Paul Reubens

1952 - 2023

Paul Reubens obituary, 1952-2023

Paul Reubens

1952 - 2023

BORN

1952

DIED

2023

Paul Reubens Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 31 to Aug. 1, 2023.

Paul Reubens was an actor and comedian best known for his character, Pee-wee Herman, and his cult favorite TV show, "Pee-wee's Playhouse."

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Eric Little

June 12, 2025

When I was younger I loved pee wee. Every year for Christmas I would ask for the Pee Wee suit. Love you and miss you.

Nessa Shelton

June 3, 2025

Watching the Pee Wee Herman video biography rt now. I've learned so much about him bc of the video. He was a strong person who was often misunderstood. He will be a forever memory in my heart! Missing him so much rt now! Thank you for the MANY laughs! The tequila dance is forever yours!

Wally Valenti jr

June 1, 2025

Thank you Paul for your tireless commitment to entertaining us all throughout the years. Of all those we've lost eho have achieved fame, you Sr are the one I sill get choked up about years after your passing. I wish I could have meet you once and express my appreciation for your work personally. Still to those who knew Paul and called him friend. I envy you and appreciation you too.. Rest well good Sr.....

Carol Dorcy

May 29, 2025

You could always make me laugh thank you for that. I am truly enjoying your documentary, and by the way, you still make me laugh.

Maggie A Vita

May 28, 2025

I just watched the documentary. Missing Paul Reubens more than ever. Truly a comic and creative genius that we lost far too soon. Love you Paul/Peewee. Thank you for everything you gave us.

Steffi Gavin

May 27, 2025

Just finished watching PeeWee Himself. Miss you terribly and I hope you have found peace. I am a 72 yo woman. No children in my life but I always loved PeeWee.

Pamela Valanzola

May 25, 2025

RIP Paul and create a big adventure up in heaven for all those we have lost.

Venus D. Wyche

May 24, 2025

I watched Pee Wee's Play House faithfully!! I'm 67 years young and I still watch it! It's on Samsung Plus TV App as I am typing this message!! You made millions upon millions of people laugh. You set a goal and achieved success!! Well done.

PeeWee

May 6, 2025

I hope you finally get your big adventure... hopefully it is all that you wanted!

Wanell ash

April 14, 2025

You made my childhood so fun with your tv show &

Jason Armes

April 12, 2025

You are the best actor on the Television and Motion Picture Corporation Of America on Pee Wee´s Big Adventure,Pee Wee´s Playhouse,Big Top Pee Wee and Pee Wee´s Big Holiday.I´ll see you up in Heaven with God.
Jason Armes South Philadelphia,PA Woodbridge,NJ

Jason Armes

April 5, 2025

Johnny C

February 22, 2025

May God receive you with open arms rest in peace

Candice

December 25, 2024

Merry Heavenly Christmas Paul!!!!! Miss you.

Tony Spirito

December 24, 2024

Alexandria Flint

October 17, 2024

Saturday mornings in the late 80´s I would watch pee wees playhouse he defined my whole young childhood and his responsible for the sense of humor I possess as an adult. He´ll never truly know how happy his show made me feel

Leslie Redaway

October 15, 2024

Rest In Heaven

Lavone Mobeck

August 27, 2024

He was so silly and funny and so loved the dance! RIP you will be missed and never forgotten

Annmarie

July 17, 2024

I also loved Paul Reubens in cheech and Chong´s next movie and nice dreams

Annmarie

July 16, 2024

I loved all his movies he was a great actor I loved mystery men the movie also and big top peewee and peewees big adventure and peewees playhouse and peewees big holiday

Annmarie

July 16, 2024

I loved his movies big top peewee and peewees playhouse and peewees big adventure and peewees big holiday

Lori Hauck

June 7, 2024

Here´s to a brilliant man who lit up the living room with his wit and humor in all of his tv movies and shows. May his memory always be a blessing and may he live on forever in our hearts
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May 23, 2024

I remember him for peewees big holiday and peewees play house. Dennis winship lynn Massachusetts

