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Patricia Zizzo
February 27, 2022
Despite the number of years that separate us from your physical presence, you are with us more than ever. Love always. Your cousin Patricia
Deborah Ruszkowski
February 25, 2022
Can´t believe its been 20 years! I love you & miss you always
Deborah Ruszkowski
February 21, 2021
19 years have come & gone without you. I love you, and miss you every day! GOD bless you & keep you til we see each other again
Patricia Zizzo
February 24, 2019
Les années passent mais toi cher Robert tu es toujours avec moi, dans mon esprit et dans mon cur à tout jamais. Love you so much. Your cousin Patricia
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Michelle Erickson
June 29, 2015
Robert~ I love you with all my heart and soul... A day doesn't pass without a memory of your smile, your laughter, your zest for life! You are my baby brother and I cherish you!!! John and I make you a part of our everyday lives with the kids... You are their Godfather and they feel your guidance and love from heaven. I know you are proud of them! Mom adores and loves you beyond words. She says you are the best son she could ever wish for!!! We all miss you so much, but we look forward to the day of seeing you and Daddy again! Until then...
I have no doubt you are both doing good works and making heaven a beautiful place for everyone you are meeting! We love you Robert~ to heaven and back!!! ❤ Xoxox and all our love~always and forever to you and Daddy
Debbie Ruszkowski
June 28, 2015
Happy 50th birthday dear Robert. I love you & miss you more than words can say
Debbie Ruszkowski
June 28, 2015
Happy 50th birthday dear Robert. I wish you were here to celebrate! I love you & miss you more than words can say.
April 25, 2014
Dear Robert. Like Laurie i miss you very much. Once you gave me a little teddy bear, and in this moment i have only to stretch out my hand to touch it.You were, you are and you will be forever with me! Love you. your cousin Patricia Z
Laurie Desantis
April 7, 2014
There is not a day that passes I do not think of you my cousin I love you always!!! Sweet potatoes rock!!!!
Nicole FLorio
August 24, 2012
Robert I was thinking of you today. Well many days actually. I spoke with your Mom today, she's so amazing in so many ways. I truly feel lucky to have her, as I know you did too. All my love, your cousin Nicole
June 30, 2011
I always think of you and i miss you so much ... Love always dear Robert.
Patricia
June 29, 2011
Remembering our happy times on the road! You live on in our hearts and minds Rob.
You burned brightly my friend!
HL
June 28, 2011
Happy Birthday Rob, thinking of you today. Rest in peace my friend we miss you.
Isabella (Godchild) Erickson
July 22, 2009
Dear Uncle Robert,I miss you even though I was a baby when you were gone,I think of you often and kiss and hold your picture close to my heart.I miss you so so much and care for you.I always keep you in my prayers.
Patricia Zizzo
July 2, 2009
Très cher Cousin ...
Une pensée sincère pour toi que l'on ne pourra jamais oublier ...
Love always.
Patricia et famille
Antonio Rugiano
July 1, 2009
Happy Birthday, Robert. Il tuo ricordo è sempre vivo nei nostri cuori...
Ti pensiamo sempre...
Rossana, Giuseppe, Lina e Antonio.
June 29, 2009
Happy Birthday, Rob. I think of you often. Miss your smiling face and ability to make things fun.
June 28, 2009
Happy Birthday Robert.
Karen Kirby Barreto
April 27, 2009
It has been so many years. I have thought of you often. I just recently found out of your passing and I am so saddened by the news. You were an amazing person and a good friend. I feel so fortunate to have had you in my life for such a short time. We were close in in HS and I am so sorry I did not stay in touch after moving to FL. You were such a special person. Thank you for all the talks and laughs - you are deeply missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Patricia Zizzo
June 30, 2008
Ce soir j'ai regardé ce guest book Robert et j'ai vu ta photo...
J'ai le coeur serré de ne pouvoir t'embrasser cher cousin adoré...
Tu me manques tellement...
Love always ... Patricia
Henry
June 29, 2008
I miss you Rob, especially on your birthday...
June 28, 2008
Happy Birthday Rob.
June 28, 2007
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. - Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865)
Happy Birthday Rob - We miss you my friend.
June 28, 2006
Happy Birthday Rob-
June 30, 2005
Dearest Rob,
We think of you and your smile and the joy you gave us often. We miss you! Go Cubs!
Leslie Tate
June 29, 2005
Happy Birthday! I miss you.
June 29, 2005
Thanks for the reminder...
Cheers Rob! Happy Birthday
HML
June 28, 2005
Happy Birthday Rob - Rest in Peace
Anita Werner (Riopel)
April 30, 2004
Robert has been in my thoughts all day today. I feel his presence and miss him dearly. I still think and pray for Debbie, Mrs. Ruszkowski and Michelle often and wonder how you all are. May God continue to bless and comfort all of his family and friends with the warmth of Robert's memory.
