DR. ROBERT LEE STOKES

My wife and I were patients of Dr. Stokes for almost 30 years. He was always available to us. His care and concern for our welfare were always appreciated. We last visited with Dr. Stokes in December 2015. We had heard of his ailment and told him that there was at least one family who loved him and was praying for him. He got a puzzled look on his face and said, "Who is that?" When I indicated to my wife and me, he got a surprised look on his face and teared up. He stepped around his desk and hugged us both. It was almost like he was surprised that someone could just love him for his being him. He was loved and is still missed to this day. Unfortunately, my wife also passed away due to pancreatic cancer, also. Hopefully, they have met in heaven and are telling jokes about this crazy person left behind down here. Dr. Stokes was truly one of a kind. My sincerest condolences to his wife and family on the up-coming 10th anniversary of his passing.

Dr. Stokes was our family doctor for decades. We learned only today he is gone. We have been retired in Soutth TX., and are returning to K.C. and family. We shall miss his kindness and sense of humor. With sympathy and sadness, Charles and Shirley Rickett.

Dr Stokes was my family doctor, when my wife had a heart attack at 3:00 am , he was at the hospital at 4:15 to attend to her. Unfortunately she passed, but he did everything he could. A really great man

I can´t believe another year has come and gone...you were such a gentleman, and had such compassion for your patients...hoping more physicians are like you!!

Can´t believe it has been 6 years already...I think if your hard work and dedication to your patients often. You truly were a gentleman amongst gentlemen...miss you Dr Stokes

Cindy, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your amazing husband and friend. I so enjoyed knowing and working with Robert. Our prayers for comfort are with you all.

You have not been forgotten, Dr. Stokes. How could you be? I still haven't found a doctor that even comes close to who you were.

Still seems like yesterday that I received the phone call that Dr Stokes was no longer with us...I was in shock then, and can´t believe that it has been 5 years that he has been gone. In my business life every day, there are memories of Dr Stokes, and they are very fond memories of what and how he would do stuff. He was such a gentle man and a pleasure to work for, such a caring individual...he will forever be missed

I still miss Dr. Stokes. When we lost him, we lost an excellent doctor who also felt like a good friend....probably because my family and I had been under his care for many years. I can't imagine the great loss his wife and family must feel. If there is a heaven, I know that he is there. Please pray for all of us, Dr. Stokes.

Seems like only yesterday I was learning so much from you...you were such a brilliant and compassionate man! I can only hope that going forward I can have half the compassion for people that you had...you are truly missed Dr Stokes

I was a patient of Dr. Stokes for the last 30 years. He had a wonderful sense of humor and caring personality. We will surely miss him.

Dr. Stokes was my first employer and practice partner after graduating from family medicine residency. He welcomed me with open arms into his practice, and taught me a lot about medicine and running a practice in the 2 1/2 years we practiced together. I have fond memories of my time spent at Parkville Family Practice with Dr. Stokes, and was saddened to hear of his passing recently from one of his patients. I will never forget his sense of humor, his beautiful historic home, his love of history, and his dedication to his patients. My prayers are with his wife, Cindy, who must miss him terribly. You could tell he loved her very much.

Amy Holman, MD

My family and I are so sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you and your family.
Dr Stokes took such good care of our family - my parents, my husband and me and my children. He went above and beyond in showing his care and concern for us. We will miss Dr. Stokes.

Rob,so sorry to hear about your dad he was a lovely man,my thoughts and condolences to you and your family. Robyn

In remembering Dr. "Bob" Stokes and wishing comfort to Cindy and the family, he was both a gifted physician and dear friend over the years.

Dr. Bob's sense of humor and stories behind his unique character ties will be missed. Dr. Bob was thorough and caring as a physician and could figure out solutions to just about anything.

Dr. Bob will be fondly remembered.

Prayers to the family. I was a patient of his and I always respected his demeanor and knowledge. Caring and devoted to his path in life.

I was always treated with respect and he truly cared about his profession.

He will be missed.

There are no words strong or beautiful enough to properly describe this man! Dr. Stokes is the only family doctor I've ever known in my 24 years- he was so very good to our entire family.

