Robert Frederick Clark

Dear Family and Friends,


This album was created in
loving memory of
Robert F. and Catherine F. Clark
to celebrate their lives and their legacies.

Thank you to all who were a part of my Father and Mother's Lives. If you shared your kind and loving sentiments, I also want to thank you
for help making the album more meaningful and unique.
Your memories of special times and stories are very comforting and inspiring.

Dad and I once attended an enjoyable lecture at his parish church. The priest was a guest speaker who quoted John Wesley, founder of Methodism (1703-1791):

"Do all the good you can,

By all the means you can,

In all the ways you can,

In all the places you can,

At all the times you can,

To all the people you can,

As long as ever you can."


Mom and Dad life's journey together showed us how they loved, honored and served God, each other, their family, friends and community. My parents were a very good example of excellent parents but more importantly, good and decent people.

My parents were not perfect and they would be the first to openly admit that, but they tried their best. If they failed, they would try again and if they made a mistake, they would apologize. They were quick to forgive and demonstrated unconditional love.

I think that my Mother and Father through their daily actions completed as much good, with all of their means, in all of their ways, in all of their places, at all their times to all of the people they could and they did so for as long as they ever could.

You could be Family, Friend or Acquaintance but somehow you touched and helped shape their lives into becoming the beautiful and loving people they were and always will be.

Dad and Mom will forever be the Patriarch and Matriarch role models to my entire family and me.

Bob and Kitty will be forever remembered in our cherished memories and hearts of all of us.

We will love and miss you always Mom and Dad!


Grace n' Blessing,

Elisa Marie Clark Arrigo

In Loving Memory Of
ROBERT F. CLARK

Prayer Card for Robert F. Clark


The Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi


Lord, make me a channel of thy peace,

that where there is hatred,
I may bring love;

that where there is wrong,
I may bring the spirit of forgiveness;

that where there is discord,
I may bring harmony;

that where there is error,
I may bring truth;

that where there is doubt,
I may bring faith;

that where there is despair,
I may bring hope;

that where there are shadows,
I may bring light;

that where there is sadness,
I may bring joy.

Lord, grant that I may seek rather to
comfort than to be comforted;

to understand, than to be understood;

to love, than to be loved.

For it is by self-forgetting that one finds.

It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.

It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life.


Dear Family and Friends,

Merrie and I chose this prayer for Daddy because we believed it was the most accurate reflection of his values and beliefs. Dad personified this prayer by his behaviors and actions throughout his lifetime. It seemed very appropriate for Dad's prayer card. We know he awakened to Eternal Life with Mom.

In Loving Memory Of
CATHERINE F. CLARK


Prayer Card for Catherine Clark:

A Prayer to Our Blessed Mother

Take my hand, O Blessed Mother
Hold me firmly lest I fall
I grow nervous while walking and
Humbly on thee call.

Guide me over every crossing,
Watch me when I'm on the stairs
Let me know that you're beside me
Listen to my fervent prayers.

Bring me to my destination
Safely along the way
Bless my every undertaking
And my duties for the day.

And when evening creeps upon me
I'll never fear to be alone
Once again, O Blessed Mother
Take my hand and lead me home.


To Family and Friends:

My Parents were very devout Catholics and held The Blessed Mother in very high regard. The Rosary was prayed daily by them and at the end, this was their closing prayer.

In Memory of Bob and Kitty:


When our son, Tommy, married Bob and Kitty's lovely daughter, Lisa, we felt that we had been blessed with another daughter and now we had two. We also were blessed with the special friendship and family ties that connected us with Bob and Kitty.


I can remember when Tom, my husband, and I spent the day with Bob and Kitty in their home in Melbourne which they had recently moved into as they planned for retirement. Kitty had a friendly and loveable way about her. Bob of course was quite witty and very easy going. It was an eventful day spent with two great people.


Bob would keep in touch with phone calls and I truly enjoyed his jokes he told me. I really got a kick out of the joke he told where three nuns were gossiping about the priest. The first nun stated she found naughty magazines in his desk. The second nun asked her what did she do with them; she answered I threw them out. The second nun stated she found a box of condoms in his dresser. The first nun asked her what did she do with them; the second nun answered I poked holes in them. The third nun fainted. Bob really had a good sense of humor.


