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Robert Murray Obituary
Dr. Latham Murray, of Earlysville, died unexpectedly on Sunday, November 29, 2009, at Panorama Farms, his childhood home.
Born March 8, 1951, he is survived by his wife of 33 years, Langhorne King Murray; their five children, Brad, Wistar, Jack, Margaret, and Stephen; along with his parents, James B. Murray and Jean Brundred Murray; and seven brothers James B. Murray Jr., Matthew B. Murray, Christopher B. Murray, Stephen M. Murray, Andrew B. Murray, Thomas A. Murray and Timothy B. Murray, and their families.
He graduated from Albemarle High School in 1969. He received a B.S. in Psychology from Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut, in 1973, and his Medical Degree from the University of Virginia in 1981. He later completed an internship and residency at Mary Imogene Bassett Hospital in Cooperstown, New York, and a fellowship in Non-cardiac Thoracic Surgery at East Birmingham Hospital in Birmingham, England.
He was an Attending Surgeon at Mary Imogene Hospital and later at Memorial Hospital in Easton, Maryland, before joining the Medical Staff at Martha Jefferson Hospital in July 1995. Dr. Murray was a Fellow in the American College of Surgeons and Board Certified in General Surgery with added accreditation in Thoracic Surgery. He was a member of CRL Surgical and Radiology Associates in Charlottesville.
Dr. Murray served in a number of leadership capacities at Martha Jefferson Hospital, including the Hospital Board of Trustees and most recently serving as the Chair of the Martha Jefferson Hospital Foundation Board. Throughout his career, his focus never waivered from the personal care and interaction he enjoyed with countless patients and their families. He served our community with pride and great satisfaction.
Outside the hospital, Latham was a stone mason, tree surgeon, cabinetmaker and writer. He will be fondly remembered for his passion and unique skill in working with his hands on the farm or in the shop. His greatest life's work was shaping the lives of his loving children and family.
He will be laid to rest in a private ceremony on Wednesday, December 2, 2009.
A memorial service celebrating his life will be held in the New Year at a date yet to be determined.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Martha Jefferson Hospital Capital Campaign, 459 Locust Avenue, Charlottesville, VA 22902 or the Charlottesville Free Clinic, 1138 Rose Hill Drive, Suite 200, Charlottesville, VA 22903.
This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.
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Barbara Eyrse
June 22, 2010
To the Murray family....I just learned yesterday when I called his office to ask his advice and learned he had passed away in November, what a shock it was to me. Dr. Murray did surgery on me 4 yrs ago and I have never forgot him. I have lived in New York, Alaska, Seattle and now here in C'ville. I have had many doctors thru the years, but he was by far the best I have ever known. Since I was new to C'ville, whenever I needed a specialty doctor, I would call him and ask his advice on who to go to. After he performed my surgery, I was back in his office for the post-op visit and as I was leaving, he took my hand and said "Thank you for trusting me." I have told that story over and over again thru the years and it never fails to get a reaction of "ohhh". Like all women, we would love to see more doctors have the tenderness this doctor possessed. He was wonderful, I will truly miss him and my heart goes out to his family.
Bruce Bailey
April 23, 2010
Latham Murray was one of my dearest and most influential friends, for the couple of years we were intimates. I've only just learned of his passing, this evening, and wish to send my love and best wishes to his beloved wife and children, along with the rest of his family, many whom I met in the early '70s.
I was at Trinity when Willie Schaeffer introduced me to Latham (whom I only later learned was known as Larry in the rest of his life--I only, tonight learned his given name, Robert). We were, immediately and forever, kindred spirits, reconnected. In the next two years, we lit up each other, through music, poetry, literature, writing and, yes, women and imagination and he left a huge 'mark' on/in me. Sorry that I fell so out of touch, for so long; sorry to have learned so late of his passing; I, myself nearly died 11 years ago, on an operating table that Latham could have been directing, but I wanted to say how much I love and cherish this man and his memory. Blessings on his beloved wife, children and remaining family, ...Bruce Bailey
A Very Grateful Patient
March 11, 2010
God must have needed surgery, so he called "the best" home!
