Richard Lee Lawrence

Richard Lee Lawrence obituary, Roanoke Valley, VA

Richard Lee Lawrence

Richard Lawrence Obituary

Published by Roanoke Times from Mar. 22 to Mar. 23, 2012.
Richard Lee Lawrence, 74, of Roanoke, died suddenly on Sunday March 19, 2012, as a result of an automobile accident. He lived a full life, and leaves behind not only his family, but many friends throughout the mountains of Southwest Virginia, Wyoming, Montana, Alaska, Africa and the far reaches of the world. He was a member of St. John's Church his whole life, where as a young man he served as a Crucifer. He attended faithfully where he sat in his favorite seat on the back pew every Sunday since December, 1992.
He was born in Roanoke on January 12, 1938, to Virginia Porter Lawrence and Reinsley Alan Lawrence. He grew up in South Roanoke, and had a job delivering the morning newspaper. Beginning with that first newspaper job in the late 1940s, he was proud to say he worked every day since. During that first job he often wrapped his legs in newspapers to protect them from the dogs that roamed free in South Roanoke during that time. He continued to figure out a way to get the job done and solve the problems at hand in his lengthy legal career. When he was 15, he worked for Jefferson Electric, where he helped wire the radio tower that stands today beside the Mill Mountain Star.
He was a member of Scout Troop 21, where he ultimately attained the rank of Eagle Scout, an achievement he was proud of his entire life. He often said that the skills and the values that he learned as a scout were as important as any other part of his education. He went to Crystal Spring School, Lee Jr., three different military academies, and eventually landed back in Roanoke, where he graduated from Jefferson High School. He went on to Roanoke College, served in the United States Marine Corp and then graduated from Washington and Lee School of Law. Throughout his life Richard was a passionate student of American History, with a special interest in the American Civil War, but also thoroughly enjoyed immersing himself in the various cultures of our world.
After graduating from law school, he began his legal career and worked as an assistant to Leroy Moran, who was then the Commonwealth's Attorney, and then went into private practice. Years later, when the Commonwealth's Attorney, Sam Garrison, was called to Washington, D.C. to serve President Nixon, Lawrence was appointed to be the Chief Prosecutor to finish Garrison's term. He thrived in this job and began to become well known as a passionate lawyer.
At the end of his term as Commonwealth's Attorney, he reentered private practice, where he remained for the next four decades, practicing with the firms Lutins, Lawrence, and Shapiro and then Lawrence and Lumsden among others. During the last 17 years of his life, he practiced with his son, David Denton Lawrence, at the Lawrence Law Firm. For many years he was known as one of Roanoke's premier divorce attorneys. He was known for his work ethic, often working well into the night. He once attempted to retire, moving to his Craig County farm to drive his antique tractors. After three days he returned to work under the guise of helping his son, where he remained, and found a new found passion for the practice of law, taking on the causes that were dear to him. He often took cases that no one else would consider, many times at little or no charge. It may have been his dedication to those people who did not have an advocate or a voice that he is best known for. From the time that he was the littlest kid on the block and got beat up by the neighborhood bullies, he always had contempt for bullies, the arrogance of authority, and a love of people. He was a pillar of the legal bar in the Roanoke Valley. Over the course of his long career he tried thousands of cases, many of them notable but many more known only to those whose lives they affected. Along the way Richard enjoyed mentoring dozens of young lawyers, who are now defense attorneys, prosecutors and judges throughout the area.
He also loved nature and the great outdoors. This may have started when he was a young boy, and had a pet alligator. Unfortunately the alligator turned out to be vicious and escaped from his house. His uncle Jack gave him his first gun and took him hunting, and those early experiences in the woods led to a life-long love of hunting and the outdoors. His hunting took him to many countries around the world, on six different continents, but it was always the adventure of the trip, and the experience of the different cultures and peoples that he enjoyed the most. In 1971, he took his young wife on a safari to live and hunt with the Bushmen of the Kalahari Desert in Botswana. He especially enjoyed living among these amazing people. Their ancient and simple life made a lasting impression on him. This appreciation carried into the way he lived his own life, motivated not by wealth but by the experiences he could have.
He spent most of his free time at his farm in Craig County, where he enjoyed driving his antique tractor and planting fruit trees. His farm was not a place where he grew a particular crop, but an escape from the trappings of modern life, and a peaceful place to spend time with his family. He loved to walk the mountains alone with his birddog, a shotgun, and a sandwich in his pocket, and thankfully was able to do this up until the last day of grouse season this year. His farm also became a kind of retirement home for older dogs, donkeys, horses, and his favorite mule, Ruby. Richard enjoyed hard work, people and the outdoors and his farm is where he was truly able to enjoy all three. This was how he spent the last day of his life. And for that his family is grateful.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Virginia Porter Lawrence and Reinsley Alan Lawrence. He is survived by his former wife and mother of his children, Ellen Lawrence van Thiel; his son, David Denton Lawrence and wife, Paige and their children, Anna Mitchell and Hudson James Lawrence; and his daughter, Julia Haynes Lawrence. He is also survived by his fiancée, Debbie Ballard and her children, Justin Ballard, Jessica and Jonathon Delumyea; brother, William James Lawrence and wife, Wanda; nephew, Allen William Lawrence and niece, Amy Lawrence Moretti and husband, Moses.
Memorial Services will be held at 2 p.m. at St. John's Episcopal Church on Friday, March 23, 2012, with the Rev. Barkley Thompson officiating. The family will receive friends immediately following the service.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Boy Scouts of America by contacting Helen Ferguson at the Roanoke Boy Scouts office at (540) 777-7970. Every donation large and small counts. Online condolences can be made by visiting www.oakeys.com.




