Raymond Charles Halliday

Raymond Charles Halliday obituary, San Francisco, CA

Raymond Charles Halliday

Raymond Halliday Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 7, 2024.
Obituary - Raymond C. Halliday 7-18-1963 - August 16, 2024

Raymond C. Halliday,(Ray/Earl Butter) 61, of San Francisco, CA passed away on Aug 16, 2024. He was born on July 18, 1963 in New Hartford, NY. He grew up in nearby Whitesboro, NY and went to the local schools including Harts Hill Elementary, Whitesboro Jr and Sr High. He went on to college doing his undergraduate work at the University of Fredonia, Fredonia, NY and the University of New Hampshire in Dover, NH. Ray graduated with an MA in English.

He is remembered by his friends and family as an incredibly funny, smart, compassionate, and talented person. He was a musician and a writer. He was part of 3 different bands beginning with No Such Animal out of New Hampshire and Boston. He then moved to San Francisco in the late 80's, and started the Band, the Buckets and in his later years, the Verms. He also published a book, The Boy Even the Dogs Didn't Like, a collection of his short stories which were published in various publications over the years.

Ray's work history began in Boston, MA at Northeastern University as an English teacher. He also liked to roadie for his favorite bands while there. He moved to San Francisco in the late 80's where he worked for Charles Schaub and then spent many years as a cab driver and later a transport driver at the San Francisco Airport. His last job was as an online English instructor for DeVry and Phoenix Universities.

He is survived by his sister, Kathryn Halliday Smith, and brother-in-law Daniel B. Smith of Merrimack, NH. He also has two nieces, Mandy L. Smith also of Merrimack, NH and Alicia R. Temple of Nashua, NH.

He is predeceased by his father, Robert Halliday of Watertown, NY and his mother, Dorothy Chapman Halliday, of San Antonio, Texas.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to local homeless shelters and soup kitchens in honor of Ray's generous and compassionate spirit.

He will be sorely missed by all who loved him.

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January 28, 2025

Melanie DeGiovanni posted to the memorial.

December 3, 2024

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September 24, 2024

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Melanie DeGiovanni

January 28, 2025

Ray was one of my favorite people ever, and certainly a favorite voice to sing with - from the buckets to the verms and everything in between. I am such a lucky person to have had him in my life. What a joy, that guy.

Mariko Ono

December 3, 2024

Just hearing his voice would make me chuckle a little and feel lighter, like he could commiserate. We played cards together with Dani and Kat when I lived in downtown Oakland after getting a divorce. He would play with my cat Mikey and when we got this new leather sofa and (very ashamedly), declawed our cat, Sheldon, Ray refused to sit on the sofa anytime he came over, in solidarity for Sheldon. Ray loved cats. I always think of him with Buster. I miss you, Ray!

Cora DeWolf

September 24, 2024

Hadn't seen him in many years. Had more contact with his parents. It's sad we cousins lose contact through the years.

Adrian Smith

September 17, 2024

Photo's taken in 2019 of Ray Charles Halliday at the San Francisco Legion of Art Museum.

Adrian Smith

September 17, 2024

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September 17, 2024

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Adrian Smith

September 16, 2024

My first memory of Ray is back in 2018. I was out riding my bike around Treasure Island, San Francisco. I rode past the weekend flea market and someone yelled out my name. I looked around to see someone waving.
It was Ray. He recognized me from the groups we both attended during the week. At that point, I was the new guy in town and Ray made me feel good by acknowledging me as more than a stranger. I stopped, and we shook hands. He was with people waiting in line to get in to go shopping.

As time went on, we would meet at his place on a weekly basis with our mutual friends, Richard, and occasionally Kristen, for dinner and a movie. We referred to it as Netflix Night. We also had a book club that would meet once a month. I still have plans for a Shakespeare club, but it has yet to unfold.

Before the Pandemic, Ray and I had memberships at Fitness SF. We both enjoyed using their SOMA gym. That was definitely quality time, well spent, at least twice, if not 3 times a week. We would remind each other to go. We were also part of a group of people who work out together, known as Trainers Coalition. A social club within the gym, with outdoor workout events and lunch or dinner afterwards. Those were the days!!!

Faye Mudge

September 7, 2024

I personally didn't know Ray but I know his family.
Many people who touched his life as he did also.

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