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Rita Allen Obituary
Born in Providence, she was the daughter of the late Francis and Blanche (Goyette) Faria. She had been the wife of Eugene F. Allen.
She was the mother of Karen S. Belch, Kenneth B. Belch, Barry M. Vilardofsky and Holly B. Allen; grandmother of 2.
Visitation will be held Saturday at 12 noon to 1 p.m. followed by a service at 1 p.m. in the PONTARELLI-MARINO Home, 971 Branch Avenue, Providence. Burial will follow in West Dighton Christian Church Cemetery, North Dighton, MA. pontarellimarinofunerals.com.
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Marie Keith
July 14, 2025
Godmother,
I miss you daily, even though some days are more than others. You were the light in a very dark world that I existed in. You always brought so much joy to my life and without you I would not have survived. Thank you for loving me for no reason at all, just because you did! You will never know how much you gave to me, I love you and will always miss you. Until we meet again
Holly B.
August 18, 2024
Happy Birthday Mom. Dad and I watched Now Voyager today. We know you loved that movie. I wish that you were here to watch it with us. We are thinking of you and love you very much.
Holly
July 18, 2024
I miss you so much. Words cannot even cover the feelings in my heart. They are too complex and deep. I know you are at peace. I am grateful that you are not in pain anymore. I love you Mom.
Ellen-Marie
July 9, 2024
Dear Godmother,
As your anniversary draws near, I just want to say I miss you more than ever. There are so many things that have happened that I have wanted to talk with you about. I know if you were here, you would have instinctively called me right on time, as you have some many times before. I am a grandma now, or as I like to call myself a "Nonnie". I love my beautiful granddaughter. I have been a history teacher for some years now, and love my job! I also live in CT now, go figure. Lastly, I just want to say that I miss you very much, got a tattoo of a butterfly with your birthdate in roman numerals above it, for you. I love you very much and always will.... til we meet again. Love
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EllenMarie Keith
July 14, 2023
Love you Godmother, I miss you everyday, but especially on the days when out of the blue you would call me and that was right on time! You are such an amazing strong woman. To Gene, Holly, Karen, Rocky I know the missing never gets easier and really not much can comfort your loss, but I pray for all of you daily for comfort on those rough days. With love and support ellen
September 7, 2011
It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
September 7, 2011
We miss your smile and the giggle when you thought something was funny. You would give a look when you seen or heard something silly or interesting.Even though the last years of your life I was not there does not mean you were not close to my heart. I miss you. Love Donna
Gene A.
September 3, 2011
Hi Honey, Just thinking of you. Miss you so much. Holly's doing well .She spends most of her time on her computer. Wish you were here. Love, Gene
Gene A.
August 19, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HONEY Miss You, Gene
Holly
August 18, 2011
Happy Birthday Mom. I love you.
August 6, 2011
Time will come this site will go but memories of you will last forever love Gene
Gene A
July 24, 2011
I know it's no special occaision honey
just thinking about you we're getting along. Wish you were here.
Holly
July 14, 2011
I can feel your presence yet miss you so very much. I miss the things I can't sense like your voice, your warmth and the way it felt when you hugged me. I love you Mom.
Ellen Keith
July 14, 2011
Hi Godmother,
Just thinking of you today and wishing you were here. I know I talk to you regularly, but would love to have one of your hugs and listen to your voice again...I love you!
Gene Allen
July 14, 2011
Hi Honey, It was a year ago today when you left us. I guess you know we miss you. We're doing the best we can.
Holding on to the memory of you.
Love you, Gene
Gene
July 13, 2011
One year ago tomorrow seems like yesturday. I think of you all the time honey. If I had a wish you would be my first thought. Love you.
June 6, 2011
Hi Rita thinking of you . Wishing you were here. Everything is going o.k. Holly is fine but misses you too as Karen
and Rocky.Love you, Gene
May 8, 2011
Happy Mothers Day Rita, Thinking of you. missing your voice
Holly B
May 8, 2011
Happy Mothers Day Mom. I miss you. <3
May 7, 2011
Happy Mother"s day Honey... Love You..Gene
March 12, 2011
Hi Honey, Just a note to let you know I think of you every day. Miss you. Your missed by everyone.Just because you don't see them on here doesn't mean they're not thinking of you. Missing you. Love you. Bye for now. Gene
February 23, 2011
February 23, 2011
Holly
February 23, 2011
I can remember your voice.. your smell.. the way it felt when you hugged me. Nothing makes the pain lessen mom. They said it will get easier.. it never does.