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RL

April 20, 2025

Happy Easter. I just lost my message to you, so I will try again. I thought I was pressing submit, but it was cancel. I couldn't see it correctly. I didn't make it to sunrise service as I should have, even though I always enjoy it, especially the sprinkling. Then I didn't go to the next service, in spite of the continued nudging. Yes, noted, and appreciated always. I had no excuse. I did have cataract surgery Thursday, and I now wish I had done it sooner, as I can see better than I have since before 3rd grade. At that time I would walk into shopping center columns, and my family thought I was clumsy. They called me Lucille Sweeney from the funny papers. My mother, the nurse felt terrible when she realized it was because I could not see. I would not tell the teacher that I could not read her fuzzy writing on the board, because I didn't want to make her feel bad. Measles have been an issue again with our first case now in Virginia. My mother always thought my reading while I had measles caused my worst in the family vision. I am hopeful not to have night vision issues and to be able to see as well or better than I am with one implant and one eyeglass lens. No longer will the world be my own abstract painting just by removing my glasses, so I will have to make my own. I had already signed up for an encaustic class with my friend and former co-teacher. She does wonderful work in multiple mediums, and Solonevich's lion has been replaced with her Maury River, which I enjoy daily. My friend brightens each day sharing beauty with the world through a daily gift. I am fortunate that several people do that in my life. Someday I will do as much. Senator Corey Booker did send a message with a musical work I had shared that I admired. Interesting that he used the same work as a message to make us all think about better ways. The arts always have a unique power to communicate. I saw an exhibit at the Taubman on its closing day. Julie had been a sponsor, and it was wonderful. I should have allowed even more time than I did. However, I was able to see through the exhibit a square in Bosnia-Herzegovina that my brother and sister-in-law would have visited when they were missionaries there. It felt as though the art and visuals were flowing through me. I thought the pandemic was our biggest lesson, and certainly we had opportunity to learn much, but we still don't have it yet. Otherwise we would not be living through such stressful crazy times. Admittedly I am spending too much time taking it in and responding with letters. The form letters I have received failing to address many points made in return do not make it evident my messages have made an impact. While much needs to be fixed, the way is important. Chaos can have a benefit, but this feels beyond that. Upstairs you are currently pulling out all the stops to get us to wake up to better. I hope we comprehend how to do that soon and collectively in a way that works for good. The getting there feels really hard. Our country doesn't feel like our country, and the world is also out of sorts. There has to be a better way for all, and it needs to arrive soon in a non-confrontational way. Some are remembering that the way is just as important as getting there. That remembering is needed from all. Today perhaps I just needed a quiet day aside from the nudging. I don't even know if the kids and puppies had the Easter egg hunt they enjoyed so much last year. Without question we do have a Savior, and he is our hope always, especially in these times. He is a reminder for us all to take in today however we need to do so. What is an Easter celebration like upstairs? Something to look forward to someday. You are thought of on this day you cherish. I trust you enjoyed the service, the light shining through the window, and all the joys of the day. I am thankful for the sharing.

Rita Evans

January 12, 2025

Happy Birthday. Assuming you don't age anymore, I am close to catching up. Yesterday in a fifteen minute exploration off my path I found a place you would have loved. Not sure if it was in Fishersville or part of Waynesboro. I knew my oldest would love the nutcrackers, but the giant Santa with an equally large reindeer next to it was all you. Definitely the best vision I have seen of a Christmas toy shop. I was very glad to have stumbled upon it and to have viewed some glorious heavenly skies on my trip back home from sending my cousin off to your realm. Got to drive through some pretty farmland on my way to Charlottesville from Ashland. Gratitude the weather wasn't as brutal as it has been. Things are better now down here, although still not what we would hope for. My cousin died from COVID and pneumonia. You remain in thoughts, even as I read today of progress made with a consultant for Purdue Pharma pleading guilty to destroying evidence. You did much good in this world, the kind that still echoes in lots of lives. I am confident that between fishing, hunting, and any new hobbies you are still watching over and encouraging the best for us all. Whatever you enjoy up there, do it all before the day is over. Probably that big grilled hamburger and maybe the unique trip to the ice cream shop.

RL

June 18, 2023

Happy Father's Day Above. Yes, you were in thought at Easter as well, all of Easter. I love this time of year, and I really only dred winter. I know I should learn to appreciate it, but the cold and I do not get along. The older I get it becomes even more of an issue. I have done a little planting, but lots of yard work. It never ends. My oldest had his birthday last week. So hard to imagine how fast time is passing. He had gotten a new grill and was excited to cook out. It had worked perfectly the night before for seasoning, but somehow pellets got stuck and the fellows all took the mechanics apart until they finally got it all working perfectly. Everyone said the burgers were so good that they were well worth waiting for. I remember you once telling me about the wonderful burger you had eaten the night before. It was at a family celebration as well. It might have been Father's Day, or it could have been your birthday. It was as though you could still taste it and were delighting in just thinking of the time shared. Definitely we were both blessed with our children, and you with a grandchild too. I am not pushing that with mine, but maybe it will come eventually. I took my time having my own, and while that meant I didn't always have the energy I might have needed, they still keep me feeling pretty youthful even now. Gratitude abounds that they have grown up happy and as good men. Hope that all the things you would do and celebrate on Father's Day in this world are available in yours. Have a good one and know that you are missed. Blessings and thanks.

RL

April 17, 2022

Happy Easter Dear Sir! Spent time out in a garden with friends yesterday. It felt just like the perfect Easter outing following an outdoor labyrinth walk. I found myself wondering if you could roller blade it. Definitely continue to need lots of help to the world to get right, so do what you can. Blessings and thoughts always. RL

R L

March 18, 2022

Another year has passed. I worked in the yard today. The weather was wonderful with incredible moving clouds and a beautiful sunset. The mountains were a purple treasure. I love the warm days and appreciate more time with daylight outside.

Last night I noted green lights for St. Patrick's Day illuminating part of the Hotel Roanoke. I stopped and took some photos. An artist friend sends daily gifts of her incredible photos and art. She sent a message that reminded me of a song I had forgotten, Irish Lullaby. I used to sing it, and I think it was one I used to play on the banjo long ago. I bought a painting she did of the Maury River, and I just love it.

I took my Solonovich lion print down to hang it. I'll need to find a place for Mr. Lion. Solonovich's house and studio went on the market today. I once considered a cottage rental among those he had on his land that opened to a large rock patio of sorts. It is no wonder he and my Dad partnered in projects. They both had that eye to appreciate the natural terrain and sculptural form. Dad's rock still graces one of his apartment projects that is pretty run down at this point. I never pass it without thinking of all the clever ways he and Mom decorated it for holidays. Pretty sure it was an Easter Bunny at one point. Indeed at the time Dad bought the property no one else saw it's potential which was typically the case with sites he selected. It was a known as a teenage make out spot. It might have been his time surveying or farming or even his military travels that helped him know how to turn an ugly piece of land into a wonder. You will have to ask him while you are fishing or hunting together or even planting. He had a green thumb. Are there blueberries up there?

It has been interesting as my oldest and his wife seek their first house. The first house suggested to them sold while they were away skiing. It was the house I lived in from the time I was in 6th grade until I finished high school. From it I could see the entire valley, and I called the valley my constant Christmas tree. I still love those views. They had added a full kitchen on the lower level, a small deck off the kitchen, and enclosed the porch in glass. Otherwise it was just the same, including the fallout shelter. I told my son about that. He had never seen a home equipped with one, and it would be interesting to know how many homes were built with a shelter and how many still exist. Since then three houses I have always loved have come available. Only one is a possibility (others are pending), but my daughter in law loved it too. Not the best value, but there don't seem to be any of those now. The house was moved to make room for the Salem Post Office years ago. It is a Victorian, the second in their list so far, although not a style they were seeking.