Penney Berggren,RN
February 23, 2010
Dear Murray Family,
I am a nurse at Memorial Hospital, Easton, Maryland. I learned from a patient I met today, of Dr. Murray's passing. How shocked and saddened I am to hear this news. This patient was one of hundreds I have cared for who credit Dr. Murray with saving their life and becoming their friend! I remember very clearly one night he stayed by a surgical patient's side for twelve hours in the ICU. He helped me give nursing care, monitor vital signs, gave me orders, took orders from me (ha ha) and held the patient's hand. He was continuously updating and comforting the family. He knew what was important about medicine; the person within the patient. What a genuine human being he was! I am honored to have known and learned from him. Take comfort in knowing he made this world a better place.
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January 31, 2010
God Speed healing peace to all of the wonderful Murrays, with love..
Sherry and Harley Kack Port Townsend, Wa.
January 22, 2010
I was saddened to learn of the untimely passing of an esteemed medical school classmate. Latham was a n excellent physician,a consummate Virginia gentleman, and most importantly,a completely decent man of the highest integrity. We will all miss him.My deepest sympathy to all his family,close friends, and colleagues. Lloyd Kellam, Nassawadox,Va.
John Duffy
January 18, 2010
Dear Langhorne, children and family, We were so sad to hear of Latham's untimely death and will contact you personally but do want to contribute to this Guest Book. We so valued meeting you all when Latham was working in the UK at Birmingham Heartlands Hospital. Latham was clearly a committed surgeon and approached his work with enthusiasm, humility and a great sense of humour. He was well liked by patients as well as staff. We enjoyed the times we spent together socially. Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. With love Jane and John (Nottingham, UK)
January 3, 2010
Dear Murrays, We are saddened to learn of your great loss, though we know your family from afar thru our daughter Noelle's friendship with Wistar. May the Lord comfort you and give you strength to carry on without him. With deepest spympathy from the Julian Family (Frankfurt, Germany)
December 18, 2009
From an admirer of the Murray family, with profound condolences in your time of sorrow. May you find succor and comfort.
Gwen Mason
Roanoke, Virginia
Sheryl Southwick
December 14, 2009
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
just found this picture from Alaska. it's a good one :)
December 13, 2009
December 12, 2009
Dear Murray's,
I'm so glad to have had the opportunity to spend time with you family and Latham.
I'll never forget the time he wrote a letter to JMU after I was wait-listed about my character. I always felt so grateful every time I saw him after that making sure he knew how much that meant to me. That was kinda guy he was to me - if he could help in anyway he would.
He meant so much to my family and was inspiration to me as an athlete as well. When mom told he ran from his house to Monticello High School to watch a game of Patrick and Stevie's I thought that was impossible. 20 some miles! (I was in 8th grade at the time) I thought about him and that story during my first marathon 2 years ago. It is possible! Thanks for helping me wrap that around my mind Latham!
I will miss him greatly, but will never forget the great great things about him.
Thoughts and prayers are with your family, hope to see you all soon.
Chris Collins
Batt Family
December 10, 2009
We are truly saddened by your lost. We offer our condolensces and our prayer:
May the Lord bless you and Keep you;
May the Lord make His face shine on you and show favor to you;
May the Lord lift up His face upon you and give you peace.
December 10, 2009
December 9, 2009
December 9, 2009
Wistar Murray
December 9, 2009
Andrea Oliver
December 9, 2009
Latham family,
I still can't believe it. His eyes truley had a twinkle, and he always wore a beatiful smile. All of us at MJHOSC miss him so much. We all lost a great man. I can only imagine how you all must feel. I am so sorry for your loss.
Desi Myrick
December 9, 2009
Dr. Murray was a very compassionate and kind person. I was a patient of his five years ago and his manner in the half of dozen times we met was absolutely rememberable. Soon the promise from the bible will be fulfilled, Revelation 21:3,4
December 9, 2009
Lang, Brad, Wistar, Jack, Marg, and Steven: Not many people leave a legacy as beautiful as Latham's. The world is truly better because of him, and we join in mourning your loss. That great twinkle in his eye has become a part of each of you. We send love to you all. Scott, Robin, Kendall, Becca, Katie, and Jason
David Lott
December 9, 2009
Sincere condolences to you, Lang, and to your family. We have spoken often of Latham over the last week. His memory is a cherished one for me and for all of us who knew him! Dave.
