Robert W. Fish

Robert W. Fish obituary, Old Saybrook, CT

Robert W. Fish

Robert Fish Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 22, 2020.
Robert Fish passed away peacefully at Essex Meadows, surrounded by his loving family, on November 19th. He was 84. Robert was born on October 8, 1936, to Charles and Miriam Fish in Berks Country, Pennsylvania. He attended Penn State University where he was a member of Theta Delta Chi Fraternity. He gratuated with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering. Robert also earned an M.S. in Mathematics at R.P.I., and an M.B.A. in Finance from the University of New Haven. Robert worked at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft in the Engineering Program Management Department as Accountant and Controller for 28 years. Upon his retirement he began teaching Mathematics, Physics, Accounting and Finance at Middlesex Community College. Robert is survived by the love of his life, Madeleine, whom he met at Penn State. They were married for 62 years. Also surviving is their son, Douglas, Daughter-in-Law, Dianne and twin Granddaughters, Caitlin and Madeleine. After graduation Robert moved to Middletown, Connecticut. He and Madeleine settled in Old Saybrook in 1959. In over 60 years of living in Old Saybrook, Robert contributed to the town in so many ways; serving for 9 years on the Zoning Board of Appeals, 5 years as its chairman, 9 years on the Board of Education, 2 years on the Board of Finance, 4 years on the Board of Selectmen, with 1 year as First Selectman, Chairman of the Land Acquisition Committee, Conservation Commission, and had been Town Treasurer since 1999. In addition, Robert was a Scoutmaster for Boy Scout Troop 81 as well as a youth football coach. He was Founder and President of the Old Saybrook Education Foundation and had been Treasurer and President of the Old Saybrook Chamber of Commerce. Some of Robert's other activities aiding the town included; the purchase and stewardship of the Great Cedars Conservation Area, development of the Financial Plan for Old Saybrook, creation of the Land Use Application Fee Ordinance, and the Winterization Ordinance. He was the guiding force for construction of the Chalker Mill Pond Fishway. In 2017, the Town of Old Saybrook honored Robert and Madge, when the Annual Report was dedicated to them. In lieu of flowers, donations in Robert's memory may be made to the Monica Eggert Senior Center, in Old Saybrook, or an organization of your choice. Bob loved Old Saybrook!

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May 8, 2021

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December 4, 2020

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November 30, 2020

Helene Fenger posted to the memorial.

Tom Eyerly

May 8, 2021

Bob was one of my best friends at Penn State. We were both in the Mechanical Engineering program, but Bob was the scholar and I was the one he helped limp through. We parted ways when he graduated on time in 1958 and I had to come back for one more semester to pass Thermo without him. A lasting amusing memory is how Bob sometimes chose to spell his last name phonetically—“ghoti”. I mourn his passing, listed in my latest copy of the “Pennstater”, but treasure his friendship for those important PSU years. Tom Eyerly St. Augustine, Fl.

GERALD ZARGER

December 4, 2020

Dear Madge and family..Jerry and I are sadden with the passing of Bob, he was a true rock to his family and his home town. We have nice memories of dinners we shared together with our friends..and other nice events planned together and enjoyed. Our sympathies go to Bobs family as Bob is wrapped in Gods arms.


Love to all

Jerry and Betty Zarger

Helene Fenger

November 30, 2020

Dear Madge, Doug, Dianne, Madeleine, and Caitlin,

We are so incredibly sorry about Bob's passing. We have many wonderful, happy memories of family holidays together with all of you. Bob was such a kind, generous, and accomplished man...happy to share his wealth of knowledge on a variety of subjects. And he had the best laugh! We will cherish the memories of our great conversations with him, the fun we had at family gatherings, and watching him beam with pride as he spoke of his family. Wishing you all peace and comfort in the days ahead.

With love,
Helene ('Chip') & Jordan Fenger

Maud Delaney

November 26, 2020

Wow, Robert sounded like quite a guy. What a loss not only to your family,but to Old Saybrook. My deepest sympathies.

Barry ONell

November 26, 2020

Bob was a fine example of a dedicated servant for his community and a wonderful human being. We will miss him and feel blessed that he was part of our lives.

Janis Esty

November 24, 2020

My sincere sympathy, Bob was a true gentleman and an Old Saybrook Treasure. Bob will be missed by all of us who serve on Boards or Commissions.

Jan Perruccio

November 24, 2020

Madge,
I am so sorry for your loss. Old Saybrook is a better place because Bob was here.

Carol Conklin

November 24, 2020

Old Saybrook was lucky to have Bob! Bob was truly dedicated to the town and we had many good times, memories, and laughs planning Chamber events together being on the board at the same time. And then in town hall together.
He’s a tough act to follow, but we can all try!

Joe Wren

November 24, 2020

Madge and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great man and I thoroughly enjoyed my dealings with him over the years whether it was bumping into him at town hall or as a member of a land use board. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Sincere condolences. Joe Wren & Family

Rich Hanratty

November 23, 2020

Bob was one of the most genuine people I have ever met. He cared deeply about Old Saybrook and about the environment. He worked tirelessly to protect and stand up for what he believed in. The Great Cedars Conservation Area is forever preserved, thanks in large part to Bob. I am honored to have known him.
Rest in peace, Bob.

Leigh-Bette Maynard

November 22, 2020

Sincere and deep sympathies to your family. Bob was a wonderful man and a great inspiration to me. While I was a good student it perplexed me as to why I failed the understanding of geometry. It was in adult Ed, Middlesex community college when I took an algebra class with Mr fish. That in 20 minutes he somehow miraculously got me to understand geometry through the process of the height of a tree. Such a kind and humble spirit and soul. So thankful that he entered and added such value to my life. May you find peace and happiness in all the stories you will share

Leigh-Bette

Richard Esty

November 22, 2020

Bob was a true inspiration for me. I had the honor of serving with him on the Conservation Commission for several years. My heartfelt sympathies to the Fish family. Bob will be sorely missed.

Jeff and Paige True

November 22, 2020

Mrs. Fish, Doug and family, we are so sorry to hear of Mr. Fish’s passing. I certainly have very found memories of Bob spanning from my childhood during football games throughout adulthood seeing him all around town. He was a very special and kind person who I’m thankful to have known and considered a friend. With sincere condolences. Jeff and Paige True

Don Lucas

November 22, 2020

Always a gentleman and soft spoken but well worth listening to. Sorry for your loss, Madge

Shelly Peace

November 22, 2020

Doug , Mrs Fish and Family
I just read this Tim and I are so sorry for your loss I have such wonderful memories as a child playing soccer in your front yard your Dad truly was a special man

Barry Maynard

November 22, 2020

Condolences to the Fish family from the Maynard's. Bob's institutional knowledge is what kept Old Saybrook running like a finely tuned machine. Bob and Madge both have served our community in volunteer roles for multiple decades. Rest in peace Bob - thank you for your dedication to Old Saybrook.

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