Ruthie Pitera Obituary
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Alexander Nicoletti
December 14, 2020
Ruthie this is your godson Alex. The day it struck me that you were no longer with us tore me to pieces. I’ve made myself so strong for you and every birthday on July 26th I bow my head and let it all out. I feel you rubbing my back to comfort me in that time of need and have to say no matter how long and how far away we are from eachother. I know you are my guardian angel that has given me the blessings in life I’ve gotten to this day. I hope you realize how much I love you and care for you to this day. I visit the forest lawn cemetery every year multiple times and make sure I have conversations with you. I still have the nickel of Washington and his troops crossing the Delaware river that I got from you. I hold that in my hands as I pray for more blessings to come. Your always here with me in my heart and I’m stopping by to let you know that I will make you very proud of me so when we finally meet again, then you can give your little turd a big hug and let me not let you go again. I love you Ruthie and miss you so much.
August 13, 2009
Hey "Rufus"
It's been a year since you're gone and I still think of you often. My mom passed away this year on the same date July 26, 2009. I miss her. If you see her please say hey and make her feel welcome. Much Love, Koval
Bandit, Let's Cheer For The Steelers!
August 12, 2009
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August 12, 2009
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Best Friends
August 12, 2009
Christmas with Sandy
August 12, 2009
The BBP's (Best Buddy Pals)
August 12, 2009
Christmas With Bandit
August 12, 2009
At The Races
August 12, 2009
Ahhhhhhhhh the Beach!
August 12, 2009
Boating On The Gulf
August 12, 2009
Talking To Judy While Vacationing In Florida
August 12, 2009
A Birthday Celebration!
August 12, 2009
Oh What Fun We Had!
August 12, 2009
Mary Rice
July 26, 2009
A year ago today the world lost one of the most wonderful, caring, thoughtful, and kind individuals that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I lost my dearest friend that day and no one will or could ever replace her. Life is so different without you Ruthie. I love and miss you tremendously my dear "sister".
Mary
July 26, 2009
Hi Buddy,
A year has gone by, and i miss you more than ever. You are, and always will be, in my thoughts and prayers. I will never forget the special times we had. Love you BBP.
Judy
Lisa Wattman
July 24, 2009
As we approach the one year anniversary of the loss of someone so wonderful I am filled with many happy memories and thoughts. When something crazy is going on, I can still hear Ruthie telling me to "make it stop watt, make it stop" Tonight, we (myself, Brian Powers and Zansky) celebrated Ruthie, as we did on her birthday, with a Coors light. She was a wonderful person and is still so deeply missed and loved. I think of her often and am blessed to have known someone as special as her.
Jeff,
We think of you often and you will be in our thoughts and prayers this weekend, as always. Take comfort knowing she is in a much better place, and she is always with you.
This weekend, as I watch her video, I will be remembering the good times, and what a pleasure it was to know and work with her.
Watt
June 28, 2009
Last Sunday was the hardest Father's Day I've had in a long while Ru. I really missed your comfort. And of course I continue to miss you tremendously and think of you daily. I love you,
Mary
June 26, 2009
I miss you more each day, buddy.
Love,
Judy
Maura
May 29, 2009
Just thinking of you today, Ruthie. Your EQT Team will be walking to raise donations for the Donor Organization, in your name.
Mary Rice
March 27, 2009
There are no words that can describe how much I miss you. I think of you every day. I love you.
Judy Rice
March 26, 2009
Ruthie Girl,
I miss our luncheons. I miss our road trips. Most of all, I miss you.
Love,
Judy
Judy Rice
February 26, 2009
Ruthie,
I think of you every day and miss you big time.
Love you
Judy
Judy Rice
January 26, 2009
Ruthie girl,
six months since you have passed, and i miss your smile, your tears, and our road trips.
love you bbp,
Judy
Carrie Jones
January 12, 2009
Happy Birthday Ruthie!!!!!
We will all celebrate with you today!!
Love and Miss You!!!
Carrie
Carrie Jones
December 31, 2008
Ruthie:
Christmas at work was not the same without hearing your jingle bells on your shoes this year. There is not one day that goes by that I don't think of you. Love and Miss You........Carrie
Judy Rice
December 26, 2008
I miss you buddy.
Love
Judy
Judy Rice
November 26, 2008
Ruthie girl,
you are the best of the best.
I miss you.
Love,
Judy
Mark Seganos
November 6, 2008
Just thought I would add another comment, a day doesn't go by that I think of Ruthie or wish I could pick up the phone and call her! You are truely missed and thought about often!