Betty Allen
December 8, 2009
I was shocked and saddened to hear about the death of Latham. Helping him set up his practice in Charlottesville and working with him for many years was a priviledge. He had such a special bedside manner and was always finding something in common with his patients (i.e. hunting, fishing, writing, etc). I feel fortunate to have also been a part of the the trip to Hiati with him and many other colleagues. It was obvious that his family always came first and that he took a lot of pride in all of them. This is a very sad loss to all who knew and loved him and to the community to which he gave so much. My sincere sympathy to all his family, Betty Allen
December 7, 2009
Langhorne, My thoughts, love and prayers go out to you and all of your family. Much love, Blanchette
Jennifer Hoyt Tidwell
December 7, 2009
When I heard the news about Latham, I grieved as if my own flesh and blood had died. My brother Darren began dating Latham's daughter Wistar in 2004, and both Lang and Latham immediately welcomed me into their fold and cherished my infant daughter as a surrogate granddaughter. When I lost my husband, they held us close and babysat for her and included us in all the Murray family Thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations. This fall, Latham came and picked up Harper to take her to the MJH picnic so that I could go to a rehearsal. Latham always had a hug and kiss for me, and a gentle ribbing about my ladies arm wrestling "career." When he died, my arm wrestling trading cards were still in his wallet. How anyone can accomplish as much as he did and find time to love and exude joy as often as he did is a mystery. May we all learn to to live and love better by his example. How I miss him and grieve for his family's loss and my own.
Richard Bernstein
December 6, 2009
Elaine and I were shocked and saddened to hear about the passing away of Latham. I was a colleague of his for 10 years at Martha Jefferson when I was one of the Pulmonologists on staff. He was my “Go To Doc” when I needed someone to perform thoracic surgery on one of my lung patients. More than that he was a great guy and a friend. Elaine and I will have him and his family in our prayers. The Charlottesville Community and Martha Jefferson has lost one of the best.
Emily Gercke
December 6, 2009
To me, the Murray family is the quintessential picture of togetherness, merriment, loyalty and good times. The loss of Latham is such a tragedy and my heart goes out to all the brothers and cousins, family and friends that grieve the loss of this great man. Loving thoughts to all.
Razel Solow
December 6, 2009
Joel and I were shocked and so very saddened to hear about Latham's untimely death just now. Our children, Noah and Dena, were lucky to know Jack and Margaret at Albermarle High School. Through the years, we saw Latham and Lang at various events. They were always gracious hosts and warm acquaintances. We will always remember Latham's wonderful smile and welcoming ways. To Lang and all the children, we offer our most heartfelt condolences. May your family and closest friends bring you comfort in your time of mourning. Razel Solow and Joel Trugman
Sharon Stagg
December 6, 2009
My sincere condolences go out to the Murray family. I had the great pleasure of working with Dr. Murray at The Memorial Hospital at Easton. He was very caring and compassionate to his patients and thoroughly enjoyed his family. He always had a twinkle in his eye. Just a few weeks ago one of his patients was asking about him.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Dr. Murray will be greatly missed.
M Bernadette Ryan
December 5, 2009
To Langhorne and the rest of the Murrays,
I am very sorry for you loss. I cannot believe that he is gone. I have enjoyed talking to Latham over the years. He was one of my favorite fellow resident. I can still picture the group of us down at the Pit with Brad and Wistar on the couch and Jack on his lap. I wish I had made it to Virginia for a visit.