I remember the kindness they always paid to my Mother, Vera, who enjoyed their company immensely. My Mother loved jokes and had many laughs with Bob and his joyful jokes. Bob and Kitty gave my Mother a pair of earrings for her birthday one year and Mom loved them. She appreciated their thoughtfulness.


It was a pleasure to have had them as friends and family. Bob and Kitty Clark will always be remembered by me with much love and affection.


Sincerely,

Jean Arrigo

Fond memories of Fort Lauderdale Beach and the Clark Family are treasured by us children. Our favorite spot was just next to The Yankee Clipper Hotel. We would load up the cooler with Chek sodas and fill the inner tubes at John's Gulf Station. We would spend the entire day swimming, playing, looking for crabs on the rocks and enjoying a delicious meal of hamburgers and hotdogs. We always looked forward to our beach days.

Thank you Mom and Dad for making life's simple moments such special times for us. You are always in our hearts.

I love you.

Merry Christmas Dad and Mom.

This was an extraordinary time of the year for you two, and you made it special for me and my brothers and sisters. Mom had prepared the house with decorations and food and Dad had sung loud and proud at the Christmas Mass. These are splendid memories.

Thank you so much for influences we now share with our families.

Timothy John Clark

My Grandparents embodied a philosophy that guides me rather well in my life. God intended life to be a journey full of hardship, but more importantly listening, learning, and loving. So,take risks and opportunities. Try things that scare you. And love like you've never been hurt because life is too short not to. I love you two.

Merry Christmas Grandpa Bob and Grandma Kitty


Kimi Clark

Uncle Freddy

My wife and I loved and enjoyed our Uncle Freddy. He stayed with us for three days when my Father (his older Brother) passed. He told us stories about my Father and Mother that we never knew. He also helped us get through a very hard time when my Father passed.

One time, on a previous stay, Uncle Freddy wanted to go to the AT&T store in Fairview Heights, Illinois. It was just a few miles away. He wanted to eat lunch after the visit to the AT&T, at Steak & Shake because he had coupons for all of us and even promised us it would hardly cost us anything to eat there.

On the way to AT&T, he kept telling us about these tremendous coupons he brought with him. Even when we reached the AT&T store, he was still talking about his great coupons so we knew we had to go to Steak & Shake although there were several other good places to eat close by. Well, when we finally reached Steak & Shake and when we went in to be seated, we asked what food the coupons were for. He then said: I really don't have any coupons. I just wanted to eat at Steak & Shake.

That is our Uncle Freddy and why we love him so much!

With our love,
Cousins Eddie and Paula Clark
Uncle Freddy's nephew and niece

Dad allowed us to see the majesty of the Rocky Mountains

He took us down into the depths of the Grand Canyon

He drove us through the cathedrals of the Redwood Forest

He allowed us to sleep in the shadow of Yosemite

He walked us through the wonders of Yellowstone

He showed us the mighty works of God's hands

Greater than all that he did, though, was what he was

He was a life well lived

He rose to the greatest challenge of being a loving husband and selfless father

He accepted nothing less from us than always striving to learn

He equipped us to reach for our goals

Dad taught each of us, his children, integrity, responsibility and accountability

He daily lived out the example of what he expected from each of us

His life was a living role model and was a part of the Last Great Generation

He stood tall without the need for attention, applause or fanfare

His dignity, confidence, faith, and love blessed all that knew him

We will forever carry him and his legacy in our hearts

Most of all, we will continue to honor him with our lives

Dad, thank you for being my father and for living a life well lived

Mom, hug and hold him again as you both now walk with our Eternal Father

"Robert F. Clark Plaza"
1992: Park Plaza Dedication
Resolution No. 92-63

A resolution of the City of Miami Commission authorizing the designation of a plaza and placement of appropriate plaza designation signage in the area of Northwest 1st Avenue and Northwest 1st Street, Miami, Florida in honor of "Robert F. Clark , Esquire":

Whereas, Robert F. Clark, Esquire, dedicated over twenty-seven years of service to the City of Miami as an Assistant Attorney, Deputy City Attorney and Chief Deputy City Attorney , and lastly as Special Counsel to the City Attorney, and

Whereas, effective September 17, 1991, Robert F. Clark, Esquire, permanently retired from the City of Miami, and

Whereas, the City Commission, the City Administration and Robert F. Clark's fellow employees in the City Attorney's Office and other City Departments deem it fitting in honor of Robert F. Clark, Esquire, for his extensive contribution and dedication to the City of Miami.

