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Rita Deet Obituary
RITA
Age 83, of Penn Hills, on Wednesday, May 28, 2003; beloved wife of the late Justin "Jeff" Deet; mother of Joseph T. and Denis D. Deet; mother in-law of Susan and Marguerite; grandmother of Nancy, Gregory, Emily, Mary Susan, and Katelyn; sister of the late Peg Gormley. Rita was the beloved Receptionist at the law firm of Dickie, McCamey, and Chilcote for 52 years; also a member of St. Bartholomew Church for 32 years. Friends received Thursday, 7-9 and Friday, 2-4 and 7-9pm at CHARLES W. TRENZ, INC., FUNERAL DIRECTOR & PRE-NEED COUNSELOR. 11110 Frankstown Road, Penn Hills. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Bartholomew Church, Saturday, 10am. Interment in Calvary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Bartholomew Church, 111 Erhardt Dr., Pgh, PA 15235.
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Connie Miller
May 23, 2023
As this popped up in my mailbox today it brought such a smile to my face to remember Rita today. I so looked forward to seeing her on fridays and the occasional recombs on Mondays and just have wonderful conversation and spending that hour or so with her. Such a special caring lady.
Just wanted you to know how much of an impact this wonderful lady had in my life. More people should be like her today.
Thomas Deet
June 6, 2003
Aunt Rita was the source of many fond memories. She was one of the kindest human beings that I have ever known. She will be missed. My love and prayers are with her children.
Karen Joos
June 5, 2003
Rita was a beautiful lady with a personality that warmed the room. She made a lasting impression that will always be remembered even to those who are no longer at DMC. My deepest sympathies to her family, as well as to her friends at DMC.
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Mary Krall
June 1, 2003
To the family of Rita I express my deepest sympathy. I've known Rita for 25 years. She has always been a true friend and special person to me. Rita always had a smile on her face when you came into the office each day. We would talk every morning with each other, I will surely miss our morning chats. Rita never spoke bad of anyone, and never complained about anything. (well, maybe the snow and wind, she never wanted her hair to get messed up). Rita was such a caring person and would always ask about my family and prayed for everyone. I would ask Rita to pray for me when I would see her going to mass each morning, and she would say to me "I pray for all sinners". She loved everyone and everyone loved her. I will never forget my dear Rita and DMC will never be the same without her. I only hope I can be half as good the person Rita was. Who will tell me the next time I call off work, that it is a work day, and get in here? You always had a way of making some of us feel guilty for calling off sick, on those days we weren't sick. God sure is lucky to have you in heaven with Him. I love you Rita D. Deet
Kathy Reed
June 1, 2003
Rita was the kindest and gentlest soul I have ever had the opportunity to know. We worked together for over 20 years and she always had a smile on her face and a good word to say about everyone. I will miss her wit and charm and the office will not be the same without her. My favorite phrase when I recently caught her at the desk putting on lipstick was "Just putting some paint on the old house." We love you Rita, God bless you and keep you.
Howard Schulberg
May 31, 2003
No words can express the loss we feel. Rita will always be remembered as the quintessential Director of First Impressions. Seeing her sitting at the front desk was always a ray of sunshine when most needed. She will be missed.
Earon Williams
May 30, 2003
Rita will forever be one of the greatest legacies of Dickie McCamey. She was an angel and a joy to be around. Earth's loss is truly Heaven's gain.
Debbi Papalazaros
May 30, 2003
I was heartbroken to hear about Rita. She was probably the most wonderful woman I have ever known. She helped me through some very difficult times. Although I no longer work at DM&C, I feel the loss and know that things are forever changed. May everyone remember how special she was to us.
Donna Fry
May 30, 2003
Though I've only known Rita for 4 short years, she was someone very special and dear to me. She has touched my heart and my life as only one other person has ever done, my mom. She was truly a blessing and an angel. I believe I am a better person today and feel blessed for having had the chance to know her. Rita - I'll miss seeing you at the mall on Saturday mornings (shopping for those bargins). When I look in the evening sky, I know the brightest star will be you watching over all of us. You will be truly missed.
Deborah Pattison
May 30, 2003
Rita was the best and most easy going co-worker. She had a wonderful sense of humor and cared about and loved everyone. She will be so deeply missed by all. My deepest sympathies to her family.
Cindy Pollack
May 29, 2003
I have known Rita for only 4 years but I feel very blessed to have known her. Rita was always cheerful and very kind to me. She always made all of the secretaries feel important. When I would call off work sick and Rita would pickup the phone, she'd say to me, "Don't worry honey. Just get well soon." Then when I would get into the office the next day, Rita would always ask me how I was feeling and if I felt better. She always cared so much about all of us. I will miss her smile, kind words and caring that she showed to me over the years. Our firm has definitely lost a treasure but the Lord has definitely gained one.
Andrea (Meshanko) Fedoronko
May 29, 2003
I met Rita at Dickie McCamey in 1978. I was only employed there for 8 months, but she has never forgotten my name. Fortunately for me, I saw her at St. Bart's just a few weeks ago and got to say hello to her again. She was a very special lady and will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathy to her family at home - and to her family at Dickie McCamey.
