Richard Smelley

Richard Smelley

Richard Smelley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 22 to Feb. 23, 2009.
Richard Smelley, 66, of Lufkin, was born March 21, 1942, in Lufkin, Texas, the son of the late Doris (Lamb) and Ghent Smelley. He passed away Saturday, February 21, 2009, in a local hospital. Richard was a home builder and cabinet maker. He was a 1960 graduate of Lufkin High School. He enjoyed being outdoors and sitting around campfires. Richard loved his family and being with them. His goal was to teach his grandkids the important values of life. He was a member of First United Methodist Church. Survivors include his daughter and son-in-law, Sue Ann and Shane Squyres of Lufkin; son, Matt Smelley of Lufkin; stepdaughter, Tisha Self of Houston; stepsons, Shane Self and wife Kelly of Lufkin, Ryan Self of California and Shea Self of Seabrook; stepmother Eileen Shoaf of Lufkin; sister and brother-in-law, Linda and George Bill Perry of Lufkin; brothers and sisters-in-law, Eddie and Linda Smelley of Lufkin and Pete and Nancy Campbell of Houston; and a number of other family members and friends. In addition to his parents, Richard was preceded in death by his wife, Arlie Sue Lawrence Smelley; and brother, Mike Smelley. Pallbearers will be Steve Roper, Max Rowe, Tucker Westerman, Glenn McDaniel, Richard Youngblood and Judd David. Expressions of sympathy in RichardÕs memory may be made to Hospice in the Pines, 116 S. Raguet, Lufkin, Texas 75904. Services for Richard will be held at 10:00 a.m. Tuesday, February 24, 2009, in the Gipson Funeral Home Chapel, with Reverend James Powell officiating. Interment will follow in the Garden of Memories Memorial Park. Friends are invited to visit with the family from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Monday evening at Gipson Funeral Home. Gipson Funeral Home;W. A. Dempsey, Director.

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March 1, 2009

Jennifer Rowland (Corley) posted to the memorial.

February 26, 2009

James "Jim" & Sharon Wark posted to the memorial.

February 25, 2009

Rita De La Fosse posted to the memorial.

Jennifer Rowland (Corley)

March 1, 2009

To all The Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during your loss....hope all the laughs, stories, and memories of Richard will ease your pain during this time.

James "Jim" & Sharon Wark

February 26, 2009

Our Prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time.

Rita De La Fosse

February 25, 2009

Linda and Family, So sorry to find out today that Richard has passed away. He was such a unique friend and he will be truly missed. I'm so sorry that I am not there to be with you as you were with me when my brother, Danny, died, My prayers, thoughts and love are with you.

Fran Williams-Sanchez

February 25, 2009

Linda and family, I was saddened to hear of Richard's passing. I remember him in school as one who was always kind and good to all that crossed his path. May you and the family find peace in this time of sorrow.

Mike Pasierb

February 24, 2009

To The Smelley Family,
Richard was one of Lufkin's really 'good guys'.My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Sheila Babb

February 24, 2009

To the Smelley Family

Words could never express the loss of this Wonderful man. He was a joy to know. He had his own special way of doing things. Very intellegent. I will always remember him with his eyebrows raised above his glasses, grinning, like noone else can. I always looked forward to seeing him. What an awesome man. He is greatly missed.

john jones

February 23, 2009

SueAnn, I Loved your dad so much
he was a good man and father and friend, he and arlie were the
best match ever,I know they will be together in heaven, as will we.

Jo Ann Salagaj-Chastain

February 23, 2009

Linda,
I'm so sorry to hear about Richard. I pray God's comfort and peace over you in this most difficult time.

NITA LOONEY

February 23, 2009

LINDA AND GEORGE BILL, I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF LINDA'S BROTHER. MAY GOD COMFORT YOU DURING THE DIFFICULT DAYS AHEAD.

Nancy (Smelley) Almquist

February 23, 2009

SueAnn, Matt and family,

While we rejoice that Uncle Richard is living freely - no longer bound by his body - we are also sad to not have another day to create a memory. I have so many memories of your Dad. Sitting at the Cabinet Shop and visiting, swimming at the river, catfish..... Will miss him! Love to you and your families!

Jack McClain

February 23, 2009

Eddie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Richard's family. It was my pleasure to know and work with both of you.

Tom Salagaj

February 23, 2009

I first met Richard and Eddie Smelley through little league baseball in 1955. These guys were such great atheletes even at a very young age. Richard's passing is very sad. He was a great personality and uplifted everyone at Lufkin High School. Our thoughts and prayers surround this family and we pray the peace of God for you during these most difficult times.

Ann Westerman

February 23, 2009

Sue Ann and Matt,

I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. He was loved by all who knew him. I will always remember him laughing and frying fish at the river.

Freddie Keel

February 23, 2009

Richard was a college buddy and a fraternity brother. He was a heck of a nice guy that always had a smile and a positive outlook on life. Some forty years later, I can still picture him with that smile.

L. E. & O'Nealia Hart

February 23, 2009

Linda, I was saddened by your brother's death. May God give you and your family peace and comfort. Sorry we cannot be with you as you have always been there for us. But know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nona Bailey

February 23, 2009

Eddie and Linda, Matt, Sue Ann and families, my thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time. I haven't seen Richard in a long time, but always enjoyed visiting with him when I lived in Lufkin and went to Church with your families.

JoAnn Harvey

February 23, 2009

Matt & Sue Ann, sorry to hear of the death of your Father. My thoughts are with the family. God bless you all.

Sarah Hunter

February 22, 2009

To Richard's family, my sympathy. He was a wonderful person and friend. Many good times are remembered in our high school days. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love to all, Sarah

Eddie Thompson

February 22, 2009

To the Smelly Family.....my most sincere condolences for your lost. I haven't seen any of the Smelly family in many years now but I remember all of them vividly from my youth.
Y'all may rest assured not that Richard is at peace now and with his maker.......

Sincerely
Eddie Thompson

Pipper Dean

February 22, 2009

I was very saddened to learn of Richard's passing - and my heartfelt sympathies to the entire Smelley familes. I have fond memories from Arlie being a childhood friend and classmate to reuniting with Richard, Arlie and their family when they moved to the San Francisco area for awhile.
I hope that your own memories will comfort you in your time of grief.
Love, Pipper

Tanya Anthony-Clevenger

February 22, 2009

Matt, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God cradle each of you with his love.

Kevin,Andrea & Cheyenne Swor

February 22, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Elaine (Parker) Flowers

February 22, 2009

Eddie, Linda & Pete, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know how painful it is to lose a brother and know you've had to bear this before. Thankfully, you are surrounded by many, many friends and a loving family who will lend you strength and support. God bless all of you.

Charlette Stevenson

February 22, 2009

Matt: I am so sorry about your dad. I have fond memoreies of being in your home as a teenager, and have thought about you all throughout the years..Please know that my love and my prayers are always with you.. I love you...Charlette

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