Kathy
February 25, 2004
On this 2nd anniversary you are in my thoughts and always in my heart
as a very special person. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten.
February 25, 2004
Gone but not forgotten, on this 2nd year anniversary. Rest in peace.
A Friend.
Cheryl Cook
December 10, 2003
Uncle Rob, you are in my thoughts today, remembering the fun person you were. Miss you.
June 28, 2003
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROB. REST IN PEACE.
We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. - Winston Churchill (1874-1965)
Henry Lanouette
February 27, 2003
Rob's impact on all of us is still evident in the St. Judes Children's hospital project that his wife Debbie has spearheaded. Many people have donated in Rob's memory on this one year anniversary.
Though these wonderful gifts of love of Rob, we are able to help someone else who might be traveling the same path he did as a child.
If you would like a copy of the Rob/St. Judes Hospital information sheet- drop me an email.
Chuck Burns
February 26, 2003
As we passed the 1 year mark of Rob's untimely passing we all remember his smile and zest for life. Keep guiding us Rob. We appreciate it.
Anita Werner (Riopel)
February 25, 2003
Thinking and praying for Robert and his family today. God bless all of you.
Mike Horn
February 25, 2003
To Rob’s Loved Ones:
I only found out about Rob’s passing yesterday and have been deeply disturbed ever since. Though I have not been in contact with him for quite some time, I still feel his positive influence on my life. I met him when I lived across the hall from him at NIU. We had the same major and spent a lot of time following our academic endeavors as well as our amusement. We tried to take the same classes, which led to many all-nighters studying. Rob was not only a great friend but with his perpetual upbeat attitude, a real inspiration to me. I know my life is richer for having the fortune to know him.
I offer my deepest sympathies to his family and may god rest his sole.
Mike Horn (Spike)
Anonymous
January 14, 2003
As the upcoming anniversary of Rob's passing approaches, we pray for his immediate family that they may find peace, love and laughter in remembering.
Tim Frost
December 29, 2002
Dear Deb,
Robin and I were shocked and saddened after receiving your card with the news of Rob, and to realize that it has been since last February. We wish that we could have been there over the past year, as we can only imagine how difficult it must be. To one of our dearest and oldest friends we offer our heartfelt sympathy. I know he was a wonderful guy if he was the one you chose to spend your life with.
Love,
Tim & Robin Frost
Patricia Zizzo
July 1, 2002
Nous aussi de Paris avons bien pensé à toi Robert et à vous tous en cette journée d'anniversaire...
Mon cousin, mon cher cousin sera toujours dans ma tête, et dans mon coeur... Je garde son sourire à tout jamais... Je vous aime et je pense à vous...
Patricia et famille
Bob & Cindy Smiley
June 28, 2002
Happy 37th Birthday Rob. We miss you!
Love, Bob & Cindy
Anita Werner (Riopel)
June 28, 2002
Today is Robert's birthday, so I felt compelled to write once more. He would have been 37 today. Much too early to be taken from us. He has touched the hearts of many, and those of us who are fortune enough to have known him are better people today. Although we didn't speak often once we were adults, I miss knowing he would be there for me if I needed him--that is just the kind of friend he was. His friendship will always be in my heart. I continue to pray for his family. I think and pray for you often.
Michelle Hoffmann
April 8, 2002
Rob use to come into the company that I worked for,as a receptionist and he ALWAYS had time to stop and say hello how is it going ? I remember when he told us he was getting promoted and introduced the new rep that would be taking his place, Rob had that "Special" way of entering a room, it's hard to explain, I haven't seen him for sometime, but wanted you to all know that he must of touched everyone , even me a receptionist at one of his stops that made me have to write something today, and express my sadness. May god be with all of you.
Catherine Schinler (Schlangen)
April 7, 2002
Deb,
I have thought endlessly on what to say to you. It isn't easy to lose someone you love, just as it isn't easy to console someone during their loss.
I had always wanted to meet the guy that had made my "little" aunt so happy, but unfortunately that didn't happen. We will have our chance for that at a later date, when our time is up.
I wish that we could have been there for you during this time, but unfortunately it wasn't possible.
My kids and I send our deepest sympathies and love to you and your family.
Love you,
Cathy
YOLANDA JAMES
April 4, 2002
May god bless each and everyone of you, and give you the strength to go on each and everyday.
Lee Blankenship
March 26, 2002
Debbie, Im so very sorry for your loss. Rob was a mentor and a friend. After reading thruogh what everyone has written about Rob. Im truly amazed at how he has touched so many people in such a wonderfull way. When Rob reaches the perly gates of heaven, and is asked what have you done with your life? He can proudly say! I followed the foot steps of my creater. I simply belived in and loved everyone.
