a nice bike ride on this laneway. The descent was much steeper than anticipated and they completely burnt off the brakes trying to slowdown. Along came a car travelling quite quickly around a sharp bend and Paul was forced off the road. Randy came back to the campsite alone and looking rather pale - when we questioned him where Paul was - he didn't know. He said: He went off the road at a tremendous speed (downhill)he looked like ET hanging on to the handlebars flying through the trees. When Paul reappeared - his face and arms were all scratched up, bicycle wheels all mangled and he pipes-up "I'm OK!" I wish I had a picture of that!!
Eleanor

Julie Noordhoek

January 12, 2010

Uncle Paul was very funny...even when he wasn't trying to be! But my funniest memory was the whistling Renaud boys and Uncle Paul's belly jiggled like jelly.

Lots of love,

January 12, 2010

my funniest memory of Grampa is when he would take 'buckleys cough syrup'. He would make awful faces and jump around and wave his arms and saying 'yuck'. I called it 'grampa's happy dance'.
grandson Brody (7)

my best friend

January 9, 2010

Scott Avery

January 4, 2010

Eleanor... I think of our visits often and always enjoyed the company. Of course Paul will remain in your heart and in your mind, which makes him not really gone at all.
Peace be with you and your sons Eleanor,
With love,

Joyce Robertson&family

December 21, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thinking of you!

Dawn & Tim Lewis

December 21, 2009

Mrs Renaud, Scott and Adam, We are very sorry to hear about Mr. Renaud-your husband and father. Always remember the goodtimes as we will. Thinking of you always. Lots of Love

Aline McCabe

December 18, 2009

Eleanor Scott and Adam
Don And I are so saddened by Paul,s passing We remember the happy times at the park and how Paul just had to show us his new 3 wheeler Good times and great memories Love and Prayers Aline and Don McCabe

Peter Klobucar

December 17, 2009

Scott: Sorry about your father. My prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. Your father was always nice.

Patrick & Susanne Callery

December 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ron, Lena and Bryan Dzombak

December 17, 2009

From our family to yours Eleanor, our thoughts and prayers at this most challenging time - are with you.
We look forward to supporting the many things Paul and yourself stood for in Amherstburg.
All the best.

December 17, 2009

Hello Eleanor@boys } just droping you a line so very sorry to hear about your Paul,. My prayers are with you and your family at these difficult time,time will help you all heal. Christine Homolka. Lasalle ontario

Stephen Ross

December 17, 2009

A shock to all. Going to miss our conversations and friendship. Deepest sympathy for Eleanor & family.

Stephen Ross & Sue Brew

Larry & Nancy Renaud

December 17, 2009

Dear Eleanor & Family
Please accept our heartfelt condolences and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. God bless you all and we pray that Paul has found peace in the arms of Our Lord.

December 17, 2009

Eleanor and family - our heartfelt sympathy. Dick and I so enjoyed the company of you and Paul with many
pleasant memories. Paul will be truly missed. Our prayers and condolences.
Dick/Elaine Putnam

Rocco & Karen Rosati

December 17, 2009

Eleanor & Family: So very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. May loving memories you shared comfort you during this sad time.

December 17, 2009

Eleanor & Family
Our deepest sympathies, know that we are thinking of you and are there for you. Love Dawn & Geoff Foster

December 17, 2009

Eleanor and Family,
My condolences and prayers go out to you.
God Bless.
Sue O'Donovan

December 17, 2009

Eleanor@ family our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time god bless you and your family from walter and carol mckenzie from atv club we moved to cape breton glacebay in october take care

December 17, 2009

Adam: We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Shelley & Steve Girard

Arlene&Gary Ferrari

December 16, 2009

Eleanor&Family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time,Eleanor Paul will be missed by many people you take care and God Bless you all.
Arlene&Gary Ferrari

Nady Godbout

December 16, 2009

My deepest sympathies to all of you. May you find comfort in God and each ohter.

Frank & Josie Parco

December 16, 2009

Dear Eleanor
We are truly sorry to hear of Paul's sudden passing. Our prayers are with you.

Debbie Shaw-Budzynowski

December 16, 2009

To Eleanor, Scott and Adam;
It has been a few years seen I have saw all of you. Seems like only yesterday when I baysat the boys ... May God give you the strength to get through this hard time in your life ... God Bless all of you !

Jason & Tammy Lavigne

December 16, 2009

Mrs. Renaud, Scott & Adam,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We have very fond memories of your husband and dad. His contageous smile will be greatly missed.

December 16, 2009

Eleanor,
We are sorry to hear of your loss. We pray God will give you inner strength and peace. May you also experience comfort from family and friends as you move forward through the grieving process.
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caroline delisle

December 16, 2009

to elanor, scott and adam. my deepest sympathys for you all. i had lots of wonderful times with you and paul at the july 1st fireworks and doing the heritage festival. i will truely miss paul. he was a wonderful man. love to all

December 16, 2009

dear eleanor and family
you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.this news is truly a shock.
laura sauve and family

Jim & Sue Kelly

December 16, 2009

To all,

Our Deepest thoughts go out to you and the family. May you find the peace in your heart at this difficult time.

All of our love and prayers,

Dave & Theresa Gillan

December 16, 2009

Eleanor, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time.

Ken & Bernadette McLean

December 16, 2009

Eleanor & family, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

The Seguin Family

December 16, 2009

To the entire family of Mr. Renaud

Our deepest condolences on your loss. May God wrap his loving arms around you and bring you some comfort moving forward.

God Bless

Jennifer Mayville

December 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. My sincerest sympathies.

Jennifer Mayville (Kitchener)

James D. Godfrey

December 16, 2009

To The Renaud Family and Friends, I was so very saddened to hear the news of Paul's passing. I had come to know him by way of our brief encounters around the Town of Amherstburg and because of his care and concern for the Community at large. This news, this day, truly catches my heart and my thoughts are with you and our Community. Words are not enough,

cheryl cooper

December 16, 2009

Dear Eleanor, Scott and Adam..you have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband and dad...may your memories comfort you in the days ahead.
Terry and Cheryl Cooper

December 16, 2009

Dear Elinor and Family

Our sincerest condolences. Remember the good times and let your memories bring you all comfort and strength. Paul will be missed.

Eva and Dave Guthrie, Amherstburg, Ontario

Lori Schneider

December 16, 2009

To Eleanor, Scott, & Adam: I was very saddened to hear of Paul's passing! I got to know him a little throughout the years in maria's and he was a wonderful man!! I know he will be greatly missed! May God be with you all at this most difficult time!

Yvonne & Brad Fleming

December 16, 2009

Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family in your time of grief.

December 16, 2009

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OUR SINCEREST THOUGHTS

BRUNO ORSI

December 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jackie & Kit McEvoy

December 16, 2009

To the Family of Paul Renaud , we offer our condolences , we know he will be missed very much by you

Ron & Patty St. Denis

December 16, 2009

Dear Eleanor and family:
We are so deeply saddened by the news of Paul's passing. He will be greatly missed. Your memories of him will always be there to comfort you. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 16, 2009

Sincere sympathy to the Renaud family. May your memories give you comfort and strength now and always.
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