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October 22, 2009
Ron, We miss you and have been thinking about you alot lately. With hockey season in full swing I miss being able to talk to you about hockey stuff.
Our thoughts are with you and your family
Love Shane,Cheryl,Shelby and Tyler
Jenn Card
October 21, 2009
I miss you so much dad... I love you!
Susan Collinson Vesely
June 24, 2009
I missed you at our family reunion this weekend Uncle Ronnie... I love you!
Betty Wasylak
November 4, 2008
Steven, thank you for posting your eulogy to your Father, my dear brother Ron. I couldn't be there to hug you all on Wednesday, and say goodbye to him with you. My friends & family helped me through the weeks since the accident as did your family and friends. May God bless you all and give you the strength to carry on in Ron's footsteps. Love Aunt Betty
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Jytte Ebbesen
November 3, 2008
Dear Family and Friends,
It is difficult to find the words to express how thankful I feel for the outpouring of love and support you have given me and my family since Ron’s accident. It has been humbling. In the past, I could not imagine how people manage to carry on when they were faced with tragedy and loss. Now I know the answer. They are lifted by the wings of angels like you…..
On behalf of Jenny, Kris and Steve, I thank you.
Stephanie Hope
November 2, 2008
Steven
Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories with all of us that day. Also for publishing it for us all to read. You and everyone who spoke really represented what your Dad stood for and it was a beautiful thing how you all showed your love and passion. He was a great man.
I really do believe that once our loved ones are gone they speak to us in different way, different volumes and I think that your dream was truly inspirational and an insight into the after life. That we all will meet again in that place.
My thoughts are with all of you.
Steven Ebbesen
October 30, 2008
Hello,
I have had a few requests to post the eulogy I gave on wednesday. It may be chance for those of you who could not attend to be a part of what was a celebration of his life. It was an honour for me to write it.
"DAD"
Firstly, I would like to thank everyone for sharing their kind words, old stories, thoughts and prayers over the last three weeks. It has been overwhelming and humbling to experience the kind of support my family has received since my father`s accident. It means a great deal to me and my family, and I know my dad would take comfort in knowing we have been so well taken care of in such a difficult time.
Today, I would like to express with utmost gratitude, on behalf of my family, how thankful we are for my father`s presence in our lives, in life and now afterlife. We are thankful for the time we`ve been given with the big guy, whose heart always led the way and everything else followed. We are thankful for the sense of humour that seemed at times to be on autopilot...I would ask him, "How`s it goin dad?", he would always reply simply and oh so dryly, "I wanted a brand new car." Referring to his eternal regret of having to pay for my existence rather than get himself a shiny new set of wheels. It is an interesting way to greet your own child, but I always knew what he really meant by it. My sisters would get something similar too. They asked, "What are ya doin dad?" "Talkin to you." , he said. What I wouldn`t give to hear those remarks just a few more times.
We are thankful for the father that would do anything for his kids. He was once a single father of two daughters for over a year before his own angel, my mother, arrived to make his young family complete. These were not the easiest of times for them, but my Dad told me often that he would never change a thing, taking on some hardship in exchange for what turned into a family with three children and more grandchildren and extended family to come.
My dad was born to be a grampa and he often said that had he known how much fun it would be, he would have had his grandchildren first. The idea that excited him the most is that grandparents and grandchildren have one thing in common, and that is their enemy, the parents. Having been in that role for so long, he was looking forward to changing teams, and having new teammates, which he got in Samantha and Braden, and I know he was counting down the days to meet our little Eddie, and soon Kris and Kevin`s little guy too. When he was on the parent end of it, he took a lot of abuse from us kids, but even more so from my grandmother, Nanna. Although she is only about one third his size, she would five him the gears as often as she could. I think he secretly loved it, walking into as many insults from her as possible. Ronnie longed to be called a `dumbnut`, or a `sveen` as they say in danish. He loved being on the grampa side of it though, telling me he couldn`t wait for the day that we would have to change his diapers.
He really spent as much time as he could with Samantha and Braden. They recently went on a trip to Disneyworld and the photos show my dad in his glory, bringing out bringing out his inner child, wearing mickey mouse ears and at some point a tiara. Oh princess Ronnie, i wish i could have been there!
He had his own Danish translations too, telling the boys in the dressing room about his seven foot tall, 300 pound wife whose name is Jytte, which in danish means, `she who must be obeyed` .Can you imagine Ronnie being little spoon? The punchline for him, however, would be upon the introduction of his wife and the confused looks on his player`s faces. I wish we could have somehow heard the inner chuckle, behind his poker face.
My dad considered himself to be an extremely lucky man. He spent thirty years married to my mother, whom he nicknamed `Gracie` after the love of George Burns life, Gracie Allen. Like George Burns, and in fact his own father George, he held his woman as close to his heart as humanly possible. Both of these men lost their women much too soon, but loved them to the end of their days. Calling my mom `Gracie` was his way of expressing the undying love he had for her.
I was trying to think of my fondest memory of dad to share today. I have many good memories, but my mind keeps coming back to just the way he was with me. He had this ability of always showing his support, but also giving me the space I needed to become my own person. He had the capacity to keep things light when they got too heavy and to keep me grounded when my head was in the clouds. He urged me to be a good human being first and that everything else would fall into place later. We never spoke extensively about the mysteries of life, but he let it subtly be known that that mystery was something he thought about often. He only spoke of the `spirit of spirits` and left it at that, letting me ask those questions when it was time and to find the answers with myself. This was his presence in my life and looking back, I wouldn`t ask for anything else. I`ve been flipping back through old cards I`ve given to him as a child and they all read the same thing: "To the best dad ever."
