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Philip Lamar Graham III
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Philip Graham III Obituary
While his passion for emergency medicine and public health provided exciting opportunities for Philip in New York, it was Maryland's Eastern Shore and the Chesapeake Bay that captured his heart and where he felt most at home. The sense of community fostered by his peers and many years of connection to Echo Hill Camp in Worton, MD will be everlasting.
Philip is survived by his most amazing children Arla Marisol Sicherman Graham, Rosa Clementine Sicherman Graham, and Dean Winter Sicherman Graham; his parents, and siblings Virginia Graham and James Graham, along with their spouses and 7 nieces and nephews. Philip is also survived by his former spouse and children's mother Dara Sicherman Salett.
Please consider donating to the Echo Hill Campership Fund on the board of which Philip once served, or to Hospital Albert Schweitzer in Deschapelles, Haiti where Philip served as a volunteer doctor after the 2010 earthquake disaster.
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Philip D. Weiss
March 11, 2024
I had married Philip's mother, Burnley, when he was nine years old. We lived in Park Slope, Brooklyn while renovating a brownstone. He was an intelligent and positive thinking person, involved in many activities and had several good friends. The photo of Philip was taken during the Atlantic Antic Festival 1978.
Lisa Chenofsky Singer
October 11, 2022
It was my honor to get to know Phil ever so briefly in 2021. From the limited time I worked with him, I so appreciated his warmth, humor and kindness he shared. May his memories live on. Sincerest condolences.
Alex Curran
October 11, 2022
There will be a remembrance this Saturday, where family, friends and colleagues can share their memories of Phil, what a remarkable person he was and how he always made us laugh.
3-6pm
Saturday, October 15th
The Montauk Club
25 8th Avenue
Brooklyn, NY 11217
Please RSVP at [email protected]
Ray
October 10, 2022
Thank you Phil for all of the great memories even though I knew you a short time. I'll never forget how welcomed and the embrace you gave me. Our EMS stories we shared while in the office. Thank you Phil for being the best you could be by simply being yourself.
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Eric Greene
September 12, 2022
Flip and I went to Echo Hill; he also was close to my family. He was sharp, incisive, hilarious and sparkled with a special quality that made him for many years like an older brother to me, even after he tried to shove a live goat in my bed in the middle of the night. After all of these years I feel like he was still close to my heart. His loss hit hard. I send my love to his family. And am thankful I had the chance to get to know this beautiful soul. May he Rest In Peace.
Campbell McLean
September 12, 2022
Flip made me grateful that I knew him. At Echo Hill he was my counselor then coworker, and he always knew how to keep things grounded and humble, always three steps ahead of everyone in the room.
Maybe better than anyone I know, he got serious when needed and stayed light when needed. As obnoxious 16 year-olds we got bored while he tried to teach us CPR. He explained precordial thumps (and why they fail) - we were instantly captured.
Every memory I have of him is smiling. I wish the same for his family.
Stacey Petrower
August 17, 2022
My deepest sympathies for Philip's family and loved ones. I had the pleasure of working with Philip for many years whether at MSCHONY, or in cross campus committees within NYP. He has been a wonderful colleague to so many of us and will be deeply missed.
Bob Patney
August 8, 2022
So deeply saddened to hear this tragic news. My heartfelt condolences to Dr. Graham´s family and loved ones. It was an honor knowing him and working with him.
In loving memory of a wonderful person who will be missed and never forgotten.
Justin Anderson
August 8, 2022
Phil and I went to college together. He along with our other two roommates--three if you count Alex, and I do--lived together. Though we were all roughly the same age, Phil had crammed far more life into his 21 years than the rest of us had. As a result he was spiritually older and objectively wiser. He was our leader of sorts. Not in an alpha male sort of way--that was not Phil. But as somewhat ridiculous college kids, the rest of us looked to Phil for approval. He told us whether our ideas were good ones, whether our final drafts were solid, and whether our future plans made sense. Phil, sometimes subtly more often not, let us know if we were on the right track. This was meaningful because we all knew he was.
Which was true, even when we weren't exactly sure what track Phil was on. I was so impressed when as a senior, he decided he wanted to go to medical school. It was a decision that made no sense to me. Trinity was not a hotbed of pre-med students, especially ones who majored in history. But Phil liked to zig when others zagged. He enjoyed frustrating the expectations other people had of him. It made him always interesting and sometimes mischievous.
Phil and I lost touch as college friends do, but his influence over me remained intact over the years. I was so proud of him for the decision to take a post-bacc year and then go to medical school. To me, it was the mark of someone who knew himself, what he wanted, and had the courage to go for it. It would be a while before I could pivot like that. It's not surprising that Phil was able to do it first.
As I reflect on Phil, his life, his family, and especially his kids, I have to believe he continued to cram more life into his 53 years than his college roommates have, as rich and fulfilling as I think our lives have been. We are better people for having shared that important time together. With much love and more than a little sadness,
Justin
Eva Cox
August 2, 2022
Dr. Graham was truly a wonderful person. I am so sad to hear of this news. My sincere condolences to his children who he spoke about often and loved very much, as well as his family and friends. I always looked forward to being in meetings or sharing the same room with him. He was so knowledgeable, always brought laughter, smiles and partnership. Dr. Graham certainly was the voice of reason, called things as they were, and lightened the load of stress in any situation. He was a true friend, great boss and colleague and will be missed tremendously.