We bought a new Victorian in Indiana. It wasn't for sale when we moved there,but I picked it as my favorite without even seeing the inside and while we were renting it was listed and we bought it. The house we left here that I loved to was for sale again when we moved back. It was a longer drive for me and my daily drive was long enough even from where I am.

Hopeful for better times ahead, but so much that is strained all over this earth world. Many have joined you upstairs. We could use more wisdom and better guidance down here, so perhaps that positive heavenly energy can find it's way into our lives. We have failed to embrace heaven on earth, and I wonder if some would welcome it if it was an option for them.

My family is well and continuing to love the blessings of each day. Your little one was baptized, and I know that you were beaming. I am anxious for time at church and supporting others. I am anxious to have my shoulder back to the normal I remember. Too many friends with health issues and surgeries. I actually went to a movie with my oldest and his wife, the first in more than two years. It was Batman and the voices reminded me of the first one. There was Penguin and Riddler, but no Joker, Mr. Joker.

Much to share some day, but for now this will have to do. So much that you graced others with, so much said with few words or even a look, and always delivered more to think about and a laugh or two.

Blessings always.

R L

April 4, 2021

It's Easter, a favorite time for you. Some of the plants have flowered and more are budding. It is a beautiful day, and while things are improving I still don't know if we have learned what we should have. Hopefully the concept of family and others will be larger in our thinking. I hold much gratitude. All are well at this point, and that is such a blessing. Not sure I will ever be comfortable taking a flu shot again in the future, but for now it isn't an issue to worry about until next fall. Fortunately I have made progress, even if I am just anxious for normal and comfort. It will be interesting to see if we follow through on improving our ways of doing the daily bit. I have put very little mileage on my car in the last year, and for some time the roads were far less traveled. It seemed a good thing. It is amazing what can be accomplished right from home if we choose to do so. Today is my Dad's birthday. For him it is a double blessing. Be sure to wish him a happy one for me. By now, I am sure if you haven't been hunting together, you have at least done some fishing. Celebrate all the gifts of heaven and earth, and rejoice from your perch. I am trusting daily, and I am doing my best not to get in trust's way. Filled with gratitude and thanks.

R L

January 12, 2021

Happy Birthday. Very glad you are not witnessing much that is happening in this realm, at least from here. I could never have imagined such a time. You would likely handle it better than most of us have. I have been blessed so far, and family is safe. Much improvement is needed in thinking. Hope society can find a way to greater kindness, care, and peace. Wish I could send you some of my favorite ice cream, but maybe you can beam it up from my thoughts. Keep us all in prayer down here and focus on us getting things right as quickly as can take place. Whatever you are creating up there, stop and look in on all that held meaning in this realm and know all you meant to many just being yourself. Some day there will be new conversations.

R L

April 9, 2020

It is almost Easter. I always think of it as your favorite. I watched as they changed the alter tonight, and I enjoyed the music, as well as celebrating LoveFeast in a different manner than is typical. Almost 2,000 people globally by computer. So much to think of at this time. Neither of us would have ever thought of facing a time such as this. Thoughts naturally turn to family and worry for them. Pray with me that all remain safe and in his love and care. Pray for solutions and wisdom and leadership, and then pray that we learn and do better. Pray for our valley and surrounding area. I have been reading and writing (making pleas is really more like it) and hoping they are listening. It has felt like what I was meant to do, and I have met those times before in similar fashion. There has never been one this critical. Wish there were better options for those dear and close. I have said what I can say and will hope that is enough. May Easter morning bring greater peace. May our actions in this earthly setting bring safety and a better world. An Easter miracle would be a wonder of Praise for our Loving God. I am counting on your assistance from your place above. Be with us all.

R L

March 18, 2020

It is interesting that I finally have two days off in a row. They are today and tomorrow. A heavenly memory accident I suppose or maybe you are still in control of some things earthly. This morning I have read a little more of the book Being a Beast. I would not have likely picked it up without your influence. Interesting combination of intelligent thought regarding animal presence and depth of exploration, language, life, and other thoughts. The author is a veterinarian and holds an interest in acupuncture. I remember our discussion of eastern and western medicine. He holds a doctorate in medical law and ethics from Cambridge and to this point and to date it is the most elevated work I believe I have ever read. I am impressed although not yet through the entire chapter on the badger, but close. The writer has written deeply regarding many things including community. Somehow I think the book addresses our constant regarding words and actions. We have at present a lesson that we must get right. People must come together to protect one another and learn what is truly important. I wish my boys were in another profession at this moment, and there are days when I wonder if it would be best just to walk away myself. Fortunately at this time it is only those of us that are older that they state are at highest risk. You can feel the stress in people, and some understand that you do the best you can and forget the rest. You would have likely had all that were important to you prepared and have withdrawn to the safety of Craig. Still so much I wish I had learned and knew how to learn. My focus is often not well chosen, but at times it is on target. Family is key and that I well understand and embrace-my true blessings and gifts. God is our champion. He wants us to be all we can be. Like you, I am going to get back to the business at hand, but you are in thought until that parallel universe portal reveals itself. Blessings in your day and appreciation of all you gave while here and that remains in this earth world.

R L

January 12, 2020

Happy Birthday. Not sure what a birthday is like up there. Maybe everyday or even better. Hope so. You would have thought the world would have changed in all this time, but it really seems much the same. I continue to limit what I allow in mine in many ways. It seems the only way to keep things as positive as possible. I still like people and have hope for us to triumph with and for God. Everyone close is doing well, but busy. I suppose that is good in some ways. Wish the boys didn't have to drive so much, but then they are young, and I certainly did my share of the same to keep things flowing when they were younger. Sometimes I am amazed to think of all I packed in a day. Laughing that I can actually say that to you, the one who appeared to never stop. Grateful to have limited my personal drive time for the present, although there are options out there that could make that pleasant and varied. Open to things that enrich the spirit. The boys like what they do and are happy and very talented. They are good leaders and enjoy people. They are continuing to grow in their own way. That is a joy. It is so different to sometimes now ask for their advice as I move through life. I still need grounding at times and other views. They are thoughtful and gaining great experience. I am a proud Mother and continue to have gratitude for your guidance that never let me give up in times that were trying. I am grateful for all your challenges that made me laugh. I so needed that. Never expected to spend my days as I do now, but perhaps it doesn't matter what we do, but how we try to do life. Without question, I get lots of exercise, more than I would expect at this point. You would laugh if you are watching my daily walk and likely be amazed at times. Anticipate greater choice eventually, and perhaps will discover my best in time or just greater rest and contentment and time for thought. Wonder if I will ever capture time for that which would offer the richest experience. Dad used to say we are all given the same 24 hours. I wonder how we make those hours count for the most. Still think the creation of something of value, be it art, great words, a memorable kindness, service that offers positive transition is the goal. Still feel the experience has value if I could find a means of transition often discussed and help people to understand how we fail to offer youth the best options. That part has still not changed enough. A friend yesterday told me about a young woman with an ill child being seen here. The woman is a single Mom from Bristol and had her other children taken away from her, because she is still trying to hold things together with no good options and choices. Friend and I talked about it, and she will try to find out more and how we might help. Still so many times that as a whole we fail to provide the best focused on our young ones and their support which would do much to change the world. Am fortunate to meet many that reconnect and share we had some good times during time allowed. That is a blessing. Wonder how your blueberries are doing? I planted some, but I don't yet have the expected success in that realm. I will try to find some way to celebrate your day down here. Tweet me that you found a brilliant way to celebrate upstairs. Let's both make a wish as we blow out your candle for this year's celebration.

