Dr. RUBY A. MATTHEWS

Dr. RUBY A. MATTHEWS

RUBY MATTHEWS Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 17, 2011.
Dr. Ruby A. Matthews HANAHAN, , SC - Ruby Amerson Matthews, 85, of Hanahan, SC, wife of the late Fred J. Matthews, passed away on Thursday, September 15, 2011, at Heartland of Charleston. Dr. Matthews was born May 31, 1926, in Lamar, SC, the daughter of the late Sligh and Bertha Ham Amerson. She graduated from Lamar High School, attended Spartanburg Methodist College, receiv-ed a Master of Education degree from the University of South Carolina, and also received a Doctor of Education degree from USC. She began her teaching career in the early 1940s. She first taught in the Charleston and Berkeley County school systems, then taught Education and Guidance at Charleston Southern University for many years. She finished her career as a Guidance Counselor at North Charleston High School. Dr. Matthews served as President of the Beta Chapter of Delta Kappa Gamma Society International (professional educators) from 1978-1982, State President of Alpha Eta from 1983-1985, and International President of Delta Kappa Gamma from 1992-1994. In addition, she served on the Berkeley County Board of Education from 1981-1982, and on the South Carolina State Board of Education from 1982-1986 and from 1991-1995. She will be missed by her daughter, Amanda Gail Matthews of Hanahan, and son, Dr. Fred Matthews of Clarksville, TN; daughter-in-law, Martha Matthews, and granddaughter, Victoria Matthews, of Clarks-ville, TN; step-grand-daughters Michelle Corp, Nicole (Thomas) Crivello, and Natalie (Michael) Herrud; brother Curtis Amerson of Lamar; sisters Manda Ella Watford (Carol) of Lamar, Eunice Rowell (Gary Carl) of Greenwood, and Mattie Lee Davis (Martin) of Hartsville; and numerous nieces and nephews. She will also be missed by her lifelong friend, Katie W. Eubanks of Goose Creek. Visitation will be held at Carolina Memorial Gardens on Sunday, September 18, from 4:00 to 6:00. The funeral service will be Monday, September 19, at 10:00 am, at Highland Park Baptist Church in Hanahan, with the Rev. Robert Nichols officiating; interment will follow at Carolina Memorial Gardens in North Charleston. Friends and family are invited to a reception in the Highland Park Baptist Church Fellowship Hall after the interment. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Beta Chapter of Delta Kappa Gamma "Grant in Aid" Fund for Female Educators (in care of Pat Gibson, 366 Betsy Road, Charleston, SC, 29407). A memorial message may be written to the family at www.carolinamemorial.com.

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September 22, 2011

Paula Steinmeyer posted to the memorial.

September 20, 2011

Gary Crossley posted to the memorial.

September 20, 2011

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Paula Steinmeyer

September 22, 2011

Gail and Fred and Family,

Sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother.
Ruby and your Dad were life long friends and travel companions of my parents, John and Polly Steinmeyer. I will miss your Mother's friendship and our shared history. My brother and I wish you God's peace.

Gary Crossley

September 20, 2011

Gail, Fred, & Family:

Mrs. Matthews was so instrumental in deciding which career path I was destined to follow. Her guidance and advice were so crucial for me being able to find a job which I have been passionate about.

I have taken many of her traits and used them as I now advise students who have dropped out of high school and returned to pursue their education (a GED or finish their diploma).

I can remember how she always encouraged students to get as much education as they can and become skilled in a particular craft or occupation.

Peace be with you and family and may her memories and many contributions to education in SC live through her students!

September 20, 2011

Gail and Fred,
Our mothers began teaching together at Fishburne in 1953 and remained fast friends for the next half century plus. Mrs. Matthews was also a great friend, example, and role model to us as we went through Fishburne, Hanahan, and later walks of life. If ever there were a person who had a positive effect on her community and its citizens for multiple generations, it was your mother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ann Cooper Welty
Billy Cooper

Archie Franchini

September 20, 2011

Dr. Matthews taught me when I was a student at Charleston Southern University (then Baptist College) in the early 70's. She was an excellent teacher and an inspiration to her students. She was also a very classy lady. She will be missed by those who knew her. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Mayor Blackwell and City Council