Bednark family - Andy, Katie, Caroline, and Ian
August 1, 2022
The world is a better place for having had Philip in it. He touched so many lives and gave the world Arla, Rosa, and Dean. We hold his entire family in our hearts!
Heyden Rostow
August 1, 2022
I knew Philip for a long time and watched him grow up into a the most interesting and engaging person. His father and step-mother were my dear, close friends. This is such a sadness. My heart goes out to his family.
Andrea Kondracke MD
July 30, 2022
I am so sorry to hear about his passing. It seem so unexpected. Phillip was a dear friend from EHC. We share some incredible memories of adolescent mischief. Then again at Columbia during training. He will be missed. Please keep me posted with details of the ceremony.
Carrie Craig and family
July 30, 2022
Our daughters, Rosa and Harper, grew up for years alongside one another as friends and peers. I always admired your calling, Phillip, and am sending much love and peace to all those who knew and loved you, especially your three gems of children.
Laura Robertson
July 30, 2022
I was a pediatric resident 2 years behind Phil from 2000-2003. I still feel like 75% of what I know about infectious disease I learned from him. Plus he could always bring a smile to your face even on the roughest nights in the PICU or ER. Hopefully we didn´t consult him too many times as a fellow just because we wanted him to come by. I know he will be missed by all his fellow residents from Columbia. Much love to his family.
Shivang Shah
July 29, 2022
My heart aches with Phil's passing, but I know his memory and spirit will live on in those he touched, myself included. He was one of my favorite teachers during my clinical fellowship training; calm and dedicated, smart yet humble, with an incisive wit and implacable humor. He was truly a joy to work with and learn from. He was a relentless multi-tasker, able to quickly sift through mounds of information and get to the heart of any issue, clinical or logistical. He was a staunch advocate for his patients and his trainees and truly had a heart of gold, making all in his orbit feel comforted and at ease. A truly kind and genuine soul, he gave generously of his time and energy and did so with good humor, and I will miss him dearly.
Ann Philip
July 28, 2022
My heartfelt condolences.RIP
nancy rubin
July 28, 2022
My hearts and prayers for the children and family
Nancy rubin
July 28, 2022
Our hearts and Souls will be always with him
Joseph Richter
July 28, 2022
I think of how Phil touched so many lives not just by what he did but by who he was: As a physician, an infectious disease specialist, an administrator. I overlapped with him during my work at Incarnation Children's Center, caring for HIV infected children and in the emergency room (sorry, the 'ED') . I would occasionally cross paths about cases or call him as he was on my short list if I had an ID question. He was always down to earth; calling it as he saw it while being kind.
I last remember speaking to him about a case (probably about 5 years ago) when at the end, we wandered into a discussion about the practicalities of primary care pediatrics (and his kid's pediatrician in Brooklyn) and how infection control looks different there than in the hospital.
Phil was one of the people in our lives who's brief encounters make a larger impact than they would ever know. He will be missed.
Blair Singer
July 28, 2022
Sending my love and sympathy to Philip´s loved ones, in particular to his three brilliant, wonderful, and extraordinary children.
Ellen Hawa
July 28, 2022
My deepest sympathy and condolences to the family of Dr. Graham.
I had the honor and pleasure of working with Phil at NYP. He was a brilliant and compassionate physician and a kind friend.
May his memory be a blessing.
Krystal Balzer
July 28, 2022
I was lucky enough to work closely with Phil for 6 years. He was highly respected by his colleagues and loved deeply by his patients. His humor and kindness will live with me forever. He will surely be missed. My deepest condolences to his loved ones.
Angela Watson
July 28, 2022
Sending our love deepest sympathies to you all.
Monique Collier Nickles
July 28, 2022
Phil was an amazing doctor with such a warm, kind, and thoughtful spirit. Years ago, he took me under his wing as a young med student and showed me the ropes of Columbia Peds. I will remain forever grateful to him. I offer my sincerest and deepest condolences to his friends and family, especially his children, who he talked about and loved so much.
Janie and Barry and family
July 28, 2022
We will always remember Philip's warmth and love and kindness towards us. Our hearts ache for all his loved ones.
Carol Caraway
July 28, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
I have fond memories of Phil from our days at NYP, and recently reacquainting with him. SIP Phil
Grace Su
July 27, 2022
My deepest sympathies and condolences to the family. I am sad to hear this news. I worked with Phil while at Columbia. Phil was a person who brought laughter into stressful times and always made everyone smile.
Adam Rose
July 27, 2022
I really enjoyed Phillip´s humour, intelligence and sensitivity. I was hoping to catch up with him again. He will be missed. My condolences to his family.
Renee Sevcik
July 27, 2022
I had the privilege of working with Phil in the Peds ER at CHONY many years ago. He left a lasting impression on me all these years later. He was the most brilliant, articulate, funny and kind doctor you could ever imagine. He had a calm, controlled manner and was loved by all. My deepest condolences to his children, family and friends. The medical community has lost a truly gifted man. Rest in peace Phil. You will be remembered always for your profoundly excellent work and kind heart.
