RICHARD TARLOW

RICHARD TARLOW obituary, New York, NY

RICHARD TARLOW

RICHARD TARLOW Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 5, 2022.
TARLOW--Richard J. Richard J. Tarlow, renowned New York advertising executive known for his work with Revlon, Ralph Lauren, Cuisinart, Pottery Barn and Vanderbilt fragrance, passed away May 27, 2022 at his home on Shelter Island. Tarlow, 81, died peacefully in his sleep with his wife Kristin Kehrberg by his side. He was the heart of his family and is survived by his wife as well as three children Jordan, Wendy and Cody; two stepsons Jonah and Lukas; and five grandchildren Annabelle, Ryder, Logan, Bo and Truly. Always conscious of making the world fair and equitable, Mr. and Mrs. Tarlow were loyal supporters of John Jay College and the John Jay Justice Awards. One of Tarlow's proudest moments was joining Nelson Mandela, Desmond Tutu, Richard Branson and Peter Gabriel in The Elders, a group of independent global leaders whose aim was working together for peace and human rights. Tarlow acted globally as well as locally. He saw the potential in people and worked to help them achieve it by quietly helping a number of students pay for their education. Tarlow was born to Ted and Min Tarlow in the Bronx, then raised in New Rochelle alongside his (now deceased) brother Alan. At New Rochelle High School, Tarlow proved himself a gifted athlete and attended the University of North Carolina on both a baseball and basketball scholarship before graduating Tufts University in 1962. Tarlow began his storied career in advertising as a copywriter at the Martin Landey/Arlow agency. He rose through the ranks in advertising and after being executive vice president and creative director of Daniel & Charles, he and fellow ad man Don Kurtz established Kurtz & Tarlow in 1977, which Advertising Age called the fastest-growing agency in the nation. They oversaw Ralph Lauren's successful expansion from Polo Fashions to becoming an icon of Americana and establishing Ralph Lauren Home Furnishings Inc. in 1982. Kurtz & Tarlow was sold to Geers Gross in 1983 where Tarlow served as Chairman. Fiercely independent Tarlow took a leap once again to establish Tarlow Advertising on his own in 1988. His gamble paid off and Tarlow Advertising became another of Madison Avenue's fastest growing agencies with $50 million in billings in only a year and a half. Tarlow Advertising's clients included Revlon and it's subsidiaries Ultima and Almay. An account close to Tarlow's heart was Topps Chewing Gum, maker of the famous baseball cards. Additionally, Tarlow co-founded Carlson and Partners with his (now deceased) wife Sandy Carlson where he oversaw clients including Ralph Lauren, Victoria's Secret and Neutrogena. After retiring from advertising Tarlow pursued his many passions. He established the posh eatery Sunset Beach Restaurant and Hotel on Shelter Island with Andre Balazs, and authored the 2016 off-Broadway play The Trial of An American President. He and Kehrberg were executive producers of The Wilde Wedding, a 2017 movie that starred Glen Close, John Malkovich, Patrick Stewart and Minnie Driver. His love of sports never left him, he and his wife could often be found sitting courtside to watch his beloved New York Knicks. Richard Tarlow was a colorful, swashbuckling figure who left everyone in his wake better off for having known him.

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Dennis Rowan

May 8, 2024

Rest In Peace Dick.
Dick was joyful in life, passionate in his pursuits and with his friends and family. In addition to being a phenomenal Ad man, Dick was an excellent athlete. I enjoyed our many hours on and off the tennis court. We miss you Dick. Our condolences to the Family.

Brett Shevack

October 28, 2022

I feel privileged to have known Dick over many years. Our paths crossed both personally and professionally and I was truly shocked to learning of his passing. His was a friend, a mentor and someone I always admired. My sincerest condolences to his wife and family.

Jane Cooper Colman

September 2, 2022

I remember Richard as my brother's best friend. He was always at our house and I thought at one point he also was my brother. After High School everyone went their separate ways but I know that Glenn and Richard remained close until he passed. Condolences to his children, wife and step children. I know he is missed by many. Rest In Peace Richard, ya done good.

JoAnne C.

July 7, 2022

Dick was such a kind hearted and good-natured man. May he always be remembered for his resilience and compassion for others. He will be greatly missed!

Mary Metcalfe

July 2, 2022

Dick, a true one of a kind, I was delighted to know you, love, Mary

Jay Carey

June 12, 2022

What a great man and sad loss for Shelter Is. My buddy Alistair and I used to play tennis at his house a lot, he was always so gracious and giving.
I was texting him just a week before he passed about boats one of the other loves of his life after his wives and kids.
RIP old friend.

Ilona Gollinger

June 9, 2022

I was Dick's secretary/assistant from 1978 - 1986
It was great working at Kurtz & Tarlow and working alongside Dick on a daily basis. We had a special working relationship which I will always treasure. I would contact him on his special birthdays throughout the years after K&T... he was always glad I did.
My sincerest and heartfelt condolences to his family.

Judy Amorosana Cianciulli

June 8, 2022

Condolences to Richards family. I remember Richard from school. He was such a nice guy. Rest In Peace.

Ellen Azorin

June 8, 2022

Dick was an inspiration and mentor during some of my early years as writer in advertising. He believed in me and gave me responsibility beyond my own estimation of my abilities, giving me assignments I would have thought I could never do, and his belief in me was key to my own achievements. He was a brilliant thinker who didn't just create advertising, he helped put his clients on the map. He had a love of life that was felt by everyone who worked with him. I am forever grateful for having known him. I send my deepest condolences to his family.

Alice Klaris

June 6, 2022

I am so sorry to hear about
Dick's passing. I've known him for many years on Shelter Island and enjoyed fun baseball games we played on the school field.

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