Dennis winship

May 23, 2024

I remember he was at wrestle mania 27.i also remember he was in peewees big adventure and peewees big top. He will be truly missed. Dennis winship lynn,Massachusetts

butch

May 20, 2024

i say peewee was a genius

justin edward vlach

April 7, 2024

Talking on the phone until I fell asleep one night when I was. Scared

Lisa Ingber

March 13, 2024

You are so incredibly missed beautiful person

Jillian vicic

January 3, 2024

Peewee´s playhouse I always watch it all the time i couldn´t stop watching it

Matthew

December 15, 2023

Amazing actor . Such good memories as a child watching him . R I P PR

Jennifer O´Brien

November 27, 2023

As a child, Pee Wee´s Big Adventure was one of my favorites. I also was excited to watch Pee Wee´s Playhouse every Saturday morning. These were some of the best memories of my childhood. Thank you, Pee Wee.

D. S. (fan)

November 20, 2023

Just like a fortune
I had gathered up my youth
And then I spent it.

~ Paul Rubenfeld
haiku written during high school

[source / youtube: "Who Is Pee Wee Herman?" 11-12-88 TV news report]


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What an extraordinarily talented, gracious, artist and dear man you became!! I am profoundly grateful and appreciative to have overlapped your time to delight in how you came to spend your life fortune. You done darn good, Sir.

The Afterlife stage is yours now . . . . but with no more illness, suffering, fears, and worries therein.

Catch you on the other side, but for now a well-deserved:

. Standing Ovation .

Misti Weathersby

October 30, 2023

You meant the world to so many people. I am still struggling with your loss. It hit me really hard. Thank you, Paul! I will always carry you with me.

Nikki port

October 20, 2023

I don't even know what to say... I never had to the chance to meet you. I always dreamed that I would one day get the chance to meet you and tell you how much you always meant to me and just how much I loved you and peewee and what an impact that you had on my life. You were always a huge part of my childhood and your still a huge part of my life today. It hurts me that I'll never get the chance to tell you all this. But your memory will always live on and you will never be forgotten. Thank you for teaching me that it's ok to be different and to never be afraid of who you really are. I will never forget you. RIP Paul

Lisa Ingber

September 26, 2023

I never met you but your tragic death has such an enormous impact. You are were one of my favorite comedians and actors. It sounds like you were a truly beautiful amazing beloved person. You are greatly missed by countless people

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Robert Marsi

September 9, 2023

Paul, growing up you were a huge inspiration to me! You always made me laugh with Pee Wee´s Playhouse and gave me lessons in life I still use today as a businessman, like don´t take life TOO seriously, it´s okay to be kid once in a while even as an adult, and to laugh away any stress that life causes us to experience. But most importantly, to have FUN in life and uplift other people, because we don´t know who around us needs that moment of laughter in times of great private distress. Thank you for the lessons. You are truly a wonderful soul and saw many good things in people that they couldn´t see in themselves. Rest in Peace, I will NEVER forget you, and see you on the other side for the next BIG adventure. Bye Pee-Wee!!!

Laura

September 2, 2023

I´m not really sure what to say. Thank you for being a part of my early life...before life became a reality. Thank you for being that one thing and memory that my mother and I could share, that was just for us. A good one to put it very mildly. You´ll never know how much it meant, or means to me to this day. Those memories, and enjoying your work throughout the rest of my life, means more than can ever be expressed through words. Thank you for sticking up for the little guy, the outcast, the person who doesn´t fit in and for all people. Know you were and are loved and cherished God Bless You Thank You

Shannon NOEL Issette

August 30, 2023

Paul Reubens inspired me that it's okay to be different & that I should believe in myself & to never let anyone put me down for the beauty that's in my heart & soul alike. I miss you Paul & I will always keep your beautiful memories in my loving heart forever!

Frances Hadden

August 24, 2023

What a joy and the fun he gave us So fortunate he spent time with us and always will make us joyful, happy while he was here on earth.

Gloria

August 22, 2023

Condolences to his family and friends. We lost a true comedic genius. I remember watching his work in the mid-1980s. When I heard of his passing, I felt it. I've been re-discovering his work through YouTube and his Instagram page and boy he makes me laugh out loud and smile. There is no one like him. So happy there is more footage, documentary, and a possible autobiography to come.

