Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
1982 - 2014
1982 - 2014
Obituary
Guest Book
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Rachel Thompson
September 5, 2025
Dear Sean,
Liam and I continue to honor and remember you, as does our entire family. Your brilliant smile and remarkable legacy are never forgotten. All who knew you, loved you, and love you even still. You would be so proud of Liam for who he is becoming, accomplished, funny, thoughtful, an amazing and loving son and brother, so very much like you. I press on, with you in my heart always, as you told me to do in your final letter. You asked me to keep living, so I continue to press on, with God guiding us each and every day. You are greatly missed, and our love for you is never-ending. Knowing and loving you was and is a gift that I will always cherish. Thank you for every moment we shared together. I keep loving, I keep joy at the center of my life, and I know that I will see you again. That is how you lived, and that is what I am teaching Liam.
That Others May Live.
With love always, Rachel.
marcia Ruane
January 31, 2022
Dearest son, You lived your live always doing good for others. Your friends & family believe in the Captain Sean M. Ruane Memorial Foundation to help others. I miss you so much. Your hugs, your smile, your positive attitude...your kindness, your willingness to put yourself in danger to help another....your wit, humility, and as a mom, YOUR HUGS.
I miss hearing from you so much, your voice and just telling me what is going on. I pray that someday I see you again. Love you so much, mom
marcia ruane
February 1, 2021
How much you are missed is an understatement. My heart sometimes struggles to go on without you here. Yet the friends and family members, who began your Foundation in your memory, give me hope to some how continue in this world without you. Your phenomenal acts of kindness, love for your GOD, another human being and your country, friendship, courage, sincerity are memorable traits you carried through out your life. Your famous hugs are missed so much ! You are in my thoughts every minute of the day, I love and miss you so much. Mom
marcia ruane
January 7, 2021
Tonight, a group of Friends and Family got together to fly lanterns in your honor Sean, (and Chris, Dale & Afton too) Time has gone by, but it seems like yesterday that we received the news of the crash...Sean, your kindness touched so many people and so many remember that. Every day, there is another person, that brings up how you could light up a room with your humor and love. Just like the Squadron that you flew under, 'these things we do that others may live,' will go on forever. I miss you more than you will ever know, and hurt each day that you are not here. Your son, Liam must know how good of a person you are, and learn that the community celebrates your heroic life. Just know I love you, and will do my best to preserve your legacy. I love you and miss you so very much, tears just do not stop sometimes. Love you with all my heart- mom
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Gordon Jeffrey
January 7, 2021
Remembering Captain Sean Ruane on the anniversary of the tragic accident and in memory of all the fallen 56th Rescue Squadron HH-60G Pave Hawk crew of Jolly-22 on 7 January 2014 in Cley, Norfolk, England.
Thinking of the families and sending best wishes to them all. Keep safe all.
Marcia Ruane
December 2, 2020
Sean, your absence has been so very difficult this year. Your hugs, laughter, good nature are just missed every day of our lives. It is so hard to believe that you are gone. The emptiness in my heart with you not here will never go away...Love you so much- mom
July 21, 2019
Sean you have no idea how much emptiness there is without you. Thank your friends & family for starting the Captain Sean M. Memorial Foundation. It feels like you are present when i am there with everyone.
No day is a good day without you, i miss you ever so much, your laughter, your good nature, your humanitarianism, never a dull moment with you around.
Always in my heart & always on my mind, love you - mom
Debbie Abel
May 28, 2019
This day is in celebration for you dear Sean. I salute you I commend you and I thank you for your selflessness and dedication to our Great Nation. It is very sad you were taken so soon, and only God knows the reason, but I do believe you are in the most peaceful place with Jesus. Shine brightly Sean
God Bless all of us and
God Bless America. With love and the utmost respect
marcia ruane
April 6, 2019
Life is unbearable without you ...every day someone asks, talks, or mentions you...My heart misses your presence, voice, and your hugs...
This year has been especially rough, my heart aches. Rachel has moved on. I know you watch your son, Liam... How it makes me so very sad that you are not here enjoying him...THANKS TO YOUR HARD WORK AND DEDICATION, Rachel is able to make a life without struggling. I still visit you everyday, and try to make sure it is a respectable site... I love you more than life, and I miss you so very much, so very much. Fly Smart, baby, love mom.
Gordon Jeffrey
February 23, 2019
Remembering Sean and his crew in 2019 and the families. God Bless.
marcia ruane
January 13, 2018
My dear son, Sean, Again, we celebrated and honored you with a memorial mass on January 7th. Followed with a breakfast for all those that love you & miss you. Funny thing, a helicopter flew over while we were there. Life is so difficult since you are not here and my heart and soul only wishes i could change places with you for you to be near Rachel & Liam. I miss you so very much -it is your hugs i miss too. I try to understand why you and the others had to go. Always in my heart & soul, love you, mom
January 7, 2018
Remembering Sean at this time and all the families touched by the Jolly 22 disaster.
May God bless all of you and your families at this anniversary of the event. May 2018 bring everything good to you all.
Lorraine & Gordon Jeffrey, Yorkshire, England.
May 30, 2017
You gave the ultimate Sean. It has not been forgotten. We all hope that you are looking down on your family and smiling today and every day. God bless you, yours, and America. May we live in a safe world with dreams our children can one day reach.
Christine Wenzig
Debbie Abel
May 29, 2017
This day is in honor of you dear Sean; thank you for your dedication and loyalty and love for our great nation. God Bless America and God continue to bless your family.