In my father`s passing, he has issued us all a challenge: to be the change you want to see in the world. Regardless of your style or the way you come across, it is your motivation that is important. My dad`s motivation, when you boil it right down, was love. He loved his family tremendously. What I am beginning to realize is that one of the pillars of his coaching philosophy, is that every kid was an extension of his own family. I don`t think it mattered what kind of player he happened to be working with, he never forgot the child in that player, walking into the rink for the first time, wrestling a hockey bag twice his size. I can say with confidence that he treated everyone of you like he treated me. Whether you got the gruff, scare the bejesus out of you Ron, or the quiet (mumble mumble) pat on the helmet, the motivation was exactly the same. He put an extensive amount of thought into how to handle every single player so that he or she could reach their potential and have the greatest confidence in themselves as players, and also much more importantly, as people. The game for him was a source of great pleasure, but also a tool for teaching life skills. That is where his passion and intensity came from. It was more than just a game. He wanted to take each good kid, (and that means every kid, as he did not believe that at the core there were any bad kids) and turn them into good men. I had the good fortune of coaching bantam AA with him in 2003. At the beginning of the year, we were projected to finish in the bottom two or three of the league because some thought that the talent pool was watered down. This of course did not even register in his mind. He stuck to his four lines at all times philosophy, playing everyone in every situation, in every game. I watched him work from the ground up, focusing on basic skills and personal character. This continued until the playoff finals where I saw first had the metamorphosis of these young and somewhat insecure kids that walked into tryouts, into confident young men that believed in themselves and believed in the other young men beside them. That was one of the proudest moments of my life. Not only was I proud of that team, but also of the influence my dad chose to have in other people`s lives.
I believe that we all choose the path we will walk before we are born into this world. My dad left us while doing the one thing he was most passionate about. I am so thankful for this, and I can`t help but think that he wrote that ending himself.
Standing on the ice.
Leaning on his stick.
Giving his coaching buddies a hard time...
Last tuesday, after his time in the hospital was finally over, I had a dream about my dad. It was just the two of us, and of course, out on the ice in a rink somewhere. He looked younger, slimmer, and if you can believe it, even better looking than he had been the last time I had seen him up and about. He took his first couple of hard strides then stumbled to one side before regaining his balance. I called out, `Dad`, just to remind him. He looked at me with a twinkle in his eye, remembering that his old body did not contain him anymore. He immediately got a spring in his step and proceeded to fly around the ice like he was twenty years old again. We made passing plays together and finished those with shots off the bar and in. It might be my imagination, but there was something very real about this dream, about the exchange when we would occasionally touch gloves. I can only hope that this was more than just my imagination, and I want to believe that my dad has gone to a place where he can skate like the wind.
We miss you dad. We are proud of you. We love you. You will live in our hearts and our children`s hearts forever.
monica Stenland
October 30, 2008
Dear Jytte and family,
My deepest sympathy of the loss of your husband. My prayers and thoughts are with you ,your son. and family. Please take care and god bless you at this very difficult time.
Always thinking of you. Monica Stensland Calgary Airport
Kevin, Pam, Chad and Corissa Moore
October 30, 2008
Jytte, Jenn, Kris and Steve:
What a beautiful Celebration for our friend Ron.
The heartfelt words and stories from Terry, David and Steve brought, for me, a clearer understanding of Ron's love and passion for the game of hockey; It was simply an extension of the man himself and his love of family, forged in his upbringing and tempered by the love of Jytte and their precious children and grandchildren.
Pastor Paul and Murray, your words brought comfort to all.
Ebbie: Thank you for being a great mentor to our children, our coaches and volunteers. You always led by example. All those beautiful young people we saw at your Celebration are a testament to the positive influence you've had on all of us. Those who couldn't make it have you in their thoughts and prayers.
Whenever we spoke we always started and finished with a good laugh, and that's what I'm going to always remember. I know you've got your stick in hand already, but I just can't picture you coaching a team called the "Angels"...
Thanks, Ronnie, for always being there whenever we needed you. And thanks, Jytte and family, for sharing him with us.
dona kelly
October 30, 2008
Jytte, Steve, Jenn, Kris and families:
Jim and Ron spent many years coaching together in the 80's and 90's. Every second year we were teamed up right to the end of Midget. Hockey was good, hockey was FUN for everyone, players and parents alike. Our memories of Ron and Jytte also go back to parent's parties, dances at the arena, Murder Mystery Nights and the great antics of Christmas Carolling in and around Airdrie. These are the moments we will treasure. Ron's contributions to the life skills and growth of kids in hockey are seen in the young men and women they have become.
Thank you for touching our lives.
Jim, Dona , Jason and Jarren Kelly
"Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened." unknown
Andrew Mueller
October 30, 2008
Ron, since I got word of your passing, I have been in complete shock and disbelief. It's difficult to put words together to describe the sadness that we all feel. I take comfort, however, in reading all of the kind messages left here - they have stirred many fond memories of playing hockey under your guidance and leadership. Ron, you epitomize everything we love about the game and you have truly inspired a generation of youngsters to live up to their potential: on and off the ice. God bless you, Ron, for your countless years of selfless commitment to us; we are forever indebted to you.