Thomas Orr

August 21, 2023

Rest in peace, we will never forget the laughter you brought to a lot of us!

Vincent

August 21, 2023

My daughter loved the Pee Wee TV show. She is 37 years old now but we have fond memories of Saturday morning PeeWee Playhouse. And of course the classic PeeWee´s Great Adventure. Paul (PeeWee) Rest in Peace my son.

kiyo

August 18, 2023

Paul meant a lot to everyone who cross paths with him in his lifetime whether it was family friends and us Fans from the 70s and 80s who grew up with his shows and movies. I met Paul in Florida mega con and he is by far the nicest sweetest celebrity I had ever met. I'm glad I got to hug him and tell him what he meant to me and all of us. I will always cherish our conversation too.

condolences to his family and sister Abby

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A cousin´s and sister gathering with Paul early on in his PeeWee years

Kathy

August 18, 2023

My condolences to Paul's family, his friends and those who are feeling the loss personally as friends from afar, not having actually met him. I'm one of them, still processing his passing and surprised how it's hitting so hard emotionally. Thank goodness for video. It's been a joy to rediscover Pee-wee again and seeing Paul's other characters and interviews. "Oh, it feels good to laugh!" Bittersweet though. Extremely.

I'm so glad he felt loved and supported and took the time to reflect that back. I miss having him in this world, making his art. May Paul rest in peace.

Gus Correa

August 17, 2023

I was shocked of Paul's passing like everyone else that knew him well. We are lucky to have so much footage of Paul (Pee-Wee) in multiple mediums to celebrate him forever and keep his humor alive that way.

Debbie Riskus

August 16, 2023

Dear rubens family I'm sorry for your loss he was a great man I'm going to .iss Paul rubens aka peewee wee rest in peace sweetheart ❤ love your biggest fan ever Debbie jean riskus

LOUIS RUBENFELD

August 16, 2023

One of my family remembrances of Paul was early on in his career when his grandmother said to his mother Judy, if you ever let Paul appear on TV with a suit that doesn´t fit I´ll never speak to you again! Who knew this would launch his legendary career.
Cousin Louis

Roy David Castillo

August 14, 2023

Paul Rueben A.k.A. Pee-Wee you will be missed although I never got to meet you. I did see u in person in San Antonio, Texas at the Alamo when you were making Pee-Wees big adventures. My hometown. You were trying to greet all ur fans there and I almost got to shake ur hand but I was just a kid as I got Tossed around by the older fans. I'll never 4get that day. Paul Rueben . Alot of us grown up now from that Era are rasing family's, owning our own business, doing our thing but we grew up watching ur shows and movies and it feels like a piece of my childhood died with you. I was devastated hearing about ur passing it was a sad day for the entertainment . I just hope when it's my time I'll get that Chace to really shake ur hand this time and have a conversion with you. As I always wished I did that time u were in San Antonio. R.I.H.P. MY FAVORITE CHILDHOOD LEDGEND. YOULL NEVER BE 4GOTTEN. IN LOVING MEMORIES OF PAUL RUEBEN A.K.A PEE-WEE.... OH I 4GOT TO TELL YOU PEE-WEE THERES NO BASEMENT AT THE ALAMO! ALSO TODAYS WORD OF THE DAY IS GOOD-BYE PEE-WEE HERMAN

Davis

August 14, 2023

To Family and Friends of Mr. Paul Reubens,
We are truly saddened to hear about the death of Mr. Paul Reubens, and we send our heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. We have certainly lost a creative, talented person who will certainly be missed by all who love him. I fondly remember watching "Pee-Wee´s Playhouse" in the 1980s. He delighted children and parents alike with his with joy, creativity, and laughter. I love Pee-Wee's bicycle. I still remember that catch phrases - "I know you are, but what am I?" from Pee-Wee´s Playhouse. Pee-Wee Herman was unique, and I don´t think anyone else could have played him so vividly except Paul Reubens. It´s been said that "If Paul Reubens hadn't invented him, nobody else would have." You said posthumously "I enjoyed making art for you." We enjoyed your art. Thank you, Mr. Reubens, for sharing your creative artistic talents and gifts with us. Your legacy will last.