frank austin

March 14, 2019

I remember Richard as a friend and neighbor. He loved old VW bugs, Pick-up trucks,and could be seen tending flowers behind his office.He was a pall bearer with me for Noel Spencer who was my best friend. I will NEVER forget his kindness. A truly remarkable man,and a great Lawyer too!

Zachary Bowman

March 13, 2019

Richard was the best all around

April 2, 2016

Easter just passed, and it is Melanie's birthday. I didn't get by to remember as typical, but I did remember. Just too busy this week to get by. The busy part is probably a good thing at this time of year in a way. I was with some high need youngsters this week when I should have had a break, and then I worked until late each night. The kids all touched my heart. You would have liked them as well. They worked so hard and did their best in spite of challenges. Last night was non-stop and high demand. Somehow, I need to learn the lessons you provided to improve what I offer the world and accomplish.

My life is primarily about people, not work, but it doesn't look or feel like that, and I must remember family. It doesn't mean that I can't choose to be of benefit to others (to be purposeful), but I must remember that family and God's work is the priority. Some questions as to next priorities and where to assert choice and what choices exist.

Sometimes it is so hard in this earthly world to know where to place our time or how to gain those choices. I think it was a problem we both struggled to conquer. If I could re-assign the time in the past, I would choose to do so, and I would take more risk. For certain, I would live by the words on the door. I hope I do. Somehow, we both wanted to meet more needs than sometimes seem possible.

I still want to get it right, and I think you did, too. I hope to get it as right as I can before I have the peace of life upstairs. The world seems to expect so much and to have so many demands.

I remember you always being as anxious to answer the phone as I am. For me, I want to stop the ringing, but for you it seemed more, an anxiousness to solve problems for others. So many humorous conversations witnessed, yet always you remained to some extent the same. Perhaps, now you understand my speaker phone demands. Expect you got it before. No matter, I appreciate the fact you indulged me in that. Probably no one else demanding enough to challenge your habits.

Your little one is so spectacular and celebrated your favorite service very early. He is already quite the politician. Grateful for the occasional opportunity to view him growing up and to know how proud you would be.

Clearly, he is loved, and it is my hope that the attention I observe displayed to him by parents is what you showed for those most important to you. I know it was what you held inside. I know you were trying to get it right. There is no question that you are missed by many. I really doubt you understood the depth of care you brought, but I hope you had some concept or that if not, you now understand.

I'm not sure anyone could have lived up to all you put on your plate. My boys are busy and absorbed and responsible. I hope I set the appropriate example as life moves on. I like the boys' thinking and values,but I don't want them to miss the forest for the trees. If you can help the world improve down here from where you are, it appears it is time, not that it wasn't time when you ascended.

There was a brilliant piece in the Record, and it called for acting in God's way, not the world's way. We live in trying times. You would be disappointed in much that continues, so hopefully being where you are makes it better in terms of focusing on what must be the outcome. I wish we didn't have to feel the pain of the present in order to get to the mindset and action that is required. Do your best up there, and I'll keep striving from where I am. The rest you know.

RL

Cynthia Patsel

March 31, 2016

Richard I still miss you and love you one day we will meet in heaven as I know you are there looking down over us all. But to be honest I wish you were here to enjoy life with all of us.

RL

April 5, 2015

It is Easter. Your favorite, the promise of life, renewal. The window was beautiful and the little one was there early with loving guidance. Good to see. You are missing so much, so the work you are accomplishing must be very important. Erin is leaving for Austin and will be so missed. You remain so as well. Not sure how to help things remain as you would have wished. A day does not pass without you in thought, but that has been true for so long it is nothing new. Wish I could find that parallel universe or that heaven and earth were one. My boys are well and make me proud. Three years seems a long time. Too long.

RL

March 18, 2014

Still trying. Not sure the expectations on this side. "Pots and pans" I heard told according to Brother Lawrence, and it sounded like something you would have said. The speaker has that same depth carried, and I am sure you would be pleased your wisdom continues to carry weight here. Holding thought for you and all you touched in kindness and your own version of joy. Hopefully the rest is clear, and you are winning up there in the chess match to return us all to his side. Easter is near.

Lola

November 25, 2013

Fond Memories.

doris sigmon

September 19, 2012

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Wendy Ferguson

May 31, 2012

I just wanted your family to know you are in our prayers. I didn't know Richard that long, but the short time I did he gave me hope. I will never forget sitting in his office crying and within 5 mins I was smiling and laughing... He will be truly missed. He was a good man and always willing to help others in need and my son and I thank you for that. He was an angel on earth and now up above... Thank you for the opportunity to get to meet such a great man...

Kasey Myers

April 27, 2012

Its been a little over a month now since we lost you Dad and it hasn't gotten any easier for me because I miss you so much..You were taken too soon and not a day goes by that I don't think of you...I'll never forget when mom called me and told me what happened I was in shock and devastated I couldn't eat or sleep...But I know God had plans for you that none of us had a say in and one day we will all see you again..Dad this is not goodbye this is I will see you later you earned your wings in heaven now spread them and fly and always watch over us and keep me strong I love you and miss you Dad always and forever and I will never forget the conversation we had and what you told me I will keep it in my heart forever..I am proud to say you were my father and I am honored to be your daughter <3..gone but never forgotten.. R.I.P. DAD

Rita Evans

April 20, 2012

It has been hard to find words to write that could adequately express what your remarkable life presence meant. I am sure even these do not do it justice, but I promise to keep trying. We so often discussed the different communication styles of words and action.