Senior High School picture
Harley Easter
December 5, 2009
My deepest condolences to family, friends, and patients who grapple with the loss of one unspeakably dear. Larry and I grew up together at Albemarle High School and were in the same class. I hold many warm memories spanning shared friends, classrooms, cafeteria, locker rooms, ball fields, sock hops, gymnasiums, pep rallies, homecomings, and proms. After school we changed in the same area of the AHS locker room for our sports endeavors. We shared the joy of going 10-0-0 as Valley District football champions our senior year, the sweet fruit of grueling, sweltering two-a-day summer practices. I last spoke with him at our 20-year high school reunion where I learned he had become a surgeon and was practicing in Maryland. To my knowledge Larry is the only one from our class of about 300 that pursued medicine and then returned to serve his home community as a physician.
The stunning news of Latham’s tragic death has underscored anew for me the fragility of the life by which God has shown us mercy. Most of us believe heaven exists. We who remain would do well to ponder the greatness and holiness of God, the enormity of our predicament, and what we are trusting to bridge the infinite chasm while we yet have time before death likewise seizes upon us.
Bob Hoyt
December 5, 2009
Ann and I were deeply saddened by the untimely death of Latham. He was a wonderful father, husband and clinician who was loved by all who knew him. We are grateful that he has such a large and loving family who have already transformed this tragic event into something far more meaningful than just a death of an individual. It is time to support his family and the causes Latham held dear.
Mary Catron
December 5, 2009
My husband and I became a part of Lang and Latham's wonderful family when my son, Darren, married their wonderful daughter, Wistar last year. We have so enjoyed knowing them and have looked forward to the years ahead when we would not only share children, but possibly grandchildren. Latham was so much a part of that and we cherish the few times we were in his presence as a loving, warm and caring friend, husband, father, and father-in-law. We are so saddened by his death and will miss him greatly.
Love,
Mary and David Catron
Rick Bergland
December 4, 2009
Larry ( as I called him back in the early 70-'s) was one of my best friends at the Elmo House. I am so saddened to hear of his death, he had the great ability to make all around him smile and feel better. Just last year we spent several hours at the Elmo reunion at Carr's Hill laughing about old times and what he was doing now. My daughtor is now an RN at UVA hospital and I told her several weeks ago if there is a medical problme to go to Dr. Murray . What a wonderful friend and person. I wish I could say something to his family to ease the pain of his loss but he was truly a genuine loving person and I am better now having been his friend
Brad Young
December 4, 2009
The news of Dr. Murray's untimely passing shocked and saddened me. I first met him in 2003 when I needed minor surgery. He impressed me with his genuine warmth and friendship, and he was an excellent surgeon. I saw him for surgery twice more over the years, and his stature only grew in my eyes. I send my sympathy and condolences to his family and friends. I will miss him.
Ron Smith
December 4, 2009
I just heard of Dr. Muarry's passing and I am stunned. I was his patient in 2007 and he was so kind and caring. He will be missed by many for his caring approach to medicine.
Mary Cate Slay
December 3, 2009
Lang and guys....I just can't believe it. So many good memories of my childhood evolve around your family in Easton. You have all my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary Cate and the rest of the Slays.
Michele
December 3, 2009
To the Murray Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Murray's death. He was my surgeon back in 2007 and I thought he was a wonderful, gifted human being. He had a great sense of humor, and made me feel more at ease. My sympathies go out to your entire family.
Lew and Cheryl Zulick
December 3, 2009
Charlie Stackhouse told me today that Latham had passed away. I was very sorry to hear of it. I remember him from our days at Bassett with great affection and regard. He was one of the good ones and made the days of surgical training much more fun and rewarding. Our sympathies to Langhorne and his family.
Cawood Fitzhugh
December 3, 2009
Lang and the children,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and father. He was a dear soul, funny, witty, always full of some kind of mischief or story. You all will be kept in our thoughts and prayers.
With sadness,
Cawood, John and Julie Fitzhugh
Alex Schult, MD
December 3, 2009
It has all already been said and only time will heal the emotions of this terrible wound. Today's service at the Martha Jefferson Ed Center for hospital employees is testimony to Latham being influential and respected, well beloved and missed.I was honored to know him and learn from and with him.