EllenMarie Keith
January 8, 2011
Godmother,
I miss you so much, whenever things were going not so good, or when I just needed a kind word or some good advice, I called you and we would talk for hours. I miss that. I also miss you calling me "my elle" and giving me those great hugs. I love you so much and miss you so much as well. You were always my second mom...
Gene Allen
January 7, 2011
I still think of you miss you every day honey. I'd give everything in the world I have to have you back both healthy and happy again. Love you, Gene
Rita Allen and Son Christmas 2009
September 13, 2010
Gene and Rita Allen 1976
September 13, 2010
Blanche Faria and Rita Allen 1977
September 13, 2010
Blanche and Rita Faria 1948
September 13, 2010
Rita Faria 6 years old
September 13, 2010
Rita Faria 8 months old
September 13, 2010
Gene Allen
September 13, 2010
How many times can I say I love you? Miss
you? Take care of the part of me you took with you I'll be looking for it when we meet again. Love, Gene
I miss you mom.
Holly
September 12, 2010
gail agajanian
August 13, 2010
Rita,
It been a month since you have passed away, and it feels like yesterday. I think of you often, day we meet at OIC,
weekends playing cards, taking you camping for the first time, the day Rocky left to join the marines, the day you told me you were pregnant with Holly. The hours we spend on the phone sharing every thought. You were my best friend, sister and mother for 33 years. You will live in my heart forever, Love Gail
July 28, 2010
my condolences to the whole family jean celletti
Sonya and Tyree James
July 23, 2010
Holly and family, I always remembered sweet and kind your mom was, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lelia and Andrew Jackson
July 21, 2010
Barry and Jeanne,
Andrew and I send our sincerest sympathy during this time. We hope warm memories will soon bring comfort to your hearts. Now you have your own personal angel.
Kathleen Scullion
July 21, 2010
To Barry and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your Mom passing away. As I'm sure many people have said, you now have a special guardian angel watching over you. My deepest sympathies.
Victoria de la Cruz
July 20, 2010
Where do I begin? let me first start off by saying, Holly, Gene, Karen, & Rocky. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful warm hearted mother, and wife. and I am so sorry that she will not be with us. but just know that she will Always be in our hearts and in the deep blue skies watching over us. She will be missed and I will cherish all the moments and times that i had the pleasure of spending time with her or just simply being in her presence.
Not only were you such a graceful accepting warm hearted woman but you were also an inspiration to alot of people. She was a faithful loving caring wife and mother. You will always be missed.
Gene, Holly, Karen, & Rocky,
Words cannot compare to the thoughts that are in my mind at this time. I am truely sorry for your loss. Just try to find comfort in knowing that she is in a better place with no more suffering. She will always be watching you and being with you all. Mom was always so careing and thoughtful and always wanted to make everyone happy. She doesnt want you to cry. Just be strong together for each other. and please if you need anything i am only a phone call away!!!! I love you all!! oxoxo!!
Joey & Kendra de la Cruz
July 19, 2010
Gene, Holly & Family
I'm sorry about your loss. Rita was a unique person from what I remember of her. I hope all of you find comfort in the Lord.
Joey & Kendra de la Cruz
July 19, 2010
Gene, Holly & Family
I'm sorry about your loss. Rita was a unique person from what I remember of her. I pray you find comfort in the Lord.
July 19, 2010
Hey, Barry & Family.
So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. God's blessings on you during this time of loss. Continue to hold her memory near to you.
Mark & Mary Arnold
Sharon, Julie & Jolie Squadrito
July 18, 2010
Karen, Our hearts are with you at this difficult time. God Bless you and your family.
ann woods
July 18, 2010
Rita may you rest in peace my heart goes out to the family...ann woods (socorro new mexico)
Rocky
July 18, 2010
Mom....I thought we said it all already. We said it over and over....right up until your last breath. However, I did forget one thing....I forgot to THANK YOU....for loving me.