Don Pierce
October 29, 2008
Ron, it was an honor and a priviledge to have known you as a friend and a fellow coach. I have fond memories of the years we coached together in Airdrie. Also I could always count on running into you during the Max Bell tournament at Christmas time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Cave Family
October 29, 2008
Memories of Coach Ron,
Ron coached Dustin while playing with the '94 Top Guns. We also shared many hockey and life chats in the lobby of the Airdrie Twin while playing with the Xtreme. Parents and kids alike enjoyed the delivery of his insight and wisdom through wit. Ron loved life, was a great mentor to us all and possessed a tremendous ability to teach love and life through the game of hockey... a legacy.
Greg, Eva, Meghan & Dustin
Rhonda and Greg Rosko
October 29, 2008
Ebbesen Family,
Our deepest sympathy to your family on the passing of Ron. He will be truly missed in the hockey community. We hope that your memories and love for one another will get you through these hard times.
David & Cheryl Griep
October 29, 2008
Our sincere condolences go out to the Ebbeson Family at this sad time. We too, met Ron through the wonderfully small world of hockey and we will always remember him as a great coach, and a kind, caring and giving man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tyler Hilbert
David and Cheryl Griep & Family
Lynne Becker
October 29, 2008
Sometimes life takes turns that no one can expect. We extend our deepest sympathy on your loss.
Lynne, Cory, Grant Becker
Bev campbell
October 29, 2008
Jytte and family:At a time like this words are hard to find.Ron has touched so many lives,so many young people he mentored both on and off the ice...HIs love for hockey was very evident..Our family has been connected with him since the early 80's..Elmer having the pleasure and fun of being with him behind the bench and on the bus trips over the past few years..and the many converstaions shared along the way..I have to thank him for his influence with all our boys..and I know they all hold him high...as a devoted ,knowlegable and caring man..I know you will all miss him as a husband ,father and grandfather..and we will miss him too..Thank you Ron for giving of yourself and Jyette for sharing him..thinking of you all Bev ,Elmer,Eric,Donald and Darcy Campbell Campbell
Andy Oslanski ( family )
October 28, 2008
The Ebbesens
The Oslanski family has lost a great friend in Ron Ebbesen. I was a manager on Ron's hockey team for many years and after I was unable to manage, Ron and I continued to have lunch and talk hockey for many years after. I will always miss those lunches and our friendship.
I have done a lot of travelling to many countries though work and I have come to understand what makes Canada a very different and great place to live. It is because of people like Ron Ebbesen who have worked with our young people to "point" them in the right direction. Ron has done this for many years with very little recognition and no recognition asked for. I will always remember what Ron has done and I thank him for that.
Good bye my friend
Andy, Pauline, Bryce,Travis Oslanski
Michelle Lock
October 28, 2008
Jytte and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you as you learn to live with the loss of Ron.
Volumes can be written and shared about Ron's talents and gifts as a coach, mentor and dedicated community volunteer. His passion and geniune caring for the players, coaches and hockey volunteers combined with his easy going, unassuming manner touched and influenced many.
Ron's eyes twinkled and he smiled with love and pride when he spoke of his wife, kids and grandchildren. Ron truly left people and places better than he found them.
Michelle and Gary Lock
Jim Hutton
October 28, 2008
Ronnie's brother Dave and I grew up playing hockey with our goalie friend Ken Herbert down at the Thorncliffe rink. When Ron played with us we were both excited and afraid because Ronnie could lay you out with a devastating hip check or whiz one of his thunderous slap shots past your ear.
I went out with Dave to play hockey under coach Neil Ebbesen in Grand Forks and even though I never had a brother of my own, each one of these great guys made me feel like I had 3 brothers who would look out for me if the chips were down.
I'll never forget Ron and I still tell people about his slap shots from the opposite blue line that bulged the twine on those cold late winter nights that I hold dear in my memories.
Ron was an open and honest guy and I'm glad he was able to help so many young men with his coaching over the last many years.
Rest in Peace Big Ronnie, we will miss you very much!
Jim and Deb Moore
October 28, 2008
We were indeed privileged to have Ron coach our
son, Kyle, Ron’s dedication and passion for the game will never be forgotten. We all benefited from those nights that he
would go out for “bread and milk” and somehow end up at the
hockey arena. Our deepest sympathy to the entire Ebbesen family.
Gerry, Wendy & Dayne Anderson
October 28, 2008
We are very saddened by the passing of one of the really good guys who also happened to be an excellent hockey coach. Ron had the respect of his players, parents and all those who were fortunate enough to meet him. Thanks for all the laughs and memories.
Dorothy Bishop
October 28, 2008
We'll miss you forever and I'll never forget when you were a little guy.
Dorothy and Ray.
Ralph Eggins
October 28, 2008
The Airdrie Xtreme would like to pass on to Ron’s family our deepest condolences. Ron has touched this team with his endless volunteering. We will remember the humor Ron brought to the room and the enthusiasm for hockey. God bless Ron.
Melody Davidson National Women's Hockey Program
October 28, 2008
On behalf of myself, the National Women's Hockey Program Players and Staff we would like to extend our thoughts and prayers to the Ebbesen family on Coach Ron's sudden passing.
Through our September tournament Ron's passion and knowledge was evident. We are thinking of all of you at this difficult moment.
Cherryl Paulsen
October 28, 2008
On behalf of the entire Top Guns Hockey Family, we were very saddened to hear the news. Ron spent many years coaching with Top Guns as Head Coach of our 1994 AAA Spring Team.
It is such a great loss to the entire hockey community to have lost such a fun loving hockey coach. Ron dedicated his heart and soul into hockey development putting the team and players first. He was there for all the right reasons.