Pamela Toney
December 3, 2009
Dr. Murray's passing is a tremendous loss not only to his family, but to the community. Dr. Murray operated on my daughter in 2007 when she was 8 years old. My daughter had a very serious appendicitis case that later had complications requiring a second hospital stay. Dr. Murray with his easy smile, thoughtfulness and gentle bedside manner made Kristen feel at ease during this very scary time. Dr. Murray was not only an excellent surgeon, but he was a very gracious, caring person with a smile that went straight to his eyes! Someone like Dr. Murray is a rare find in the medical profession these days. His presence will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends, and co-workers during this difficult time.
The Toney Family,
Mike, Pam, Kristen & Michael
Don Linden, RN ED MJH
December 3, 2009
God Speed Doc. You will be missed by all you touched, especially MJH ED staff.
Natalie Brundred
December 3, 2009
Dear Murrays all -
I was so shocked and saddened when I found out about Latham's death. When I think of our wonderful visits to the farm as a child, I remember his wonderful smile. He just lit up the room with it and with his joie de vie. In reading what people said here, it's clear he was the same throughout his life.
I'm thinking of you lots, and my prayers are with all of you.
All my love -
Leah Cribb, RN
December 2, 2009
I am so saddened to learn of the loss of this unique and lovely man. He brought to his work at Martha Jefferson a compassion I have not often seen in 30 years of nursing. It was indeed an honor and a blessing to have known and worked with him.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
December 2, 2009
I was so sorry to learn about Dr. Murray. His smile and sense of humor was so refreshing to those of us who worked with him in the ICU at MJH. We will miss him greatly and our thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends.
Best regards,
Charlotte Beagle, RN
Peadar Little
December 2, 2009
Sincere condolences to all the Murray clan on the tragic loss of Dr Latham Murray. May he rest in peace.
Tammy Poole
December 2, 2009
The Murray family is such a Charlottesville institution -- always such staunch supporters of AHS Field Hockey & Lacrosse. Margaret and Steven are such wonderful role models to others -- obviously due to their parents' values. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patricia Scott
December 2, 2009
I am still having a difficult time accepting the loss of one of my favorite surgeons. The bantering we would have back and forth in the mornings I miss greatly. One night when he was on call I woke him up at 5:00 am and had to call back not long after that. He wasn't in his normal mood and it wasn't long that he arrived at the hospital and joked with me asking if I woke up each morning in a good mood and then we both continued to laugh together as well as with his patient. He was so good with each of his patients talking to them and taking the time at the bedside to listen to them. But most importantly he would listen to me when I had questions, concerns, and even differing opinions. It was no surprise that he was the surgeon I picked when over a month ago my 14 year old needed to have her gallbladder taken out. I can still hear him telling my daughter your mother she is absolutely crazy. We only had a short times in the am to talk with him (unless on call) where as each of you in his family have had years with him. I can’t imagine the grief that you are going thru as my own can be so difficult at times. I do know that God is a good God and has a plan that is greater than we could ever imagine so with that I accept that he is in Heaven with God and since there is no sickness he will be using the skills that he so enjoyed in his off time. My prayers will continue to be with each and every one of you and I will continue to keep the memories of my favorite doctor close to me.
Patricia Scott,RN South 7
Breyette Lorntz
December 2, 2009
What a privilege it was to know this man.
Wistar Murray
December 2, 2009
Thank you all for your thoughts. We are enjoying reading this page and we find your comments a comfort and a support in this difficult time.
The Murray Family
December 2, 2009
To all who have posted, we in the Murray family send our sincere thanks. All the kind notes are examples of things that Latham exuded within the family as well. He was a wonderful brother, husband, father, friend and confidant. We laid him to his resting place today in our own way and we are all at peace. May God bless all of you, because he sure blessed us for 56 years.
Hilary Branch
December 2, 2009
Margaret and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Hilary
Uffe Schlein
December 2, 2009
I only new Doctor Murray a short time. Me and my wife both had surgeries performed by Dr. Murray. But, working at MJH, I had the pleasure
to say "good morning" and sometimes chat with the doctor in the morning. Often at the cooffe shop. Always, he would ask for my health and showed true
concern. Rest in Peace dear Doctor I will miss your smilling face.
