Raymond E. McIlhoney, Jr. obituary, 1966-2017, Stamford, CT

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Raymond E. McIlhoney, Jr.

1966 - 2017

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Debra Belanger

December 14, 2017

Joann, words cannot begin to express my deep sorry. I'm sending you lots of love and positive energy to help you and Ray's family in this most difficult time. God be with you.
Warm regards,
Debra Belanger

December 14, 2017

Love Always, Rest in Peace Ray...

Elaine Beck

December 12, 2017

Hello my name is Elaine Beck. I'm related to your family through Ray Sr's mother Marie Steinbrick. I will keep all you in my prayers in this difficult time, so very devastating. My sympathy to your family.

Fran Kimball

December 12, 2017

Ginny & family,
There are no words to express the sorrow in my heart. Raymond was treated like a son in this house. I will miss him so much.
With love and sympathy.

Kate Harries Anderson

December 11, 2017

Jane,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hold on to your wonderful memories during this difficult time and until you meet your dear brother again. Big hugs

December 11, 2017

Ray will be sorely missed by our entire family.May he rest in eternal peace. Bob and Bonnie Novak

Lisa & Chris Roberto

December 11, 2017

Jimmy, Noreen & family - You'll all be in our hearts and prayers during this most difficult time. With love and sympathy -

Jenn Brozak and Angel Mercado

December 10, 2017

Condolences and God Bless..Rest in Peace..

Michael Haray

December 10, 2017

MY CONDOLENCES TO THE MCILHONEY FAMILY. RIP RAY.

December 10, 2017

RIP Ray.....................Shawn and Sharon

Glenn Mraz

December 9, 2017

R.I.P. Driver

Matt Lawton

December 9, 2017

I am saddened to hear of Ray's passing...we all looked up to Ray as kids at Chapel Street and Flood, and although I fell out of touch with Ray since then, I always considered him my friend. My condolences to the entire McIlhoney family, I know he enriched your lives as he did mine. The world was a certainly a better place with him in it.

December 9, 2017

Bonnie, Bailey and Raymond - Sending lots of love, thoughts and prayers to you in this difficult time.

Cyndee Gabris XO

Bob & Becky Rocheleau

December 9, 2017

Dear John and Bethany, our condolences to the McIlhoney family, thinking of you all.

Dennis O'Brien

December 9, 2017

RIP old friend! Great memories growing up together in Stratford!

John Morgan

December 9, 2017

So sorry to hear of Rays passing he was a great guy thoughts and prayers to his family

Robin Balletto

December 8, 2017

Dear Ginny, John, Bethany and your family. Our sincerest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Athanasios Papastavros

December 8, 2017

Ray ride free my brother i'll miss you always with that little smile i know you will be looking down on us with A BIG heart till we meet Again Respect The Greek

Tyrone Owen

December 8, 2017

Terry, shocked to hear this news, by chance I had run into Ray a few weeks ago and we had a chance to talk for a while, it was good to catch up.
Sorry for the lose of Ray, God Bless..

John Karafa

December 8, 2017

Rest In Peace ..RAY

Ginette Allen

December 8, 2017

I will be thinking of you all at this sad time. God Bless
My heart goes out you to Joanne.

Laurie Penna

December 8, 2017

Joanne- So very sorry to hear of Ray's passing. Know that that my thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn his loss. I know God will grace you with peace and comfort in the days ahead. God Bless.

Tony Ofiero

December 8, 2017

JoAnn, My thoughts and prayers are with you and Family.

Rose and Lenny Colangelo

December 8, 2017

JOANNE.. I have no words...My deepest condolences to the whole Mcllhoney family. I am glad I was able to meet and spend time with Ray...He was a funny, great person, that loved you, Joanne and his family so much.

Michael Figula

December 8, 2017

My condolences to the Mcilhoney family and Joanne Dabrowski-Vitti. Ray will be missed by all that knew him, especially class of 84. God bless.

Mike Figula

December 8, 2017

My Condolences to Joanne and the Mcilhoney family . Ray will be missed dearly by all that knew him.

Margaret Preto-Rodas

December 8, 2017

In the quiet moments,
When the hurt is hard to bear -
May love become your shelter,
And the beauty of precious memories your comfort. Holding all those who knew and loved Ray in gentle thought and prayer.

Frank/Liz OHara/Seales-Sutherland

December 8, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sam Ndreu

December 8, 2017

My condolences go out to everyone who who loved and knew Ray!! Especially to his family! May you rest in peace on your Stairway to Heaven my brother. Always in my heart until we meet again

December 8, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Bettina Bronisz

December 7, 2017

Deepest condolences to entire McIlhoney family. Such a shock. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Dotti Bateman

December 7, 2017

Joanne, I am so sorry for your loss. I met you very briefly at Caswell Cove, but I knew instantly that you were special. Please know you are in my prayers.
Dotti Bateman

December 7, 2017

Dear Joanne and McIlhoney family, Sending my thoughts and prayers. Ray was a great guy and will be missed. I know he's rockin' in Heaven! So sorry for your loss.

Lisa Frat

Abbie Prevost

December 7, 2017

My heart goes out to the McIlhoney Family, Lennon family and Johanne. Ray's loving and fun spirit will live on in Heaven.
Sincerely and with love,

Janer Haffner

December 7, 2017

Ginny and Family-My thoughts and prayers go out to you.May God give you peace and comfort in this time of great loss. Janet Geary Haffner

The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home

December 8, 2017

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

December 7, 2017

Bonnie, Bailey and Raymond, words can't express how sorry I am about your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Susan Martino

Geoff La Bash

December 7, 2017

I'm so saddened to learn of the passing of Ray.
You are all in our thoughts.
We will never forget Ray.

Jennifer Broadbin

December 7, 2017

Dear McIlhoney and Lennon Family, I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Raymond. My sincerest condolences to you. Please just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

All our Love, Jennifer, Blythe and John Junior Broadbin

Theresa Nehez

December 7, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending healing prayers and comforting thoughts.

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