Therefore, The Miami City Commission hereby accepts the Miami Street Codesignation Committee's recommendation for a plaza designation in the area of Northwest 1st Avenue and Northwest 1st Street, Miami, FL honoring "Robert F. Clark, Esquire."

I will always admire how much Grandpa and Grandma Clark loved each other. One day I want to have a relationship just as strong as my grandparents. They are both role models to me. One day when I become a Father I'll be honored to share the same kindness and wisdom with my children.

I am forever blessed to have been touched by their light. The impression Mom and Dad left on my heart is forever cherished. They accepted me for who I am and welcomed me into the family as one of their own. They taught me so much about marriage, family, forgiveness, acceptance, and grace. Our fun and funny family vacations together, plus three years getting to live in their "neck of the woods" remains priceless. Their unconditional love, friendship and the example they lived by their faith remains foremost in my heart every day. Their guidance and love is a legacy that will be treasured by us forever.

Grandpa Clark was a man of many skills! He was undoubtedly one of the most intelligent, wise, and caring people I have ever had in my life. His creative sense of humor, sharp tongue, and big heart brought love, smiles, and a sense of inclusiveness to everyone he talked to. I am truly blessed to have had such a faithful and loving role model in my life like Grandpa!

Love you always!
Jeni

I am very honored to have shared some of my life with Robert F. Clark. The world is a better place because he was here and I know I am certainly a better person because of the time I spent with him.

I met Bob in 1985 when I was offered the job as City of Miami Executive Secretary to the City Attorney, but the position was actually to work with Chief Deputy Robert F. Clark as his Assistant and Legislative Coordinator to write, edit and process the legislation that was considered by the Commission of the City of Miami. Before I accepted the position and left my current position as one of the City of Miami Beach Administrative Secretaries to the City Manager I wanted to meet Mr. Clark to be sure he was someone I could work with, though the Miami City Attorney and support staff already told me that I would adore working with him.

I was escorted to Mr. Clark's Office and began my first conversation with RFC' (as he was affectionately known). I immediately felt comfortable with him. As I sat in his office, people continually interrupted to pick his brain and the phone rang incessantly off the hook, I recognized that RFC was not only the City Attorney's Office guru but the guru of the entire City Administration right on up to the Mayor. During this interview I remember asking more questions of Bob than he of me. In later years when we spoke of our first meeting Bob told me that I was actually the one conducting the interview, but that was okay with him because he had already been advised by the City Attorney that he and I were perfect for each other and he wanted me to come to that conclusion on my own so if that meant he was the one being interviewed it was fine with him!

I accepted the position and working with Mr. Clark proved to be the most rewarding and educational times of my work life. Bob was the ultimate team leader/member and friend. He freely gave of his time and knowledge to anyone who approached him. We sometimes worked 16-18 hours a day together, where he displayed more kindness and respect than anyone I have ever known. He never lost his temper, he never raised his voice, always was polite, and always shared any food or snacks he had! His wife Kitty lovingly announced that since I am with him more hours a day than she was I earned the special relationship of work-wife' and she accepted that she was his family-wife'.

When Bob announced he was retiring my heart sank, for I knew I there would never again be another co-worker like Bob. But my work-wife' psyche accepted that it was finally time for Bob to work less and enjoy his life more with his wife and family. Even though Bob and Kitty moved to Melbourne and the opportunity to visit with him became lessened, the affection and respect we had for each was forever. Whenever Bob came to town he and Kitty would come to visit me, bearing that infectious grin and always bringing a gift. Until the year that Bob left us, he never missed remembering my birthday, or acknowledging my celebration of Passover or Hanukkah.

I want to thank you RFC for your friendship, love, kindness, and knowledge. You were one of the most positive influences in my life. You are and will always be eternally in my heart.

