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Meggie (Joan)
June 19, 2025
My husband and I met Bob the way many probably did--on the patio at Harry´s in Querétaro when we were expats from Nashville. He was going table to table to make sure everyone was happy. He picked up on my Southern accent immediately, and we all got to talking. A round of drinks arrived not long after he walked away. That was Bob.
From then on, whether in Querétaro or San Miguel, Bob always made time to say hello, welcome our guests from the States, and catch up like we were old friends. He had a mix of charm without smarm and mischief without malice. Everyone always felt better after talking to Bob.
I loved sitting on the patio at Harry´s in El Centro even before we met him, especially early in the day. Now I know it's because it was a reflection of Bob...a feeling of home. Even though we never saw him outside of his restaurants, we felt like he was our friend. I believe if we had called upon him for help, he would have done anything he could. That felt great and meant a lot. He is truly missed.
Frank Gallenstein
March 2, 2024
My condolences and prayers to Bob's family. I have many, many, many good memories of Bob.
I was a fellow member of the not-so-well-known "Unknowns". Bob was a very good drummer with a natural ability. He could sing well too but we never encouraged him to do so, otherwise we would have had to give him a microphone during performances. If he had limited his use to singing it would have worked out. If you knew Bob, you would fully understand.
About 25 years ago I received a late-night unexpected call from Bob. He had lost a dear old friend he had met in Mexico and called for some comfort. I'm sure they were good and loyal friends to each other. That's how he was.
I missed him a lot when he moved to Mexico and still do.
Lou Kerns
February 17, 2024
Where to begin? I had worked for Bob designing and building 3 of his 4 restaurants in Memphis. I even got paid for having a blast. My sister died in 1987. It touched my heart that the super-busy Bob came to the graveside, where he surprised me with the offer to go get a break from everything at his and Sally´s condo in San Miguel. I think it surprised him when I stuck my hand out for the keys! The trip was incredible, and many more followed because he and Sally were the most gracious, generous, and fun beyond words. I also loved him beyond words.
Andrew Swann
February 17, 2024
RIP Bob
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Rich McClarty
February 17, 2024
Bob and John Travis were the first two people I met on vacation in San Miguel. Many months later San Miguel became my home and they both remembered and immediately made it feel like home for close to two decades. It is sad but all should take solace in knowing no one wrung out the towel of life quite like Bob. My thoughts go out to Lisa, John and all those who knew him. As I sit in Nashville on a cancer trip myself I regret not being able to make it to his Memorial. May his memory be a blessing. Cancer sucks. Rest in peace.
Warren Hardy
February 15, 2024
A San Miguel Icon is gone. Bravado, Brilliance, Vision and goodness. The first time I saw Bob was at a private party when he stood on a table and called everyone to attention. Then he gave a beautiful toast. I thought, Who in the hell is this guy?
Over the next twenty five years I learned to know him, admire him and love him. A piece of my life in San Miguel is gone. I will miss him.
Douglas Henning
February 14, 2024
Douglas Henning
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Todd Bradley
February 14, 2024
Bob was an absolute original! He brought me to Memphis after relentlessly pursuing me, every day, for 6 weeks to come to Memphis to put together a band for his nightclub. I was living and thriving in South Florida and I thought he was crazy!! But, he offered to pay my way and expenses for the weekend. Well, turns out he was right, I loved Memphis, the band we put together for his club in Captain Bilbos, but mostly Bob and his captivating personality! I moved within 3 weeks. Bob and I became fast friends, he took me around the city and introduced me to all of his friends who became my friends!
We lost touch over the years but reconnected in the last couple of years. I was, once again, reminded of his vibrant and generous spirit. He absolutely changed my life for the better and he will be missed! I loved him!!!
Shannon Dasch
February 14, 2024
I met Bob while undergoing chemo myself for colon cancer at Texas Oncology. He had such a presence about him that you just wanted to be around him, he made you felt important and valued. It is a memory I will treasure. He was such a force and the world has a little less shine without him in it.
Tanya Coulter Mims
February 14, 2024
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Tanya Coulter Mims
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My very first memory of Bob is riding around in a limo on Christmas Eve visiting different friends homes, delivering gifts and singing "That´s what friends are for" by Dionne Warwick at the top of our lungs on repeat.
Mariana Carrillo
February 14, 2024
I learned many things and will.be forever thankful.
How manage a restaurant, because of that I opened one.
How been positive even when there are no reasons to be.
Be a kind person, he always helped people.
Check on details.
How to cure an injury with out stitches, onion skin. I still use his method.
How to cure a hang over headache with a frozen Margarita.
How to care about others and teach them.
That most of the food needs Tabasco.
Many many things.
I will miss him so much.
Will miss him calling me Champ.
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