Please continue to treasure your good memories and may they soothe your saddened hearts. May prayers strengthen you and cherished memories comfort you, and may God soothe your hearts and comfort you always. Psalm 23

Michelle and Lil Verne

August 12, 2023

Au revoir Pee Wee

Arlene and Kris

August 11, 2023

Will always remember the quiet pleasant man who used to be friendly and serious in a conversation about current things and still had a twinkle in his eye nice moments along the bay near the library

Brock C

August 11, 2023

I watched previous visits with David Letterman on Youtube, Paul you were hilarious, I really enjoyed your humor.

Condolences to family and friends of Paul/Pee Wee

RIP

Sonny

August 11, 2023

I'm 72 and I still want chairrie! In the early 90s there was a channel that showed about 25 episodes each morning. I recorded them, on a Video Cassette. When my niece was 9, I gave the cassette to her. She watched it a hundred times. Meka leka hiney ho! Let there be a peewee's playhouse in heaven! I'm allowed 1 wish from jambi.
Deep condolences to Paul's family/friends. He will be missed!!

Howard Sanders

August 10, 2023

Thank you for a beautiful addition to my childhood. U entertained so many kids and showed us its ok to be different. My deepest condolences to your family and friends. God bless u and keep u.

Lisa Crowther

August 9, 2023

I watched Pee Wee's playhouse every Saturday morning. This man was a huge part if not the most part of my life. I am deeply saddened by his passing but I know he is in a better place. I will always cherish his memory and am now currently working on a memorial painting to remember him by. I thank him for the long lasting memories I will cherish forever. RIP Paul Reubens. You are a legand, a classic and a rebel (as you once said) Thank you. Lisa

Marion from Michigan

August 9, 2023

My condolences to your family and friends. I'm going to miss you, my friend in my head! You were brilliant, talented and one-of-kind. You invoked a belief in adults that we could relish in our childhood forever. Just a month ago I suggested to my nieces that we watch a Pee Herman movie together! No one will ever fill your shoes! I thank you for making me laugh when I may have not been in the mood. Paul Reubens, you will be sorely missed, but NEVER forgotten!!! Love ya!!!

Ron

August 9, 2023

Paul I will miss you my friend, I hope to see you in Heaven someday so we can catch up. Take care of yourself

Chuck G

August 9, 2023

To the family, friends, and fans of Paul Reubens, we are all at a loss for such and incredible man. Like many I would watch Pee Wee's Playhouse with my children and laugh so much with Pee Wee's humor.

My condolences to Paul's family, may he rest in peace with the Lord in Heaven.

Imagine

August 8, 2023

Always in our heart

Adriana Fountaine

August 7, 2023

Arrivederci Pee Wee

justin edward vlach

August 7, 2023

Paul we all thank you for your love, kindness, and the joy you have brought us through the years. Still in shock over the passing, but I know you are home, and making the Angels laugh. Will we see you again one day. We all mourn you're lost, but rejoice to celebrate your life. Thank you Peewee for sharing your love with us. We love you, Rest well brother

Danny Bobrow

August 7, 2023

I am a long time fan of Paul's work. Coincidentally, I started watching Peewee's Playhouse on Youtube about three weeks ago and was delighted with how well it had aged.

I hope Paul's final years were not too difficult, and am gratified to hear he had a loving family to support him.

He will be missed, but will live on through his work!

Mike K

August 7, 2023

Thank you Paul for all of the entertainment. I watched as a kid and my kids loved you as well. You even became a character in our night time bedtime stories. Rest in peace.