Ron will be dearly missed by all who knew him. Thank you for allowing Ron to be a part of our family.
Our sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Ron!
Dale & Cherryl Paulsen
Gary Smart
October 28, 2008
Ron Ebbesen was a MAN amoung men. He touched the lives of all of us who were fortunate enough to know him. His passion for the game of hockey was infectious. He inspired many of us to join him in the coaching ranks through his endless dedication to the game.
When you spoke with Ron about hockey he would break out in a big grin. We are truly going to miss that big grin and the amazing man behind.
Ron's legacy to us if we all pitch in and do our part.
"It;s a great day for hockey.
Heaven's teams need GREAT coaches too.
Gary Smart and family
Brad & Julie Symington
October 28, 2008
Such a stunning and far too early a saddening and senseless loss.
If the measure of one's life is in the love of family and friends left behind, you most enviably have written a classic, Ron. Your positive influence on so many hockey lives over so many years shines in particular.
We very well remember yours and Jytte's friendship and our mutual hopes through challenging times for both families, wondering what the future might bring for our wee birdies flying away. It was a privilege to share those times and build hopes with you both.
Jytte, Steve and all of your family: please know our hearts and prayers are with you in these difficult days. We grieve with you and with all others who were lucky enough to have known a gentleman of such great character. We will miss our chats with you at the arena, Buddy.
Stuart MacKenzie
October 27, 2008
I had the pleasure of first meeting Ron as one of his players on the Airdrie Orphans, playing Tyke hockey 25 years ago in Airdrie. Ron was always around throughout my hockey years, and then I ended up working with him at GLE for the last 7 years. I can't express how much we will all miss Ron at the office, his dry humour could lighten up any day. One of the most genuine and good people I have known.
Brent Kirkby
October 27, 2008
Jytte and family. Words can’t express my sympathy in the passing of Ron. I have many fond memories of starting out in the mid-seventies, in the business world together, in the bullpens of Dome Petroleum. We worked hard and had fun. After work we enjoyed the camaraderie at the curling rink, hockey rink, shuffleboard table or card table, always enjoying a good laugh and mumble together.
Jeremy Congo
October 27, 2008
From all the staff at the East Calgary Twin Arenas
(home facility of Seven Clubs Hockey),
Please accept our deepest condolences to the Ebbesen Family (immediate & extended), friends and those that have had the opportunity to work with Ron in whatever fashion possible (work, hockey, community events).
Randy Jones
October 27, 2008
Jytte and family, We were so very saddened to hear of Ron's passing. He was an inspiration to ours and many other families both on and off the ice. We are priviledged and honored to have had him as a friend and coach. Our deepest sympathies.
Randy, Diane, Jason & Kyle Jones
Ann Marra
October 27, 2008
Jytte, Steve and Girls
We are truly saddened by the loss of Ron and offer our deepest sympathies.
We will always remember the great times we had with Ron when we were so fortunate to have Steve live with us during his hockey years with the Timberwolves.
Ron's love , kindness and thoughtfulness for people was very evident when he was around us and always left us smiling. We are thankful for the friendship Ron offered our family.
Ann , Sam Jen and Cory Marra
Earl Quantz
October 27, 2008
We all are in shock to hear of Ron’s passing and our prayers go out to Ron's Friends and Family during this difficult time. Ron thought at one point that I would make a good referee, “as you did not need to know how to skate”, so I will never forget my first game as Ron was behind the bench in an exhibition game in Calgary. I was terrible but Ron gave me encouragement and advice about watching the puck so I would continue on. Another fond memory is we were having a wind up in Pee Wee, I think, at Ron’s house, I was to bring the videos. Did not think a lot about it so I rented “Slap Shot” and as soon as it started all the boys stopped playing Nintendo to watch. The dads upstairs thought “we” have blown it when we heard from downstairs “Hey nice hooters”. I have forgotten about that “bit” but Ron added that life is a learning process and how girls were bad for promising young hockey players(sorry Moms). You will be missed my friend but never forgotten as in my mind Ron was AMHA.
Earl, Leanne, Dana and Megan
Gail Llewellyn
October 27, 2008
Jytte, Steven and Girls:
We are very sorry to hear of Ron's passing. He was a pillar in our community, an awesome coach to countless kids, and a good friend to everyone he met. We will miss his expertise and knowledge of the game, and his wonderful sense of humor.
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
The Llewellyn Family, Lou, Gail, Nate, Chazz and Bram
Mike, Sherry, Connor & Landon Gross
October 27, 2008
Ron coached our son Connor (94 Top Guns) and we will miss him dearly. He will be remembered for his grand sense of humour and his ability to make people laugh. He coached with humour but was respectful of each player on the team. Our memories of Ron always leave us with a smiling.
Terry and Patti Hunter
October 27, 2008
Dear Jytte and family: Ron's legacy to all the kids he coached and all the people's lives he touched with his warmth and wit will keep him in our hearts forever. From Terry, Patti & Erynn Hunter.
Michelle Luctkar
October 27, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Luctkar family
Christine Tkachuk
October 27, 2008
On behalf of the Tkachuk family we would like to pass on our deepest condolences on the loss of such a wonderful man and great coach.
Getting to know Ron on our many road trips was something we will never forget. You had a heart of gold Ron and we will all miss you !
