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Richard Brian Stockell, Jr.
1980 - 2023
Richard Brian Stockell, Jr.
1980 - 2023
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BORN
1980
DIED
2023
Richard Stockell, Jr. Obituary
Stockell, Richard Brian Jr.,
Born February 28,1980. Passed away, Friday, April 28, 2023.
Adoring father of Madelynn Stockell; loving son of Evie & Rick Stockell Sr.; Dearest brother of Ellie (John) Short and Lauren (Robert) Huckstep. Uncle of Jack Short, Lucy Short, Chip Huckstep and Redmond Huckstep. Nephew of Frank & Balenda Stockell, Chip & Patty Stockell, Don & Kristy Stockell, Greg & Linda Stockell, Sean & Dana Stockell, Leila Miller Dower, and Bruce Miller. Dedicated parent with Jeannine Beck.
Brian graduated Eureka High School in 1998, & Drury University in 2002. His professional career began at Stockell Healthcare Systems immediately after graduation. His career in IT continued with Medsphere Systems Corporation in 2017 as a Senior Azure Cloud Architect. He took pride in his work.
Brian liked to spend time “tinkering.” He deconstructed, & he rebuilt: he created. He came to love fishing. He found escape and enjoyment on his best friend Andy’s farm. It was a happy place for him. He cherished spending time with "his people." Whether it was a bonfire in the backyard, cooking out, watching a game, or exploring new ideas and places- he was a committed friend. He relished any experience, adventure, debate, or challenge. A natural athlete & competitor, Brian was also a brilliant mind.
Above all, Brian was a devoted Dad to his daughter Madelynn Stockell. She was his light; he glowed with fatherly pride. They shared the best moments of his life. He was completely committed to her. Brian loved watching Maddy play sports; helping her with school, and always had tips & lessons to give. He believed in her every step of the way. Maddy recently posted that she will miss their late night gas station runs, ordering food and playing xbox until the wee hours, and listening to all his life lessons. Maddy says her Dad was her best friend.
Services: Celebration of Life at Most Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 350 E. 4th Street, Eureka, MO 63025 on Thursday, May 11 at 11:00 a.m. Visitation at the church Thursday 10:00 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Madelynn Stockell Education Fund, checks made payable to Richard B. Stockell, Sr., Mailing address: P.O. Box 34, St. Albans, Missouri 63073, or Venmo @Richard-Stockell-1 (2458). Family and friends are invited to share their messages on the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
26 Entries
Evelyn Stockell
March 8, 2025
Maddy Stockell
December 8, 2023
As I sit in my religion class, bored out of my mind, I came to my dad's obituary page and I'm in such awe of how many people were touched and affected by my dad. Every message and tribute I read, it only makes me happier to see how my dad was such an impact in some peoples lives. Even if it was just a silly school memory, or going to the Battlehawks game and sharing a drink, my dad's legacy and memory will forever live on for the rest of my life. Seeing all of this truly brings me such joy and relief :)
Aunt Leila
June 8, 2023
Brian, You were a bright light in our lives, always full of energy, laughter, and an undeniable zest for life. The memories we shared together are forever in my heart, and I will always cherish our moments together. I mourn not only the loss of your presence but also the dreams and possibilities that will never come to fruition. You touched the lives of so many people with your kindness, compassion, and beautiful spirit. I feel I still can see you every time I look at dear sweet Maddy. Rest peacefully dear Brian, knowing that you will never be forgotten and that your spirit will continue to guide and inspire me. Until we meet again...
Larry Hammerschmidt
May 15, 2023
I’m so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Karin Fagan
May 15, 2023
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son and brother. Our prayers are with you all.
Joan Gardner and family
May 11, 2023
Dear Stockell and Miller family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your precious son Brian. Words fall short to comfort during such a heartbreaking time. May feeling the love of your family and friends and God's grace carry you through to brighter days ahead.
Boomer Simeone
May 11, 2023
There’s no words that can express my sorrow for you guys. I grew up with Brian and he was like a little brother to me. I will always remember the times we played soccer in the basement at Cindy and Chips house with Moose. I will always remember those times, and I will be thinking about you guys for a long time.
Chris Budding
May 11, 2023
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Charles Musgrave
May 11, 2023
For all the Stockell Family, I am so sorry for the unexpected loss of Brian. I worked with Brian for many years, in many different capacities, and always enjoyed how Brian thought “big”. Everything he touched, he wanted to level-up and once he latched onto something, he poured an enormous amount of time and energy into it, doing whatever it took to achieve his goals. He will be missed.
Praying the God of all comfort is holding you all up during this time.
Richard Lewis
May 10, 2023
My heart is broken. No words can truly describe this wonderful young man. Brian's family and friends will be in my prayers. My deepest heartfelt condolences.
Adam Thornsley
May 10, 2023
Brian became an immediate friend when I first moved to St. Louis in 2011 and went out of his way to make sure I experienced everything the city had to offer. It was important to him that I retained a sense of family when I had none of my own nearby. We spent many nights together decompressing after work and talking about anything, everything, but often about his little Madelynn. He was an uplifting force that believed in the merit of ideas and built the confidence needed to carry them forward. He was the big brother that would beat you in the driveway basketball game and somehow you came away feeling good about it anyway. Most importantly, his motivations were pure. If he showed up, you knew he was there for you. If he asked you a question, you knew it was because he was honestly interested in the answer. The memories of the time we spent together will be with me always. I miss him and I am so sorry for your loss.