Karen Wuytack
March 22, 2002
Michelle and Mrs. Ruszkowski,
With this guestbook about to come to a close, I wanted to let you know once again that I continue to think of you and pray for your strength as you cope day to day. I hope too that you can find a smile when you re-read this guest book knowing how many people Robert touched and inspired.
Please take care and have a Blessed Easter.
Karen Wuytack-Markese
Jack Radde
March 19, 2002
To Rob's family:
Rob will be sorely missed. He was always supportive and encouraging to anyone who came in contact with him. Whenever I talked to Rob he always lifted my spirits and made me feel I could do anything. We love him and will miss him. God bless you all, and know that Rob is in heaven getting it ready for our arrivals.
Patrick J. Wirth
March 18, 2002
My sincerest condolences and appologies. I was able to attend roberts' wake but not his funeral. I've been working two jobs for a while and feel like I never have the time. This reminds me of my favorite aspect of his vast personality; he always seemed to have the time, for a kind word, an inquery about family and a great laugh. What a class individual who always seemed to make everyone welcome. What a fine example of what a man and friend should be like. I should hope to be remembered as fondley as we all will remember Rob. Thanks for showing us how to love and live.
Ramona Kitching
March 14, 2002
Dear Michelle, Lynn, Debbie and family,
I've avoided writing this note for days as every time I've sat down to write my eyes keep welling up with tears and I just can't find the words to express how incredibly saddened I am for your loss of your precious brother, son and husband. For many years, Robert was a dear friend, practically felt like family.
I am also overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and affection for Rob expressed in this guestbook. What an incredible 36 years he had. . .what lives he touched. . .truly a life lesson of how one would want to be remembered, by the kind day-to-day little expressions of love and friendship that gets forever burned in everyones hearts and minds. He was very special, almost like an old soul who intuitively understood the people around him and what they needed.
As many of his friends and family do, I have so many memories of Rob in so many different ways, but mostly as a life-affirming survivor who never lost his joyful spirit. Anything or any moment could become hysterical with Rob in the picture! I'm somewhat ashamed to admit that I feel angry that I won't have the opportunity to experience that with him again in this lifetime. However, I'm sure that all of us can take solace in the fact that Robert's spirit lives on in all of us whose lives he touched. He was just that kind of gift to this world.
In John 16:22, Jesus speaks: "So with you, Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your ultimate joy." I'm sure I speak for everyone who looks forward to that day when we can share in the joy of seeing Robert again.
With much love, respect and condolences for your loss, Ramona Kitching
Leslie Tate
March 12, 2002
I can't imagine not ever seeing Rob again or hearing his voice. But he will be in my heart today, and every day. He was a very special person to me. I will miss him always.
Victor Marsella
March 7, 2002
Dear Debbie & Family,
Where do I begin? I am still numb by the passing of Rob, and so moved by all of the expressions of love and sorrow, that I witnessed. Debbie, as you know, I looked at Rob like he was my son. I loved him as a father would a son. When I first met Rob, my wife, Dolores, was dying of breast cancer and Rob had recently lost his father. He and I immediately bonded.
Rob was young in his career with Zee, working a territory and very interested in becoming a manager. I worked with him in his early assignments as a field manager and saw in him, something very special. He had so many questions and so eager to learn what it took to become a successful manager. I watched him grow until I left corporate and went to work with a Distributor.
When I returned to corporate, ten years later, to work as the General Manager of the Detroit office, Rob had become a Regional Manager, and I was under his supervision. (We both laughed at that). When he came to see me, we hugged, as was our custom, we never just shook hands. Rob and I talked a long time, and I began to see how he had matured.
As time went on, I became aware how he managed all those individuals under his supervision. Rob, this man small in stature, had become a giant among men. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to tell him how proud his father would have been, to see what he had become.
Rob always talked about his family, and how proud he was of them, and of course you Debbie, the love of his life.
The qualities Rob possessed, he demonstrated to us all. When we were down, he was the one who comforted us. When it seemed that nothing was going well, there was Rob with his smile, to assure us everything would be all right. Although, he at times was under considerable pressure because of the position that he held, we were always treated with respect. Rob had this uncanny ability to always see the good side of us. We wanted to make Rob feel as proud of us, as we were of him. This was a testament to the type of man he was. The expressions of love and sorrow at his funeral, spoke volumes. He was a man loved, because he demonstrated his love, by the way he worked with us, and the respect he showed to all.
God bless you, Deb and your entire family. He will be a man never forgotten and will live in our hearts and minds forever.
