Peter Pflasterer

Peter Pflasterer obituary, Raleigh, NC

Peter Pflasterer

Peter Pflasterer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 27, 2013.
Peter Wood Pflasterer
August 3, 1947 - September 22, 2013
Raleigh
Peter Wood Pflasterer, 34-year resident of Raleigh, died at 1:50 a.m. on Sunday, September 22, 2013, four months after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He was 66.
Peter was known by those close to him as a man who could do anything. He found time to apply his sharp mind and passionate soul to many interests in the backdrop of an impactful career in electronic engineering. Peter was a wizard of circuit design, and through his talent and leadership he became admired in his field as one of the elite engineers of his generation. He is listed as inventor on four U.S. patents, including the first crystalless scanning radio receiver. He started two telecommunications companies, including JPS Communications, Inc., which became a leader in the realm of radio interoperability and continues to thrive in Raleigh as a subsidiary of Raytheon Company.
Peter had a lifelong passion for the visual arts, especially fine art photography, for which he possessed a great talent and left behind an impressive body of work. Music was also central to his life; he was always listening to it and found joy in every genre he discovered. He was an accomplished drummer from early on and later picked up other instruments.
Peter was born August 3, 1947 in Nashville, Tennessee to Edward Brown Pflasterer and Louise Wood Pflasterer. They soon moved to Oak Ridge, Tennessee where Peter grew up. His mother Louise was a trained chiropractor who later became a watercolor artist of local renown in eastern Tennessee. His father Edward was working as a physicist at Oak Ridge National Laboratory when he died in 1955, leaving Louise and an 8-year-old Peter on their own. The eight years Peter spent with his father became a lifetime of influence, as he had already developed interests in photography and science as well as a love for railroads. He spent much of his early years experimenting with chemistry, physics, and electric circuits, absorbing technical textbooks like a prodigy.
At age 16, armed with self-taught technical skills, Peter landed a job at Tennelec, a nuclear test equipment company, working part time during high school and college. After two years at the University of Tennessee, he quit school to work full-time. Peter quickly rose to full Engineer after developing an innovation that impressed Tennelec's founder, Edward Fairstein, who became Peter's most important mentor and a lifelong friend.
Peter met Dasleigh Kalina in Houston, Texas in 1969, and they got engaged just two weeks later. They married on Valentine's Day in 1970; the marriage lasted over 43 years-the rest of Peter's life. In 1976, their first son, Jeremy, was born.
Earlier in 1976, Tennelec had disbanded, so Peter and two partners founded Digital Designs, Inc., a company that produced the first digitally-tuned radio receiver, of Peter's design. A lack of investment capital doomed the company from the start, however, and it folded in 1978.
The following year, Peter moved the family to Raleigh and joined Mackay Communications, then a division of ITT. In 1981, Peter and Dasleigh's second son, Benjamin, was born. Peter's career began to thrive. He served as Mackay's VP of Engineering for most of the '80s, under close friend and mentor Alan Finkel. Peter would later call those years the best of his life.
In 1988, Peter and two other ambitious engineers, Donald K. Scott, Jr. and J. Thomas Jacks, left Mackay to found JPS Communications, with Peter serving as President. The new company grew quickly, offering a variety of products that lured customers ranging from amateur radio operators to the U.S. Department of Defense. Eventually, JPS's mainstay became radio interoperability. In the post-9/11 era, JPS was recognized for making a contribution to the "war on terror" for its aid to governmental first-responders.
Throughout Peter's tenure at JPS, he and his management team were seen by their employees as responsible, caring leaders. In 2002, Peter and the other JPS shareholders sold to Raytheon after ensuring no layoffs and that the company would not be moved. A few years later, Peter began his hard-earned retirement.
Sadly, his retirement was too brief, but it was highlighted by the time he spent with his wife at their peaceful mountain house near Blowing Rock, NC. He stayed active, building tube amps and speakers, photographing, painting, mentoring his children, and playing with his grandchildren.
Peter is survived by his wife Dasleigh, son Jeremy and his wife Shannon; grandson Jeremy Jr., son Benjamin and his wife Sarah, and granddaughters Ruby and Grace, all of Raleigh.
The body was cremated. A memorial service will be held on Sep. 28 at 4 p.m. at Brown-Wynne on Millbrook Road. Burial will take place at Oakwood Cemetery at a later date.
The family encourages memorials in the form of donations to the V Foundation for Cancer Research (jimmyv.org) or Hospice of Wake County (hospiceofwake.org).

