Pauline McGraw Farmer

Pauline McGraw Farmer

Pauline Farmer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 23, 2011.
SHERMAN STATION - Pauline Farmer, 97, wife of the late Cecil Farmer, died May 21, 2011, at a Bangor health care facility. She was born Jan. 18, 1914, in Patten, the daughter of William and Albra Webster McGraw. Pauline is survived by her son, Joseph of Island Falls; daughter, Patricia and her husband, Donald Lord, of Jefferson; a granddaughter, Katie Lord and her husband, Adam West, of Sevierville, Tenn.; three great-grandchildren, several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a sister, Helen Crommett; and three brothers, Howard, Glenn and William McGraw. Pauline graduated from Patten Academy and Gorham Normal School, and continued her education at the University of Maine. She began her teaching career in Charleston and later taught in Patten, Auburn and Sherman. She was a communicant at St. Joseph's Catholic Church. A memorial service will be held 11 a.m. Tuesday, May 31, at St. Benedicts Catholic Church, Benedicta, with interment at St. Benedicts Cemetery. A time of fellowship will be held immediately after at the parish center. Gifts in her memory may be sent to Patten Alumni Association, P.O. Box 591, Patten, ME 04765, for a Katahdin High School student scholarship. To leave online condolences and to sign a guest book, please go to www.bowersfuneral.com.

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June 1, 2011

Lisa Whited posted to the memorial.

May 30, 2011

Richard Nevers posted to the memorial.

May 27, 2011

Thom Brockman posted to the memorial.

Lisa Whited

June 1, 2011

Joe and Patty,
I was so sad to hear about your mother. What an inspiration she was! I'm very sorry for your loss and hope that fond memories of her will comfort you in the coming weeks. With sympathy,

Richard Nevers

May 30, 2011

To "Miss McGraw's" Family
She was always Miss McGraw to me , and what a wonderful, thouightful LADY !!
When I was in her grade in Patten I was hospitalized for six months, and never a week went by that I didn't get a package from her and my classmates.
Those are the things one never forgets.
God Bless all of you.

Thom Brockman

May 27, 2011

Patty and Joe, you have my sincere condolences on the loss of your dear mother. Brenda and I will alway cherish our yearly visits with your mother and you both when we were all in Sherman at the same time. Although Brenda will see you both next week, I will not be in Maine this year but I will be thinking of you.

Thom Brockman, Spanish Fort, Alabama

Chris & Betty Bowers

May 25, 2011

Joe and Patty,

We are very sorry for the loss of your Mom. She was a tremendous influence in the character of all her students. She will always be Mrs. Farmer to me. I will never forget all the good times I had at your home and camp.

Lana Robinson

May 25, 2011

Joe and Patty,
I am sorry about your mom's death. I feel so fortunate to have had Mrs. Farmer as my fourth grade teacher and lifelong friend. I remember the read-alouds, the mental math, and the paragraph writing as she fostered a love of learning in our class of nearly 40 students. Most of all, though, I remember her patience, quiet discipline, and belief in all of us. She was a wonderful lady.

May 25, 2011

Dear Joe and Patty-Please know that my
thoughts and prayers are with you both during your time of loss. Mrs. Farmer
was my favorite teaching in grade school and my greatest supporter when I moved home to Sherman with my children. We had many wonderful visits at her home in Sherman Station. She was an awesome lady.
Love Helen Bowers Sherwood, Houlton

Margaret Duffy

May 24, 2011

Dear Patty and Joe,
I am sorry for your loss. Pauline was such a good friend. I have fond memories of our sodality meetings at her house with Tina Stevens, Freda Stubbs, Margaret Allen, Minnie Stubbs, Jesse McAvoy and Barbara McNally. Pauline was a gentle lady who was loved by all.

Beth Ricker

May 24, 2011

Mrs. Farmer was my favorite teacher. She told me that I looked "mature" in my 4th grade picture. I didn't know what it meant, but I figured if she said it, it had to be something very good.
I'm sorry to hear of her passing.
With sympathy, Beth

Jim & Carolyn Splan

May 24, 2011

To Patty & Joe,
So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a great lady and teacher. She will be missed.

Donna Sprague

May 24, 2011

Pauline was my mother's roommate in the summer of 2005. She was a very articulate, kind, and warm person. I have thought about her often over the years. She was the kind of person who left heartprints to those who knew her. Blessings to her family.

Debbie & Ricky Long

May 24, 2011

Joe & Patty,
Please know you are in our thoughts n prayers she will be missed by all who knew her,she was a great lady....
Debbie& Ricky &Family

Judy Heath

May 23, 2011

Joe and Patty,
I always enjoyed talking to Polly when ever I met her. I saw her at the Brookside a few months ago. She was always so pleasant and had such a lovely smile. A very nice lady! Prayers for you, Judy Heath

Janie Albert

May 23, 2011

Patty and Joe...
So sorry about your loss...I loved this lady with all my heart and saw her a while ago at Wal-Mart and she gave me a big hug...She was my favorite teacher in elementary school and I remember the last day of 4th grade so well...I was sad that I would not have her for a teacher the following year..I wanted to stay in 4th grade forever...such a sweet dear lady who will be missed! She touched many lives and I was so fortunate to have known her! May God Bless!

May 23, 2011

Joe,Patty and family
Our sincere sympathy in the loss of your dear mother. Heaven has a new shining star.
Wendall and Christine McNally

Jackie Davenport

May 23, 2011

Joe and Patty, so sorry to hear about your mom. It was a pleasure to visit her last winter and chat about the "old days"at Sherman Elementary. She was such a kind and gentle person she certainly will be missed. God Bless!

Jackie Davenport

Nellie Marie Rush Findlater

May 23, 2011

My thoughts are with you & remembering all the lovely times I had as her student. I truly loved her & school in her class room.

Judy Bishevsky

May 23, 2011

My sincerest condolences, Joe. She was always so lovely and I will cherish our last meeting at the Horn. A truly great lady! Keeping you in my prayers. Judy Bishevsky and family.

Carter Heath

May 23, 2011

Polly was a kind, caring, and loving lady. She always was truly interested in how everyone in my family was doing. She also was positive, and shared a smile with everyone. She was a gem! Peace, Prayers, and Sympathy to her family. God Bless!

Evelyn Mc Donald

May 23, 2011

My love and prayers to you all. She was such a wonderful person and loved by everyone. Glad I got the privaledge to visit with her quite often and she always told me how smart my kids were !!They all loved her for a teacher. We will miss her greatly. God Bless ! Evelyn McDonald

Les Shaw

May 23, 2011

Joe, I am so sorry to hear about your Mother. She was a wonderful person and my favorite teacher. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ryle Perry

May 23, 2011

Joe, I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother. Out thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

Rosanne Bates

May 23, 2011

My sincere condolences to the family. Mrs. Farmer was one of my favorite teachers in school. She was a wonderful teacher and a very special lady.

May 23, 2011

What a gracious lady she was . I was so happy to see her again back in the winter. She gave me a hug and left me with a sweet memory . I know you will miss her but what a wonderful long life she had. Condolances to you all . Bonnie McNally

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June 1, 2011

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