July 17, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
July 17, 2010
Rita the first time we met i was dating your daughter.I couldnt believe what a warm person you were. YOU welcome me with open arms like i was a member of your family. We have a history with you and gene. god child best man and maid of honor. To each other gene and yourself. Sheila and I. We travel all of us together. You seen me grow up from a teenager to a man. Even then you were very special to me. May the lord take you in his arms and raise you to the heavens. Where you will be loved for for the end of time. When the spirt leaves the body it will be in front of the lord.I will never forget you until the day i die no matter what love chuck
bernadette sowash lapearl
July 17, 2010
Rita
and family,and holly bee,
i am going to miss you,remembering when we went camping,tootie and holly growing up together,and our morning coffee,there first video in the mall
you were always a good friend and gene
and the girls birthday parties, heaven has a place for you,because of your loving and caring ways,i still hear you calling for holly and bernadette.
this sadeins me to know you were sick
and i did not know ,god bless the whole family,it has been 13 years.
with our love and prayers
bernadette and kevin and family
Alberta James
July 17, 2010
To Karen and your family I am so sorry for your loss, God Bless You.
Juan Navarrete
July 17, 2010
Barry and family, my most sincere condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Semper Fidelis
Paul & Ginny Big Bear
July 17, 2010
Barry, Jeanne, and everyone that Rita called her loved ones, Mothers are special people, they carry us, safe, under their hearts until it is time for us to enter this world. They nurture and protect us, teach us and discipline us, clothe and feed us, but most of all they never really stop carrying us around, safe, under their hearts. Hold her memories safe in your heart, mourn her passing but not as long as you rejoice in having had her here as yours. Each of us walks our walk of life, and one day our walk will be complete and we too will move on to our eternal walk with God/Jesus, and there will be Rita and all those whom we knew in our circle of life here, for they wait to greet us and help us on our way as we enter our eternal circle in Heaven. Pray for Rita as she now prays for you. Live each day as if it were your last, remember, yesterday is history, learn from it, tomorrow is a mystery, promised to know one but filled with hope and anticipation of all that it shall bring our way, today is a gift, that is why we call it the present. Alani Cha, So Tah.
Pamela Lacerda
July 17, 2010
For some times in life there are just no words that can offer comfort. I hope your family can find it through the memories of the love you shared. Love is immortal. She leaves her legacy through all of you. You are one of the most loving families that I have witnessed in my lifetime. She was certainly a strong and amazing woman to have created such a family, for that is no easy feat.
Mom, you are so missed. You will be loved forever. We will hear you're voice in the background of our everyday lives. I am hurting so much.
July 17, 2010
July 17, 2010
Mom, You are my friend and my Mother. I still think I am going to hear you're voice. I still think I will be seeing you when I go upstairs. Right now, our lives feel so empty. A black whole the seems will never be filled. I can't believe that you are really not with us. I know it my head but not in my heart. Even when I saw this day coming it didn't seem possible. It still doesn't. My heart is aching so badly. Right down to my soul. There is alway's going to be a piece of me missing. And that is you. Goodbye my friend, my Mom. You will be so missed but you will always be deeply loved. We will alway hear you're voice in wind. I love you soooo much. You're Daughter, Karen
Nancy Greco
July 17, 2010
Rita,
We met when I was just a young child, your daughter, Karen, and I became best friends. And most rare, my mother and you became best friends. The sound of your laughter still echoes in my memories, and I can still see the smile on your face and the all-knowing wink telling us you knew more than we thought you did. I will always remember the good times we had. The best part of my childhood were the times we all spent together...the parties, the dancing, and the love we all shared. And yea, your spaghetti and meat sauce was the BEST!!!
May the Angels keep you under their wings and may God bless you. Until we meet again, my dear friend, I will hold you close in my heart.