Words cannot convey the sorrow at your loss to your family, Martha Jefferson
Hospital and the Community. Our deepest sympathy to all his family, friends and colleagues. Rest in peace doctor Murray.
Family Schlein (Kelsey, Eric, Jill and Uffe, CE MJH)
December 2, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in our prayers.
The Hendrickson family
Stephanie Murray
December 2, 2009
I am so saddened to learn of the untimely death of a wonderful man. Dr. Murray operated on my mother in 2001. He showed his kindness and compassion to my mother and our family. I will never forget him. Mom is in heaven now and I know that she was there to greet him when he arrived.
The Evans Family
December 2, 2009
Me and my husband both had surgeries performed by Dr. Murray. He was a wonderful man and we will never forget his caring for us with such a warm and friendly personality. He will be sadly missed and may god bless your family at this difficult time.
Ruby Carnes
December 2, 2009
To Lang and the Murray family,
To each of you I pray for comformt. To have known Dr Murray was a blessing to me. Working with him on the unit and in surgery was always met with a big warm smile. He will be missed, but his smile will carry on in his honor.
Susan Forlifer MD
December 2, 2009
I came to Easton fresh out of training and joined Latham's practice. It was a pleasure to operate with him, reassuring to know he covered my patients so well both medically and personally. My memory of him always has the image of the smile that reached his eyes. Old patients of his here still ask about him, 15 years later. That is rare, and a fitting legacy.
Steve Rose
December 2, 2009
Rest in Peace dear Doctor.
My deepest sympathy to all his family, friends and colleagues.
George Bates
December 2, 2009
Our condolences go out to the Murray family. I and my brothers Otto, Ernest, Johnny and David spent many of wonderful Friday evenings at Panorama dining and hanging out before our highschool football games. Larry's love of family, people and life echoes all the love the Bates have felt from the Murray family over these last 40 plus years! Our prayers are with you all now and always. Agape, Rev. Dr. George Bates
M Benjamin
December 2, 2009
My sincere condolences on the loss of this wonderful man. Dr. Murray was the surgeon on my gall bladder surgery last week and I could not have asked for a better experience with a MD. He was personable and kind and spent a great deal of time with me and my spouse discussing the upcoming proceedure and post op recovery. The medical profession has lost a wonderful talent.
Sarah Finney
December 2, 2009
The Murray family are one of the nicest most caring families I know, especially Dr. Murray, he always had a smile and knew how to make people laugh and enjoy life. Thank you for everything Dr. Murray you will be greatly missed.
sammy swale
December 2, 2009
I only knew Dr. Murray, a short time. He operated on my hernia and everyone who saw it including him was impressed how perfect the job was. I will always remember his easy going manner and a sense of humor to go with it. I just liked him and told everyone if they ever needed a great doctor to call Dr. Murray. I just feel so sad for his huge family and everyones life he touched and made better. All we have to give to you now is our deepest prayers.
Karin Rose
December 2, 2009
Jim and Bunny and your entire family,
Like everyone I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear the tragic news about Latham. I can only imagine your grief but I know that your faith and wonderful family will be of some comfort. My prayers are with you all.
Bobby & Judy Marks
December 2, 2009
My husband and I were in total disbelief to hear of Dr. Murray's untimely death. Dr. Murray was not only my hero surgeon, but my husband's mother (Hazel Louise Marks) was the Nannie to him and his brothers. Dr. Murray was always there for me. I will miss his warm smile and his wonderful bow ties. Our sincere condolences to the Murray family and all at Martha Jefferson Hospital. We are so sorry for your loss.
December 2, 2009
Larry was a very special pal of mine during high school...always with a twinkle in his eye and ready smile. Oh, too soon departed!
Deepest regards to the entire Murray family.
Diane LaSauce
Free Union, Virginia
December 2, 2009
Dr. Murray was our mother's surgeon several months ago. He really put us at ease with his thoughtfullness. May God Bless you at this difficult time.
