Phyllis Joan Handford

Phyllis Handford, know to us as "mema", is a song and a dance in one. She was caring, funny and as outgoing as one can be. She made friends everywhere she was, and even everywhere she wasn´t because people heard of her stories and fun nature. I didn´t know her as long as her kids nor did I see how she raised them, but I know she did the world justice. Each one of them, Rhonda, Troy, over beloved Bonnie, and Daryl are outstanding people who have done nothing but help people and enjoy the lives they´ve been blessed with. Her legacy lives on in the hearts of us all, rippling out in the world, forever and ever.

Dear Dee, Troy, Rhonda & family, please accept my condolences. So very sorry. Your mom was the best lady. May she rest in Peace. Love, Denise Vece

My sweet wonderful mom! You are forever a part of my soul Nothing can ever change that. My mother, my bestfriend and my teacher❤. Everything I am I owe to you. You gave me strength to carry on even in the darkest times. I will love you always. You are my heart. Rest in Peace mommy. Until we meet again. Your loving daughter,
Daryl

My wonderful aunt Dusty always loved the ahi out of you....you were so good to me, happy silly, friendly, loving, and caring, so much fun. Every time I would go to that house my childhood was a joy when I was there, you will never be forgotten.and thank you for letting me keep my dirt bike in your back yard when I was school lol uncle Bob wasn´t happy but you made it happen lol And my beautiful cousins mom did a fantastic job with all of you I love you all
Cousin Heath

Aunty Dusty used to tell me so many stories! One of my favorites was when she was younger she used to sing loud near her open window hoping to be discovered. I have been a performer many years and will hold that story with me every time I sing. I love you Auntie Dusty!

Mema, you were the best grandma ever. So many great memories of you taking me to feed the ducks and swans, sleepovers in bed watching Regis and Kathie Lee in the mornings, playing with Annie, vacations together with the whole family, singing to me all of the time, playing dress up with your jewelry and makeup, going to the beach and your favorite thing shopping , sitting at your fireplace waiting for the brownies to drop pennies, holidays together... you made my childhood very happy to be with you. You were my favorite. I love you more than you´ll ever know and miss you so much. I will forever cherish our memories, your sense of humor, your love, and your beautiful singing voice. You´ve given us all so much. A special thank you to my aunt DeeDee for taking such great care and going above and beyond to make sure her life was filled with all the things she loved all the way until the end.