Ron, Christine & Brandon
Dave Watson
October 27, 2008
To Jytte and family, we have lost a freind to us all and I will always remember Ronnie. He was my mentor, my inspiration and my defence partner for many years. I met Ronnie at a rink, I 15 and he 16. I was a boy and he was already a man, we became friends. Years later any time we met it was "two-one and "five". It was hockey that brought us together but coaching that seperated us as we had sons to foster and coach. I take some comfort in knowing recently you and Ron and Irene had a chance meeting. We hope to have a few minutes with you on Wed. to reflect and remember Ronnies life. Sadley missed but always will be remembered. Dave...
Krista Symington
October 27, 2008
Dear Jytte, Steve, Jenn and Kris,
My thoughts and prayers are are with you all at such a difficult time. It is so very unfortunate that a loss of this magnitude in turn reminds those of us who are left behind to live each day to the fullest and to appreiciate all that we are blessed with. Ron left behind a tremendous legacy and he will be remembered for years to come. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
dale peters
October 26, 2008
Ron and I threatened to coach hockey and to do business together many times over lunch over the years, but we never did. Ron was extremely fair and honest individual who was never afraid of giving encouragement he will be dearly missed by all
Dale Peters
The Fowlie Family
October 26, 2008
Ron coached our son, Cody, for two seasons. One of our fondest memories of Ron is four years ago, when Cody's younger brother, Jake, was six years old. He established a real bond with Jake, who isn't able to play hockey, but loves the game with all his heart. Ron would pick Jake up and haul him to the bench to "High 5" the boys as they came out of the dressing room and onto the ice. He would take Jake into the boys dressing room, and one time, gave Jake the "hard hat" for hardest working fan. That meant the world to Jake, and Ron knew it. Thats the kind of man Ron was. He had a huge heart.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ebbeson family. Thank you for sharing so much of your husband and father with so many. He will be greatly missed.
Dana Quantz
October 26, 2008
Ron's impact on both my life and the lives of countless others is a legacy and testament to his selflessness, devotion to hockey and his players, and his strength of character. The man was an icon of Canadian hockey and will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to his wonderful family.
Gail D'Amico
October 26, 2008
Ron was our spring coach for the Top Guns. He brought wisdom and humour to the ice. The boys respected him and liked him. Hard to say that about a coach. The parents liked him too. He always had time to ask of our family, Brittani too which I found so thoughtful. We will all miss you Ron, and it is such a loss for our community. Everyday is a great day for hockey!
The D'Amico's
Bryce Eidsness
October 26, 2008
On behalf of the Foothills AAA Hockey Association, we would sincerely like to express our condolences on the loss of Ron. Ron was a great contributor to hockey in Alberta and will be greatly missed.
Ed Peters
October 26, 2008
To the Ebbesen Family it was with deep regret that I heard of Ronnie's passing I will miss his laugh and smile and his love of the game.Myself and my wife Bev and son Jeff and daughter Jenn and our coaching staff past and present will miss him and that the hockey world has lost a star whom chose to stay in the background.Sincerely Ed Peters and the Calgary Bantam Buffalo AAA Bisons.
Tyler Haiste
October 25, 2008
"It's a great day for Hockey!"
Ron always told us this when he was excited, he always said "everyday is a great day for hockey" he was such a positive , caring guy who cared more about the kids and the game then the wins or the losses. He was never scared to put anyone on the ice because he knew he could count on anyone to get the job done in any situation. He could trust us all to "Hold the rope" for each other. I know that's just a few of the reasons that I will miss him.
Gavin Fenton
October 25, 2008
Jytte, Kris, Jenn and Steven,
I am truly sorry to hear about your Dad, he was a fine man and a great person. I had the pleasure of working with him as the Airdrie Summer Swim Club coach back when I first lived in Airdrie and he was the President of that club. I have great memories working with him and all of you.
My deepest symapthy to all of you at this difficult time.
Gavin Fenton
Sherrie Rogers
October 25, 2008
We are truly saddened by the loss of Ron and extend our deepest sympathies to his family,as we know how difficult these last weeks must have been.
We will always remember the great times,and the special words of wisdom that we were able to share with you ,Coach Ron!! We feel blessed that you touched our lives...Thank you for that. We will miss you!!
Ken,Sherrie,Jillian and Joel Rogers(#17 Top Guns)
Cindy Tradewell
October 25, 2008
Our son Brent had the pleasure playing hockey for coach Ron for a couple of summers with the " Top Guns". He was a very positive influence for Brent on and off the ice, always offering a kind word of encouragement, a true mentor to all kids that have been lucky to have been coached by Ron. He seemed quiet in nature but always cracking a joke or smile. He was a great coach and person, and will be truly missed.
The Tradewells.
Terry Purich
October 25, 2008
The Sherwood Park Midget AAA J. Ennis Kings expresses sincere condolences to the Ebbesen family. The loss of Ron's coaching dedication to the AMHL and his contributions to the fraternity of hockey coach's in the province of Alberta will be sadly missed. Our thoughts are with the Ebbsen family...
Sabrina Fayerman
October 25, 2008
To the Ebbesen - Card Family
Ron was truly an exceptional man, always so kind and caring and interested. It was a joy to see him as he cheered on his granddaughter Samantha. We looked forward to the games over the years that our son played against his teams. He always had a smile and time to stop and visit. Our thoughts go out to your entire family during this difficult time. You are fortunate to have wonderful memories to reflect back on.
Gary, Sabrina, Aryeh and Izzy Fayerman
Terry Wasylak
October 25, 2008
Travelling to tournaments and/or on the way to a rink somewhere, my Uncle and I had much opportunity to discuss many things in life, not just those related to hockey. I remember once when we yarned about our legacies and what people would remember. This conversation came up against the backdrop of our reminiscing of Ron’s father’s – my grand father George’s funeral and the eulogy that Ron delivered. Ron joked to me that it was never too early to start working on securing your pallbearers.