The Quarles Family
December 2, 2009
Murray family
As part of the running community that has been blessed to have the use of Panorama farms, I was saddened to read of the loss of one of your family. My prayers are with you
Linda Wells
Lindsay Barnes
December 1, 2009
I cannot begin to count the number of good times shared with Larry (what we called Latham back in the day) when we were growing up and attending Albemarle High School together. To Lang, the children, and the many Murrays who have always meant so much and contributed so much to central Virginians, my deepest sympathies.
Wayne Remington
December 1, 2009
I am shocked and saddened that I will miss Latham's face at affairs he and Lang would attend (usually to support one of their children). But I will always see his face and remember his warm smile whenever I see Lang or Steven or Margaret or any of the other Murray's - or whenever I am at a lacrosse game. He and Lang together were always at our girls games- just one of the things you counted on every game.
He was a wonderful guy and I feel fortunate to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family.
The Remingtons
December 1, 2009
Words cannot convey our sorrow at your loss. Latham's smiling face at field hockey and lacrosse games will be remembered by many. Our hearts ache for your loss, and we will hold you in our thoughts and prayers.
Sharon Pederson
December 1, 2009
I was shocked to hear about Dr. Murray passing away. He was always so kind and caring with his patients and a joy to work with when he came down to the Emergency Dept to see a patient. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this difficult time. He will be greatly missed at MJH.
Martha Jefferson Emergency Dept.
December 1, 2009
Dr. Murray was my husband's surgeon several years ago. He had a genuine caring attitude. His smile and sense of humor put us at ease. We are truly sorry for your loss.
The Green Family
December 1, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Doctor was a great man. He always had a smile to share. May the memories of his joy carry you through these difficult times.
Love+ Jonah, Bonnie and Peter
December 1, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. My mother was a past patient of Dr. Murray as well as our families knowing each other for many years. His kind manner and expertise will be missed by many people. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Tom Pologruto for Frank & Darwin Pologruto
Maude Glore
December 1, 2009
Dear Murrays all- How great is my sadness and how fortunate I feel that we saw Latham on Saturday. My prayers are with all the family
All my love, Maudie
Regina Kirk
December 1, 2009
Dear Lang and family,
My deepest condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Brandy Herring
December 1, 2009
My prayers are with the entire family. Latham was a great MD and a great man. I feel blessed to have known him and worked with him and enjoy his smile everytime he walked onto the floor at MJH. I will miss him very much. Such a great man taken way before his time. Our hospital will never be the same.
December 1, 2009
I'm sorry for your loss, Dr. Murray had operated on me twice 2004&2009. He was a great doctor and will be missed from all his patients & friends. No matter how bad things looked, he would reinsure you everything would be okay.Janice Burton (Charlottesville,Va)
Becky Getz
December 1, 2009
We would like to express our deepest sympathy for your family and for all of Dr. Murray's friends. Dr Murray will be greatly missed by all who knew him. He was the best of men and shared his life with many lucky friends. We wish your family strength to get through this most difficult time, and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Becky and Brad Getz
Monty Ray,Pat,Bruce marshall
December 1, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
The Neese Family
December 1, 2009
Latham's kindness touched so many. We will always remember him cheering on his children on the lacrosse field - he never missed a game. We love you Lang, Brad, Wistar, Jack, Margaret and Stephen. Much love and peace.
Cecilia Nichols
December 1, 2009
Dr Murray operated on me last year. He was gentle and reassuring with a wonderful sense of humor. My heart goes out to his family.
Maud B. Henne
December 1, 2009
Dr. Latham Murray performed emergency surgery on me at MJH on Sunday, September 13, 2009. He saved my life. In follow-up visits in his office, I found the most conscientious and most affable physician I have met in the 74 years of my life. I feel devastated by his untimely death.
My deepest sympathy to the Murray Family.
Chuck McGinn
December 1, 2009
It is with stunned surprise that I offer my sincerest condolences to Latham's wife and children, whom I never had the pleasure of meeting; and to his parents and brothers - whose names I learned many years ago to call in chronologic order whenever I have reminesced about my many days and nights at Panorama Farms.
I have never forgotten the pleasure of my time with the Murrays, nor the welcome always extended to me and others in our band of Holy Comforter buddies, all great friends of "Larry's," as we knew him then.