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October 1, 2013

Stan Carman posted to the memorial.

September 30, 2013

Malcolm Richardson posted to the memorial.

September 29, 2013

Janice Baker Sanders posted to the memorial.

Stan Carman

October 1, 2013

After attending Peter's memorial service. I was struck by his accomplishments and humble beginings. Which brought to my mind the story of the Bumble Bee
Behold the bBumble Bee, After much research and analysis by institutions the Bumble Bee was incapable of flight, based upon it's body mass and wing span..... However, the Bumble Bee was not aware of this and
"FLEW ANYWAY" Peters's nature was such that he did not know he couldn't do the things he accomplished, and... FELW ANYWAY......
He will be missed but not forgotten.

Malcolm Richardson

September 30, 2013

So many of my high school memories are tied to Peter, who was always the best of companions. He was a great friend, always thoughtful and caring and checking every so often to see how I was doing. I'm astonished and saddened that he's gone from us so soon and send my sympathy to his family.

Janice Baker Sanders

September 29, 2013

Peter will be sadly missed by all his ORHS classmates. RIP Peter

Bob and Joan LaRose

September 27, 2013

We send our deepest sympathies to the family of Peter. He lived life to the fullest, and sadly leaves his family all too soon. Remember and cherish the happy memories of this fine man, and know he will be watching over all of you and keeping his eternal arms wrapped around you.

Karen Kalina Rathmell

September 27, 2013

Keeping all of you in my prayers during this difficult time. It is obvious that Peter was loved, cherished and respected by so many. My deepest sympathy to all of you.

Elizabeth Singley

September 27, 2013

My prayers and deepest sympathies to Das and family, and to everyone who knew and loved Peter, a man of so much intelligence, energy, talent, curiosity, and caring, who left us so suddenly and so many years before his time.

Marcia Ray

September 27, 2013

Ron and I were very saddened to hear of Peter's passing. Peter was truly a wonderful person, with a tremendous amount of knowledge, compassion and respect for his employees, and for his fellow man. He will be greatly missed! We will be praying that God will bring the family peace and comfort in the coming days.

Crystal Drischel

September 27, 2013

I met Peter many years ago, when I was a confused girl in my early 20's. Even though I was a friend of Das, I wasn't quite sure how to relate to Peter at first. Despite the fact we could both claim the mule as our "power animal" (or maybe because of this), we soon learned we were kindred spirits. Over the years Peter has been a mentor, father figure and friend to me. As a result of his encouragement, I felt brave enough to challenge myself and follow my calling as a social worker. I will always treasure my time at the mountain house with Das and Peter. Peter always had a way of putting things into perspective for me by letting me know it was ok if I didn't have all the answers (although I'm pretty sure he had most of them)!

I am very grateful for the humor and compassion Peter showed me over the years. I can honestly say I would not be the strong, loving person I am today if I had not benefited from Peter's friendship. It's hard to believe Peter won't be there to discuss his newest gadgets, the latest PBS special he enjoyed (because we all know he would rather mow the yard than watch reality tv! Ha!) or to ask if I wanted to see pictures of his darling grandchildren. I know Peter left this world proud of the accomplishments of his sons (whom he adored), grateful for the time he spent with his daughter-in-laws and grandchildren and of course completely devoted to his beloved wife, Das. I will miss Peter dearly, but I am thankful for his friendship.

Bill Agnor

September 27, 2013

I am very sorry to hear of Peter's passing. I worked for Peter from 1985 to 1990 at Mackay designing radio control systems. Peter was one of the most impressive engineers and manger that I have ever known.His influence on my engineering career has lasted to this day. He was most impressive in his engineering skills but I will always value his leadership and friendship that he shared with me.

Janine Eash

September 27, 2013

I truly believe I owe my love of photography to Peter. As a 13 year old neighbor, I began helping Dasleigh & Peter as a Mommy's helper/babysitter when Benj was born. So many fond memories come to mind when I think back to those times, which included Peter sharing his love of photography with me. I remember him helping me develop film in his home black room when I was taking a photography class in high school. I always thought it was "SO cool" to have a black room IN your house!!