I think you would agree Ron did an exceptional job. A job that came very easy and naturally to him. I, on the other hand, have some work to do.
Thank you all for your very kind words.
Terry Wasylak
Ken Herbert
October 25, 2008
On behalf of the Herbert Family, our mom Verna,my brothers Bill,Brian,and David. We were very saddened to hear of Ronnie's passing.
I will always have in my fondest memories of growing up in Calgary with Ronnie's brother my best friend Dave Ebbesen those Saturday night shinney hockey games at the Thorncliff Community League rink.
I never did tell Ronnie of how terrified I was of his slap shot ! But I know that it made me a better Goalie in my later hockey life.
Our deepest condolences to Jytte and family. Love Ken Herbert
G M
October 25, 2008
AMHA was fortunate to have such a loyal coach and volunteer over so many years. Your skills and positive impact will be missed, and fortunately never forgotten. Thanks also for your sense of humour which could bring smiles and laughter when the situation called for it.
I look forward to the day where we can name a new rink after your legacy!
Wayne & Bev Bentson
October 25, 2008
Sincere thoughts are with Ebbesen family at this difficult time.
The Hyras
October 25, 2008
Indeed a bad week for hockey in Alberta! Coach Ron touched so positively more lives than he would have ever imagined.
For our Top Guns players 1 year coach Ron handed out a plaque that read:
"I promise never to outhustled. I will play both ends of the ice, fight for every loose puck. I will sacrifice my body for my team. I will choose grit over flash, substance over style. I will work, and sweat, and suffer, so that come game time- my team can shine! I am a hockey player."
To me this was also coach Ron... just replace the word "hockey player" with "Coach Ron" instead.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ebbesens and we want to thank them for the sacrifices they made to allow Coach Ron to so positive influence our kids lives over so many hours & years!
Ian Fraser
October 25, 2008
You cannot be appointed as a leader. Leadership is earned. To become a successful adult a young person must be influenced by positive leaders who make significant impacts on their lives. Those young people fortunate enough to have been coached by Ron received that required positive leadership at the rink. Thank you Ron for your leadership and the significant positive impact you had on our son and so many others. Your positive impact has been and will continue to be felt far beyond the rink.
Ian, Vicky, Douglas and Kelsey Fraser
Roberta Frederick
October 25, 2008
Ron has and always will be a huge part of our lives. He is a true freind, a great coach and a very inspiring mentor. Ron you always told the kids to stay away from the girls it would wreck their hockey, but did they listen? No! However they did listen when you taught them respect for the love of the game, others and themselves! Bantam AA - "Remember the Titans". Justin had the pleasure of coaching with you last year and it will be a year he will cherish forever. He will eventually figure out how you picked your players! We will all miss you very much but will remain in our hearts forever! Our prayers are with you Jytte and family!
"Its a Great Day for Hockey"
Roberta & Justin Frederick
Lance & Chris Jervis
J M
October 25, 2008
Rons commitment and dedication has been an inspiration in my life. When I was introduced to Ron several years ago I could hear the passion in his words when it came to his desire to work with young hockey players. You will be deeply missed Ron. Thanks for the inspiration. Rest in Peace my hockey brother. JM
Trent & Pat LaMarsh
October 25, 2008
Well big guy, I sure enjoyed playing hockey with you all those many years ago, your wit, passion and above all your kindness...thankyou for making each one of us that knew you just that much better. Our condolences to the Ebbesen family.
Josh Betinol
October 24, 2008
"In life there are those who make it happen, those who watch it happen, and those who wondered what happened, which one are you?"
Coach Ron has helped me throughout my life and showed me the ways to become a better person and a better hockey player. Ron Ebbesen was an extraordinay coach, a great teacher and an amazing friend, and i was blessed to have him in my lifetime. There is no doubt in my mind that Coach Ron Ebbesen will never be forgotten.
Chase Dobler
October 24, 2008
Ronny,you will always be in my heart.Ever since my year in Peewee AA,you've been so involved in my hockey career.If it wasnt for you I wouldnt be where I am today.The things you taught me,not just about hockey but about life will never be forgotten.This season will be for you Ron, everything I do this season will be for you.I will always remember you and never forget what you've done.
Doby #19 CNHA Midget AA Blazers
Mike Ripley
October 24, 2008
Ron Ebbesen is the generous man who introduced me to coaching hockey in Airdrie. I have many great memories of of Ron from when we played hockey together on the same team to hockey operation discussions while I served on the board of Airdrie minor hockey.
Ron will be sadly missed but never forgotten. Rest in peace my friend.
Tom McNulty
October 24, 2008
We have had the pleasure of having Ron in our life for the past five years as Ian's coach and my friend. I watched as he worked with the young players and young coaches sharing everything he knew about the game of hockey. Ron truly cared about every young man he coached.
To Ron's family, thank you for sharing Ron with us. The amount of time Ron gave of himself so others could enjoy the game of hockey is truely remarkable. He will be greatly missed.
Tom, Dianne, Ian & Michelle McNulty
Neil Ebbesen
October 24, 2008
As the big brother I will always remember Ron as the little brother who did not need my help after he turned twelve. Our dad told me to make sure I never let anyone hurt my brothers, but I felt safe when he grew bigger than me. I watched Ron when he began his coaching career in B.C. with a bantam team that never realized that a hockey practice included having pucks on the ice until the last 15 minutes. He never demanded more than he gave. He had the ability to bring the best out of his players no matter their level of skill. If I had a quarter for every time Ron patted a player on the head and telling them how well they did, I would be able to buy my own hockey team. We, those of us who's lives have been touched by you in so many different ways will miss you Ron for the rest of our natural days.
ps. I hope the angels took you directly to a hockey game.