Though we grew apart over the years, I am flooded with memories as I see his photo. I know he will be missed greatly - and his many accomplishments appreciated proudly - by his family and friends.
Ted A Harris MD
December 1, 2009
Latham was a collegue I respected during my time practicing at Martha Jefferson. We helped each other many times with difficult cases. He was also a friend. We could talk at length about non-medical issues. My condolences to the family and the MJH staff. This is an enormous loss.
Carroll Sullivan
December 1, 2009
To the Murray Family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carroll, Donna, Angela, Kelley, Cory, & Kevin Sullivan Earlysville, VA
Joyce Brown
December 1, 2009
I am truly saddened with the loss of such a wonderful surgeon and a gracious, thoughtful man with a gentle sense of humor. My husband and I have worked with Dr. Murray since him came to Martha Jefferson Hosp. Our deepest sympathy to his family, friends and co-workers. His presence will be deeply missed.
Joyce and Andy Brown
Tracy Townsend
December 1, 2009
I had the privilege of being Dr. Murray's transcriptionist for a few years and he was always so kind to work for. My thoughts are with the Murray family and CRL.
Peggy & Richard Moseley
December 1, 2009
What a loss to family, friends, hospital associates, and community. Our deepest sympathy and Latham Murray will be missed by all. A big thanks for all Dr Murray has done for so many people. Love and prayers to all of the family.
December 1, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Dr. Murray's family. Our community at MJH has lost a very special man. Not only was he a superior surgeon, he was also a caring man. I feel very lucky to have known this wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Doronda Tooley, MJH Employee
Kathy Burdette
December 1, 2009
Dr. Murray performed surgery on my husband last year. When he was in the room and came out to talk to me after the surgery I was pleasantly surprised at his smiling face, little jokes, and his so friendly manner. You do not see this often anymore. He certainly was an "exception".
We were truly sorry to hear of his passing.
May God hold his family close in His Loving Arms and give them comfort today and always.
Angela Taylor
December 1, 2009
My heart goes out to Dr. Murray's Family and Friends. He was an amazing surgeon! He will be missed by all who knew him.
Jessica Carroll (Parker)
December 1, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of sorrow. Dr. Murray was a great doctor and took very good care of my father, when he was at MJH. He was very honest, and took the time to explain everything to us. He will be truly missed.
Aubra,Jessica,Chad Parker
The Jones Family
December 1, 2009
We would like to extend to Dr. Murray's family our sincerest condolences. He very likely saved the life of our then-seven-year-old when her appendix burst earlier this year. He had a lovely beside manner that put at ease both patient and parent. We hold him in the highest regard and will keep his family in our prayers.
Brad Lushbaugh
December 1, 2009
Our sincerest sympathies are sent to the entire family on your devastating loss. I will always cherish the childhood memories of the good times our little group of HC (and AHS) kids enjoyed while growing up among several families who shared strong family principles.
Brad & Delores Lushbaugh
Bev Slaughter
December 1, 2009
My heart felt condolence to the family and friends of Dr Latham Murray.
But by the grace of GOD, and the work Dr Murray did for me, go I. Not only have we lost a good doctor but also a great human being, he will be sorely missed!!!!
December 1, 2009
I am overwhelmed with sadness to hear of Dr. Murray's death. I am a nursing student at PVCC and was so glad to not only have him as my own surgeon this summer, but to have gotten to take care of one of his patient's this semester at MJH. His kindness and bedside manner were amazing. He truly loved and cared for his patients. He worked so hard and yet, he had such a purpose in life to help others. I know that he really enjoyed what he was doing. I am very thankful that I had the opportunity to get to know him. I am so sorry for this enormous loss to your family and our community.
Brenda Griswold, Ruckersville
December 1, 2009
Our prayers are with your family! Dr, Murray will be missed immensely! Susan Morris RN Rucker 4 MJH
Tommy & Shirley Poore
December 1, 2009
We offer our condolences to all of Dr. Murray's family and friends. He will surely be missed for he was a good doctor and good man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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