Betty Ringe
May 10, 2023
Brian was like a second son to Craig and myself. We had so much fun watching him play wiffleball, basketball, swimming and playing poker with his buddies. First time he came to spend the night he got scared and I had to call Evie. After that no problem he was part of our family. He was always there for us. Helped when Craig’s Mom passed and helped us move. He also took out Craig’s Porsche one night when we were out of town. He had to drive as Craig Jr. didn’t know how to drive a stick shift. We didn’t find out until many years later! Seems like God took you too soon but he must have a wonderful purpose for you in heaven. Until we meet again you will always have a special place in our hearts. Love You, Betty & Craig
Jeff Minalga
May 10, 2023
I’m Jeff, Brian’s next-door neighbor, ‘81-86, Eureka, Hilltop, Dartingbird Ln. My son, Josh, was about the same age and looks as Brian (twins!) and thus, BFF. For that, I am forever grateful. I guess it was pre-K time for the boys and a time for boyhood blossoming. It was a world with dew still on it— more touched by wonder and possibility than any since known. Their life, especially Brian’s, was completely centered around his first love, hot/big wheels racing and spin outs in the cul-de-sac and beyond. Brian was a pro and a daredevil, barrel chest and all. Brian was the “Steve McQueen of Kid Cool”. They’d do their own maintenance, bikes upside down, Brian getting some Crisco for lube. It worked! Once Brian tried to strap bottle rockets to the rear for thrust! God love him! I helped (hey, it sounded cool!). I figured Brian and Josh put in over 7,000 miles on the famous wheels with streamers on the handlebars. Every day was Le Mans day for Brian. I never saw him eat. He just raced! Brian enjoyed a good smoke (candy cig, relax!) and Hawaiian Punch, in the fort, after a grueling day of Le Mans racing, with Evie chasing after him for some trumped up kid crime! Even my own parents thought the world of Brian and the girls. You see, unknowingly, at the time, this period I am describing was to become the pinnacle of my life and Brian was there! Brian and these happy memories are constantly with me and always will, especially my tomorrows. I am eternally grateful to Brian for making me a better man and having the best life ever. God, I love all you Stockells! Godspeed.
Sandy and Deb Ellis
May 9, 2023
With sympathy and love from Sean and Dana's friends from Tampa. You are all in our prayers.
Vicki Pennington
May 9, 2023
Rick, Maddie and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
This is so sad but keep all the good things in your mind as you reflect on
Brian’s life and all that he accomplished.
I have known Brian for 18 years and to see how much he has grown as a
person, friend, father and co-worker is so Amazing.
He was always “The life of the party” at the annual user group conference
and so competitive in our trivia games but kept it all exciting.
Remember that it is all of the things that took place between 1980 and 2023
that made him who he is, it’s what the – represents and I believe that he lived
life to the fullest. He is watching over all of you now and will be for eternity.
Steve HarringtonHarrington
May 9, 2023
I’m so very sorry Fo your loss. May our Heavenly Father hold you in his heart!
Joshua Leuthauser
May 7, 2023
My deepest condolences to the family. I have many fond memories of playground sports games that we shared throughout elementary school. We found ourselves in different groups in high school, but I can’t think of anything but nice things to say of him. Again very sorry to hear of his passing.
Jessica
May 7, 2023
I went to middle and high school with Brian. I don’t think I have one memory of him where he wasn’t smiling, laughing, or joking around. He was always trying to cheer others up and bring fun to what we did. I am so sorry for your loss.
Heather Gentile
May 5, 2023
Rick and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Brian. He enjoyed his work, loved his time off and adored his daughter. Thoughts and prayers with you all.
Mary Ann Lind
May 5, 2023
My deepest condolences and prayers for all of you.. Mary Ann Lind and family
Clifford Hopson
May 5, 2023
Brian was not only a great asset to his company, but he brought on great relationships in the journey. I met Brian by attending a Stockell Healthcare Conference and we hit it off as friends immediately. Such a great guy. I will cherish the Cardinals jersey he gifted me. Truly will be missed. Sending prayers to his daughter and parents.
Cooper Green Mercy Health Services, Birmingham, Alabama
Cheryl Brattlie
May 5, 2023
I worked with "Brian". I only knew him as such. Maddie is the same age as my daughter and we bonded over talking about our daughters. Brian also talked about his entire family and how close they were. At work, Brian was always giving us his new ideas and was a big thinker. We will all miss him.
Donna Johnson
May 5, 2023
My deepest sympathy to Rick, Evie,
Madelynn, Ellie, Lauren, and Jeannine. May you find peace in your memories.
Randy Badolato
May 4, 2023
I worked with Richard at Stockell. He was always a pleasure to talk to everyday and always had a smile that would light up your day. I am very upset to hear this and my heart and prayers go out to Jeanine and Maddy. God bless all of you and prayers for the Stockell family.
Howard Short
May 4, 2023
Maddie, Rick,Evie, Ellie/John, Lauren/Robert and rest of the Stockell family,
Jessica and I want to offer our deepest sympathy on the tragic loss of Brian. He was a wonderful young man and left us too soon. All of our prayers are for your family!
God’s blessings on you all!
Howard and Jessica Short
Bruce, Brian, Rick and Robert at the StL Battlehawks game. March 18, 2023.
Robert Huckstep
May 4, 2023
Thanks for the memories, Brian. Sending lots of prayers to you, Maddy and our family. Watch over us!❤
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