Love to your family.
Brother Neil
Paul Phee
October 24, 2008
Ron’s dedication to minor hockey was exceptional. To the hockey players it was remarkable. Those that were fortunate enough to have had the opportunity to spend time with or around Ron truly received a gift in hockey and life. Ron never came to the rink or left the rink without acknowledging every kid in the building in his own special way, either with a jab, an elbow, a smile or a good conversation. Our sincere condolences go to Ron’s family. “You will be missed Ron”. The Phee’s, Paul, Gabe, Nicole, Steven #17 UFA Bisons.
Natalie Morton
October 24, 2008
I have worked with Ron for the last 4 years at GLE. And I came to find out that behind his somewhat serious looking appearance, he was actually a big softy, with a ready smile, and dry wit. We shared good banter, and I will miss that. I know Ron was greatly involved with hockey, but most of our conversations were about his family. It was clear how much he loved his wife, and felt lucky to be married to her. And he talked lots about his children, and his grandchildren. My heart goes out to all of Ron's loved ones. I feel awful for your loss. He was very good to me, and I'll never forget him.
Jenn Card (Ebbesen)
October 24, 2008
I love you dad.....
Patrick Card
October 24, 2008
Coach Terminology 101
The surefire way to tell you are a special person in a coaches life, is when your name has had the suffix of "Y" added. For instance, Steven is changed to Stevey or Kevin becomes Kevey.
You are my Coach Mentor.
Love Patty
Darrell Wickham
October 24, 2008
I had the pleasure of getting to know Ron very well over the past few years, serving as his assistant coach on a couple of different teams and watching him coach my son before that. I’ve never met anyone who cared more genuinely about the ‘kids’ or who was more passionate about the game of hockey. He worked tirelessly in preparation for each practice and game and studied everything he could get his hands on to continue to improve his ability to teach players. He used to tell people at the rink, “if my wife calls, tell her I’m at the strip club, she might get mad if she thinks I’m at the arena again.”
I'll dearly miss his mentorship, support, friendship and humor.
Braden Card
October 24, 2008
Grandpa I really love you and I hope no one ever forgets you. I really miss you, don't ever ever forget "Splash Mountain" like 7 times we went on it :)
Stephanie Hope
October 24, 2008
Ron;
I am still so much in disbelieve that this has happened. I am sure that I am not alone in feeling this. I am truly broken from this loss.
I cannot stop thinking about how many times I have seen you in at Coop when I have been working, carrying on a conversation with you. You would always ask how my Mom and Dad were doing. We have been a friend of yours for a very long time and you a friend of ours. You will always be in our hearts.
When I heard of your accident. I prayed for you to get well and my faith in that was so strong that you are a fighter. You will pull through. I did not want to believe any possibility of the worse. It is so hard to believe that you are gone. This loss is going to be very hard to accept. I have many great memories over the last several years that my brother (Jonathan Hope) was in hockey, my Mom and Dad (Ross & Glenna Hope) very active hockey parents within the community and the hockey board. I used to sell 50/50 tickets when I was a young girl and you would always buy them from me. You are one of the kindest men I have ever known and I will never forget you. I am so sad for this loss.
My heart goes out to your family and wishing them all the love they need at this very sad time. You will be missed, Ron. Until we meet again, my friend.
With love,
Stephanie Hope
Jane Pitchers
October 24, 2008
On behalf of the Sherwood Park Kings Athletic Club I would like to offer condolences to the family of Ron Ebbesen. Although I did not know Ron personally, many others have expressed how devoted he was to the game of hockey. He will be truly missed.
Rick, Sue, Geoff & Jer Ferguson
October 24, 2008
Both of our boys had Uncle Ron as a coach, and they still talk about their year with him. I can still hear his voice yelling "Ferguson" when he wanted to get their attention.
I got to see first hand how Ron treated kids during that stressful time of the hockey season - tryouts. I gained a higher respect for him than I already had. You will be missed by so many in the hockey community. We extend our deepest sympathies to your family.
Barb and Terry Sheppard
October 24, 2008
Ron, your legacy to hockey lives on through our granddaughter, Samantha and our grandson, Braden. You were an inspiration to our son Pat and Jenny who shares your love of coaching and volunteering. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow and grief.
Michelle James (MacKenzie)
October 24, 2008
Ron has been a friend of my family for many years. He was assigned the duty of being my boss at Gas Liquids for a while as well. Since then, he has been first on my list of references on my resume. I was probably more of an annoyance to Ron than a good worker, but he always gave me glowing reviews to future employers anyways. I will greatly miss popping my head into his office to say hello when visiting my dad at the office. Ron has touched so many people, and he will be greatly missed.
Gary Beamish
October 24, 2008
Ebby: From the first day you got me into coaching Tyke ,in 1991, until our Midget AA days ,years down the road, I admired your knowledge and passion for the game and the kids. My fondest memory over those years was seeing the pride in your face when your son, Steve, came out and coached the Bantam AA's with us. It truly was "the best of times". Ronnie, you'll always be my hockey hero.
