Robert W. Phinney

Robert W. Phinney

Robert Phinney Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 2, 2008 to Dec. 30, 2007.

ANDOVER — Robert Warren Phinney, a lifelong resident of Andover, died on Thursday, Dec. 27, 2007 at his home after a short illness.

Mr. Phinney, the son of the late Harold and Lillian Phinney was born in Lowell on Jan. 2, 1928 and was educated in the Andover Public School system. After graduating from Andover (Punchard) High School, he attended Kimball Union Academy for post-graduate year before attending Merrimack College.

His professional career began when he joined his father in the radio and television business in Andover and then continued when he founded R.W. Phinney Associates, a commercial real estate investment and management company in Merrimack Valley. In addition to his real estate practice, Mr. Phinney was the managing director of the Lanam Club, a private fine dining establishment that was founded in the 1950's. With the intention of promoting the business and social climate in the Merrimack Valley, the founding members chose to name the club after the surrounding towns of Lawrence, Andover, North Andover and Methuen. During Mr. Phinney's tenure as managing director, he hosted several well-known dignitaries such as former President George W. Bush, former Defense Secretary, Alexander Haig, former founder and Chairman of Wang Laboratories, Dr. An Wang, and family friend, Jay Leno. The Lanam Club, under Mr. Phinney's leadership, was chosen by the producers of the motion picture School Ties, for several prominent scenes in the film. After more than 15 years of commitment to the club, Mr. Phinney retired in June of 1996.

Mr. Phinney was involved with numerous civic and professional organizations throughout his life. Most notably, he was a director of the Andover Savings Bank, the Holy Family Hospital, past president of the Men of Merrimack College, as well a member of the school's President Advisory Council. He was also past president of the Big Brother, Big Sister Association of Greater Lawrence, and the Andover Massachusetts Board of Trade. He was an avid sportsman and golfer who played worldwide and was a member of the North Andover Country Club and Abenaqui Country Club in Rye, N.H. Mr. Phinney was inducted into the Andover High School Hall of Fame as the school's only student to earn a varsity letter in four sports during the same year for basketball, baseball, football and track.

Mr. Phinney was married to Joyce D. Phinney of Seabrook, N.H. and was the father of the late Mary Kay Phinney. He leaves his brother, William of Cooper City, Fla.; his loving children and grandchildren, Ellen Kipfer her husband Rob and their son, Adam of Swampscott, Abby Jane Robertson her husband Brad and their two sons, Nicolas and Benjamin of Pepperell; Robert W. Phinney Jr. his wife Susan and their children, Caroline, Robert III and William of Duxbury, and Martha Babbit her husband Robert and their daughters, Kacie and Carleigh of Bolton.

ARRANGEMENTS: His funeral Mass will be celebrated in St. Augustine Church, 43 Essex St., Andover, Saturday, Jan. 5, 2008, at 11 a.m. Relatives and friends respectfully invited to attend. Calling hours will be in the Burke-Magliozzi Funeral Home, 390 N. Main St., Andover, Friday, Jan. 4, 2008 from 3 to 8 p.m. Burial will be in Spring Grove Cemetery, Andover. Contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701. For additional information please visit www.burkemagliozzi.com.

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Caroline Phinney

November 13, 2008

I love you grandpa

Andrew Archambault

January 5, 2008

On behalf of all the members of The Randolph Croquet Club, we are deeply saddenned to learn of the passing of our great friend and long time member Bob Phinney. Our sympathy to all of Bob's family. He will be greatly missed by all of us for his sincere friendship, great humor and his love of golf. It will never be the same without him.

Marcy and Bill Kimball

January 5, 2008

Susan and Bob,

Our sincerest condolences to you, the kids and your entire family for your loss.

Marcy and Bill

Don MacLennan

January 4, 2008

To Bob's Family,

Bob was a dear friend with whom I had the privilege and enjoyment of sharing an annual golf weekend for many years. I always felt a bond - for which I could never put to words - that was something like between a father and son. He was that generous of spirit and giving to his friends. And let's not forget his sense of humor and mischief that appeared as the twinkle in his eye.

Please accept my condolences for your loss.

Jim and Evie Wheeler

January 3, 2008

Dear Phinney Family,

Our deepest condolences to you all on the loss of your Dad. He was a loving man and we know he will be sadly missed.

We enjoyed the occassions over the years at Brad and Abby's when we had a chance to chat with Bob and share jokes and laughter. Man, he told some whoppers!

With Sincere Sympathy on your loss,

Betse Gori

December 30, 2007

Bob was a gentleman to the core and so respectful of his wife and colleagues. He was a great example to all of us of balance, simplicity and kindness.

Martha Babbit

December 30, 2007

We love you Dad.


Martha & Family

laurie gilligan

December 30, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Matt and I loved Bob. He was especially sweet to us when we were newlyweds and always warm and welcoming. He will be missed by us all.
with love,
Matt and Laurie Gilligan and family

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