Judy Rice
October 26, 2008
You are always on my mind, and in my heart and prayers.
love
Judy
Judy Rice
September 26, 2008
The last two months have seemed like an eternity, buddy. I miss you.
love,
Judy
Judy Rice
August 26, 2008
I really miss you, buddy. I will never forget. love you.
Dave King
August 21, 2008
I was so saddened to learn of Ruthie's passing. I remember bowling with her in our weekend youth league at the old J.C. Lanes many years ago. She was such a wonderful person and her spirit and joyful personality always brought smiles to her fellow bowlers. She was a truly inspirational person who could easily brighten anyone's day.
May the Lord comfort her family and friends in this difficult time.
Diane Kovalich
August 18, 2008
My deepest sympathy Jeff to you and your family in the loss of this incredible woman with a magic smile. She spread her amazing karma to everyone's life that she touched and I will be forever grateful for having known her. Peace and Love "Rufus"
(my nickname for her) from Koval
Craig Gardner
August 12, 2008
Jeff: So sorry to hear about the tragic loss of Ruthie. Our thoughts are with you. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Jeff, Anna, Nick & Alana Hiner
August 11, 2008
Ruthie .. We love you and miss you! Memories of you and our time together will forever be in our hearts. Until we meet again ...
Tammy Siehl
August 10, 2008
Entire Pitera Family: Ruthie will always be missed yet never forgotten. She touched every life she ever encountered with her vibrant light and her loving spirit. My deepest sympathy goes out to you at this time. I feel your loss as well. I lost a true friend and I will remember her forever.
Elaine and Santo Ricotta
August 7, 2008
Jeff,
We were so sorry to learn of Ruthie's passing. She was a young and vibrant woman and all who knew her will miss her. May you find peace.
Lajanda Byrd
August 5, 2008
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to you, your family and friends, I pray that god would comfort you and help ease the pain with wonderful memories of an amazing woman....Ruthie may god keep you in his care until you can be with your loved ones again.
Kathy Slezak
August 5, 2008
Bernie & family,There are no words to make the passing of Ruthie any easier on you.We only want you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you all.I am sure that God will get you through this and maybe in time your hearts will heal. If there is anyway in which we can help please let us know.Love and prayers, Ron & Kathy Slezak
Jim Cwik
August 4, 2008
Jeff:
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Remember the good memories, thoughts and happy times the two of you shared. She will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you go through this difficult time.
Monica Lamb
August 3, 2008
Ruthie was the first friend I made in PA. She was a great lady! She was a great bowling partner and most of all a wonderful friend. She loved to kid me about my southern accent and we had great times together. I will carry her in my heart forever. My sincerest condolences. Love, Mo-neee-ka
C.M. Pavlosky
August 2, 2008
Jeff -
My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this difficult time.
bill and julie smith
August 2, 2008
jeff we are so sorry to hear of your loss our thoghts and prayers are with you
Michael Stilson
July 31, 2008
ruthie was such a great person she always worried about others before her self ruthie had helpes me out alot and belived in me when no one else would for that i truley thank her jeff dont forget that the nco family is always here if you need us
Camille Seganos
July 31, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Mary Rice
July 31, 2008
Ruthie, my hand picked sister, I love you and miss you tremendously. Your love, support, and friendship means the world to me. Thank you for teaching me what friendship is meant to be. I will always remember the love you gave so freely and will carry you in my heart forever.
Ondrea (Gindlesperger) Jones
July 31, 2008
Jeff and family,
You have my deepest sympathy. The few times I shared with Ruthie were quite enjoyable. She had a quick smile and a funny story to tell. Jeff, my thoughts are with you at this time and know that Ruthie is also.
Judy Rice
July 31, 2008
I have a gaping hole in my heart, and a major void in my life.I am proud and honored to be your friend.
I will always love you, buddy.
Judy
Jon Huska
July 31, 2008
Jeff -
Sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Regina Brewer
July 31, 2008
I have had the pleasure of working with Ruthie for the past year. Ruthie was a wonderful person and a joy to work with. I will miss her humor on our weekly calls. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
Alex & Joylyn Nicoletti
July 31, 2008
Jeff,
Our thoughts are with you in these moments of sorrow. Keep the good memories, thoughts and happy times the two of you shared. These are the things that will help you get through this difficult time. Our prayers are with you. With deepest sympathy.