Karen Funaiock
May 29, 2003
Rita was a very special person whom I know will be missed very much. I wish to express my deepest sympathy to Rita's family throughout this difficult period of time. Walking into Dickie McCamey will never be the same without Rita to greet you!
Robert Karpinski
May 29, 2003
I was a legal messenger for Dickie, McCamey & Chilcote from 1970-1974. Due to her friendliness and professionalism, Rita is probably the most widely known person in Pittsburgh's legal community! I think of Rita every year at about this time, since, for many, many years, she would send me a birthday card on our mutual birthday. My condolences to her family.
connie miller
May 29, 2003
What a Special lady Ive had the honor and pleasure of taking care of the last 25 plus years! "Miss Deet" as we all have lovingly referred to her as, began coming to me as a client before I was married and had my children, and we "grew" up together sharing stories of her grandkids and my children who are close in age.I felt as if I knew Nancy,Greg,Emmy, Mary and Kate like my own kids. I always admired her kindness, her thoughtfulness, her ever upbeat and cheerful disposition, no matter what life threw at her.When youve been in my business as long as I have been, some people become as close to you as your own family, a spot Rita has held for a very long time.
To all of Ritas Family, Joe and Denny(thanks for bringing her in).. and their Families...you certainly had the finest of mothers and grandmothers,and I have felt priveleged to be able to work so closely with her.I will truly miss her.
Id like to say in Ritas behalf... Hope they have coupon sales in Heaven,then I know she will feel right at home.
Love You "Miss Deet"
Connie Miller,her hairdresser
John & Marianne Corbett
May 29, 2003
Our deepest sympathies and condolences for your loss. She and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Pupo Lenihan
May 29, 2003
I first met Rita when I started working as a law student at Dickie McCamey in 1982 and I will never forget her! She was a special person, and although I have not been at the firm for many years, whenever I would call or come by Rita would remember me and ask about my children. She was a delightful person whom I feel privileged to have known. My deepest sympathy to her family.
Helen Ballariel
May 29, 2003
Rita: We had such a special relationship. You were like my ma at work. Always encouraging me to live life to the fullest. You will be missed. I will always love you.
Nicole Hulbert
May 29, 2003
Rita was a wonderful lady. She will be missed dearly by everyone who had the opportunity to know her.
Lee Lasich
May 29, 2003
I met Rita four years ago when I began working with her. She was someone so special that everyone who met her loved and respected her -- not only was she a treasure to speak with, but someone who knew so much about our office and life in general. She has touched so many people with her kindnesses and caring nature. My heartfelt sympathies are extended to her family and friends.
Ann Unger
May 29, 2003
Rita inspired me to be a better person by her thoughtfulness in words and deeds. Though I fall short, she never did. It always meant a lot to me that she took the time to have a mass said for my mother when she died. My sympathies to her family on their loss.
Virginia Craig
May 29, 2003
Heaven is getting a very "special angel." Rita will be missed so much by so many. God Bless Rita and her family.
Sondra Fandray
May 29, 2003
Rita cared about all of us at DMC as though we were her own family. She was a source of great comfort to me during my mother's recent illness and death. Chatting with her each morning started off my work day in a happy way. She was too special for words.
Meghan Cavanaugh
May 29, 2003
The great thing about Rita is that she always took the time to talk to you. And she was never, ever in a bad mood. She really set a positive tone for the entire firm. A true people person, her warm and engaging personlity will be greatly missed.
David & Judi Bloom
May 29, 2003
Rita Deet was a wonderful woman full of love and caring for everyone. She was an inspiration for everyone she met with her warm personality and her devotion to her job and the people that she worked with. She will be greatly missed, but she will live on in our hearts. We loved her.
Denis Hirkulich
May 29, 2003
My deepest sympathy and condolences to your family ( Joseph Deet )
Clare and John Cox
May 29, 2003
Mrs. Deet was a wonderful lady. Her ability to juggle so many things simultaneous while keeping exact track of each of them always amazed me.
Peter Santos
May 29, 2003
Rita's wonderful personality and kindness will never be duplicated and forever missed.
Pamela Graves
May 29, 2003
To the family of Rita Deet:
Let me first express my deepest sympathy for your loss. At times like these words of comfort seem to sound hollow but they are truly heart felt. Rita was a very special person and made everyone that she came in contact with feel special. I will miss seeing her and having her greet me first thing in the morning. She has left you a great legacy more valuable than money or any other earthly thing.
Mel O'Brien
May 29, 2003
Rita was a very special person. I work in one of our branch offices and spoke with Rita many times a day. I will always miss our short chats. Calling Pittsburgh won't be the same.
Anna Ewing-Pruss
May 29, 2003
To Rita's credit, I cannot think of another person who will be missed by so many people. She was truly the heart of our firm.
Barb Thon
May 29, 2003
Our Dear Sweet Wonderful Rita will be missed everyday that we walk through the doors of Dickie, McCamey & Chilcote. Everyone that knew Rita loved her. All of our hearts are breaking. I started at the firm right out of high school, over 20 years ago and felt like she was a second grandmother to me. She was here through my marriage and birth of both of my children. One of the most amazing qualities about Rita was her ability to remember every child's name, every spouse's name and every client she met once that came through the doors of the office. Her sweet smile every morning will be sorely missed. We loved her. God Bless Rita
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