Beverly Solomon

My desire is to share Words of Life Celebration of My Dad and of My Mom

Mom and Dad, Bob and Kit This words evoke strong feelings and experiences of generosity, understanding, patience, knowledge, stories, support, guidance - all of the elements of thriving relationships based on solid love!

These two were like yin and yang, inseparable, so connected, yet independent, Go ask your Father Mom would say, meanwhile my Dad would state If your Mother said so. Separation of power and yet a fine balance of power.

Those two beautiful spirits showed us God's love by example, through their life's interactions, through their love for one another. Both imparted superb values on my character - My Dad taught me honesty and integrity, My Mom taught me respect and perseverance.

I measure my relationships on theirs they provided a compass and map to enable my brothers and sisters to live a full life spiritually, intellectually, socially, and physically. They set a high bar and I always strive to reach it. Michelle and I hope to guide Kimi, Jeni, and Ian just as well as Mom and Dad guided me.

Whether it is Mom and Dad or Bob and Kit, these two demonstrated to family and friends how to live in God's love and grace. You two created a remarkable legacy and strongly influenced so many people's lives.

Mom and Dad, I love you so dearly and I will always remember you with a smile.

Your Son,
Timothy John Clark

May you have beefsteak when you are hungry,
Whiskey when you are dry,
Money when you need it,
And Heaven when you die.

Dear Family of Robert F. Clark,

I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Bob and I am very sorry for your tremendous loss.

Bob was my best friend for over 60 years. I first met Bob at St. Louis University Law School in 1950. We had much in common for example, we were both more casual and less formal than our fellow classmates as evidenced by our SLU year book photographs which show us wearing bow ties and the others wearing the more traditional ties.

Bob could do anything and he liked to do it all. He had more lines (extracurricular activities) in his biography listed than anyone in our class. He was not out front taking credit necessarily for his contributions. Bob could let someone else be the star. He would not need to be the head or in charge of anything but would work tirelessly to get the job done.

I will always remember the good times we had when Marcie, my wife, and I would get together with Bob and Kitty. I was happy to be part of their wedding party. I understand that the Holy Bible I gave to them on their Wedding Day has remained in the family and is considered a treasure. Bob and Kitty's 50th Wedding Anniversary Cruise in 2005 was a wonderful celebration of their special love. I was so happy to be part of the festivities that included their family and close friends.

Bob was the most sober of us but enjoyed his beer like the rest of us. He was very quick to laugh with his Irish sense of humor. He even sent me the Rules of Irish Pub Etiquette in addition to many other books and articles over the years of our friendship.

Bob Clark was my dear friend and an even better man. It was a blessing to have enjoyed so much time in the company of such a wonderful man and human being. He will be remembered in my prayers.

My sincere sympathy,
Chuck Ohmer

Poppa Clark was undeniably one of the most charming, funny, and loved men in any room. Although no longer with us in flesh, his toasts, jokes, and sayings still resonate profoundly in our minds. He had a special way of making all of his children and grandchildren feel special. His generosity still amazes me. Without him and Nana Kitty, many of us grandchildren probably would not have been able to go to college. For that, I am forever grateful. I am who I am today in great part because of you two.

Poppa,
I'll miss your amazing birthday cakes, asking me to count eggs, "what's your name again?" and your jokes. You are one of the most beautiful people that I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. Thank you for raising my father into such an amazing man. You are truly an amazing example of what a husband, father, grandfather, and friend is. As i've told you before, if I have half the relationship that you and Nana had, then i'll be just fine. I miss you everyday. May you continue to watch over us.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Dad was a very special man. I have many fond memories of him and Mom. What I remember most about Dad was his patience and calm demeanor he always maintained in any given situation. One day, for example, Dad found a very large snake in the sprinkler pump house on the side of 1341. He did not panic. Dad simply closed the lid and went to get the Encyclopedia to identify the snake and determined it was a python! He then called the appropriate agency to come and pick it up.

Dad was also a very generous and giving man. If you needed money and he had $10, he would give you $9 and keep one dollar. He was always there for me and my entire family to offer support and advice when needed. Dad made me feel special and always part of his family.