September 19, 2011

Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of your loved one. Your family is in our thoughts and in our prayers. Mayor Minnie Blackwell and Hanahan City Council: Kevin Cox, Mike Dyson, Joel Hodges, Jeff Chandler, Dan Owens, Michael Sally

September 19, 2011

What can I say. Dr. Matthews was my professor at Charleston Southern University (Baptist College) in 1978. I am a teacher today because of her influence in my life. What a special person!
Nancy Crooks (Florence, SC)

Barbara George Dennis

September 19, 2011

Having grown up in Highland Park and attending HHS I knew Mrs. Matthews as a wonderful, caring teacher. I am just one of a many who were touched by her grace and dedication to her students. My deepest sympanthy to her family.

Debbie Simmons Zecopoulos

September 19, 2011

Gail and Fred --
Sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Ann Suarez

September 18, 2011

Although I have only known Dr. Ruby Matthews for about 10 years, she always graciously acknowledged me at our meetings. Memories of her during these times are a treasure for me. I already miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

September 18, 2011

My memories of Ruby are so special. She was a gracious and giving lady who inspired the best in others. My condolences to her family. May God be with you and bless you.
Annette Gardner Franklin, NC

September 18, 2011

Eunice,
Ruby had a marvelous influence on so many lives. She was so gracious and giving, setting a fine example for others. I, among multitudes, shall cherish her memory. May God bless you and your family.
Annette Gardner, Franklin, NC

Pat Dority Land

September 18, 2011

Gail and Fred, and Family,
Sorry to hear the loss of your mom. She was a friend to both my mom and dad ( Ray and Lib Dority). I know she will be sadly missed from all who knew her. My prayers are with you

Martha Knight

September 17, 2011

Ruby was a great lady ... an outstanding educator in and out of the classroom. She always had a smile and a friendly greeting whenever she met you. She cared about the children locally and statewide and that they got the best education possible.

I was blessed to have known and worked with her!

September 17, 2011

Mrs. Matthews was one of the most elegant ladies I have ever met. Everyone that went to Hanahan High during her teaching years, I'm sure, will agree that she was a great teacher and friend to all of her
students. I was so blessed to have spoken to her earlier in the summer. May God be with those who mourn her passing. Betty Jacques Wickert (Class of 1962

September 17, 2011

Gail and Fred,

We are so sorry to hear about Aunt Ruby. She was always so thoughtful and caring. Cherish your precious memories and may they always live in your hearts.

With Love and Sympathy,
Judy and Legrand Young

Rock Bradham

September 17, 2011

Mrs. Matthews was a favorite of every student who attended Hanahan High School in the 60's. She definitely had an influence on each and every one of our lives and attended every one of the Class of 1962's reunions. Even though I hated her typing class, I thanked her every time I saw her because I use those Mrs. Matthew-taught-skills every day! A very special person will be missed by many people.

David Jones

September 17, 2011

We're so sorry to hear of the loss of Miss Ruby...may the memories of her life, and God's blessings sustain you...may your tears over time sweeten but never cease, as your love for her will never cease.
All our Love
David, Kathryn and Melanie Jones

Carolyn Christian Martin

September 17, 2011

Fred, Gail, Victoria and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Ruby's death. She was always an elegant, gracious, true Southern Lady. Our prayers are with you.

patricia oshaughnessy

September 17, 2011

She was a beautiful lady. Condolences to the family.

Clara Capps Wilks

September 17, 2011

The greatest teacher I ever had! She worked us hard and I loved it all. I took every class that she taught at Hanahan High School (1959-62). She was the most elegant teacher I ever had and she inspired be to always do my best. What a lovely classy lady - one of a kind! Never to be forgotten.

September 17, 2011

Gail & family,

We were so sorry to hear about your Mom,our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days ahead.

Sincerely,

The Mike Baxter Agency

September 16, 2011

Probably my very favorite school teacher. EVER. I was in the 6th grade. I remember thinking--even then--how beautiful, classy and elegant she was. When I saw her some 10 years or so ago at a Hanahan High reunion, She STILL had that look. RIP
Ronnie E. Allen
Los Angeles, Ca.

Cookie Sewell

September 16, 2011

Although we only knew each other for the past three years, you were an inspiration to me. I will miss our endearing conversations as I did your manicures and sometimes, your lovely hair. May you rest in Peace, my Friend.

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