With you, action won out every time. Rightfully so! While you could be dynamic in the world of words, you understood the importance of action, and you lived it each day with more passion and energy than most could fathom in a moment.

We all learned at your hands, and those lessons are timeless and enduring. Your new realm in God's presence expands a reach that was greater than most dared offer. Yours, even on earth, was pretty exceptional. Already, that expanded reach, the depth of meaningful understanding, and a spirit bigger than life are touching others in ways you would have liked.

Our dance began with a Bristol newspaper clipping retrieved from the trash by one of my mother's friends. It is among the treasures I retain of what seems a short experience compared to that you held with many, but which holds greater significance than one might expect.

The friend gave the article to my mother and said, “I think this is who your daughter needs.” She was right in more ways than could have been imagined. In an instant you were able to see the truth of the matter involving my boys, truths neglected and ignored by others. You didn't waste time with the surface issues that bogged them down and closed their eyes and hearts. You never failed to inquire regarding my sons' welfare from that moment going forward, and I am fairly sure you are enjoying being able to check that out on your own from your new found post. I remember you telling me you were going to go out into the woods to think about what we should do. I believed that was true, and I trusted that. I was comforted by that. The trust never left.

I have no question had you been there representing us from the start it would have been as you suggested; a different, honorable, accurate, supportive outcome that reflects the reality of the truth which can be seen echoed in our three lives as they stand today. You never failed to provide the encouragement that supported me in withstanding almost unendurable trials that I still almost wonder how I have faced. You made me laugh with your insight and in times that lacked humor. What a gift! God has been there, too, but your earthly support was more than a back-up plan.

In reading the fond remembrances from (words you would have embraced) the army, flock, herd, mass, multitudes touched who loved and cherished you, there is note of sinking down into the low chairs in front of your desk-the test. There were no accidents in the smallest details. I remember first walking in that office. The sinking chairs had been described to me in advance. In a moment, I noted the two solid chairs on level and to the side of your desk. I sat in the one farthest from you by intent. It was not long until I chose the one closest to you as my spot. I can remember a box being there one day, and while I can't remember for certain if I moved it, I think I did. Later, I was comfortable enough to even select at times those lower chairs. The relationship had been established, and I knew that place no longer mattered.

With all the dialogue exchanged, there are so many stories, so many questions, so many thoughts that didn't make it through the moments. I do remember when I first understood without question who you were and the significance of the dance. My enthusiasm for that designer flair reflected underneath the chaos of your work took me to Julie's room in the Design House Showcase. It held two small photographs. They spoke volumes that left with me that day and have remained ingrained within my spirit and memory. One was of you carrying your gun in typical fashion and hunting garb; the other was of your dancing shadow-larger than life-one unique to you alone. It was all I needed to solidify the ongoing role you would play in life.

I watched and admired that genius unfold over and over again. However, the man I knew never claimed it. There was a humility that was sincere and revered. As others speak of the fight to champion them, I find myself in a unique position. Of course you gave your all to the case I brought to you, but that was not sufficient. I found myself embroiled in a controversial matter, on surface poorly handled by superiors I respected. You knew that I loved children and loved the community I served. You knew the struggle I met at personal risk to protect both, even the child the community abandoned, attacked, and whose presence they believed a threat. You knew that my conscience called me to do no less than what was essential for all. You understood, because you held such conscience.

Never did I expect to learn so much more about law or to have to navigate such difficult waters without the backing of professional organizations who failed to live up to their promises. Nor, did I expect to learn those entities weren't even aware of weakness in their unmet assurances. Your promise was stronger. I never asked your involvement, and in your fashion, you didn't even allow me to know. You asked me for the information you needed, and you crafted the documents required to meet the demands of a three year case that only ended at the Supreme Court's door. All this was accomplished quietly, in the manner you reflected as the real man. You never spoke of it.

However, examination of the legal documents submitted did not substantiate a source untested in federal court. The words rang very familiar. You did not expect me to catch your authorship, but you were deeply pleased and smiled broadly when confronted with the truth. When I asked if you had acted on my behalf or for the locality, you told me you had done it for me.

Your nature would have covered us both, but it mattered that you, perhaps alone out of the world, knew me. I'd like to think in some way that was returned and that I will be able to live up to the faith, trust, and hope you placed in me and that we share for a better world.

The love you held for people was beyond grasp. When you told me we were alike, I hope that was included. I'm not sure I would have taken time to have named each animal head in your office, let alone remember all the names, but I am glad we shared the time to know that such personal intimacy was important to you and a task to be fulfilled. I am glad I thought to ask if they had names. I am glad I got to watch you hold a baby. It is in such gentleness that the grander view of magnanimity is shared.

My friend and yours, Morgan Griffith, wrote in honoring you that he did not know of your regular church attendance. You often inquired regarding the subject of my attended Sunday sermon. The message the day you ascended was of eros and agape love. Clearly, you represented the later.

The testimony of your life exemplified through so many is precious beyond measure. It is an expression of the hope that each day we will take those steps to do what is right no matter the cost. If each of those you touched will take the time to reflect, to offer the effort you gave to pay it forward, your life close at God's side will be completed sooner, as we see expedited progression to the day when Heaven and earth are joined as one. That day cannot come quickly enough. You are missed.

Our world, the country, and the people you loved are broken and in need of healing. You saw that. You were not afraid to look. You were not afraid to fight. You were not afraid to love. The back pew is in need of filling. “Never forget to love” is the one simple message you lived through example. It is on my door, in my world, and remembered through you.

“I've got to get on about my business.”

“I'll talk to you later.”

“I certainly hope so.”

Lawrence, this is Evans.

Richard, this is Rita.

Thank you.

April 18, 2012

Thanks Dad, for everything.

d a

April 13, 2012

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Barbara Sloan

April 9, 2012

Richard was a good man as well as a good lawyer. I have known Richard for years and I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Prayers are with the family. He will be greatly missed.

Jimmy Nichols

March 29, 2012

Little did we know at Jefferson High School that Richard, whom we referred to as "Big Deal" would go on to be the real thing. He was fun and happy guy, full of it, and always ready to go out on the town. I am sure he will be missed by all of those he helped and loved over the years. His family has a wealth of great memories to pass on down throught the years. What a guy!

Judy/ Jason Perrin

March 29, 2012

David and Family, My sincere condolences, You are in my thoughts and prayers. The good die young. Hang in there hold on to your memories.