Mom was a very special lady and a great Mom. She was a good match for Dad and they both made a great couple. On Thanksgiving Day in 1983, on my first date with Lisa, I recall meeting Mom and Dad for the first time. Mom was walking down the sidewalk away from 1341 after having a heated discussion with Dad who had just used her kitchen pot to drain the oil on the family car for an oil change. Dad didn't think it was a big deal but Mom disagreed. It was always interesting to be part of the Clark Family.

I am grateful to have had Dad and Mom for my in-laws. Thank you for everything. I love and miss you both.

I am grateful for all the wonderful things that my grandfather has provided for me.I remember all the good times we use to have and all the valuable lessons he taught me. Grandpa was always there for me whenever I needed his assistance. He was a great man and a greater grandfather.

Grandma Kitty was also a very special lady and wonderful grandmother. She always made me feel special. I still have the "quillow" she made for me.

My Grandparents were very important to me and I have much to thank them for in my life. Their gift of education was awesome and I really appreciate it. I love and miss them very much.

As Concerns Robert Clark:
I met Robert (Bob) Clark 10 years ago through Father Gabriel Council of the Knights of Columbus. Bob was a very unassuming gentleman, we made friends easily. As I got to know him, we became traveling companions, traveling to K of C Meetings and functions.
A vacancy occurred in the Office of Council Advocate and I asked Bob if he would consider taking on the duties. He agreed and at the next meeting I nominated him, there was a quick second with a call for affirmation and Bob was elected.
At some point in time I asked Bob if he would undertake a project of contacting the elderly members of the council to inquire of their health and about their spouses, among other things and he agreed. Bob kept a meticulous log of those phone interviews. I had given him a script so that he could conduct the business and not have to grasp at straws. He was great and established good rapport with members we had not heard from in many years.
I used to pick Bob up at his home, he would be sitting in the front alcove smoking his cigarillos. I told him that they were not good for him and he would respond, that at this time, it didn't matter and I agreed. When I would drop him off, he would thank me for the ride and how much he appreciated my being his accommodating friend. I would turn the car around so that I could observe him walking up the walk and open the door; we would wave to each other and I would motor out.
I kept pace with Bob's need for medical attention and would visit him weekly to bring him Good News and Eucharist. We both enjoyed our encounters. Near the end of his time, I came to the room and found the Clan from California. I asked if they minded if Bob and I did our thing, and they asked if they couldn't participate with us. This presented a small problem in that I only had the Consecrated Hosts and that there were 6 to receive. I stated that even a half of a Concreted Host was the same as a whole and they said that that was what they believed. And so we began with the ritual. While Bob was up and present he was in a seventh heaven. It was in deed a grace filled moment. I was for all the time that Bob was in the nursing facility, in awe of his daughter Lisa the busy diva. She acting as the nurse that she was trained to be and loving daughter, giving her precious dad the gentlest care. I can only hope that my children respond to my needs as so. Physically Bob is no longer going to meetings with me, but I feel his presents and it is a comfort to me to have had such a good man be my friend.
Herman Bishop

When I read all these wonderful tributes to Dad I find it hard to put into words what this wonderful man meant to me, I should say wonderful family. You see I am the third daughter and Mom and Dad treated me exactly that way. I was included in every dinner, Christmas, birthday, cleaning of the freezer, bathrooms, sewing room and coffee at the breakfast bar many, many mornings. Sometimes it was just me and Dad. I got all the lectures, jokes, guidance and love as if I was just part of the family. I was at their house probably every day of my life. You felt the love, it was simple, pure, real, based on God. If you were lucky enough to know them you got that. Nothing fancy just pure and simple help and love, whatever you needed. Dad never forgot me, some years he was the only birthday card I got and always signed to my third daughter. I have so many memories with them. I think of Mom and Dad often, miss them, love them.

Papa Clark was definitely one of those Once-In-A-Lifetime individuals that had the ability to touch and leave an unforgettable impression on everyone that had an opportunity to meet this great man. His unique personality, sense of humor, and intelligence resonated through every room that he walked through.

The countless newspaper articles that he specially cut out for me, the documentaries and the movies that he would record, and the books that he would notate and pass on left a major impression upon me and his lesson was simple, Never. Stop. Learning.

