Sandra McCauley

1936 - 2020

Sandra McCauley

1936 - 2020

BORN

1936

DIED

2020

Sandra McCauley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 17, 2020.
Former Quincy First Lady Sandra (MacKinnon) Mc-Cauley, died April 15, 2020 at the Pope Nursing Home in Weymouth, from complications of COVID-19. She was 83. Born July 3, 1936 to Robert MacKinnon and Florence (Lemon) MacKinnon, Sandra was raised in Houghs Neck. A shy but academically gifted student, she attended Atherton Hough Elementary School, Central Junior High and Quincy High School. In 1954, shortly before graduating from Quincy High, Sandra shocked her teachers and guidance counselors by announcing that she was forgoing her acceptance to Radcliffe in order to marry a local clam digger named Frank McCauley. Despite pleadings from family and friends not to throw her life away on a guy who was going nowhere, Sandra, 18, wed Frank at Quincy City Hall on August 13, 1954 | Friday the 13th. If it doesnt work out, she said at the time, I can always blame it on that! But work out it did. With Sandra as the guiding force in his life, Frank returned to night school to study accounting and secured a position as a teller at Shipbuilders Co-Operative Bank, later known as Presidential Co-Operative Bank. Within a decade, he would rise to become the banks president while launching a political career that would see him hold every elective office in the city, including ward councilor, councilor-at-large, school committee and four terms as Quincys mayor. Sandra was his staunchest supporter, managing volunteer activities for his numerous political campaigns while raising the couples five children and serving as school room mother, Cub Scout den mother and numerous other community volunteer positions. While serving as Quincys first lady and raising five children, Sandra was a strong advocate for one of her passions in life: reading. A champion of Quincys Thomas Crane Public Library, she served for many years on its board of trustees and played a leading role in the construction of the new main library building. Similarly, she channeled her love for history into support for the Quincy Historical Society. But the true joy of Sandras life was always her family, including her five children and 13 grandchildren. Her devotion to her family and her community were evident in all she undertook, and she will be dearly missed by all who had the pleasure to have known her. In addition to her husband of 65 years, Sandra is survived by her five children: Michael J. (Elise) of Quincy, Robert H. (Sharon) of Natick, Melissa Higgins (Steven) of Braintree, Julie Tympanick (John) of Plymouth, and Jennifer Logue (David) of Ponte Vedra, Florida; grandchildren Dawn McCauley; Kyril and Samuel McCauley; Lindsay, Lauren, David and Andrew Higgins; Matthew, Andrew and Zachary Tympanick; and Bryan, Samantha and Katharine Logue; and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her beloved sisters, Ruth Craig and June Elwood. Special thanks go to FirstLight HomeCare and the Atrius Homebased Care program for the steadfast and compassionate care they provided Sandra. Due to the current restrictions in place related to the COVID-19 outbreak, a memorial service in Sandras honor will be held in the near future. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Houghs Neck Congregational Church General Fund, 310 Manet Ave., Quincy, MA 02169. Arrangements under the direction of the Sweeney Brothers Home for Funerals, 1 Independence Avenue, Quincy. You are invited to visit www.thesweeneybrothers.com or call 617-472-6344.

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April 20, 2020

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April 18, 2020

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Mary Minicucci

April 20, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dana Ricciardi

April 18, 2020

Deepest sympathy to Frank and the McCauley family on behalf of my late husband Steve and myself. We treasured the memories of Sandra's genuine warmth, her practicality, her willingness to work hard and our shared love of history.
My thoughts and prayers are with Frank and all the McCauley family.

matthias mulvey

April 18, 2020

Dear Frank and Family:
A great woman who was loved by anyone who was lucky enough to know her.

Lisa Alongi HairPlace One

April 18, 2020

With Deepest Sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time... I always enjoyed seeing Sandra come in, having long chats making her beautiful and happy.. These moments I'll always cherish.. Sandra will certainly be missed and will hold a special place in my heart.. xo

Laurie Allen

April 17, 2020

Although I have not seen them in several years,I am a big fan of Sandra and Frank McCauley. They are what public service is all about. Being so intelligent and generous with their time, they accomplished many wonderful things on behalf of the people of Quincy. But what stands out the most in my memory is the way they treated people: always with a smile, a laugh, a self-deprecating comment. Sandra was a woman ahead of her time. This is how I will remember her. My heartfelt sympathy and respect to Frank and the entire family at this enormous loss.

Renee Gagne

April 17, 2020

So sorry for your loss, Frank I am Praying for you.

Elmore

April 17, 2020

My sympathy to the entire family at this sad and tragic time.
May the love she had for one and all forever be in their hearts. Love never ends.
Emily Elmore

April 17, 2020

Our sincerest sympathy to the McCauley family on the death of their beloved Sandra.
Our friendship goes back many years, with many memories that we have always cherished.
We may not be able to join you as you face the days ahead but you will all be in our thoughts and prayers. The Colclough, O'Brien, Bargar and Ippolito families........

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