Dr. Stokes gave me my first shots, set my broken wrist, and helped me overcome issues from anxiety to altitude sickness. He was such an exceptional man and Doctor- someone I completely trusted with any/all details pertaining to my health and well-being.

I remember him talking me through my first encounter with anxiety and depression during middle school. He said to me, "Katie- you're such a smart girl. The most intelligent people almost always go through something like this. Chin up."

I will miss him dearly- and I can only HOPE to find a Doctor like him for my family one day.

Dr.Bob was my personal physician and friend
for over thirty years. He and Cindy were cherished friends and I have fond memories of our times together. They were gracious hosts for my family. He was the physician for my wife Linda and we both will miss him greatly.

Dr Stokes was our family Dr for 20 years. We very much enjoyed him and he will be dearly missed.
Robert, Valerie, Nicholas, Sean and Anne (Vance) Loughran.

Dr. Stokes was a great family doctor. He was always most professional, patient, caring, and informative to my daughter and I. RI>P

Dr. Stokes was our family doctor for more than two decades, and we are so grateful that he graced our lives. Dr. Stokes was caring, gentlemanly, brilliant and humble. Such a gentle hand and kind face. He took such good care of us. My husband comes from a small town, and said he thought of Dr. Stokes as a country physician in all the best sense of the phrase. I recall how he recognized us late at night at NKC Hospital; my mother had undergone major heart surgery and was just wheeled into ICU. He went in to chat with her team, and came out to explain her condition fully and reassure us. We didn't ask him; he just did so. We will cherish his memory, and thank his family for sharing such a wonderful man with us all. We hold you in our hearts. Pamela Miller & Michael Cummings

Dr. Stokes was our family doctor for many many years. We enjoyed his friendly, caring manner. He seemed to remember small details about our lives, my husbands walking, asking about the books I was reading. We send our condolences and sympathy to his family and friends. We will miss his care.

Dr. Stokes was my physician for my entire time in Kansas City. Over the years, I really got to appreciate his approach to his patients, and his dry sense of humor. I called him "Doc" when I would see him. I will miss him. My condolences to his family, friends, patients, and all of the people whose lives he touched.

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My truly heartfelt condolences goes out to all the family and friends. I am deeply saddened by this. Wish I could take your pain away. Been there. God Bless

Just from me to you

A kind and genuinely caring doctor, best describes this wonderfully witty man. So blessed I found him, when I moved to the KC area.

He was the one who ended my years of pain and helped me through the worst time of my life.

First he would take care of business then food, wine and house talk. Ending with a hug. Wish I had know it would be my last.

What an honor to have known him. Peace and love Doc!

What a wonderful man and Doctor....he helped my family for 30 years. I am so sad he is gone and had to endure a battle with cancer. Prayers for his family at home and at his office. He will be missed.
Cheryl Riley and family.....

Was so sad to hear the news of Dr Stokes passing. He had taken care of my family and myself for close to 30 years. Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Dr Stokes was my primary doctor for many years. We laughed and shared stories. He said it was nice to have a cheery patient. He was amazing and will be sorely missed!

We are so saddened to hear of Dr Stokes passing.

Dr Stokes took care of me and my family for nearly 30 years. My family all loved him. My children continue to see him as adults.

Dr Stokes saw my family through very trying times and did so with kindness and sincerity. We will all miss him.

Dr Stokes
Rest in peace...

My family moved to Kansas City in 1983 from California. He was our family doctor for over 20 some years and has helped my family overcome cancer and heart issues. He was well loved and respected from our family. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to his family, patients and staff of Parkville Family Practice. Thank you for everything from the LeDoux family.

Our deepest sympathies are with you during this time of loss and grieving. We were so saddened to learn of Robert's illness and passing. He was my Doctor for almost 30 years! He was instrumental in saving my husband's life from a sudden illness and for that alone, we are forever grateful. He cared about and took delight in personally knowing about the lives of his patients. May the impact Bob made on so many lives help you and your loved ones, Cindy and give you strength in the days ahead. He truly was one of a kind! To those in the office, condolences to all of you as well. Rest in peace, Dr. Bob

Dr.Stokes was not only my physician but a man who could brighten my day when things seemed impossible to accept. I will miss his dry humor and his way of showing his depth of caring for each of his patients. I credit his care for being able to enjoy life with good health

I am privileged to say I was a patient, as was my mom. She absolutely loved Dr. Stokes; I respected and admired him. We both always said we would trust him with our lives. My mom passed last fall, but on behalf of her and my entire family, please accept our heartfelt sympathy.

