Sandra Louise Lowery

1955 - 2023

Sandra Louise Lowery obituary, 1955-2023, Grand Rapids, MI

Sandra Louise Lowery

1955 - 2023

BORN

1955

DIED

2023

Sandra Lowery Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 17 to Jan. 19, 2023.
Lowery, Sandra Louise 12/4/1955 - 1/15/2023 Grand Rapids age 67, died January 15, 2023, of pancreatic cancer. Born December 4, 1955 to John "Jack" and Mary (Reynolds) Bek, Sandy graduated from Immaculate Heart of Mary (IHM) School ('70) and Catholic Central (CC) High School ('74). She then studied nursing at Mercy Central and later earned her degree from Ferris State University. Sandy worked as a surgical nurse at St. Mary's Hospital for many years. In addition, she was a vital member of the Applied Innovation team since its inception, working payroll for 35 years. All while raising three children. Throughout her life, Sandy was athletic, from competitive diving for the Jolly Rogers team as a youngster, to cheerleading at CC, and driving the golf ball a mile. She loved attending her ten grandchildren's many sporting events. Always a generous hostess, Sandy especially relished Christmas Eve and 4th of July with bike parade and fireworks set to "Proud to Be an American." She loved Journey, Jackson Browne, and local band Natchez Trace, reading, coffee, Riesling, and mayo on most foods. An attentive friend and listener, Sandy embodied the blessings of forgiveness, gratitude, and unconditional love. Sandy was a woman of deep faith, a staunch advocate for the unborn, and a volunteer at HELP Pregnancy Aid for two decades. She went on to serve as its Board president and was instrumental in HELP's current expansion plans. When her husband John bought her the lot next door to HELP as an anniversary gift, Sandy turned it into a beautiful rosary Garden of Life with statue of Madonna and child. She also served as IHM Women's Guild president and chair of its Right to Life committee. Sandy is survived by her loving husband of 45 years, John; daughter Megan (Mike) Tietema; sons Casey (Lindsay) and Kyle (Jessica) Lowery; grandchildren Owen, Ellie, Matthew and Peter Tietema, Cora, Jack, Henry, John, Caroline, and Teddy Lowery; brother John C. (Beri) Bek, and sisters Deb (Terry) Moore and Cindy Despres, all of Grand Rapids. She also leaves behind many dear nieces, nephews, and friends. Visitation at IHM Church on Friday, Jan. 20, from 2-4 & 6-8, with a rosary at 8:00 pm. A funeral Mass of Christian Burial, Fr. Troy Nevins presiding, will be held on Saturday, Jan. 21 at 11:00 am at IHM Church, 1935 Plymouth S.E. 49506. Luncheon to immediately follow service. Interment at Woodlawn Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to HELP Pregnancy Aid's "Vision 2025" campaign, 705 Bridge St. NW, 49504, or to the "Bek Family Scholarship Fund" of IHM's Killgoar Foundation. The Lowery family thanks the hundreds of people who lifted Sandy up in prayer during her journey with cancer and especially during the last few weeks of her life. She and the family felt your love and strength.

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September 23, 2024

Ellie Tietema posted to the memorial.

April 2, 2024

Peggy Jansma posted to the memorial.

January 11, 2024

Judy Graf Knight posted to the memorial.

Ellie Tietema

September 23, 2024

Best role model and woman I´ve never known. You are and will always be my Grammy. You were always there for me and still are. Words cannot describe how much I am missing you. All of our talks, very expensive shopping trips in Naples, yelling to Jackson Brown, having spoonfuls of mayo, watching fireworks and always hearing your bracelets jingle when driving your car. This is hardly any memories shared but some of my favorites. I love you so much Grammy.

Peggy Jansma

April 2, 2024

Dear John,
This is over a year late. I just came across this news about Sandy. Randy and I were your neighbors on Floyd many years ago when we were all very young! I´m so sorry for your loss. Ran passed away too. May God continue to guide you and support you every day. Peggy Jansma

Judy Graf Knight

January 11, 2024

Dec4, I took some time to thank you Lord for my childhood friend. Then I asked for you to walk with Sandy´s beautiful family and the many people she served. So many memories of growing up with Sandy and her beautiful red hair! Always fun and energetic! Sandy, Maureen and Judy forever

Jan Norton Fairchild

December 5, 2023

Happy Heavenly Birthday lovely lady! You touched so many lives!