SONNY AND DARLENE KERR
July 31, 2008
WE ARE SO SORRY TO TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS RUTHIE WAS A VERY NICE PERSON . SHE WILL BE MISSED .
lori young
July 30, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lisa Donitzen
July 30, 2008
Jeff,
We are so sorry for your loss. We love you and we loved Ruthie. She was an wonderful person, a true friend and we'll miss her more than words can say. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Lisa and Mark.
Wendy Dolges
July 30, 2008
Jeff, My deepest sympathy. May you be comforted by all the wonderful memories you've shared.
Diane and Jon Lehman
July 30, 2008
Jeff and family
You and your family are in our prayers. So sorry for your loss. Ruthie was a wonderful person. I always liked waiting on her at the legion when I worked their.
She was always very happy and bubbly. God has a special angel with him now.
Theresa Rowe
July 30, 2008
Jeff & Family...Ruthie touched so many hearts & we are all better for knowing her. She made work "fun" & everyday she will be remembered. We will always miss her....
Barbara Friend
July 30, 2008
Although I only worked with Ruthie a short time, I was impressed with her zest, vitality and commitment. She will be greatly missed. My prayer is that her family will know the Lord's comfort during this difficult time.
Amy Bowden
July 30, 2008
Ruthie was one of the kindest women I had ever met. She had a very bright spririt about her which I know will live on in everyone's heart. She has touched the lives of so many and will greatly be missed.
LaMont Williams
July 30, 2008
I am deeply sadden for the Piteria family. We miss her presence. Take Care Ruthie.
Michelle Linabury
July 30, 2008
The Pitera Family,
I never got the pleasure of meeting Rutie in person but I was always guarnteed a smile when we spoke or e-mailed. She was a wonderfull person and always very helpfull whenever I needed her guidance. I just wanted you to know that your family is in my prayers all these miles away. May The Lord be with you always.
Kim Bohadel
July 30, 2008
Ruthie was a kind soul with a tough spirit. I will always remember Ruthie walking the floor at NCO and her "words of wisdom"! She will certainly be missed but her presence will always be with us. I am blessed to have known her.
Stephane Guillard
July 30, 2008
Jeff,
I am so saddened to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jennifer Livingston
July 30, 2008
Jeff,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your familly always. Remember... Ruthie may not be with us physically, but she is always with us spiritually and she's always watching over you and Bandit.
Ruthie,
You are greatly missed, but I'm truly glad that I met you. You taught me so much in the time that we worked together and became friends. The footprints that you have left in my heart will always be there along with the memories that I have of you and our times together. God apparently needed a diehard steeler fan in heaven and now he has one to help cheer them on. We love you deeply and someday will see you again.
Amy Leventry
July 30, 2008
There are no words to express how very sad I am about the loss of our beloved friend and co-worker. Ruthie's memory will forever be alive in our hearts. She is in a better place and so lovingly gave of herself to help others in life and through her organ donations in death. She is truly a hero and example for all of us to model our lives after. I am a better person for having known Ruthie. She touched so many people, and I feel truly blessed to have had her as a friend.
karen burgue
July 30, 2008
Jeff,
I'm sorry I could not be with you but Rudy told me the service was as amazing as Ruthie and she would have been proud that you were so strong. Just know we are here for you always. Your Florida family, Karen and Rudy
Mark Seganos
July 30, 2008
Jeff and entire family,
Words can not express what a loss Ruthie's passing means! She was one of a kind, as a sister & friend. She will be sadly missed.
Love,
Bret & Linda Shoemaker
July 30, 2008
Jeff, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you go through this difficult time.
Mary Flaherty
July 30, 2008
Dear Jeff, I am so sorry for your loss. Ruthie was an amazing soul. She helped me through so many rough times, always being a shoulder for me to cry on. She once gave me a crystal and told me to hold it whenever I needed anything. Now that crystal means even more to me and I will always keep it close to my heart to remind me of her. My prayers are with you.
Carrie Jones
July 30, 2008
Ruthie will always and forever be in my thoughts as a woman who gave so much to everyone she came in contact with every day. She will be forever missed.
Mike, Carrie, Kaitlynne, and Alexis
Paige Liniger
July 30, 2008
Ruthie's light will shine perpetually on those fortunate to have been touched by her encouraging spirit. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Keith Mayket
July 30, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Sharon Kociban
July 30, 2008
Jeff,
May God's loving arms embrace you and the family at this time. I LOVED Ruthie, my BESTEST and most amazing friend, with all my heart, she was always there for me, I am here always for you and yours.