Vic Marsella (Aurora, Illinois)
March 6, 2002
[email protected]
John Wagner
March 6, 2002
Deb,
My prayers are with you on your loss. I would have much rather stopped in person, but was not able to make it. I saw this opportunity to let you know I thought of you and the joy you shared with Rob. My sincerest condolences. John
Susan LeFan
March 5, 2002
Debbie,
We are so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing we can say to make you feel better, or to take away your pain, but know that you are in our prayers. We love you. Susan, Drue and Family
Sara Pasowicz
March 5, 2002
I have been with Zee just a year today and feel very fortunate to have worked for Rob. I remember setting up an interview with him at 7am in the morning, and then when he called back for a 2nd interview he didn't leave a message on my cell phone. I called the number back and Rob answered the phone"Zee Medical this is Rob" I introdued myself and asked did he just call. He started to laugh and said he had called. I knew at that point he was someone with a great sense of humor. Within the past year I have been able to get to know Rob and have always been amazed by the example he set for his employees. He may have been your boss but he knew how to have fun and get the work done. Rob always said that the Chicago Office staff never showed him any respect, Rob would go off on a good natured tangent about how we never saw him as the REGIONAl MANAGER but just as Rob the guy who we could always tease and joke with. I just want to say Rob I hold you in the Highest Reguard.
With all the Respect in the World
Sara Pasowicz
Office Manager-Chicago
Judy & Orvey Hampton
March 5, 2002
To Michelle Erickson & Family,
Michelle, I am Joani Hribar's Mom...and she shared with me about the loss of your brother. We are so very, very sorry. Orvey and I send our love and we are praying that the God of all comfort will wrap His loving arms around you and minister to your broken hearts during this most difficult time.
Love, Judy & Orvey Hampton
Lorenzo Tumbarello/Fici
March 4, 2002
condoglianze per la prematura scomparsa di un grande uomo che io ho avuto l'onore di conoscere anche se per poco.
Tutti noi Vi siamo vicini.
Colleen Dodson
March 4, 2002
To Debbie and the Ruszkowski family,
I met Rob about 2 years ago when I worked for a distributor who decided to retire and we became part of corporate. A group of people came for the acquisition and Rob was one of them. I was so nervous not knowing who these people were and what was going to happen. Rob immediately made me feel welcomed into the company. He always joked around with me especially. Rob and I were only 5 days apart in age, married the same amount of years to spouses that were 9 years older than us, and with Zee the same amount of years. Maybe that's why I feel we hit it off so well. One of the things he liked best about visiting the Pittsburgh unit was our birthday lunches. I am go grateful we got to spend 2 of his last few days with him and he got to celebrate one last birthday lunch with us. At the end of every conversation we had, whether it be on the phone or in person, he would always say, "be good." Rob, I will miss you telling me to be good and telling me all of the new drinks you had discovered. So have a stoli ras and 7-up on me, I will miss you. My deepest sympathy goes out to you Debbie, and the rest of the Ruszkowski family. He was truly a wonderful man.
Joe Pulio
March 4, 2002
Auntie Lynn, Michelle and the Ruszkowski family:
I was shocked and extremely saddened to hear about Robert's death. I am so sorry. I want you to know that I not only have many fond memories of Robert, but I have many, many fond memories of your entire family. During the time Eileen and I were dating, you always treated me as if I was part of the family. I mostly remember the crazy holidays we all spent together. I am sorry that I wasn't able to attend Robert's funeral. Unfortunately, I did not find out about his death until after the funeral. You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Joe Pulio
Rose Passatore
March 4, 2002
To Debbie and the Ruszkowski Family,
The first time I met Rob was at the recent inventory here in Pittsburgh, while I was still a temp. He blew through the office like a whirlwind, full of energy and enthusiasm and purpose. The easy camaraderie he shared with Dave, Colleen, Michele and the Reps made an otherwise tedious job fun. Pretty impressive, I thought. A nice guy to know.
And he was. In the brief time I knew him I could see that he had the qualities of a true leader. He had the ability to put those around him at ease, encourage them to be their best, and to look at the "big picture."
But mostly Debbie, I could see that he was a good man - inside - where it counts. His love for you and his family was plain to see in the way he spoke of you. And he truely cared for his Zee family, too. As I read these testaments to Rob's character, I feel his success was not written in dollar signs, but in the outpouring of love and admiration from those who knew him. And that is the true measure of success - how much we are loved by others.
May God comfort you in your hour of need Debbie, and remember, He is always by your side. You are in our prayers.
Joni Gasvoda
March 3, 2002
To The Ruszkowski Family,May the promise of eternal life comfort you.I am grateful and honored to have known Rob in my lifetime! God Bless All of You!Joni-Zee Pittsburgh
Dolores and Brian Grelewicz
March 3, 2002
Dear Debbie, Auntie Lynn, Michelle,
Our thought and prayers are with you and Robert. He was very special to us: a loving, caring, generous, playful and understanding person.
Robert was always there for others, I remember Robert and Uncle Bob taking me to my first Bears games back in 1980 after my dad passed away. More recently, he was there with our Gram at the end when she died.