Stacey May

August 7, 2023

Paul / Pee Wee,
I usually don't get emotional when a movie star passes away but this time it was a little different. I always have enjoyed you in my childhood and later in the years when I had my own children I still introduced them to Pee-Wee's playhouse and the Pee Wee movies. As an adult I enjoyed you and many other films too. Such a talented person with a huge heart. I will always remember you Thank you for the great memories. Rest in peace Paul

Shirley Moore

August 7, 2023

To his family and friends, I wish you comfort...NOT having Paul Reubens in the biosphere anymore leaves a huge hole in the web of life. Such a bright, funny and sweet human, who entertained us all with such wildly hilarious, uninhibited abandon. I love the playhouse and his movies and still watch them to get instant snorty laughs. As Conan O'Brien recently said in a tribute, "We will not see his like again." God, I absolutely adored this one.

KK

August 7, 2023

One of my favorite actors of all time since I was a kid. Had plans to finally meet one of my idols in 2015 at a Comic Con but Paul had to cancel. His movies and TV show kept me happy through some very rough times in my life. Thank you for everything. May God Bless You.

Alexandria Flint

August 6, 2023

RIP Paul Reubens, my heart is broken because you were such a huge part of my childhood as Pee-Wee Herman. I hope you´re at peace and know just how beloved you are by an entire generation

Ariana Hiatt

August 6, 2023

Always in our hearts

Erica Gomez

August 6, 2023

I fondly remember my brother and I waking up early mornings to watch Pee Wee's Playhouse. Sitting mesmerized in front of the television while eating our cereal. R.I.P. Pee Wee Herman

Christine from New Jersey

August 6, 2023

I was at work when news broke that Paul Reubens had passed away. It took everything in me not to cry while there. Paul, your death hit me like a ton of bricks, and you have been in my prayers. You were only a handful of actors I truly cared about.

I pray every night that God holds you and protects you. Hopefully you will have a peaceful eternal rest.

Dana Stradley

August 5, 2023

I adored Pee Wee Herman. I never missed a Saturday morning watching Pee Wee´s Playhouse. He was a brilliant actor in every part he played.

He will surely be missed!

Andrea Farretta

August 5, 2023

My heart is so incredibly heavy at this tragic loss.

Thank you Paul, "Pee Wee", so much for the many years and endless hours of joy, fun and entertainment you brought to my family and I. In the "non-creepiest" of ways you were family as we spent in incalculable amount of time "with you" ... first via TV, then VHS, then DVD.

We had so hoped for your live tour to resume in hopes of purchasing your VIP experience in hopes of meeting you.

You truly were and still are loved, treasured and adored by many--and are a true legend, legacy and "rebel".

May you rest in eternal peace in Gods loving arms.

Love you Paul.

David

August 5, 2023

Paul,
It's time for your next Big Adventure.
We love you Pee Wee.
David and
The Kids

Mary Beth

August 5, 2023

He was amazing friend to me. My deepest condolences to his family. He was a funny, creative, intelligent, and thoughtful man. We shared the quality of sentimentalism which can be so rare in this world. I will miss our conversations and laughs. Fly high, Paul!

Chris

August 5, 2023

My father died of cancer July 21st, over a week before. He was 72. I read that Paul was also taking care of his father 20 years prior. Paul's loss is very heartfelt. I am endeared by his kindness. Thank you for touching my life! I loved you as a kid, and I love you even more knowing how you also cared for your father and also passed just a week after my own father died. My father did stand-up comedy around Orange County and Los Angeles. I hope you're both sharing laughs in Heaven now. Blessings Dear Paul!

Sandra Delashmit

August 5, 2023

I was saddened to hear of Paul Reubens death. I always looked forward to Pee Wee's Playhouse on Saturday mornings. It wasn't just for kids. Loved his other work too. Enjoyed seeing him on Celebrity Wheel of Fortune. He was a great talent and I will miss him. May he rest in peace.

Michael John

August 4, 2023

I was shocked and deeply saddened by his untimely death. I had a suit just like his in High school; in fact, one time I dressed as Pee-Wee Herman for a Halloween party where I worked, at the phone company in Houston. Everyone loved it. I wish I had the photos, but I do have my photo from High school. All I needed was a red bow tie. May he Rest in his Heavenly Playhouse.

Robert Sharma

August 4, 2023

Thank you for the wonderful memories. You made me laugh as a kid growing up in the 80s. Rip cheers to your next big adventure.

