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Paula Ventura Obituary
Born and raised in Orleans, she was the loving daughter of Paul E. Deschamps and the late Jean (Walsh) Deschamps.
Paula was a devoted mother to her daughter Michelle Meagher and her husband, Mike, of Marstons Mills.
She was predeceased by a son, Mark J. Ventura, and her constant four legged companion, Cloe.
She was educated in the Orleans school system and graduated from Nauset Regional High School in 1964, and furthered her education at Vermont College in Montpelier, Vt., where she earned an Associates Degree. Mrs. Ventura resided for most of her adult life in Brewster before moving to Yarmouth in 2006.
She was dedicated to her family and over the past few years loved nothing better than being ''Gammy” to her cherished grandchildren McKenna, Mikey, and Meghan. Her fondness for the beach was legendary, and she also enjoyed doing crafts, gardening and baking.
In addition to her father, daughter, and grandchildren, she is survived by her siblings, Pamela J. Deschamps of Beverly, Mass., and Dana P. Deschamps and his wife, Kerry, of Georgia, Vt., as well as five nieces and one nephew.
Calling hours will be Friday, Sept. 21, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Nickerson Funeral Home, 77 Eldredge Park Way, Orleans.
Funeral services will be Saturday, Sept. 22, at 11:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Victory Church , 230 South Main Street, Centerville.
Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Sampson Fund for Veterinary Care/C.A.R.E., 79 Theophilus Smith Road, South Dennis, MA 02660.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Laurie Beth Putnam
October 18, 2007
I was so shocked to hear about Paula. She was one of the most loved members of our class. It is a great loss for all of you and we all share that loss.
Bruce Ellis
October 17, 2007
I was very sorry to hear of Paula's most untimly and tragic passing. i will always remember her as a lively and vavicous young wonam who was a happy member of her community.
David Burns
October 16, 2007
Michelle & Family
I too went to High School with your mother and was quite close to her back in those days. Seeing her again at our reunion a couple of years ago was very special. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss; my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Robert Richardson
September 26, 2007
To all of Paula's family and friends please accpet ourprayers for your loss. Paula and I were school mates and even shared a few summers at Miss Nat's while our Moms worked. We grieve for her loss but rejoice at her gain. God bless you all.
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Vicky Finlay
September 26, 2007
Michelle, Dana and Pam: Paula was a bright and loving woman. I worked with Paula at the Head & Foot shop offices when you were a little skating girl Michelle. I knew her from Nauset as well. She was a very loving and proud mother to you. The world has lost a special person and I am deeply sorry for all of you.
Lisa Pearson
September 23, 2007
Michele and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I had met her only a few times, however, was so touched by her endless love for her grandchildren. May you find peace remembering all the wonderful times you have shared and continue to keep her memory alive for your children.
My deepest sympathy to you Michele and your entire family.
Lisa Pearson
Anne & Charlie Kruse
September 23, 2007
Michelle, we were so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. We met Paula through mutual friends about 20 years ago and although we didn't see her very often, when we did she delighted in telling us all about you and your children. She was a very proud Mother and Grandmother. Our prayers are with you.
Robert Williams
September 23, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jane Ferris (Chartrand)
September 21, 2007
Our deepest sympathies go out to all of you. Paula was a wonderful person and I can still hear her laughter. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God Bless.
Laurie Crocker
September 21, 2007
Michelle, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. My deepest sympathy is with you and your family.
Susan (Dunphy) Eslick
September 21, 2007
To Paula's family,
Michele, I met you when you were just a baby and your mom was delighted you were part of her life. Paul, Pam, and Dana, I will never forget those summer Sundays waterskiing on Pleasant Bay. You were very much a part of my family. Please accept my sincere sympathy and, for whatever comfort it may bring, please know I am thinking of you.
Judi Peters
September 21, 2007
I was so very sorry to hear the news. I went to school with Paula and graduated with her in 1964. She was always a happy person and full of energy. She will be missed by many.
Rick Doepper
September 21, 2007
Michelle, Pam Dana and family,
My condolences to you on Paula's passing. I was a classmate and friend of Paula's at Nauset and remember her fondly. She was a good person, easy to laugh and laugh with...cherish the memories.
Sue Connors
September 21, 2007
To Michelle and Paula's Family, We are so sad to hear of Paula's passing. Everyone who worked with and knew Paula will cherish so many funny and special memories of her and she will be greatly missed. She was very special to all who knew and loved her. Our deepest sympathy. Sue Connors and Ann Feeley and former co-workers at Pisces Restaurant.
Jane Greene
September 20, 2007
Dear Paul, Michelle, Pam and Dana,
You and your families are in my prayers. Paula was so much fun. I will always remember her laugh! Her friendship was a gift to all who knew her.
With deepest sympathy,
jimbo balnis
September 20, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Wendy Rose
September 20, 2007
Michelle,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Love,
Wendy
Brian Cooney
September 20, 2007
Michelle, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Paula was a wonderful lady who worked very hard. Paula had a huge heart and couldn't have been a better person. My best wishes and deepest sympathy.
Bonnie (Cooper) Faler
September 20, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Michelle, I never met you but have heard about you over the years. Your Mom was so proud. Pam and Dana, I grew up with you and share many memories. Paula hosted my first birthday/pajama party on the Cape in fifth grade. We did so much together until our graduation from Nauset in 1964. I will remember her always. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your families.
Kelli Regan
September 20, 2007
I love you Michelle!! I have so many happy memories of our childhood and they all have your mother in them! She was a very special lady and so are you! Love, Kelli
Judith Belanger/Clisby
September 20, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Paula and I went to Nauset HS class of 64. I have fond memories of her. She had a wonderful smile and lots of energy. She will be missed by all the lives she touched.
Tammi Mason
September 20, 2007
Dear Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss. I have known your mother for many years and although you probably wont remember, I used to babysit for you. She was a wonderful person and will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julie
September 20, 2007
Dana, Pam, Uncle Paul, and Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss. Paula was a beautiful person with the biggest heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home
September 20, 2007
We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
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