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Ruth Steck Obituary
Ruth's parents were German immigrants, and she was the first in her family to attend college, earning a Bachelor of Science degree from Temple University. She worked in the family business before marrying Paul and moving to northern New Jersey, where they raised their family. A longtime resident of Summit and Chatham, Ruth created a warm and welcoming home filled with love and hospitality.
A gifted gourmet cook, Ruth delighted in hosting festive gatherings and elaborate family dinners. During the holidays, she baked hundreds of cookies, carefully arranged in vintage tins for eager recipients. She cherished time spent at the Noe Pond Club, where she formed lifelong friendships and watched her children learn to swim and dive; the Ocean Dunes Coop in Amagansett, New York, where she vacationed and served on the Board; and the Visual Arts Center of New Jersey, where she pursued her passion for pottery and watercolor painting while volunteering for fundraising events. An avid collector of antiques, she played a role in launching the Newark Academy Antiques Show as part of the school's parent association. Ruth and Paul also shared a love of travel, seeking destinations rich in history and cultural experiences.
Ruth is survived by her children, Paul K. Steck and Christina E. (Tina) Steck; four grandchildren, Julia Steck, Brian Steck, Spencer Young (Marisa Cummings), and Tyler Young; and a great-grandchild, Henry Young.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 11 AM on Saturday, March 22, 2025, at the Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township, followed by a reception in Mulford Hall. All are welcome.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Visual Arts Center of New Jersey, the American Heart Association, or World Central Kitchen.
Ruth's warmth, creativity, and generosity will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
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Eileen Cashman-Jermak
March 21, 2025
Ruth´s warmth, kindness, generosity, beautiful spirit and friendship have enriched my life. I have so many fond and cherished memories at Ocean Dunes and in New Jersey. Ruth and I enjoyed having birthdays just two days apart. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Esther Schwalb
March 20, 2025
My condolences to Tina and Paul and their families. Your mother (and father) had a long-lasting impact on me and the love I feel/show to my children's friends. They showed me much generosity when Tina and I were in college. May your mom's memory always be a blessing. xx, Esther
Sheda King
March 15, 2025
Our Deepest sympathies to Tina, Tyler & Spencer. We did not know Ruth personally but had the pleasure of hearing stories from her family. She raised a beautiful, smart & kind daughter, Tina and two wonderful grandsons.
Ann Doyle
March 13, 2025
Ruth was a kind and generous friend. I will be forever grateful for her loyalty to my mother and thankful for her support of our wedding at BHC.
Ann Doyle nee Krakora
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Anne Lange
March 11, 2025
My friend Ruth, I will always remember your kindness towards me, and the taste of your wonderful Grave Lox lingers on.
I miss you, rest in peace.
My deepest Sympathy,
Anne Lange
Gloria Maccaroni and Simon Webb
March 10, 2025
Simon and I had the great pleasure of knowing Ruth and Paul. Ruth was vibrant part of the Ocean Dunes Community and will be missed.
Jen Doninger
February 26, 2025
Ruth & Paul were a big part of the Visual Arts Center's growth into what it has become. I am grateful I had the chance to get to know Ruth and will miss chatting with her before her pottery class. Please accept my most sincere condolences.
Julia Steck
February 18, 2025
If food is love - more food is more love!
Evrodie Pierrelouis
February 17, 2025
Ruth Steck was more than just someone I worked with,she was a true friend. Ruth Steck was an extraordinary person with a heart of gold. Her compassion and kindness inspired me every day I've worked with her,She will be deeply missed.
Schatzie Meyer
February 16, 2025
With deepest sympathy to you all.
Remembering your Mom fondly
Schatzie
Kate Solisti
February 16, 2025
Sending love and care to all the Stecks with fond memories of us all together at Noe Pond. Kate (Brower) Solisti
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