Robert Lawrence Gervey

Robert Lawrence Gervey obituary, Tampa, FL

Robert Lawrence Gervey

Robert Gervey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 1, 2025.
Dr. Robert Lawrence Gervey (affectionately known as Dr. Bob), aged 68, of Levittown, NY died peacefully in his sleep at his residence in Tampa, Florida on Tuesday, August 19th, 2025. Born and raised in Levittown, NY, he was the son of the late Melvin "Mel" and Yvette Gervey. He was preceded in death by his sister, Shelly Gervey.

Bob was a devoted spouse and father, valuing family the utmost. In his early years, Bob married (1986-2005) Oriana Linares and had a child, Eric Gervey. He later reconnected with, and was happily married to, his college sweetheart Dr. Cindy Ashkins in 2008. In addition to being a wonderful father to Eric, he took on a fatherly role for Mark Kalusha and Ari Currera, showing an impressive generosity of spirit that characterized him.

In addition to his familial responsibilities, Bob took his role as friend incredibly seriously. His lifelong friendships, some of which were forged since early childhood, are a testament to his unique ability to connect with others. Often these relationships were further cemented with shared feats of endurance, exemplified by grueling multiple-hour tennis matches, hiking towering mountain peaks, and completing ironman-level bicycle rides. He further challenged his four-pawed buddy Sawyer to engage in multi-hour adventure walks. Dr. Bob was a forever Mets fan and was forever hopeful for their World Series win.

Bob was both academically and professionally accomplished. His graduate degrees included a Master's degree in Clinical Psychopharmacology, a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and a Postdoctoral degree in the treatment of severe mental illness. He held several academic appointments, traveled the world giving talks on areas of his professional expertise, directed various social service programs, started a successful consulting business, and in his later years, developed a thriving private practice, including co-hosting 'Mindful Love' workshops with his partner Dr. Cindy for many years post-Katrina.

Dr. Bob will be remembered for a remarkable, and at times contagious zest for life that was impossible to ignore. His sudden loss leaves a hole without remedy. He will be deeply missed.

Dr Gervey's family appreciates the outpouring of care and support. The family will hold a private remembrance in the Spring of 2026. Donations may be made in memory of Dr Robert Gervey to NPR or Lux Recovery House (Formerly TRC;Tulane University Recovery Center)@ Tulane University, New Orleans, LA 70118.

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Erica Crawford

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Dr. Gervey was not only my psychologist but a good friend. He´s helped me so much in my life. Me being a patient of his for about 8 years has helped me to become a better person. He will truly be missed.

Harriet and Jerry Busker

September 3, 2025

To Cindy and Family: Our sincerest condolences..I only knew Bob from our short airport rides and one pizza run...he was one lovable guy! From his hellllo Jerrry to his great laughing at his own jokes, I adored him!! Sending lots of love to you and hugs to Eric, Mark and Ari...Harriet and Jerry Busker

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