Beamer
Cheryl Haiste
October 24, 2008
Ron was an exceptional man and coach...his quick wit and dry humour were always sure to bring a laugh if not at you, than with you. He was probably the only coach I know who always had his boys attention...simply for the reason they didn't want to end up in a head lock with "the lip lock" on. He will be greatly missed by our family. Until we meet again...Shane, Cheryl, Shelby and Tyler
Jane Hessdorfer
October 24, 2008
To the Ebbeson Family -
A very sad day for hockey in Airdrie. I had the honour of meeting Ron many years ago when my son was playing Tyke hockey and I was a volunteer with Airdrie Learn to Skate. I'm not sure there was anyone more dedicated to minor hockey in Airdrie. He will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bruce Randall
October 24, 2008
Coach Ron, thank for the time you spent with my boy David that spring with Top Guns. Your wit was as sharp as a Gordie Howe elbow and your working with the boys in practice was as wonderful to watch as a Bobby Orr end-to-end rush. We were certainly blessed to have known you. May your passion for the game and for the people in it inspire others to coach and to teach.
Michael Papps
October 24, 2008
As a fellow Minor hockey coach I know it takes alot of skill and patience to do what this man does. My heart goes out to the family, friends and teammates that were fortunate to know him. My condolences from Medicine Hat and "Shockers Hockey Club"..
Kira wasylak
October 24, 2008
My great uncle Ron was my hero. I will look up to him, always remember him and I know how special it was to know him!
I LOVE YOU, love KIRA hugs and kisses
Chad Moore
October 24, 2008
Ron was a great coach, and more importantly a wonderful human being!! One of my first coaches growing up who led me in the right direction. He had the personality of a big teddy bear, but when he said "NO" everybody listened!! Ron will be trully missed....God Bless!!
Chad Moore
Kim O'Brien
October 24, 2008
I had the good fortune to work with Ron. Ron had a great sense of humor and always put a smile on my face. I feel blessed that I had the opportunity to know Ron and will miss him very much.
Wayne & Brigitte Laplante
October 24, 2008
We are saddend by the news of Ron's passing, He will allways be rememered by us for a fine job done as a coach & freind. We allways enjoyed his dry humor. Our condolances & prayers go out to his family.
Rob Rattie
October 24, 2008
Ron volunteered his time for all the right reasons, for the love of the game and for developing hockey players. AMHA and the hockey community lost a great man this week. You will always live in our hearts and prayers. Rob, Shauna, Ty and Taden Rattie
Bonnie Buckle
October 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Ebbesen Family. Ron was an exceptation man. Very caring and compassionate in all aspects of life. You will be forever missed.
Buckle Family
(Barney, Anne, Shawna, Randy and Bonnie)
Kim, Kim, Caleb, Garett & Braden Titus
October 24, 2008
Ron came, he gave, he taught. He encouraged, he built, he enriched.
From bringing the Tyke Initiation Program to Airdrie Minor Hockey 20+ years ago, to receiving an 11th hour call in April 2008 asking him to give even more volunteer time by helping with the Bantam AAA Western Canadian Finals, Ron was always a "go to" guy.
When we think of Ron we think of his character - and God knows he was a character!
For Ron it was always "a great day for hockey" today though it's "a very sad day for hockey"!
The Smith Family
October 24, 2008
Ron coached our son last season. Ron was a guy that was there for all the right reasons - he loved the game and truly cared for each one of the boys. The rink won't be the same without him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nolan Marshall
October 24, 2008
I was fortunate to have Ron as my coach for the first part of this year and play against his teams for many years before. He was a passionate man that was very well spoken. He will be missed by me and by my fellow teamates. This season is for Ron. "first we get good, then we get faster!"
UFA Bisons #14
alec mccolm
October 24, 2008
The Calgary Northstars Hockey Association extends our condolences for the loss of coach Ron Ebbesen. We understand that Ron was a highly committed volunteer; and a true credit to the sport of hockey.
Jonathan Hope
October 24, 2008
I am so sorry for the loss of such a passionate, knowledgeable and genorous man. When I was coached by Ron at summer training, I don't know if I have ever been more afraid of another man in my life. But his words were passionate, motivating and inspiring and echoed through the entire time I played hockey and even now in my life, ten years since I have carried the axe and strapped on the blades. I liked the sentiments about living and dying for the game he loved. Is there a better way to leave this earth? God Bless you Ron, and all those that grieve for you.
Darlene Tasker 7-Clubs Sports Council
October 24, 2008
On behalf of all of the members of 7-Clubs Hockey Association, our thoughts and prayers are with in your time of sorrow.
Doug Wythe
October 24, 2008
Condolences from the SSAC Hockey Club in Edmonton.
Doug Wythe
SSAC
Midget AAA Director
Howard & Sue Der Stepanian
October 24, 2008
Ron will be missed by all of those who frequent the arenas, whether they had the pleasure of meeting him or not. Rest in Peace friend, your legacy will live on.
Glenna and Ross Hope
October 24, 2008
Ron will be forever remembered to each of us when we see that youngster on his way into the rink, especially the little ones, even smaller than their hockey bags. I will always remember that no matter what Ron was doing in the rink, when he saw them walking in, he would notice them and always comment on his first love in the rink was these little guys. Ron, take with you the gratitude of all who knew you and the richness that that you have contributed to all of the young people that you have worked with. You have coached and mentored these young people in hockey and in life. Blessings to you and your family at this time of great sorrow. The community grieves your loss.
Jason Georgy & Family
October 24, 2008
Our sympathies go out to all in the Ebbesen family. I played hockey in Airdrie for Ron back in '84 and I last saw Ron in '97, where else, at a hockey game during the Mac's.
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