Maria Messina
July 27, 2022
I worked with Phil for more than 20 years at Columbia. From the beginning, his dedication to patients, intelligence, rapier wit, and the sense of camaraderie he instilled in the team made him stand out. He was, so often, the voice of reason in a stress-filled room.
Sending my sincerest condolences to his family-especially to his children, who he loved so very much.
Gloria Turner
July 27, 2022
I remember having several interactions at the Columbia with Dr Graham over the years. Always respectful. Always kind. May his memory be a blessing to his family and friends. My sincere condolences to all.
Donna Johnson
July 27, 2022
I adored Dr. Graham. He was the best partnering physician a nurse leader could have but most of all the best MD a child could have. He is an amazing, kind, brilliant soul and he will be missed.
Courtney Baron
July 27, 2022
It is hard to find the right words to say here. I´m so grateful to have his kids in our world, they are such spectacular humans. Sending so much love to the kids and deepest sympathies to his parents and siblings.
Josh Hyman
July 27, 2022
I have wonderful memories of sharing patients with Phil. His clinical insights, caring and humanity always shone through. I missed him when he left Columbia. That sense of missing, and loss, is now magnified. His children should know he was a great doctor to his patients, a wonderful teacher to his residents and a magnificent example to all.
Harriet McGurk
July 27, 2022
I have fond memories of Phil all the way back to residency. He was always kind and thoughtful, fun to be with. I'm so sorry we have lost him. All the best to his family.
LeWanza Harris
July 27, 2022
Philip was physician leader dedicated to improving the care and experience of all pediatric patients at NYP-MSCH. I will always remember his laughter and smile. Sending condolences to the family.
Ali Mencin
July 27, 2022
Philip was not only an outstanding physician but a compassionate colleague. I have had the opportunity to work with many outstanding physicians at Columbia, but he was truly unforgettable and a treasured member of our community. I will cherish the memories of his kindness, his humor and his enthusiasm. On behalf of myself, my family, and the division of gastroenterology, I offer sincerest condolences.
Natalie Neu
July 27, 2022
I was heartbroken to hear of Phils death. I loved working with him as a fellow and as an attending. He was charming, funny and always right. I always appreciated that he called it like it was. I loved having him and his family to our house for parties - knowing that someone else´s children also loved to create chaos. He adored his family. He will be missed. RIP
Steven Greene
July 27, 2022
It´s been 20 years since I have spoken to Philip and I can still say today that the impact he has had on my life is as strong as it was then. I know that many people that come across this post will relate to that feeling. Philip was truly a special person that was able to make a real and lasting impact on those with whom he came into contact.
Denise Connolly Hoyt
July 27, 2022
Phil and I worked together in the pediatric ED at Columbia, and I knew that it was going to be a good shift when he was on. Phil was compassionate and empathetic with patients and families and respectful to all those he worked alongside. When I moved into a leadership role, I was always happy to see Phil in meetings, because I know that I´d have one person in the room to share a laugh or funny (snide) comment with. Phil was incredibly smart, down to earth, funny and most importantly a genuinely nice person. My condolences to his family, especially his children. RIP Philip Lamar Graham III
Philip G Grieve
July 27, 2022
Knew Phil well as we shared our name! A great team player at Columbia and all around nice person. My best to his family.
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July 27, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with Phil´s family and especially his children.
It was an honor to have known him as a colleague and a true friend. He was loved and respected by everyone for his unique blend of knowledge, kindness and humor.
Over the past year, I was fortunate to collaborate with Phil again. He was the thought leader, the voice of reason and the one who made coming to work fun.
Phil made a difference in so many people´s lives and almost everyone has a story of the time they "had to call Phil".
He will missed but never forgotten.
Claudia Ghigliotty
July 26, 2022
I send my deepest sympathy to Philip´s family and loved ones. My heart is with you all. I will never forget what an amazing friend and what an exceptional human being he was. We had a friendship that lasted through the years. I will miss him so much.
Christine Lombardo
July 26, 2022
I first met Phil in CHONY ER as a resident. I was dubbed "The most adequate nurse " by him years ago and he would just scream it at the top of his lungs across the hallways and ER for many many years. I called him my most adequate doctor. It stuck for life. Phil was Al aways passionate about medicine and not only infectious diseases. I worked with him in Pediatric ER and his passion for humanity far surpassed that of most ! He did not work, he experienced the situation from his heart and his soul. There was nothing he would not do for his patients, families, colleagues, friends . He adored his children and always told me stories. I am deeply saddened and grieving ! Phil, my most adequate doctor , you are tattooed in my soul for life. Until we meet again, fly high, rest easy , heal the angels our blue eyed angel. You were truly one of a kind and will be missed by many
Geoff Shea
July 26, 2022
Sending prayers to Philip´s family. I´ve only recently met Philip and was shocked to hear of his passing. Philip was always talking about his 2 daughters and son and how excited he was to head to Maryland and relax on a boat after working to set up the Medical practice. R.I.P. Philip. Hey
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