Love you Always,
Holly Allen
July 17, 2010
Mom,
There is no way to put into words how much I love you or how appreciative I am for everything you have done for us. You made me want to be a good person. I still cannot accept the fact that you're gone. You were the light through the darkest of tunnels and my best friend and a big piece of my heart went with you. A friend of mine said you're on the other side decorating a house preparing it for us for when our time comes. I need to believe that. My love for you will never end only grow stronger with each passing day. You left a huge imprint on many peoples lives with your huge heart and wise words. I love you more than chocolate mom. I'm with you always.
July 16, 2010
Barry and family, My deepest Sympathy for you'r loss of you'r mom, i can still hear her yelling you'r name out the door,(ROCKY!). that is how i remeber her. happy, joyfull, My she rest in pease. she will be missed
Destiny Wheeler
July 16, 2010
Rita,
There are few moments in our lives when we come across those who are rare gems. They are people who make such a positive & significant mark on our lives, who show us what the true meaning of love is, which gives us hope that there is still some good left in such a cruel world. Rita, you were my gem. You were like a mother to me & I feel so honored to have had the opportunity to have someone so wonderful in my life. You were the epitome of kindness, love, generosity & authenticity. I will forever cherish the moments we shared & will always hold a special place for you in my heart. Thank you for being you & letting me truly be me. I love you mom.
To Holly, Gene & Karen. I love you all with every fiber of my being & am here for you always. Chris & I both send our deepest condolences to you during this most difficult time in your lives.
"Life's not about waiting for the storms to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain." ~ Vivian Greene
Ellen Keith(Archilla)
July 16, 2010
Gene,Holly, Karen and Barry (Rocky), Your mom and my Godmother was the strongest woman I have known. She was like a second mother to me and meant so very much to me. I cant imagine my life without her in it. She was so caring and great to me. She helped me in so many ways and I will always love her. She will always have a piece of my heart and I will always have a piece of hers. You all are my extended family and I want you to know that will never change. I love your mom more than words can say, and I thank God each and everyday for letting me share a part of her life... I know my life is changed because she was a part of it...I love you all... And Godmother, I love you....always Ellen
Gene Jr.
July 16, 2010
Rita, I don't remember the first time we met, but the memories I will never forget. Over the years you treated me like a son and I love you more than you will ever know. My heart is saddened for your children as I know the feeling of losing a mother. Karen, Rocky and Holly your pain and sorrow will eventually diminish. The pictures at first will hurt because you cant be physically with her, but one day you will smile of the great times you had with your mom and it will get easier. She was a wonderful woman with a heart of gold. Always remember that you are a direct reflection of her and move through life knowing she will always be proud.
To my dad, I can't say I understand how you're feeling. But what I can say is I love you and always have. Rita was the one person that made sure we had a relationship. I am so glad for that. I will be by your side always and forever. When you feel lonely please know that you can call me and I will be there.
Anthony Dzikiewicz
July 16, 2010
Barry and Family
Im very sorry to hear the news about your mom passing. My sympathies to you.
Anthony
Rita & Joe Steed
July 16, 2010
Barry & Jeanne, and Karen,
Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I know she'll be missed by all of us who met her.
Renee Morales
July 16, 2010
i'm sorry to hear about your mom my deepest sympathy is with you and your family at this time and my prays with you also your friend Renee
sister-in-law, Judie
July 15, 2010
A beautiful,soft,gentle woman has left us. But her memory will always be in the hearts of those who loved her.
Rest well now,dear Rita. I will miss you.
Laurel Kemp
July 15, 2010
There are so many memories going through my head right now, from the day Uncle Gene and Rita got married to the last time I saw her. Not one is a memory I will ever forget. Love you always.
Theresa Sidorick
July 15, 2010
So sorry. She is so beautiful, she will live on in the hearts of those who love her. Terry Sidorick
July 15, 2010
Barry.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss .You have to find strength to be strong and keep your Family together at this time. My deepest sympathy.
I’m always with you.
Sincerely,
Vladimir
Sheila Capece
July 15, 2010
My dear friend Karen, Paul and I are saddened by the death of your mother. Please know that our thoughts are with you, your family and your many friends during this most difficult time. Losing a loved one is so very hard but losing your mother is often most difficult.
Kelly
July 15, 2010
Rita, I am very happy that I got to know you.