Our family saw Dr. Stokes for almost 20 years. We will miss him greatly. He leaves this world a better place because of his compassion and caring for his patients. God Bless you.

I was a patient of Dr. Stokes for at least 30 years. He saw me through a lot of illnesses and the death of my husband. To say I am so sorry is not strong enough words to express my sorrow at his passing. I will miss him and so will many others. He was a great Dr. and friend. Condolences to his wife and family. R.I.P. my friend.

I was a patience of Dr. Stokes for over 10 years and always felt his warmth and caring. I trusted him as a medical doctor and always felt that he truly listened. He will be missed.

So sad to read the news of Dr. Stokes passage! Hugs and strength to Cindy and the rest of the family! Thank you both for all of your time and efforts as part of our Northland Community! Sincerely, Brad & Kathy Dusenbery

I am so sorry to learn of Dr. Stokes' passing. I really only saw him as a patient when I was feeling sick, but he always made me laugh with a sarcastic comment - which I greatly appreciated. He was the real deal. I will keep his family and colleagues at Meritas in my thoughts and prayers.

I feel very blessed and honored to have been one of his patients. He was very caring.
Thank you Dr Stokes, I will miss seeing you.

I will never forget him. He was more than just a good doctor. He was a friend with a compassionate heart. He will be missed by many.

To the family of Dr. Stokes, you are in my thoughts and prayers! May God bring you comfort during this difficult time!

I was a patient of Dr. Stokes for many years. He was a great doctor and even greater human being! He will truly be missed!

God Bless!

I was a patient of Dr. Stokes for around 30 years. Loved his dry sense of humor and his direct approach. I will miss seeing him.

Really sorry to hear of his passing. The dry sense of humor describes him perfectly. We used to discuss dive trips which he enjoyed.

I am so sad to know Dr. Bob has passed!He was my Doctor for over 20 years. I enjoyed his down to earth medical approach. He was always willing to listen and very caring.I will remember him in my prayers.Peggi Sheridan

We have been patients of Dr. Stokes since about 2001. He was a very caring man and always had time for us. We considered him more than a doctor--he was also a friend. It was a blessing to have him as our doctor and friend. He will be greatly missed. He made a difference to those who knew him.

My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. Dr Stokes was an amazing doctor and friend. I like many trusted him with my life and the lives of my children. He's been my doctor for over 25 years and is irreplaceable. You will be missed old friend. Rest in peace,Sandy (Eaton)Arnone.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dr. Stokes was an awesome man. I'll miss him dearly. He was definitely one of a kind.

To his wife:
I know how it is to lose a husband. My husband died almost two yrs ago. Dr. Stokes was very sensitive to my pain. The loss of a husband, best friend, love of your life is hard to fathom, but may God's strength and comfort help guide you as you grieve- that's what pulled me through (God's love).

To his children:
I also know how it is to lose a father- I walked down that road 12 yrs ago. Just know that his words of wisdom will always be with you. And may God give you peace that passes all understanding as you grieve your father.

I do know one thing. Weeping endures for a night, but joy comes in the morning. (Psalm 30:5). Even if JOY doesn't come in the morning. IT (JOY) WILL COME AGAIN ONE DAY.

God Bless
Tanya Potts

The best doctor I ever had! I was a very light smoker and was resisting quitting. I said will it make that much of a difference? He said "I do not know but you sure will smell better" so o quit.

I will always remember Dr. Bob as a quiet but gentle soul. Over the past 6 years I had the privilege of getting to know him and gain a deep understanding of why he was so deeply loved.

I am very sad that I will not be able see him any longer but I will always remember his big hugs and his kind heart. Cindy, Tracy, and Colette my thoughts and prayers are with you.

30 years ago Dr. Stokes and I were young men.
I have been a patient of his for that long.
on one of my latest visits to his office he explained why he would never retire.
I always thought how wonderful it must be to love what you do so dearly that nothing else could be better.
I always admired him.
I will surely miss him.
Sure, I can see another doctor. But I don't expect to ever again find a "Dr. Stokes".
May you rest in peace.
and your soul be very blessed.
Steve Wright.