Later on in my life, he had a famous question for me that everyone receives, which was, what do you want to be when you grow up? That question never stopped throughout my learning years and I have him to thank for understanding the importance of growing up. But, at the same time I have him to thank for teaching me to remain young at heart.

My Papa Clark told the best stories, surprised you with the funniest jokes, and showed everyone love through his actions. I'm sure God is cracking up at this very moment while Papa sets up his next joke.

I love you, Papa.

The Clarks taught their children the art of love, faith and family. Those sentiments are reflected in the additional writings of the last 16 months. They could not ask for a better tribute than the joy of remembering them. Both my husband and I worked with your Dad when we were at the City. He was a joy to work with and one of the most pleasant men to work with. You were all so lucky. I guess we all were. To know Bob Clark was to love Bob Clark. They bought my 1983 Oldsmobile and your Mother put 150,000 miles on it.. I hardly broke it in. Your Dad was one who would tell Paul; anytime you want to sell your cars, I'm a likely buyer.. The Webers

Grandpa and Grandma Kitty taught me that education was one thing that no one could take away from you. Maybe that's why Grandpa always sent me books cause he knew I not only loved to read but that I also loved to learn. From books on basic grammar, how to write, and to understanding the Catholic Faith Grandpa helped me build my own library.

Grandma Kitty helped me to appreciate the beauty in making things. Though I was young, Grandma was the one who taught me to be crafty. I know that I got my artistic skills from her as I find joy in making gifts for my friends and family.

Grandpa also knew how to make me laugh! When he found out how much I enjoyed the comic section of the newspaper he would save them and mail them to me. Grandpa and Grandma taught me that it's the little things that matter most in life.

I was blessed to be able to spend the summers I did with him. The time I spent will always be some of the best times of my life. I will always remember the lessons he imparted unto me and hours we spent discussing life, philosophy, religion, or politics. I don't believe we ever changed the others mind on anything but we kept trying none the less. I learned much about him during this, the little idiosyncrasies that made him tick. His sleep cycle, how he took his coffee, his driving habits (which were not impeccable, despite having never gotten a ticket actually), and many other things that I was lucky to learn. I will remember him for the rest of my days and do my best to live by the lessons he taught me.

I know this is the guest book for my father, Robert F. Clark, but how can I not include my mother, Catherine F. Clark?
I am their "free spirit" youngest child who is forever grateful for their unconditional love, unwavering support, and faith in me, Merrie Christine.
Knowing that I had been raised with a rock solid foundation, I have been able to face all of life's challenges, most especially this chasm of loss called Death. It was Mom's departure from this life that I matured in so many ways.
Mom had a zest & passion for all things creative. She toyed with the idea of reincarnation. Of course, Kitty would return as a black cat with luminous slanted green eyes. Daddy and I mostly discussed pragmatic topics; the nuts & bolts of life. How will I get on in life? He was the one who pointed out that I must take care of myself, in order to care for my son, Gino.
I have questioned myself and doubted myself many times, but how Mom & Dad reared all 5 of us, has always given me strength and courage.
Daddy always had a knack for choosing the best birthday cards. I will never receive another; that's probably why I saved so many of the cards he mailed to me over the years. Besides the fact that "saving" is very much a Clark trait.
I leave you with the sentiments as my parents would sign to each other in their cards and what is etched in their wedding bands.
"With you to God.", Mommy to Daddy.
"My love forever.", Daddy to Mommy.
I miss you Mom & Dad. I love you both.
~ Merrie

It has been over 16 months since my Father passed and not a day goes by that I do not think of him and my Mother. This memory album has been a work in progress for many months. It was most difficult in the beginning as looking at all the wonderful pictures stirred so many memories that it took time to select just the right photos to depict our parents' lives. It is a loving tribute to their marriage, their commitment to God and Family.

I share with you my words of remembrance at my Father's Wake:

Lisa's Words of Remembrance
Friday, July 31, 2015


Hello and good evening.
I want to first introduce myself to all of you as some of you may not know who I am. My full name is Elisa Marie Clark Arrigo. I usually go by my nickname Lisa. I am Robert F. Clark's fourth child and his first daughter.