We remember Robert goofing around at the pool parties by Uncle Don's or his B-day on the July 4th! Running out to Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve. Truly a kid at heart. I remember him as a great cousin who would take the time to play catch or shoot hoops and I looked up to him like a brother. My Mom will always treasure the special relationship she shared with Robert, her godchild.
Everyone in the family loved him greatly, and no one will forget his shining example of how to love others and live life to the fullest.
Love,
Auntie Dodo and Brian
Antonio & Lina Rugiano
March 3, 2002
Carissimi Lina,Debbie,Michelle,John e famiglia,
sebbene abbiamo conosciuto Robert per pochissimo tempo il suo ricordo,la sua immagine,il suo cuore d'oro,il suo sorriso,la sua dolcezza e bontà infinita rimarranno sempre nei nostri cuori. E' vero siamo stati assieme per pochi giorni, ma li abbiamo vissuti così intensamente da darci la possibilità di conoscerlo, apprezzarlo e amarlo per il resto della nostra vita.
Miei cari vi mandiamo queste poche parole di S.Agostino, sperando che possano apportare un lieve conforto ai vostri cuori affranti.
"NON PIANGETE LA MIA ASSENZA SENTITEMI VICINO E PARLATEMI ANCORA
IO CONTINUERO' AD AMARVI AL DI LA'
DELLA VITA
L'AMORE E' L'ANIMA
E L'ANIMA NON MUORE"
(S.AGOSTINO)
Vi siamo molto vicini col cuore e col pensiero e partecipiamo al vostro infinito e grandissimo dolore per la prematura scomparsa del caro Robert.
Lina, Antonio, Rossana e Giuseppe.
Patricia Dopp
March 2, 2002
Dear Ruszkowski Family,
One never knows what to say at times like this. My memories of Rob are from sophmore year in high school. Although that was so many years ago I still hold warm thoughts of Rob, his kindness, laugh, and sense of spirit.
Please know that Rob and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Patty Dopp
Anna Haberkorn
March 2, 2002
My deepest sympathy and prays go to Rob's wife and family. I've only known Rob for a couple years, but feel as though it has been forever. He was a very special person. Anyone who met him couldn't help but love him. He would always make you feel at ease and welcome. Rob was an amazing person who I will miss more then words can express.
No matter what I was doing or how my day was going, he could call me and when I would answer the phone he would say...Hab-ber-corn.....I would know right alway, it was "Robbie" and everything was great. Just hearing his voice would make you smile. I don't think he ever called me by my first name. To him Haberkorn was my first name.
There are memories I have about Rob that just make me smile. Ones like the back alley restuarant a group of us went to during an inventory, where you had to know the password to get. At another inventory, Rob tell a few of us about how wonderful this "meat" dish was at this restuarant, then when we were going to order we realized it was Good Friday, so we all ended up ordering a shrimp dish. Just recently we had a little bit (for a good bottle of wine) for what we thought a few of the used Zee vans would bring when sold. Of course Rob thought he would win, so he told me to make sure and make it a GOOD bottle and to bring it when I come for the inventory. I have that bottle and would very much like you Debbie to have it.
Please accept my condolences and know that Rob will always hold a special place in my heart.
June Booz
March 2, 2002
To the family of Rob:
I have not seen or talked to Rob for many years. I was fortunate enough to have met him about 10 years ago when we formed a cancer support group in our area. Although he was a young man, he gave so much hope and love to everyone he met in our group that he left a last impression on all of us. I have a son his age, but told Rob I wanted to adopt him also. At our meetings, no matter what challenges Rob was facing with his illness, he was able to share his humor and positiveness. It was so clear that Rob was special. Thanks, Rob, for some beautiful memories of a person of courage, compassion and love. You were the kind of person that we all strive to be.
Patricia ZIZZO
March 2, 2002
Chers Italia,Debbie,Michèle et famille
En ce jour marqué d'une profonde tristesse, il n'existe pas de mots assez forts pour exprimer notre peine, qui est d'autant plus grande que nous ne pouvons être auprès de vous.
Ce samedi 2 mars 2002,à l'heure de la messe, toutes nos pensées et nos prières vous accompagnent.
Bisous. Love always. Lina, Renato,Claude, Nathalie, Laura, Elodie et Patricia.
Alan & Sherie Shapiro
March 1, 2002
Debbie,
Our heartfelt condolences on your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Robert Horwich
March 1, 2002
I had the priviledge of knowing Rob for over 7 years. We spent many days on the road together during conversions and meetings and he was one of the best people I've ever known. His sense of humor was balanced by his sense of honor and I never saw him treat anyone with anything less than complete respect and compassion.
The world is certainly diminished by his departure and I consider myself a better person for having known him.
Angie Revelles
March 1, 2002
My deepest condolences to Rob's family and Friends. When I first heard the bad news I felt weak and sad. Rob was truley a great person who touched everyones life in one way or another. I have never come across anyone like Rob who treats everyone with the same respect. Rob you made a Big impression on me. You will be missed, rest in peace.