Brandy Dudley - Palestine Texas

August 4, 2023

My heart is hurt to hear about Paul Reubens's passing. I was a fan of his show growing up and I absolutely loved him in the Gotham series! When you watched him, you couldn't help but laugh! Very gifted! Paul, thank you for sharing your gift with us! We will keep smiling thinking about you! My prayers are going up for the family and friends of Paul! Rest now...

Karen ohara

August 4, 2023

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Mr Paul Reubens I watched his show all the time pee wees playhouse my kids loved the show too I will miss him rip peewee my condolences go his family may God be will all of you. Karen ohara

Marilyn Fain

August 4, 2023

Rest in power Paul Reubens you were such a kind person. The very first time I rung your bell and you answered it ( I know you were laughing) I was like confused . Such a joy. You will be missed but forever in our hearts.

Greg Trial

August 4, 2023

I was sad to hear Paul had passed his humor and wit were very unique and genuine. Rest in peace Paul and thank you for your art!

Howard Stein

August 4, 2023

Thank you Paul for so many laughs and for sharing your amazing gifts. I hope you are at peace and no longer suffering. May you spend eternity with your mom and dad in heaven.

Brownie

August 3, 2023

We will never forget you or the art you gave us. You were loved more than you knew. Thank you for all the laughs, Paul. RIP

Patrick

August 3, 2023

You were a huge part of my childhood. Thank you!

Jaime Ross

August 3, 2023

I cannot believe Paul Reubens is gone. I have always been a huge fan and grew up as a child watching Pee Wees Playhouse. His humor and wit were without a doubt remarkable as well as memorable. I only wish to have met him in this life to tell him what a huge fan I was of his. RIP Paul aka Pee Wee....You will definitely be missed!

Bonnie Quilon

August 3, 2023

Just watched one of his movies two days before he died. Funniest guy on earth. RIP Pee-Wee. You will be missed.

Maddy Hungate

August 3, 2023

I was so heartbroken to hear that Paul died. Not only was he a huge part of my life as Pee Wee, but felt like a friend to me too. Anytime I had a hard time in life, was down or depressed, I always watched him. He was a kind soul and was loved by so many people including me. I cried my eyes out when I heard the news. Thank you Paul- for everything.

Ron Seiber

August 3, 2023

God Bless Paul Reubens!

Pee Wee is truly an American Icon, I love his timelessness.

I never had the privilege of meeting Mr. Reubens in person but he always seemed so gracious and kind during interviews.

His work will be a joy forever and that is a beautiful thing.

I am grateful he happened in my time.

I offer my condolences to all of Paul's family and friends, so sorry for the tremendous loss.

TEQUILA!

Carol Beville

August 3, 2023

I am heartbroken. I´ve been a diehard fan since his early days on Letterman. I was lucky enough to receive 8 minutes of birthday wishes, song & plenty of PeeWee fun from Paul via Cameo 2 years ago. He was a beautiful person and will live on via PeeWee Herman for future generations. My heart goes out to his family and close friends.

Nicole Brown

August 3, 2023

I grew up watching Peewee´s Playhouse and the word of the day. I loved the word of the day. I loved every aspect of that show. I loved the movie as well. Peewee Herman will be greatly missed. Condolences to the family.

Punkin Pistolero

August 3, 2023

Thank you for all the magical Saturday mornings I spent watching you with my son Alex. I am thankful for the time we spent together because we were graced with by you entertaining us.

Anthony Tufo

August 3, 2023

RIP Pee Wee Herman, Paul Reubens One of my childhood heroes along side brendan fraser,Tim Curry and Rowan Atkinson!!has Passed away

I was very lucky to have meet him and to see his live broadway show In New York City with my Dad it will be a memory i hold close.

Was an honor to meet you and begin able to have a one on one conversation with you, you were a truly kind human!!! thank you for my childhood

Rest in peace Paul,

JoAnna Stilwell Taylor

August 3, 2023

I'm so heartbroken! He was such a a big part of my childhood.He made it cool for all the weird kids to be weird and taught us how to enjoy being our true selves and the importance of being light hearted and kind.I didn't know him personally but I'll forever be grateful for my childhood memories

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