I want to thank all of you, family and friends, who came here tonight to help us celebrate and remember my loving Father. Hope you can also make it tomorrow. Your efforts to be here are much appreciated by me, all my siblings, and my family. I know many couldn't make it, although they wanted to come. I told them what my Dad would've said, You must take care of your family first.

Growing up with wonderful parents like mine was a blessing. My Mom and Dad were stellar parents and best friends to each other. Both were and continue to be role models for me, my husband Tom, and my children, Caitlin and Phillip. I can remember so many moments with my Father and the many stories that I made spending time with him. So in this eulogy I would like to share a brief glimpse into my treasured memories of my Dad, Robert F. Clark.

My Dad explained to me since St. James elementary school that my job was school and my report card was my salary. If I got all A's that was terrific but if I got B's and C's and was trying my best that was terrific too!
Writing a paper, any paper, was a project with him. Use a #1 pencil they write and erase more easily than others.
Skip lines just in case you need to insert sentence or make correction.
Use front page only as it is easier to read. He would have me outline the paper and I'd have to have the Dictionary by my side.

My Father not only encouraged his children but also encouraged our friends to continue their higher education Dad always told me "No one can take your education away from you."
A most unique memory that I hold dear to my heart is my Dad saying our nightly prayers with my sister, Merrie, and me. My Mom, Catherine F. Clark, wrote this very special prayer which my Dad and I continued to pray for the rest of his life. I now would like to share it with you.

"Mommy's Good Night Prayer"
Good night sweet Jesus my savior.
Good night sweet Mary my Mother.
I give you my heart, my soul, and my life
Oh keep thy child forever.
God Bless Everybody.
Thank you Dear God for this wonderful day.
Forgive me my sins and
Help me be a better person tomorrow,
and remember the intentions we pray for.
Amen

My Dad was the kind of Father every other child longs for He gave me a firm foundation of faith, he taught me the importance of honesty, patience, and forgiveness, but most importantly he showed me the meaning of love for family, friends, and strangers. Through his actions he encouraged me to be the best person I could be. I can only hope I am half the wonderful parent and person he was to me. I love you daddy.

We have been blessed to have Bob as a dear friend for many years. He was God's man in his service to mankind, a man of prayer and deep faith, a man of high moral character. Bob, you are loved and missed.
Andy & Jean Anderson

Uncle Bob was a friendly, kind and generous man. He had a great sense of humor and was always fun to be around. When he came to visit, the two of us would relax after dinner and tell jokes or talk about trips he and Aunt Kit had with Mom and Pop (Europe, Alaska). The Caribbean cruise, for their 50th wedding anniversary, was extra special as we were able to share it with the entire family. Although our physical distance separates us, Uncle Bob and all the Clarks mean so very much to us...Love, Bill & the Palermo family.

We as members of the Clark family have been blessed and graced with the presence of our parents like none other. We need to follow their example, so that our children can say the same!

Love,
Dan

Robert Clark- Where to begin such a awesome man,father,grandfather truly blessed to have a leader such as him in my life to guide and strive to push my brothers and my father in the right directions. Truly a special person proud to be cut from the same cloth as him. One of my favorite memories was when me and my father would go to visit. We would always leave home about noon and would arrive at grandma and grandpa's house around six in the afternoon, We would all sit around and eat a variety of leftovers then after I would ask to be excused from the table I would kick back and relax watching a movie and then the clock hit seven and grandpa would come take over the tv out of nowhere because it was time for jeopardy. Might be a simple memory but after about two hundred times of the same thing it sure does leave a memory. Grandpa Clark will always be a role model to me. His stories and love will always travel with me so I can share with my family and friends. I will always love you Papa and Granny!! I am glad you guys are both together in Heaven.

What can I say, I don't believe there are words that can describe the love or personality of grandpa and grandma they were larger than life.Their life has been a true testimony of two people that loved each other and everyone that was blessed to have known them.I just hope and pray that I can accomplish half as much as they did and to carry on the Clark legacy and make them proud.I thank God that I was blessed to have them in my life and call them my Grandparents! Love always DJ!