Charles Bryant Edwards

March 28, 2012

Dear Mr. Lawrence,
In the hope and conviction that you will one day, in the resurrection, have the opportunity to read these many messages; Thank you for attempting to look into the hearts of your clients, as does Christ. We miss you.
Sincerely,

Denise Mitchell

March 27, 2012

I would be remiss if I did not write to the family of Richard Lawrence and let you all know how he touched my life. As an African American woman that grew up in Roanoke, I can tell you that he saw no color. As a young woman, I had the pleasure of working in the Commonwealth Attorney's office and saw Mr. Lawrence from time to time. He was very influential in encouraging me to go to college and press toward having a productive life. It's partly because of him and his continual encouragement that I am a legal professional today. He could be tough as nails, but I admired that. Mr. Lawrence was a great man and I am honored to have known him.

Frank & Brenna Rose

March 27, 2012

David and Julie, Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Richard was a very special person and it was such a pleasure to have known him all these years. Lots of memories were made that will never be forgotten. Richard was always great to be with on the farm and just visiting. If there is anything that we can help with, please let us know

Tami Moore

March 26, 2012

It was an honor to know Richard, he was a very caring man who has helped me alot in the last several months, I just hope he knows how he changed my life in SO MANY ways, he will be missed, and David and julie, if there's ANYTHING I can do for you, no matter what please let me know

Michele Bloodworth

March 26, 2012

Julie, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Anne Booze - Adams

March 26, 2012

My deepest thoughts, prayers and condolences goes out to the family, friends and associates. We have lost one of the best, truly one-of-a-kind, a legend.

Richard helped so many people and has left a lifelong impression on so many, including myself. I had the pleasure of working for Richard many years ago. Richard remained as a wonderful friend, attorney and advisor. We will all miss him.

Debra Wade

March 25, 2012

David,
It was an honor to know your Father. He was highly esteemed by everyone that met him and the long hours of work that he put in week after week was priceless to so many people.
Just knowing how close you too worked together, this will be a difficult season in your life, without him beside you, but I hope your memories will bring comfort in the days and years ahead .Thank you for sharing your Father with so many through the years that needed his wisdom to help them through difficult days. One night when my world seemed out of control, it only took a few words from him to bring things back into focus.He was a remarkable man.
I am very sorry for your lost.

gina bushway

March 25, 2012

I would just like to say how much I admire the women who worked for Richard at his law firm. Angie, Cathy, Melonie and Myra have shown great strength. I know they loved Richard and he loved them back. The other night, I asked Angie what she was going to do. She said we have lost our leader but we are going to continue and keep going. Richard loved to work and thats what we are going to do. I know it has been an honor to work for Richard and you will carry on. I thank all of you for always being kind and helpful.

March 24, 2012

Richard,my childhood friend, really was a Big Deal. Reading the many messages of love and gratitude is so beautiful and affirms what we all knew as kids,Big Deal was going to make a huge footprint in our community and beyond. I have so many wonderful memories of Richards family and all the crazy and wonderful times we(the great group born in 1938) had together growing up in a wonderful communtiy of caring parents who did not always know , thank God what their little offspring were up to. Richard will always live in our hearts. My love and prayers to his wonderful family Bobby Lynn( Fort Lauderdale)

Ashleigh Jordan

March 24, 2012

My deepest thoughts prayers and condolences goes out to the family and friends of richard lawrence. He has helped so many people and has left a life long impression on several peoples lives. I will continue to prayer for the loved ones that Mr. Lawrence left behind in the tragic time.

God Bless,

Michele Gunter

March 24, 2012

David and family,
My sincere condolences, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Richard was a kind, giving, and compassionate man. He was both a friend and colleague. Richard was a mentor (even though we practiced different professions), he taught me how to testify, courtroom skills, and how to be an advocate for my younger clients. He was there for me personally and professionally, and I knew I could call him if needed. We shared many, many cases together....and having an office across the street from The Lawrence Law Firm for several years was rather interesting. My younger client(s) liked to go to his office to look at "all the animals on the walls." Thank you Richard for all of your help, guidance, and just being there. I will see you again, in another time and another place.

Katherine Wallace

March 23, 2012

My heart breaks for you David, and Julie....your father was an incredible man. He gave me hope when I had none left...and gave me back my life.
He cared about my children and their well-being.I will always....always be grateful for the strength he gave me.
Such an amazing man....with a full heart and a spirit to match.
He was not only my attorney...but a beloved friend...
Sending you much love....and peace.
Katherine, Courtney and J.B.

Maria Roman

March 23, 2012

I am so sorry for the loss of your father, Richard; he was a wonderful person who I knew by working several years for the Roanoke City Juvenile Court. He will be truly missed. My prayers are with the family.

glenn campbell

March 23, 2012

Sorry for your loss if there is anything i can do let me know

March 23, 2012

The Gentle Giant. In all aspects of life. I too was given the treat, during the depths of despair, of a day under a blue, blue sky, sun shining, fresh air, tending to the young berry bushes and apple trees. When he took a shortcut with the horticulture, with a glint in his eye, he asked me not to tell the 'Superintendent' (David). What a giggle that was! I was so proud to have a man of his stature act as my advocate during dark times defending my integrity and honesty along the way. Long, long after my divorce he guided me, and my dogs, by overseeing every step of the way back to the bosom of my family. On the 3 hour drive to airport in DC his 'proxy' Harold and I shared stories about the impact he had made on our lives and others. My deepest sympathies go to David and Julie; Cathy, Angie, Melanie and every person who had the honour of Richard Lee Lawrence touch their lives. He will be missed. RIP Richard and, thank you.

Karen Sue Henley

March 23, 2012

Richard will always be remembered by me for making a difference in my life and the lives of so many others. Roanoke will never be the same without him.

Gail Hairston

March 23, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. We have been blessed to have known Richard and call him our friend.

March 23, 2012

Hubby and I had the honor of meeting and talking to Richard at Herb Horst's 80th birthday. He was a down to earth and a very pleasant man to talk with. We send our Prayers and Sympathy. Sock Velma Horst of Mobile, Al.

Brenda Gusler

March 23, 2012

Thinking of you during your time of sorrow. God Bless you all.

Mary Lou Prillaman-Lumsden

March 23, 2012

Richard was one of the most colorful characters I have ever met in my life, Period.
He gave my family a Brittany Spanial, dog that lived to be almost 19 years old. Jill was the best dog ever!

His family and loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sarah and Bill Alexander

March 23, 2012

My father (Monk Davis) thought the world of Richard and often commented that he was one of the finest people he knew. Bill and I feel the same way. Please know that your loss is felt by so many people touched by his wonderful character, amazing spirit, and passion for life. With deepest sympathy,
Sarah Alexander

Gary and Linda Flora

March 23, 2012

May thoughts of all Richard Lawrence meant-of the love he gave, of the good times spent-Bring you peace and comfort, too, and keep Richard Lawrence close to you. With Deepest Sympathy,Love, Gary and Linda Flora

March 23, 2012

Richard had the ability to make you laugh in the midst of a miserable, stressful situation. He actually made me lol in the middle of my divorce hearing. Thoughts and prayers to his family, I know you are proud of him.