Such a loss to family and friends...Dr Stokes, you were such a great person to work for, always supporting and caring for your employees as well as your patients...You will be truly missed by all those that you touched...Cindy, our prayers are with you to find comfort in this time of sorrow...many hugs to you

Kendall and Becky Matheney

Rest in Peace Dr. Stokes

My time while working with Dr. Stokes was one of the greatest times in my career. I learned so much from him and enjoyed the opportunity when he would take extra time to teach me something new. We had a lot of great laughs and he will always be a great physician that made a huge impact on me and my career. May he rest in peace and my prayers are with Cindy and the rest of the family.
-Ciji Gonzalez(Cook)

During our many years in Kansas City, Robert and Cindy became very close friends. I first met them both when they were working at Dr. Hall's clinic near the TWA overhaul base. I retained him to have oversight of the paramedics at the base and he was a great mentor and leader to them. Denise and I often joined them for social and charitable events and the occasional private dinner at their beautiful historic home. When we moved away in 1998, we didn't see them anymore but they were always in our hearts and minds. Our sincerest condolences to Cindy and family.

Chuck and Denise Thibaudeau
Peachtree City GA

Dr. Stokes you have helped me thru the 26 years that I have been your patient cope with many medical issues as well cooping with personal loss of both my parents and sister and many friends. I will miss your kindness and expert medical attention. My condolences to you family and friends for the loss of you in their lives. I have many good memories of my visits to your office for whatever I needed. May you rest in peace. You will be missed by not only myself but many whose life you have touched.

Dr. Stokes you have helped me thru the 26 years that I have been your patient cope with many medical issues as well cooping with personal loss of both my parents and sister and many friends. I will miss your kindness and expert medical attention. My condolences to you family and friends for the loss of you in their lives. I have many good memories of my visits to your office for whatever I needed. May you rest in peace. You will be missed by not only myself but many whose life you have touched.

RIP, Dr. Stokes.I worked at Bethany Med Center when he was the ER director. I later became his patient at the Parkville office. Amazing and thorough in his practice. There will be no other doctor like him . condolences to you, Cindy and family.

Dr. Bob & Cindy -- We are so sorry, Dr. Bob, that you suffered so much. It just shouldn't happen to nice, professionals guys like you. Rest now. You did so much good here. Cindy, Carl and I send you our deepest sympathies. Be strong.

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Dr. STOKES, you saved each of my family members...in one way or another.. we will always be thankful for you! The Barquist/Calon Families.. xoxo

I have known Dr Stokes for over 30 years. I worked for a wine distributor years ago and Dr and friends would come down to the caves and buy wines periodically. I also was a patient of his and truly miss him already. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Dr. Stokes I will miss him, he was a great doctor, loved his sense of humor. The last time he said give me a hug of what is left of him. My heart broke. My prayers are with his family.

I remember so much about Dr Stokes , I was one of the nurses who worked with him back in the 80's at the Parkville location and let me tell you I learned so much from this man as I'm sure many of us did. I remember he would book 4 patients for each 15 minute block then escape out the back door and go get yogurt at TCBY and come waltzing back in the door with his TCBY before a lot of them ever knew he was gone. He was a great teacher of medicine and loved to teach you how to do the job the way HE wanted it done. He was much softer then he wanted you to know but you had to get to know him very well before you figured that out. My whole family ended up being his patients because he was a doctor that you could trust with your life. during several of our office visits he would always ask how my sons were doing as they both were injured in Iraq pretty bad but he always made a point to ask first off how they were and if there was anything he could do . During a visit with him years back we were talking and discussing the fact that I had opened my own home care business he gave me this huge ready bear hug and said with a smile " If anyone could do it you can , your a very strong nurse with great ethics , it does not surprise me one bit" . Dr Stokes you will be missed more than you know- you have impacted so many peoples lives with your knowledge, demand for excellence, and your caring touch. I myself can admit I learned so much from you working side by side in that office during that time. KC won't be the same without you. The medical community won't be the same, My prayers go out to Cindy and the entire family for God to guide you and comfort you during this very difficult journey.