Raymond Wm. Bence Jr.

Raymond Wm. Bence Jr.

Raymond Bence Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 10, 2009.
Bence, Raymond Wm., Jr. Suddenly June 5, 2009, Baptized into the hope of Christ's Resurrection. Predeceased by his parents Dr. Raymond W., Sr. and Margaret (nee O'Leary) Bence DDS; dear brother of the late Mary St. Pierre; brother-in-law of Raymond St. Pierre; beloved uncle of Michelle (Brent) Purnell, Jeannette St. Pierre, Julie (Keith) Kimberlin and Raymond St. Pierre III; our dear great-uncle, nephew, cousin and friend to many. Services: Mass will be celebrated 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, June 10, 2009 at Our Lady of the Holy Cross Catholic Church, 8115 Church Rd., Baden, MO 63147. Visitation was held Tuesday 4 to 8 p.m. at O'SULLIVAN MUCKLE MORTUARY, 13996 Olive Blvd. (Chesterfield). In lieu of flowers, donations to American Cancer Society preferred. Interment Calvary Cemetery.

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June 12, 2009

Michelle St.Pierre posted to the memorial.

June 10, 2009

Eric Bechtold posted to the memorial.

June 9, 2009

Tony Tumminello posted to the memorial.

Michelle St.Pierre

June 12, 2009

Uncle Ray, I loved you more then you will ever know and I am sorry I didn't make the time to spend more time with you while you were here. I miss you and would give anything to have you back. I hope you have found grandma, grandpa and mom and all of you are having a ball at your family reunion!! Until we see each other again...I LOVE YOU!!!

Eric Bechtold

June 10, 2009

I will Remember Ray forever I was his little buddy .

Tony Tumminello

June 9, 2009

God be with you,you were a buddy and friend
You will be missed greatly. Me and my son
Tony hold you in great regard. My deepest
condolences to the family...

June 9, 2009

I will remember Ray forever. I've known Ray since I was about 15 yrs. old since he worked at Fairview auto parts. He was something else best guy you would ever want to meet. My brother is Mike Thomas. Him and Ray were buddy; buddy! I use to call him Ray baby! I am so sorry for your loss And so sorry I couldn't make the funeral but I am disabled. May God be with you all! Pat Peiffer/Thomas, Fayetteville, IL

David Valentine

June 9, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

June 9, 2009

Was so sorry to hear of Ray's death. We attended the same schools early on. He was always a good and decent guy.

He is in our prayers.

Dave Layman

Angie Purnell

June 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I know your Uncle Raymond meant the world to all of you.

God's Blessings,
Angie, Julian, & Keegan

Bodine and Jan Behrman

June 8, 2009

We have lost a wonderful, fun loving, story telling friend that will never be forgotten. If you knew Ray, you loved Ray, you just couldnt help it.

Don Katashuk

June 8, 2009

I will remember Ray as always having a funny story to share, for going out of his way to help others, and for always making those around him feel very special. My deepest condolences to his family and close friends.

Tom & Cindy Horn

June 8, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ray was a great friend, and supporter, we owned a small meat market in Cahokia, he still came by and visited us in our home, after we closed the market.

Mark LaPlantz

June 8, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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