Phillip Allen Messer

Phillip Allen Messer obituary

Phillip Allen Messer

Phillip Messer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 1 to Nov. 8, 2023.
Phillip Allen Messer, a devoted husband, loving father, cherished brother, and dear friend, passed away on October 27, 2023, at the age of 58. He is survived by his wife, Frances "Busby" Messer, their son Timothy, and their daughter Bonnie. His sisters, Pamela "Messer" Githens (FL) and Patricia "Messer" Yue (NC). His Nieces and Nephews are Anthony Winters, Kriztina "Winters" Stearns, Nikita "Winters" Hollis, Maya Scarlett Winters, Lillian Athena Winters, Jazmin Elizabeth Stearns, Hazel Grace Jordan, Waylon Hollis, Carter Hollis, Elija Hollis, Charlie Kay Hollis and Juniper Storm Hollis. Services will be at Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Wilmington, NC on Saturday at 3 PM. See Andrew's Mortuary & Crematory, Wilmington, NC for more details.

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Tonya Gore

December 5, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always Phillip. You were not just a best friend, you were a brother and you will be in my heart forever. Go rest high on that mountain.

Lynn Wright

November 11, 2023

Phillip was a good man. I met him years ago through his sister Patricia. Any time I would visit Trish he would come over and we All would play games. Sometimes he and Frances came to concerts with me and Trish. He was fun to be around I will miss him. RIP Phillip

Candy

November 10, 2023

Phillip is a Southern Gentleman, a forever friend, and a truly loved brother I can attest to that. You are a treasure for heaven and will be missed here on earth...

James Mathews

November 7, 2023

Very caring and loving soul. Go be with the angels my friend my brother.

Ken Shook

November 7, 2023

I,m So Sorry Trish. My Deepest Condolences To You, And Your Entire Family. Peace In All Your ❤....

Dixie Grimes

November 6, 2023

One of the sweetest human beings to ever walk this earth. Condolences and prayers for all of his family. You will be missed.

Teresa Shepard

November 2, 2023

My deepest sympathies to the family. Phillip and I graduated high school together. he was a big jokester and super funny in school. He will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers for his family.

Marian Samion

November 1, 2023

Frances and family! I am so sorry for the loss of this awesome man.
I did not get to spend a lot of time with him, but I do know that Phillip was an awesome husband to my niece Frances. They cherished every moment they were together and for that I am thankful
RIP my dear nephew
Love Marian and tyler

Phoebe & Jackson Jordan

October 30, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to the family. We serve an awesome God and He will give you the peace that will surpass your understanding and allow the memories to comfort you as you as you reflect on those moments.

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