March 23, 2012

He was a wonderful man that we could all learn from. He was generous and caring of those who were bullied and abused. My children and I would not be where I am today if it weren't for his help in court.

Donna Bryant-Mayo

March 23, 2012

Richard you will be sadly missed!

Donna Bryant-Mayo

March 23, 2012

"Richard, rest in peace". you will be sadly missed.
It had been some years that I didn't get to see you all. I'm glad I had a chance to talk to Richard, he was a great guy and a wounderful mentor, I trusted his advise, he always knew just what to say to make you feel better.
David, I'm so sorry to hear about all this. My deepest regrets to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

F. Perry Odom Jr.

March 23, 2012

To the Lawrence Family,
I didn't know your father but after reading the obituary I wish I had. I am a old friend of David Beidler who knew Mr. Lawrence and sent me a link to his obit. Mr. Lawrence sounds a lot like my dad who was also an attorney, hunter, and an active Boy Scout leader for over 40 years. Dad was also an advocate for those who had no one else. He once told me about a pro bono client who had been charged with poaching ducks and selling them. After Dad successfully defended the old fellow he told Dad "Lawyer Odom, I don't have any money but I'll be glad to pay you with some fresh ducks". Dad passesd away two years ago so I can sympathize with how you are feeling. I hope your Dad and mine can get together on the other side and swap huntin' stories. My condolences to ya'll and my prayers for your family. I'm sure he will be sorely missed. May God give you the peace that passes all understanding.

March 23, 2012

David, So sorry for your loss . We will
miss him very much. May your memories comfort you . Joe & Judy Looney
Craig County

March 23, 2012

Dare. Chas, Denise and I are all in Tucson, AZ. So sorry to hear about your Dad. I feel like I am in a terrible dream. Chas speaks so highly of you and please know we are all thinking about you and your family.
Felix Goodrum

March 23, 2012

David, What a great fellow he was - he always hugged me & gave me a kiss every time he came in my office. Thinking of you & your family & keeping you in my prayers. Alice S. Hall, Retired Clerk Franklin County

Rhonda

March 22, 2012

He will be sadly missed by many people. My thoughts go out to his family and friends.

Serina Ortega

March 22, 2012

Debbie,
I am so so sorry for your loss. I know you two made many wonderful memories together. Please know that you have many friends and family that love u and are here for you. ((hugs))

Nomi

March 22, 2012

Richard was a big help to me, when I was going thru an agonizing and terrible divorce years ago. He stood by me, when some that I knew would not. I will never forget him for that. My sympathies to those he left behind.

jennifer naumann

March 22, 2012

richard i dont know what to say.i know your in gods hands ,so i know your safe,my heart goes out to the family of mr lawrence,he was the best lawyer anyone could ever have,he knew his job well.he never met a stranger.he always open his doors andshowed people the way. your gonna be missed like crazy richard you was our king andnow your gods angel. but you will never be forgotten. i miss you my dear friend.

jennifer naumann

March 22, 2012

richard i cant belive you left us so fast .richard you was amazing person ,one of the best lawyers in the world.you was a hard worker ,you have known me for along time since i was a kid .you was like a father figure to me.i still cant belive your not with us now ,but you are in our hearts and souls ,you will always be in my heart because you was a good friend that nobody could ever replace,i remember plenty of times i would call you about different things that was going on in my life ,and you always told me to hang in there and i did and i took that advice,because you was always right .i know now god has and angel up there ,that loves him very much,and thats you richard,you was a very god worthy person ,and you never met a stranger,i know someday everyone is going to that great place called heaven and we will see you again,i was in shock when i heard that you was in heaven ,i couldnt belive it you was loved by so many people from here to everywhere,and i know my heart goes out to your family and wife and kids ,and grandkids because nobody can never replace you,because you was one of them people that people looked up to for advice,but you will be sadly missed alot and never forgotten ,im sorry this had to happen to you,i will see you later richard when i get there everyone will .god has a wonderful person there and that you was and god took you for a reason and thats because he loved you and he wanted you up there to do work so you rest in peace my friend ok .

WILLIAM TYNES

March 22, 2012

REST IN PEACE...

Karen Davis

March 22, 2012

My deepest condolences to the family and to all who loved Richard. I will always remember walking into his office for the first time as a young female lawyer in 1982 and feeling overwhelmed by the Back to Africa atmosphere. He was always a pleasure to watch in action and never boring.

Emmette Pilgreen

March 22, 2012

Rest in Peace my friend. Thanks for the memories, especially our many battles in court. I always enjoyed trying cases with you on the other side. We could fight like hell in the courtroom and always leave as friends. My prayers and condolences to David, Debbie and your whole family.

paula boone

March 22, 2012

sadly gonna miss you! god speed!

Geald Carter

March 22, 2012

David, Richard meant the world to me in a time that was so difficult. He gave me courage. I counted him as one of my most cherished friends.

BARTLETT

March 22, 2012

HE WAS A LEGEND IN THIS TOWN AN AROUND THE WORLD ....NO ONE WILL EVER BE ABLE TO REPLACE HIM ....GOD BLESS YOU RICHARD AN MAY WE MEET AGAIN SOME DAY ...

Sherry Reyes Brady

March 22, 2012

To Mr. Richard Lawrence family so sorry for the lost of a great man , He was a great lawyer .I needed help back in the early 80"s with my divorce an spoke with him he took my case an never charged me a dime ..every time he seen me he would speak an ask me how i was doing ..he will sure be missed by a lot of people ..God bless your family in this time of sorrow ..I know Mr. Lawrence is smiling down on all of us ..

joan clement

March 22, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss ur dad was such a wonderful man he helped me many times even when i didnt have money to pay for his services he will be greatley missed by everyone god bless you all and may he rest in peace

March 22, 2012

David and Julie,
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Your Dad was a wonderful person who was so very proud of you both.
Fondly,
Kelli Webb

