Rufus J. Abbott

Rufus J. Abbott

Rufus Abbott Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 13, 2003.
Rufus J. Abbott

FLORENCE -- A Memorial Service for Rufus J. Abbott will be at 3 p.m. Wednesday, Oct. 15, 2003, in the Cain Funeral Home Chapel. The Rev. Jerry Pickens, the Rev. Carroll Bazen and the Rev. Larry McAlister will officiate. The family will receive friends at the funeral home following the memorial service and at other times at the residence. In lieu of flowers the family requests memorials to St. Paul's United Methodist Church Bus Fund, 1629 W. Palmetto St., Florence, SC 29505.

Mr. Abbott, 68, of Florence, died Sunday, Oct. 12, 2003, at his residence. He was born Aug. 12, 1935, in Midway, Ala., but raised in Horry County, son of the late James Rufus and Grace Louise Clary Abbott. He was predeceased by seven brothers and sisters, Ivanelle Sarvis Davis, Ada Sarvis Lee, James Rufus Abbott, Carol James Abbott, Ruth Abbott Chalk, Vera Abbott Brown, and Grace Abbott.

Mr. Abbott was employed by the Marine Corps, S.C. Highway Patrol, S.C. Tax Commission, S.C. ABC Board, Georgetown Steel and retired in 1996 from the S.C. Department of Labor as a Supervisor with OSHA. Following his retirement he drove a bus for Don's Tours. He was a member of Hampton Lodge #204 AF & AM and a 32nd degree Scottish Rite Mason. He was a founding member of the Omar Jazz Morticians. He was a member of St. Paul's United Methodist Church and of the S.C. School for the Deaf and Blind School Improvement Council.

Surviving are his wife, Dorothy (Dot) Stone Abbott; sons, Rufus (Rudy) James Abbott (Julie) of Prattville, Ala., and Glenn Keith Abbott (Cindi) of Charlotte; daughter, Dean (Deana) Abbott Miller (Conway) of Florence; six grandchildren, Richard, Donald and Jason Abbott and Way, Conrad and Kirby Miller; brother, Ronnie Abbott (Peggy) of Florence and sisters, Betty Mishoe of Conway, Margaret Brigman (Buddy) of Florence, Marie Brandon (Leon) of Hampton, Va.

Cain Funeral home is assisting the family.

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October 16, 2003

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October 13, 2003

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David Altman Sr.

October 16, 2003

I extend my deepest sympathy to the family of Brother R.J. He was a good man who was a special friend to us at the Crusade for Christ Mission. We certainly appreciate all that he did. He came to our services during his sickness and we were always so glad to see him. We know that he is in the presence of God. Please know that you all are in our prayers.

Mike and Susan Kirby

October 13, 2003

James was a well loved man by all who knew him and could always make you laugh. You go through life and sometimes do not make time to see those you really love and when they are gone its too late. Even though we didn't see each other often...we always knew James was there if we ever needed him. He will be greatly missed by our family.

CATHY BROWNF

October 13, 2003

ELIZABETH DICKERSON DARLINGTON DRY CLEARNERS DARLINGTON SC AND CATHY BROWN FLORENCE SC WENT ON A TOUR WITH R.J. HAD A GREAT TIME LOVED THE COWBOY HAT HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL THAT KNEW HIM

CATHY & DAVID EASTER

October 13, 2003

To the family of Mr. Abbott. I am a close friend of Dean Miller's and would like to express my most heart felt sympathy on Mr. Abbott's passing. In my college days, I would spend time at the Abbott's home with their daughter Dean and I always thought so very much of Mr. Abbott. He will truly be missed.

May God be with you and your family.

Sincerely, Cathy & David Easter

C.D. & Dora Strickland

October 13, 2003

Dot, you Deana and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.

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