I think of my Parents daily ... Today would have been Daddy's 89th Birthday and this past Thursday the 4th Mommy would have been 91. I'm sure they are celebrating together . God bless them both❤ I know the entire family misses them and we think of them with love and appreciation always .
Grace n' Blessing,
Lisa

My father always spoke highly of Bob, and of the great times they had practicing law in Fort Lauderdale in the late 50's and early 60's. From my family, to Bob's family, our deepest condolences. Rest in Peace Bob.

My husband Paul and I worked with Bob at the City of Miami. He was a wonderful man to work with and most helpful in all anyone needed. He was, always, smiling and happy to help. His guidance was excellent. He loved his wife Kitty and family and loved life. We met him and Kitty when we moved up to our retirement home and had a lovely visit.. We lost a good man.. The best to the family he loved so much.

I'm the second oldest grandson and I just want to say I'm so proud to be a Clark! I never understood why grandpa and grandma pushed so hard for education and manners until I read Grandpa's obituary. He has accomplished more than any other person I have ever met. The footprints of a Legend. He always tried to push me to figure out what I wanted to do in life. I'm still totally clueless but what he has accomplished motivates me to be a better person and to never give up on my goals. Like everybody in my family said my Grandparents made you feel like you were special. They made me feel like I could do anything. They were always my support team! I have so many memories but it's always the small things that you appreciate. I remember being stuck at the kids table for years and then they finally gave me permission to sit at the adult table and it made me feel like I was on top of the world! Even after that I still had to ask for permission to be excused from the table after I finished my plate. I remember Grandma would put us to bed and then grandpa would come out and turn the tv back on and hang out with us. They were the most amazing people I have ever met. I'm glad they are both back together now! They are probably critiquing this, I just hope they find it acceptable. I'm really truly blessed to be part of a loving, caring, fun, argumentative, dramatic, stubborn, beautiful, cool and exceptionally smart family that they created! I couldn't ask for a better family or Grandparents! Clark Life Forever! Love you always!

Our sympathies on the death of your father, he will be sorely missed at our Apollo XI parliamentary unit. He always kept us on the straight and narrow with Robert's Rules of Order.

Love, prayers and condolences to the family. We were blessed to know Bob and will always remember his sense of humor and his willingness to always help others. We will miss our friend.

My sympathies to the family in your loss of Mr. Clark. He was such a wonderful and delightful person to work with. He was always excellent at giving me advice on family matters. He once told me to provide my children with the best nest and set of wings that I could possibly give them and not to worry about the rest because it's up to them to learn how to fly. HE WAS SOOOO RIGHT. May God bless you all I know you have many, many great memories. Much love Pat Blue from the City Attorneys Office.

My sincere condolences to the family. I had the pleasure of working with Bob in the City Attorney's office in Miami. Such a wonderful gentleman.
Rita Lagace

Thank you Uncle Bob for your kindness and love. You filled a room with your Spirit which we know lives on and on. You are in our hearts forever.

My sympathies to the family in your loss of Robert. May the God of all comfort (Psalm 83:18) give you the strength to cope during this time of loss.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, The Stampler Family

With thoughts of peace and courage for you and your family.

Mr. Clark was my first mentor in the legal profession while I was in law school. I met him as a law clerk for the City of Miami. Years later, I would often say that the most rewarding experiences in my legal career took place prior to starting my legal career thanks to his selflessness, work ethic, and willingness to share his vast knowledge on municipal law. He is and always shall be an inspiration for all who had the honor of working for or with him. May Mr. Clark rest in peace knowing he was such a positive influence on all who were blessed to know him.

My condolences to the family. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you.

To the Clark Family,

On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS and Swamp Fox Chapter SUBVETS WWII, I offer you our sincere condolences on Bob's passing. We grieve with you on the loss of your loved one and all SUBVETS and their families have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Bob will always be remembered as a Brother of the Phin, a member of our Greatest Generation, and a great Patriot.

QM3(SS) Robert Frederick Clark
US Navy WWII Submarine Veteran
Now on Eternal Patrol
Sailor Rest Your Oar
Your Shipmates Have The Watch

Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate

Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, Base Chaplain

Bob Clark was my mentor, an outstanding lawyer, supervisor, an articulate drafter and an astute administrator. He was a great influence on my career and was a true gentleman in his manner of being.