A beautiful person inside and out. I will always remember your kind heart and generousity. I will always remember the wonderful conversations at the table and your joyous laugh. I truly will miss you and send my love and sympathy to your children and your husband Gene.
God Bless, Kelly
Decoteau Family
July 15, 2010
Although we did not spend time with you, we always new you as Grandma Rita. We can remember playing bust, birthday's with Holly and Holiday's together with you and grandpa Gene. We love you all and our hearts are with you in this time of loss.
Love your granchildren Bryant jr & Nicholas Decoteau. Condolences from your Great Grandson Joshua Drake & Jessica (Bryant jr Wife)
Donna Allen Decoteau
July 15, 2010
This candle represents an honor. The honor we were blessed with to have crossed paths in life. The years we grew together was difficult at first, but as years past we bulit a relationship I will never forget. I feel better to know that at one time recently I was able to tell you how much I love you and was greatful that we were not only family, but friends. You meant the world to my dad and gave us a wonderful little sister to ad. I will truely miss you,but you will always be in my heart and mind, until we meet again. PLease just save me a seat for when I get there.
Bill Tibus
July 15, 2010
Barry and Jean,
I am genuinely saddened at the passing of your mom. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
July 15, 2010
Those who knew Rita, know that she was a loving, caring mother, wife and friend, who had a lot to give and gave it freely. She will be missed and remembered and that's all any of us can ask of our time here on earth. Keep her in your hearts as we will in ours and we will surely be together again somewhere, some day. Brother - law Frank and Joan
Barbara Allen- Henderson
July 15, 2010
First of all, i'd like to say i'm sorry for the worlds loss.
Rita came into my life at a very young age, at first it wasn't so easy as one would think, but thru the years we had grown to love each other as family. so i truely will miss our long talks on the phone and the times we did get to spend together, i will always remember the way you laughed when i said my daddy. and will never forget your spaghetti with sauce and iced coffee.
MISS YOU ALREADY!
July 15, 2010
Barry and Family so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I've known your mom as long as I've know you. please give us a call when your in the RI area.
401 467 5118. Again so sorry about your Mom.
Cousin Mickey Torgan
July 15, 2010
Barry and Jean,
We are thinking of you both and praying that God will give you and your family the strength to bear this terrible loss.
Peggy and Jacques
jason flynn
July 15, 2010
Karen, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this tragic loss. The world lost a great women in your mother . God bless.
Cindy LaChappelle
July 15, 2010
Karen, Barry, Holly and Gene, I'm so sorry for your loss. May God keep her in his grace. I love you all.
July 15, 2010
Karen, I am so sorry for your loss. my heart goes out to you and your family, ( Gail Robidoux) Texas
Lisa Martin
July 15, 2010
Uncle Gene, Holly and Rita's other children,
May God Bless you during your time of sorrow. Your memories will help you until you are together again. Holly and Uncle Gene I love you and will help you in anyway I can. I am sorry for your great loss.
Love, Lisa Martin
Lisa Coen-Byrnes
July 15, 2010
Condolences, thoughts and prayers being sent to all of you.
Lisa, David,Chelsea, Markita, Dyllon
Gene Allen
July 15, 2010
Goodbye my friend, my wife,my love I'll
miss you every day of the rest of my life. My heart cries for you. Gene
The Staff of Pontarelli-Marino Funeral Home
July 15, 2010
Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
Denise Robinson
July 15, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you through this sad time god bless you all
July 15, 2010
Karen, my heart goes out to you and your family. You were a wonderful daughter to your mom.
Love,
Barbara Azevedo
Martin Bailey
July 15, 2010
Holly, my sincerest and most heart felt condolences to you and your family at this sad time. - Martin
Charlie Beaver
July 15, 2010
Barry, Maryann and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. You have our deepest sympathy.
Charlie & Maryann Beaver
John Wurtz
July 15, 2010
Barry, Anna and I want to extend our condolences to you and your family for the loss of your Mom.
Your Friends, John and Anna Wurtz
Edie Greene
July 15, 2010
To Rita's Family
Rita was a lovely, kind woman, I enjoyed being in her company.
Cheryl
July 15, 2010
Words can not express how much my heart
is broken, we shared a lot of good times
and I will treasure them always,
Love Cheryl
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