The years passed and we didnt see eachother much, but I always thought of this special family fondly. Years changed our lives in many ways, but Peter's smile never did...he had a great smile!! I was blessed to know Peter. He will be missed.

Ulla Skeffington

September 26, 2013

Craig and I were deeply saddened by the news. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Wallace & Linda Wood

September 26, 2013

Linda and I were friends with Peter and his mother back in the 60's, when he was starting High School. We lost contact for many years, then a remarkable thing happened: we "found" the Pflasterer family and started to learn of Peter's many accomplishments, his passions and love of life. We are so thankful that we did while there was time. Das., please accept our condolences.

September 26, 2013

I was friends with Peter for over 30 years, having met in a traditional way; our wives had met at the preschool that Jeremy and my son Josh attended. My wife Anita and I shared many great times with Peter and Dasleigh as our children grew up, married and gave us the gift of grandchildren. I enjoyed Peter's company immensely and will always cherish our joyful conversations full of humor and love. I will miss Peter greatly. Jim Bell

September 25, 2013

I always admired Peter's many abilities and his wide-ranging interests.
His helpful nature will always be remembered by me.

Eleanor Chitla (Raleigh, NC)

Bill & Penney Carroll

September 25, 2013

Penney and I were shocked and saddened at the passing of Peter. We were blessed to have met him. He was caring, understanding, and was truly concerned about the feelings of his fellow man. He is for sure taking the express lane into heaven

John Fairstein

September 25, 2013

Peter was a long time family friend. He had a sharp mind and boundless curiosity. He took up electronics as a kid and started working summers while he was in high school at Tennelec, a high tech firm in his home town of Oak Ridge Tennessee. Electronikers love transistors, capacitors, resisters, and the smell of solder, but Peter's interest went way beyond the electronic hardware. He wanted lots of information to flow back and forth, and to be able to communicate to people all over the world. Electronics was a way for him to do that. Over the years he developed instruments to measure particles of light, programmable radios that scanned many channels, and systems that allowed firefighters, police, and emergency responders to communicate easily during a crisis. His tube music amplifiers are a work of art. But electronics and communication was just part of his life: family, friends, art ,music, photography, and much much more. My condolences to his wonderful family. Though he has physically left us, his person remains with us.

September 25, 2013

Dear Das and Family,
You have my deepest sympathy and condolences on losing Peter in the prime of his life. He had the joy of seeing the growth and development of your great family.
Love
Russ Pflasterer

Frances Call

September 25, 2013

Peter was a great friend and boss. His positive attitude effected everyone around him. He was one of the most kind, caring, and understanding person and it was my pleasure to have had the opportunity to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones. He will be truly missed.

Frances Call

September 25, 2013

Peter was a great friend and boss. He was a caring, kind, and understanding person that I will truly miss. It was my pleasure to have had the opportunity to have known him. His positive attitude influenced everyone around him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones.

September 25, 2013

Jim and I have known Peter and Dasleigh ever since our boys went to pre-school together thirty plus years ago. We shared many meals and many laughs together. With both our folks so far away, we became each other's family on the holidays and have been family ever since. Besides Peter's amazing accomplishments in engineering and business, we came to admire his creative mind and limitless interest in countless ways--painting beautiful landscapes, turning out lovely wooden bowls on his lathe, constructing fabulous furniture and woodworking projects, and even making cheese. If ever there was a Renaissance man, Peter was one. We will miss him so much more than words can ever express.. Anita and Jim Bell

Rod McClure

September 25, 2013

"Peter was a great leader and Boss" Kind and caring individual. It was My pleasure to have had the oportunity to have known

Jim Hayes

September 25, 2013

"Pete's Boat

Peter was the quintessential engineer. He would dig into a project until he understood it perfectly, and only then proceed. He not only did this at work, he did it with his personal interests, his photography, electronics hobby projects and the like.

But one of his projects has become almost a cultural icon. I don't know how many times I have told the story to explain the term "Pete's Boat."

While we lived in Oak Ridge and worked with Peter, he decided he wanted a boat. He read boating magazines, collected brochures from local dealers and visited docks looking at boats. Then one day, all the boat magazines and literature disappeared. "What's up with the boat, Peter?" He had decided he did not want a boat anymore, the search was a lot more fun than actually owning a boat.