Peggy Pavletich
March 1, 2002
Debbie, Michelle, & Mrs Ruszkowski,
I want to extend heartfelt sympathy to you on
the loss of Rob.
As a young boy and friend of my son Jim,
I'm sure Rob never expected to see
the entire ELK GROVE POLICE DEPARTMENT
at his wake. I do feel privileged to have known him.
Susan Harvey
March 1, 2002
Jake and I are so heart-sick, Debbie. We know how happy you were together and can only pray that the beautiful memories you have will someday heal the pain of his loss.
All our love to you, Debbie.
Patti DeBellis
March 1, 2002
Dear Lynn,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Patti
Neil Rogers
March 1, 2002
I knew Robert best in Grade School, Jr. High and High School. We drifted apart after those years but I still considered him a friend.
Robert had a way of being everyone's friend. He was one of the good guys!
Kristine Brogelman
March 1, 2002
I have known Rob for almost 4 years and am devastated over his loss. I valued his friendship, his sense of humor and most of all his ablity to always help others. I respected him and trusted him.
I was fortunate enough to spend some time with him recently on a business trip to Chicago. Unfortunately I got sick and ended up in the hospital where Rob sat with me for hours until I was released. I will always cherish those hours that we spent talking and how he made fun of me just to make me laugh. He cared and that meant a lot to me.
We always had a lot of inside jokes that I will always remember. He was always on my case about being a princess and always getting my way..or the time when he tried to pick me up from the airport and I was standing at the wrong curb (so he says) making him wait for over an hour..ha ha..Its these jokes that will remain in my memory forever.
He always backed me when others didnt and I owed him a lot for that. He had faith in me..always. Whatever Rob says he's going to do....he did it. His word was always good. I valued that quality in him.
I just had dinner with Rob and Debbie last week, I just remember saying to myself "This is what a marriage should be like"...you could see the passion and love that reeked from them! Two people that fit so well together. Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss and will continue to pray for you and your family.
I have to believe that his great qualities are needed elsewhere now..and although it hurts like hell I feel truly blessed to have known him the amount of time I did. The World will truly be different now that he is not in it.
He was the little man with a big roar! and he will never be forgotten.
March 1, 2002
TO DEBBIE AND THE RUSZKOWSKI FAMILY
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES AND CONDOLENCES TO YOU. ROB, GROWING UP WITH OUR SON MARK AND HIS BROTHERS WAS ALWAYS APLEASURE WHEN HE WAS AROUND. HE WAS ALWAYS GOOD FOR
A LAUGH AT THE REAPER GAMES, EVEN THOUGH HE WAS CUB FAN. WE WILL MISS HIM. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU
BILL & JEAN ALBERSON
Ruth Ann Keegan (Pavletich)
March 1, 2002
I was deeply saddened to learn of Rob's passing. His friendship with my brother seems timeless. He was also a wonderful friend to a special group of guys for whom my heart aches.
I shall always remember Rob for his warm smile and endearing charm........for there's one more angel in Heaven.
Mary Whiteside (Zimanzl)
March 1, 2002
Rob was like a brother to me at the University Plaza at NIU, even coaching me on who he thought I should marry (Don't worry, Rob, I know you had doubts about Phil, but he's turned out to be a great husband!!!). I have incredible memories Rob - full of life and always smiling. Without fail, he was the life of the party. I feel very blessed to have known him. Undoubtedly there is much celebration in Heaven right now. My deepest sympathy to Rob's entire family and to all of his friends who remember him as I do.
Cara Swank
March 1, 2002
To the Ruszkowski Family -
My deepest sympathies for the tremendous loss of an extraordinary guy. Thank you for sharing him with his Zee Family - he was special to us all.
I will miss Rob most because of what he is not.
Rob Is not . . .
Arrogant
Critical
Jealous
Impatient
And what he is .
Rob Is . . .
Kind
Caring
Pure Hearted
Supportive
Funny
Honest
Generous
A True Friend
Very much loved. I pray he rests in peace.
Phyllis Powers (Mozzetti)
March 1, 2002
My deepest sympathies to Rob's family and friends.
I have known Rob since kindergarten and his passing was such a shock to me, that someone so young and full of life could be called home so early. I have fond memories of Rob and his great personality and laughter. He will be greatly missed by me and all who knew him.
I know he is with God in Heaven and he's looking down on all of us. He will always be with us, as close as a thought. I know some day we will all join him and others who have gone before us in Heaven, what a party that will be!!!
God bless!! My prayers are with all of you.
Rick Vollman A-Perfect Climate, Inc.