Laura Collee

January 24, 2023

Sandy was a wonderful person, I'm honored to have known her as a fellow nurse in St Mary's OR. Sending you hugs and prayers for peace.

Walt and Amy Gutowski

January 24, 2023

Dear John and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jamie Moore

January 24, 2023

My deepest sympathies John and the entire family. May you find peace, Sandy was a wonderful person.

Judy and Gerry Brom

January 20, 2023

We are sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers. Our children went to Immaculate Heart School.

Marcia and Robert Scollon

January 20, 2023

Megan and Mike
May you find peace and comfort in knowing your mom touched so many lives. She was a kind and loving person.

Robert and Marcia Scollon Heather Lentine and Sarah Quiroga

Judy Graf Knight

January 20, 2023

I lived across the street from Sandy when growing up, I remember her king red ponytail! We enjoyed playing together, sleep overs, the "rafters" camp in the garage, riding bikes, skating, picnics at Mulick, sledding, the cottage oh so many memories. I always send a birthday message to her, loved watching her beautiful family grow. She will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to John and family and to the many people who shared living her. My love and prayers.

Kim and Steve Barrows

January 20, 2023

Dear John and family,

Sandy was such a joy to be with, always lifted me up and helped me see the good. When my daughter had knee surgery, she right away offered her ice sleeve. She was a generous hostess for our Help planning meetings. I miss her already. In addition to her lovely family, and so many friends, there are many babies with families who are grateful for her tireless work at Help, and will be there in Heaven someday to say "thank you for giving to the Lord, as I am a life that was saved."

Meg Liesveld Farness

January 20, 2023

My heartfelt condolences to Sandy´s family . The Beks were good friends of my parents and we enjoyed gathering at their cottage and other events years ago. Meg Liesveld Farness

Suzette (Graf) Meyer

January 19, 2023

With many fond memories of growing up on Lotus St with the Bek Family, I send my sympathy to Sandy´s entire family. Rest In Peace Sandy. May your memories help you through these difficult times. She was quite a lady after reading this.

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Mike & Valarie Command

January 19, 2023

John & Family. We are so sorry for the loss of Sandy. As everyone has noted or will note she was a terrific person. Being such good friends with her brother, we always knew what was going on with the family.

Sadly, we are out of town and will not be able to attend the services. Be assured, your family is in our prayers.

Mike & Valarie Command

Debbie and Steve Haggai

January 19, 2023

Sympathy to all your loved ones left behind. May they always cherish your memories..Rest In Peace Sandy in God´s loving arms with all those precious babies we pray for.

Keith and Shelly Harrold

January 19, 2023

We are saddened to hear of the passing of Sandy. Such a lovely lady. Her smile and caring way was contagious. We have so many wonderful memories of fun times spent as neighbors on the lake. We will miss her so much. Our prayers for strength will be with John and the family now and in the days ahead.
Keith and Shelly Harrold

Chris Hock

January 19, 2023

The Morrison Family and Bek Family grew up together. Our Parents were best of friends. I have always known Sandy to be funny, caring generous and loved her family. Hugs and prayers to the Lowery Family.
Chris Hock, Heather Thibert, Nick Hock and Hillary Hock

Sally Murphy

January 18, 2023

I have fond memories of working with Sandy at St. Mary´s in the OR. She was and awesome nurse n person, always positive uplifting spirit. for her family.

Stephen Dunn

January 18, 2023

I knew Sandy at IHM and at Catholic Central. She was always very kind to me. I know she is in eternal bliss.

Fred Quillin Sr

January 18, 2023

Beeker and Family, Thoughts and Prayers. I never knew Sandy, but it is clear that She achieved greatness in life. Surely, She now enjoys Heavenly Rewards! God Bless

Michael Renberg

January 18, 2023

John and Family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear Sandra. Remember the good times and hold them close in your heart, they will comfort you in your times of sorrow.

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David Webb

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Bill & Janet Cummiskey

January 18, 2023

Deb, So sorry for the loss of your dear sister. Rest in Peace Sandra.

Sheryl Kaschner

January 18, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Dick and Judy Bereza

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Dick and Judy Bereza

January 18, 2023

So sad to hear of Sandy's passing. She was such a lovely and warm person to be with at the Lake and Wuskowhan. We will miss her dearly as will so many people who knew her.