TREY GREGORY

March 22, 2012

DAVID AND JULIE, I THINK YOU KNOW HOW MYSELF, ALONG WITH MY ENTIRE FAMILY, FELT ABOUT YOUR GREAT FATHER. I HAVE REFLECTED SO MUCH SINCE SUNDAY, AND I REALIZE, SOMETHINGS FOR THE FIRST TIME, HOW DIFFERENT ALL OUR LIVES WOULD HAVE AND COULD HAVE BEEN WITHOUT RICHARDS INVOLVEMENT. ALL THE OBVIOUS THINGS ARE EASY TO RECOGNIZE, OTHERS, SUCH AS HIM SECURING CUSTODY OF ALL FIVE OF THE GREGORY KIDS FOR MY FATHER, WHICH WAS THE ABSOLUTE RIGHT CALL AND BEST THING FOR US ALL, AND TO DO IT IN THE MID 1960'S, IS JUST AMAZING. THERE ARE TOO NUMEROUS THINGS TO LIST HERE, SO PLEASE KNOW WE WILL BE HERE FOR YOU FOR WHATEVER NEED ARISES. I WILL MISS THE SECURITY AND GUIDANCE OF YOUR DAD FROM THIS DAY FORWARD. GOD BLESS, TREY & FAMILY

Don & Mary Casey

March 22, 2012

Our deepest sympathies to the family members of Richard Lawrence. He was a great lawyer and a wonderful person. He will be great ly missed. Don & Mary Casey
Longs, SC

Katie H

March 22, 2012

Debbie, I am so so sorry for your loss. You have had such a rough year with the loss of your parents and now Richard. Just wanted to let you know that we miss your beautiful self at work and we are thinking about you!

Janet (Davis)Stallard

March 22, 2012

To all the Lawrence Family and Law Firm, My thoughts and Prayer are with you all. What a great guy! Will always remember Richard ridng around in his Vw around the area. Seeing him helping out people in Court. What a guy man! God Bless you all in this time of sorrow.

Greg Phillips

March 22, 2012

Your dad was a man who lived life as it was meant to be lived. In addition to successfully handling more cases in his career than most law firms, he always operated at the highest level. He was the champion to the friendless and touched thousands of lives. His character, charisma, common sense and lack of fear made for the perfect lawyer. It is impossible to describe his courtroom presence. You just had to see it to appreciate it. He was a friend to me and mentor. There is no lawyer my dad ever respected more or liked more than your Richard. They battled about every week for 40 years and at the Phillips office, we loved every case with your dad. I will never park in the volkswagon spot in Rke County...That spot should be enshrined. God bless..

Pam Messenger

March 22, 2012

My thoughts and prayers to the family. I knew Richard for many years while I was working for Roanoke City J & D Court. Richard was a "force of nature" and I always enjoyed seeing him. He will truly be missed. His passion for life was an inspiration and I will miss him.

Steve Smith

March 22, 2012

Over 35 yrs ago Richard gave me a wt set. That set was the foundation that later allowed me to receive a D1 football scholarship to App St. I grew up without a father and Richard was very kind to my family and me. So sorry for your loss.

Katie Thomas

March 22, 2012

My prayers are with you as you go through this difficult and trying time. I feel deeply blessed to have known Richard and will truly miss his wonderful humor and compliments about my paintings. There are no other shoes around that could fill the void left in our lives by the devastaing loss of Richard Lee Lawrence. He has always held a special place in my heart and has always had my utmost respect.

Troy Wilkes

March 22, 2012

David and Julie, it is a Great Trauma to hear of your father's passing. His legendary court prowess will be missed only to be seen through your dedicated talent, David. Julie continue spreading your beauty as Richard's love of life, nature and people will be seen through your presence. It is a sad day, but a pleasure to have known him and to know his gifts will persevere through ya'll.

Ginny Headen

March 22, 2012

David I am trully sorry about your fathers death. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

March 22, 2012

David, I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your dad. Though I did not know him well ( I met him once when you were at W&L) I am truly mesmerized by his obit. Clearly a good man. My condolences to you and your family.
Jerry Darrell - Lexington

Laura Butler

March 22, 2012

Thank you to the Lawrence Family for sharing Richard with us. I pray God gives you strength to get through this most difficult time.

Richard, Thank you for your fierce compassion and silly sense of humor. Your commitment, dedication and extreme generosity. Every returned and often panicked phone call to you. Your continued support and surrounding me and mine with the same fine qualities and intentional commitment to fighting for what is right and just. I will miss all of that and continue to be very grateful for the time you shared with me. Thank you for giving me a do-over, a chance to get it right. There will never be another you.

Semper Fi Richard. Sergeant Major – aka – Laura Butler

Rachel&Stacy Lucas

March 22, 2012

We are so very sorry for your loss sending prayers to your family

Steve Hebblethwaite

March 22, 2012

Thank you Richard. I have never forgotten how you reached out to me in my time of need. It was an honor to know you.

Teresa Huffman Martin Beckner

March 22, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Eugene Caldwell

March 22, 2012

To David, my friend, and extended family:
I returned from Israel yesterday to hear the sad news of your father's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. I will always remember him as a dear friend and a very caring person . He was so kind and I will never forget the great things he did for me. When I first met Your Dad, I was a basket case because of the divorce I was going through and all the stuff that goes with that. He called me one morning and told me to get up and get ready because he was coming over to my house to pick me up. He showed up in the yellow Volkswagon and asked me where I wanted to go so we could shoot guns together. We went down to a farm in Chamblisburg where I had permission to hunt. I took my black powder rifle and we took turns shooting that thing at cans and bottles. It was because of him and that trip to get my mind off of things where he began to point me toward healing. I will always remember that event and what Richard meant to me. He was definatly a great and a Godly man. I am so proud to have known him and proud to call him my friend.

Sue Huff

March 22, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Lawrence family during this tragic loss.I pray God will give you all comfort and peace

Jennifer McPherson

March 22, 2012

Many thoughts and prayers for you and your loved ones. The McPherson Family: Chris,Jennifer, Alexandria, Wyatt, & Jace

Jennifer Norton Johnson

March 22, 2012

To a family friend - thanks for the Christmas trees, the horse help, the smiles, the stern admonishments that I oft time deserved. Your generosity, kindness, and caring will be remembered. Your advice was always right on and the time you took out of your busy day to talk to me about my marital situation was welcome and right on the mark (although it took me many years to act on what you said). I will definitely never forget you. I thank God that I had the privilege of knowing you. It is true that you often do not realize the impact someone has on your life until many years have passed. This is true of you Mr. Lawrence. My condolences and prayers are with the Lawrence family.

James Zadell

March 22, 2012

Your legal presence in the court room and your friendship will be greatly missed. Jim Zadell

Theresa Baker

March 22, 2012

My sincere condolences to the family of Richard Lawrence. He was a wonderful person and great lawyer. He helped me through a very challenging time. I loved his passion to "win" in his career.

Maria Roman

March 22, 2012

I enjoyed with Richard for many years through the Roanoke City Juvenile & Domestic Court. My prayers are with the family at this sad time.

Rosie Caldwell

March 22, 2012

Richard took such great care of me through my divorce. Many,many times I have quietly said 'thank you' to Richard for changing my life. He was the best.

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April 20, 2025

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