March 1, 2002
To the Ruszkowski Family:
Our deepest sympathies to Debbie and the entire family. We just saw the notice in the paper and we wanted to send our deepest sympathies. We only met last week and we just could not believe it. We had to let you know how sorry we are for your sudden loss.
Serena Carbone
March 1, 2002
Lynn,
I am so deeply saddened about the loss of Rob, who was such a wonderful person. Rob beat so many odds in his short life that I just couldn’t even comprehend what was being said when I found out. He had such a positive outlook on life, no matter what challenges he faced - and he certainly faced a lot in his life – beating cancer, a previous heart attack, losing family members – also taken away much too early.. He always had a smile on his face and an encouraging word for everyone. I was lucky enough to know him for over 25 years and saw him grow from a young boy to a man that people looked up to and admired. Although, over the last few years, I did not see him as often as in the past, whenever I did, he always made a point to come up and give me and my family a kiss and stop what he was doing to talk and see how all was going. He was such a respectful, fun, caring person and anyone who talked to him for even 5 minutes would pick this up.
I have so many happy holiday memories of Rob and the family that I will remember forever. He certainly knew how to have fun and his personality just radiated positiveness. He was an inspiration to all who knew him. But more important than knowing how to have fun, he had faith in God, he loved his family and his friends, he was a kind and caring person and he left the world a better place because he touched so many lives. Lynn, the most important thing we can do in life is to raise a child to make a difference in this crazy world – and due to you and Bob and the way you raised your children, Rob did make a difference in people’s lives. He will never be forgotten. I am so proud to have known him, so proud that he was Gabi’s Godfather, and I will miss him very, very much. My deepest sympathies go out to you, Michelle, Debbie and the rest of the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Gary Parker
March 1, 2002
When i moved to elk grove in the 7th grade Rob was one of the first friends i had. we spent countless hours playing basketball, riding bikes and mostly talking. we shared a good friendship and even though we lost contact i always knew he was there if i needed him. he was that kind of person. i'll miss him greatly and i am so sorry for your loss.
Curt Stanley
March 1, 2002
Debbie, my most sincere thoughts and prayers are sent to you for your great loss. Rob and I worked together at Zee on many projects, for many years, but mostly I just plain LOVED the guy. He had such a sweet, friendly and sincere demeanor. We were able to play golf together, visit some nice places for the Symposiums. Most recently I met with you and Rob in Hawaii(last year's meeting). I even remember he called me recently to tell me you guys had purchased a Corvette (like mine) and that you were enjoying driving it during the nice weather. Although I am no longer at ZEE as an employee, my HEART is still with Zee and equally important, ROB is a reason for so many of my fondest memories at Zee. May God give you Peace in this time of sorrow. Remeber, Rob is already looking down on all of us (you in particular), and will watch out for you as one of God's "brightest shining" Angels. Love & Prayers...Curt Stanley
Robin Spite
March 1, 2002
Dear Debbie & Family
I started at Zee in November 2001 and when I met Rob I knew that this was going to be fun!! When I would call in for a question which I thought might be dumb, he would always say no question is a dumb question...and always reassured me that I was doing a fantastic job. I talked to Rob on Monday and when he picked up the phone he YELLED...HEY ROCKIN' ROBIN HOWS IT GOING? He called me Rockin'Robin due to Ced and Connie thinking when I called that I was saying is Rob in, when really I was saying this is Robin. It was really really funny, and I will smile whenever I think of it. Iam glad that I spoke to him on Monday and that I told him I was loving my job....and again he told me that I was doing great!I really am going to miss his energy and fun spirit. He really knew how to bring somebody up after a hard day in the field. Each one of us is better in someway due to Rob. He made me want to be better, work harder and most of all have fun while doing it. He was a treasure and will be missed. I will remember him always...Robin
Tom Terry
March 1, 2002
My deepest condolences to Debbie and the rest of Rob's family.
I have only known Rob for 4 years, but consider him synonymous with Zee. He was a good friend and co-worker.
Rob definitely made working here worth while. And always made me feel better through his positive attitude about everything.
For us, it always seemed to be discussing Big 10 sports or Bulls vs. Pacers while enjoying a local restaurant. Rob, we'll always have "Arena", in Chicago, "Champs" in Detroit, and especially "Mario's" in Pittsburgh. Everytime I raise a drink, I'll say a toast to you buddy.
Jack Griffin
February 28, 2002
Dear Deb, Lynn, & Michelle,
When my eyes caught Rob's name in the paper, I couldn't believe it. We had moved to South Elgin in July and just began receiving the Daily Herald. I mention this because I'm still unpacking and came across Bob's mass card just last week. I can't beleive its been 9 years. I 'm stunned. My heart and prayers go out to all of you. God Bless.