So now when someone goes off on one of those kinds of wild goose chases, we call it "Pete's Boat." And have a good chuckle!

....and then again there was the night that after a few beers we had an idea that could have made us billionaires...

Kenneth Marks

September 24, 2013

Peter was brilliant, kind and wise. I look fondly on the time that I was able to spend with him. He might not have realized the positive impact he had on me and my family; it was significant. May God bless Peter and comfort his family.

Freddie Stroupe

September 24, 2013

Went to High School with Peter. What I remember most about Peter, he was a really nice guy. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family during this most difficult time. May
our Lord bless you and keep you close.
ORHS Class of 65

Dave Gourley

September 24, 2013

Peter was a great mentor and positive influence throughout the time I worked with him and beyond. I also shared the interest in photography and very much appreciated his work. Peace.

Bill Dantini

September 24, 2013

Peter had a double gift. He was both artistic and analytical, a man who could design sophisticated electronic devices, yet capture the grace and wonder of nature through a photographer's lens. Microelectronics and MacBeth were equally facile to Peter, equally worth his attention. And he could engage you at all the crosswalks in between. I knew Peter as a neighbor and friend for twenty-six years. There was so much to him, so many interwoven layers – I wish I could have know him another twenty-six years.

Roselyn Sluis

September 24, 2013

My deepest sympathy n prayers for you & your family. Peter is at rest & peace. God Bless You all now as in the months to follow..Love, Roselyn

Lyn Williams

September 24, 2013

I worked with and for Peter at Mackay for a number of years. He was a wonderful contributor to life and the community. He was a mentor and guide for not just myself...but for many throughout the community. Peter will be sorely missed.

Wanda Newman

September 24, 2013

I'm so proud and blessed to have had such a wonderful friend for over 40 years. He never ceased to amaze me with his creativity, talents, and knowledge. I'll never forget you, dear Peter!

Dan Donabedian

September 24, 2013

18+ years ago my family landed next door to Peter and Das. Peter was a great friend and neighbor who provided much guidance concerning business and life while sitting on his deck or next to a burning fire. The next bon fire we light will be for Peter and he will see it in heaven. My family will always be here for you Das.

Lisa Evans

September 23, 2013

Our heart is heavy with the passing of your dad. He was a wonderful man. Our family was truly blessed to have him in our lives. I will always remember his beautiful smile and all his kindness he gave to me and my family. May God comfort your family during this time. Sending prayers for your whole family.

September 23, 2013

Knew Peter from kindergarten. So sorry to hear of his death. Prayers are with you.


John Lyell (Nashville, Tn)

September 23, 2013

He truly was one of the greatest people I ever knew- and he believed in me, such an uncommon evaluation in todays' world. I selfishly cried this morning when learning of his departure and then I rejoiced knowing another one of Jesus' own has gone home. He touched many lives and I am a much better person for having known Peter and his wife Dazleigh in my life. Praying for Peace for his Loved Ones as I know that the Gates to Heaven swung open to allow one of Jesus' own to come Home. Jean Silver-Coley

Allen Coggins

September 23, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 23, 2013

HEAVEN IS REJOICING THIS MORNING AS ANOTHER ANGEL GOES HOME. He stood above and beyond the average man with a heart of gold, the patience of a Saint when needed and touched so very many lives with his knowledge. He was one in a million- He believe in people, he encouraged and rewarded, he was a teacher, a mentor, a friend and a wonderful human that shall be missed greatly by so many. I ask my Lord Jesus to wrap his arms around the family, lift the burdens of sorrow and allow peace to reside in their hearts.

larry anderson

September 23, 2013

so sorry to hear of his passing

Alesh Ancira

September 23, 2013

May the Lord have You in the palm of His hand Peter Pflasterer
With our Love and deep gratefulness... forever...
You will now shine as a bright star in our dark nights.
Always Thank You, Pete.

Patricia and Alesh Ancira

September 23, 2013

With our deepest gratefulness, love and respect... May You receive multiplied by millions, all the blessings that You gave in life. We embrace You dearly in our hearts, forever. Alesh Ancira and Patricia... Angelica.

Pam Carroll

September 23, 2013

My life was so enriched by having Peter and your family come into my life when you did. My love, my thoughts and my prayers are with you all during this time of loss. His life has touched so many.

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