Missy Lute
July 30, 2008
Ruthie... Thank you for everything you did for me. You will always be in my heart.
Diana (McIlwain)Thomas
July 30, 2008
Dear Jeff:
May you know that you are not alone in your lose of your beloved wife Ruthie, I send my deepest regrets for you & your familys lose. God Bless you all...
HEIDI KAUFFMAN
July 29, 2008
RUTHIE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN...FOR THOSE OF US WHO KNEW HER, WE ARE THE LUCKY ONES. SHE WAS SUCH A HARD WORKER BUT SHE LOVED TO KICK BACK AND ENJOY LIFE TOO!! THATS WHAT I LOVED MOST ABOUT RUTHIE...YOU ALWAYS KNEW IT WAS FRIDAY WHEN STEELER RUTHIE WAS AROUND...SHE REALLY WAS THEIR NUMBER 1 FAN!! SHE WAS THE BEST.
MY THOUGHTS AND MANY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU JEFF, AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY.
Jeff and Mary Stover
July 29, 2008
Jeff and Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Maura Devine
July 29, 2008
Ruthie will be so deeply missed by her NCO family. She was an amazing woman, friend and co-worker.
My love and prayers to all of her family and friends.
Sean Zinn
July 29, 2008
Jeff, we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Laura B.
July 29, 2008
I'll never forget our sports talks every day on break at work. And they say women know nothing about sports. You can teach most men a thing or two. Luv ya and i miss you're smiling face. God bless you, Jeff.
Amanda Gibbons
July 29, 2008
You are going to be greatly missed especially with all your co workes left behind. Im so glad you were there for me when Chris was hospitalized and when I speak of you with my son I will still call you aunt Ruthi. I love you so much and Ill never forget you!
Tom & Lorraine Sylvia
July 29, 2008
Jeff-we are truly sorry for your loss of Ruthie. She was a one of a kind and will be sorely missed by all. Hang in there and you are so blessed to have such a great support mechanism of friends and family.
MaryAnn
July 29, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Ruthie's family. Ruthie was a special lady with a big heart and a wonderful sense of humor. She will be missed by all of us who had the pleasure of working with her. Your loss is even greater, my prayers are with you.
Marcie Carmichael
July 29, 2008
Jeff,
My thoughts and prayers to you and those who lives she touched. God bless.
shane broege
July 29, 2008
We will greatly miss you Ruthie. You were the best. Thank you for the good times and laughs back in the day. You were and still will always be an amazing woman.
love always..............Shane
Rosemary C.
July 29, 2008
Although I haven't seen Ruthie since I left NCO, I remember her vitality and her Steelers passion, along with Dale Earnhardt Jr. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. God Bless.
Becky Shriver
July 29, 2008
May the Lord comfort Ruthie's mother-"Grandma Ruth," and lead her entire family to peace.
You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Mike Steffey
July 29, 2008
Jeff,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Anne Wagner
July 29, 2008
Jeff and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know you all are in my prayers. God Bless.
Anne (Slobozien) Wagner
alex nicoletti the 3
July 29, 2008
We love you ruthy ill never forget you.you will always be in our hearts
Shaltreece Reddick
July 29, 2008
In the brief time that I knew Ruthie, it was easy to see why she was so beloved. On behalf of our company, and in honor of your loved one, please accept our humble regrets for your loss.
Joannie Fyock
July 29, 2008
Jeff, May the Lord's arms be wrapped around you and your family during this very difficult time. God Bless.
Harold and Sue Coughenour
July 29, 2008
Deepest Sympathy to
Mike and Tracy and the whole family
Bob Lentz
July 29, 2008
Jeff,
I cannot find the words to express my sorrow for your loss of Ruthie. I know how dear she was to you. I am here for you in anyway that you need me to be.
Bob
William Coyle
July 29, 2008
Dear Jeff,
My most sincere condolences.
-Bill Coyle
Brenda Balon
July 29, 2008
Jeff,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Susan Blough
July 29, 2008
Jeff, My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family for your loss. May God be with you in your time of need to comfort you.
Pattie Bailey
July 29, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss of Ruthie. She really enjoyed life and was always smiling. May God comfort you and your family during this hard time. Love & Blessings, Pattie, Larry, Larissa, Lucas
Tina Heidorn/Burgan
July 29, 2008
I lost my best friend. I'm at wits end. But, she knows I love her, Jeff, and Bandit.
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