Jack Griffin (Bob's New York Life friend)
Sarah Fisher
February 28, 2002
My deepest sympathy goes out to Debbie and your family. My days at Zee will never be the same without you. You are one of the people that kept me working at Zee. I remember the first time we had inventory in the warehouse at Pittsburgh. Me with my big mouth saying whatever I was thinking and you telling me things would get better. Things got better and you where always there to call and tell me I was doing a good job. Thank you. I will miss you.So here's a shot of Bombay sapphire to one of the greatest guys I have ever known.
Craig Peoples
February 28, 2002
Since hearing of Rob's passing, I have felt numb and a tremendous sense o loss. Reading the thought/memories posted by his many friends brought tears to my eyes, as I, too, shared many of the noted experiences.
Rob joined Zee Medical shortly after I did. I had the pleasure of having Rob in many training courses over the years, along with his consistant support of training. I watched Rob grow in knowledge and mature into the type of manager that truly earned all of the praises acknowledged by his peers and employees.
Whenever my travels brought me to Chicago, I knew Rob would be prepared to be a most gracious host. It was with Rob that I enjoyed my first Cubs game at Wrigley (yes, this is where we almost derailed his relationship with Debbie . . .sorry Debbie). I still have the Cubs hat that Rob bought me as a souvenir. He also got a group of us into the ne Whites Sox stadium which included a side jaunt to a great little neighborhood bar for pre and post game libations.
Rob loved his God, his wife and family, and his work. This provided the foundation which led to so many successes at such a young age.
He was a bright light in what is often a dark world. Perhaps the brightest of lights are destined to burn out far too quickly. I do find peace in knowing Rob is with his Lord and eagerly waiting to play host upon our arrival.
Debbie and the entire Ruszkowski family, please accept my sincere condolences. You are in my prayers.
Rob, we love you and we'll miss you!
Alan Kittenplan
February 28, 2002
To Debbie and family:
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have known Rob a very long time. He was one of the kindest people I knew and was loved by all that knew him. He had CHARISMA! He always treated people fairly, and enjoyed people around him. He will not be forgotten. He will be missed.
Randy Wheeler
February 28, 2002
I offer my deepest condolences to the friends and family. Rob was a respected co-worker. He brought a ray of sunshine into every company function and I'm sure,the lives of all those who's paths he crossed.
Jim & Julie Pavletich
February 28, 2002
Debbie, Michelle & John and Mrs. Ruszkowski,
Our deepest sympathy on Robert's passing. He was a great person and we feel very fortunate to have known him.
The good times had while growing up with Robert will never be forgotten. Grade School, High School, Fun Services, NIU and Reaper softball were all made more meaningful and fun because Robert was there to share the experiences.
I (we) already miss him a great deal. Our prayers are with you.
Lisa, Jen & Karla Mursu
February 28, 2002
Softball games and Munchies will never be the same...
Rob, we'll never tell who broke the clock on New Year's Eve. The secret is safe with us. :)
You'll be greatly missed...
Our heartfelt condolences go out to Debbie and Rob's entire family.
Dave Parkhurst
February 28, 2002
Rob was an amazing person who will be missed by all who knew him. He was always positive and upbeat regardless of what he encountered.
Ann Aschbacher( Coan)
February 28, 2002
To the Ruszkowski Family,
As Lori's lifelong friend, I fondly remember many, many happy times spent as a guest of your wonderful family party get togethers, where I got to know Robert. I remember Robert as someone with the most infectious laugh and great spirit! This is so tragic, my heart goes out to all of you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers...Sincerely, Ann Aschbacher (Coan) and Family
Gerry Compas
February 28, 2002
Dear Debbie and Ruszkowski Family:
I have known Rob for only a year, but he was someone special and someone I'm glad to have considered a friend. Rob welcomed me on my first day arriving at Zee, and immediately offered his help should I need anything. With Rob I knew it was a genuine offer. During this past year we attended Zee meetings, my first personal encounter with Rob was at Zee symposium in Hawaii. My original impression of his genuineness was confirmed. I also had the chance to meet you Debbie and saw the love and commitment you and Rob felt for each other.
Debbie, I too will miss Rob and only regret I didn't meet him earlier in my life. God blesses you and comforts you during this most difficult time of loss. I share your sorrow and sympathy. My wife and I will be praying for you and your family.
Gerry Compas
Zee, SoCal
Alice Norman-Ulrich
February 28, 2002
Michelle,
I didn't know you well in High School but always thought you were kind. My heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time. I lost my brother in high school and still miss him! God bless you, Alice
Pam Biedebach
February 28, 2002
Dear Debbie and Family,
I have had the pleasure of working with Rob for about the last 4 years at Zee - Rob was the kind of person that put a smile on everyone's face that her was around. Rob always made everyone around him feel extra special. It's very hard to think we will not be receiving the little email or a quick call just to say Hi. Rob will be missed always. Debbie you were lucky to have had Rob in your life and so were we. God Bless you and your family.
Always, Pam
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