Mike and Vonnie Sandner

January 17, 2023

We are so saddened with Sandy´s passing. We are so fortunate to know her and her family. She was a very special lady. Very caring, loving and always happy to share a chat. She is an inspiration to always do your best and care for the unborn. We will miss her as we know her family will also . Love, hugs and prayers for all and may God bless you with strength and extra courage to deal with your loss. Mike and Vonnie Sandner

Ilse place

January 17, 2023

I worked in the OR at Saints with Sandy. She made me feel special and loved . Though many years have passed I will always remember her compassion and love. My prayers for the family for peace and comfort! What a wonderful legacy to leave!

Rob Alston

January 17, 2023

Just wanted to pass along our condolences! Sandy was a a special women. She treated me so great throughout my years at Applied Imaging. I am sorry for your loss! Prayers are with you!

Kelli Dobner

January 17, 2023

John, Casey and Family,

I´m so very sorry to learn of Sandy´s passing. She was a special person who brought so much light to the world. It was a gift to know her and I feel immensely blessed that I had that opportunity. Her work, her love for others, and her spirit will live on in all of us.

Warmest hugs,
Kelli Dobner
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Your Samaritas Family

January 17, 2023

Sandy was an incredibly special woman who cared deeply for others. She led the way. We are honored to know and have had the opportunity to work with her. We are inspired by her contagious spirit and love of God. From all of us at Samaritas, we are thinking of you John, Casey and the entire Lowery and Applied Innovation family. Prayers for comfort and peace. Sending the biggest hugs we have.

Patrick and Sandy Tierney

January 17, 2023

Sandy lived her faith. She was a shining light on a hill for all of us to see. I was so privileged to be her classmate at IHM and CC, and her friend.
Our condolences to the Lowery family.
We are praying to God to bring you comfort and peace.

Eric Neumann

January 17, 2023

John and Family;

Please accept my condolences. I will be keeping you all in my prayers in the days, weeks and months to come. We may be miles apart my good friend, but believe me when I say I am right beside you.

God Bless;

Eric Neumann

David and Karri Young

January 17, 2023

I´m so sorry for your loss. I pray you find strength in faith, family and friends to help you walk through such a difficult time. David and Karri Young

Sara, Jitesh, and Runi Kerai

January 17, 2023

There are no words to describe the hole Sandy leaves behind. We were so blessed to have her as our aunt & but "aunt" doesn´t even describe who she was to us. We miss and love you, Sandy.

Beri Bouwman Bek

January 17, 2023

I've known Sandy as long as I've known her brother. (50 years) She always showed up if anyone was in the hospital and knew how to talk to staff. When you got home, she always showed up with food. She knew everyone. These past couple months we found out just how many lives she had touched. The Rosary at IHM was phenomenal. Friends and family praying for her and encouraging her, helped all of us immensely. She was strong in her faith and is waiting on all of us now to come home. I just want to thank everyone on behalf of the family.
Thank-you,
Beri and John Bek

Emily, Rich, and Lily Brouillet

January 17, 2023

I was incredibly blessed to have Sandy as my aunt for the past 45 years. There's no other way to say it but: she was THE BEST. Her love, smile, humor, and kindness will be missed beyond words. We are sending all of our love to the entire family and continuing to pray for strength for everyone as we move into the next phase of our grief.

Pamela Roach

January 17, 2023

Terry and I send our love and continued prayers to all of you. Sandy was priceless.

Pat Hillary

January 17, 2023

To know Sandy was to love her. Our prayers go out to her husband John, and the entire family. She will be greatly missed.

Judy Brechting

January 17, 2023

I worked with Sandy in Surgery at St. Mary's Hospital. She was a very caring person. A great surgical nurse. My condolences to her husband and family. The world has lost a special person. RIP SANDY

Todd Buzzell

January 17, 2023

I am privileged to say and know that Sandy is a good friend. She will be missed beyond measure. I love the Lowery family and I pray God will bring them peace and comfort during this most difficult time.

John and Mary Jo Thayer

January 17, 2023

My sincere condolences to the Lowery family for the loss of your amazing wife, mother, grandmother, and more. I was blessed to meet Sandy through our connection to HELP and serve with her on the cabinet for the Capital Campaign. Sandy had a way of connecting with everyone and making sure all contributions to discussion were heard. What I most admire about Sandy is that she knew she was God´s daughter and she lived for Christ. Her focus was keen and she modeled with humble energy how to keep our eyes on what was most important in the prolife movement. To say that she will be missed is a colossal understatement. May the angels sing her in and comfort all who loved her. Dear Sandy: pray for us!
With sympathy and prayer,
Mary Jo Thayer

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