With utmost respect and love
Debbie Abel
January 11, 2017
Dear Marcia
Just want you to know I think of you so very often and my heart hurts for you.
With love
Gordon & Lorraine Jeffrey
January 6, 2017
Thinking of Marcia and Mike
April 16, 2016
We have traveled to the sight in the UK of your last time on this earth my beloved son. The hero, Bernie, that stayed with you that night, placed his arm around me, to comfort me as it was ever so hard to take in what happened to you & your comrades on the helo that night. A plaque was given to the visitor center at the bird sanctuary, to honor ALL FOUR of you. Another of your favorite teachers at your school just wrote about you and it was kind of her. My pain is because you are not here to enjoy your wife & child, family & friends. And the pain never stops. It should be told that as a Fearless search & rescue pilot you are credited with saving 131 American lives, plus coalition lives & lives of the countrymen where you were deployed. Know that I am proud of your legacy, yet the void of your absence is sorrowful. I love you & miss you every second until I can hug you once more. with tears in my eyes, mom
April 9, 2016
Dear Marcia I think of you so very often throughout the months and with those thoughts Sean comes to my mind and heart. I still can see that precious little boy coming into the library --that beautiful smile those full cheeks that twinkle in his eyes always doing his very best. You and Mike raised a wonderful son very respectful, kind, and happy. And what a remarkable young man! God Bless you all. With love Debbie Abel
December 1, 2015
Thinking about you Sean and your family. Christmas is a time to be together and celebrate life. My hope is that your presence is felt by your loved ones and they will take some comfort in knowing you are always with them. Because you are loved and you gave love, the bond can never be broken. Merry Christmas to the whole Ruane family. God bless you all.
Christine Wenzig( Sean's first grade teacher)
Barbara Kitt
November 30, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are always with Sean and the family, Marcia. Love to you and Mike
marcia, (mom) ruane
November 29, 2015
Ii is now nearing 2yrs without you. Yet it feels like yesterday that dreaded knock at the door, when two USAF officers spoke softly telling us you would not return home. The pain & sorrow are still so very fresh & your absence for me, continues to be difficult to accept. Sean, are a hero, saving 131 American lives. You deserve to be honored. Your family & friends are supportive of your legacy, & I will continue to do so the best I can. I love you and miss you more than you know, mom
Sandee Garza Schock
November 11, 2015
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice. Gone But Not Forgotten.
Sandee Garza Schock
May 25, 2015
Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice
marcia ruane
May 2, 2015
Sean, it is almost 1 1/2 yrs of you not being with us & each day seems more unbearable. My heart hurts for you as the earthly things I know of, you will not participate with your son, wife, & all of us. To those that travel the memorial highway named in your honor, it is a reminder of your service, courage, humility, & zest for life. My baby, my child, my son, my grown, married young man,
I love you dearly, always. mom
Gordon Jeffrey
January 12, 2015
A message from the UK remembering Sean and his team mates on CSAR Jolly 22 one year on.
Our thoughts are with the families. God bless.
Debbie Huffner
January 9, 2015
Marcia and Mike - I wanted to let you know that you and your family have been on my mind and in my prayers as you approached this date - I wish there was something I could do or say to make this better for you, but you know there isn't. I can only let you know that I am standng there with you - if you need a hand, a shoulder, or someone to listen. Take care - be gentle with your selves. Sean is remembered.
Love from a stranger
January 9, 2015
From one mom to another, bless you Marcia, and thank you for giving the world such a special gift, your son.
marcia (mom) ruane
January 8, 2015
Dearest son, your absence has been heartbreaking. You gave your life saving others & managed to keep an engaging smile doing so. With pain in my heart & tears in my eyes that will never go away, I try to understannd why you left your earthly home so soon. I will cherish you as my beloved son, always & am grateful to the Lord for allowing you to be a part of our lives for as long as you were. I miss you so very much my son. Love, your mom.
Sandee Garza Schock
November 11, 2014
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice
October 29, 2014
It is so difficult with the realization that you are not ever coming back to your earthly home. every moment of each day, you are so missed. with you in my heart, love mom
July 13, 2014
I read the USAF official report released last week in PDF format. Sean and his USAF crewmates did everything possible in the tragic circumstances of the accident. Search and Rescue crews are never forgotten. God Bless all especially the families.
Sandee Garza Schock
May 26, 2014
Gone But Not Forgotten
Thanks for the ultimate sacrifice
March 29, 2014
We had a beautiful memorial mass on March 9th for you, my son. It was held in the historic St. Mary's in the Rocks, with the stained glass windows. The music were songs you liked. Ava Maria, played & sung by a young man,bagpipes played Amazing Grace & many more. The new picture of you in your Air Force 'blues' with a smile that lit up a room, your eyes magnificent as you looked right at people. Your family & friends came to celebrate you. Your grandma was pleased. Father Ryan & cousin Paul spoke, & you, Sean, my beloved son, were remembered at this service for the hero you are. I miss you so very much. love, mom
March 23, 2014
I miss you so very much . . . you were a candle in the night, a life cut too short. i love you.
February 22, 2014
Mike and Marcia: Pete and I have spent weeks trying to find the right words to help sooth the pain of your loss and they just don't come. Please know that we pray for your strength to get through the tragic loss of your beautiful son, Sean
February 1, 2014
I did not know your son. From what I heard he was an amazing young man, son, husband and father. May you find comfort in all your wonderful memories. His service to protect this country will always be remembered. May God bless his family in this time of sorrow.
Gordon Jeffrey
January 27, 2014
SAR Crews are special and are not forgotten. Our sympathy to Sean's family.
Cindy Mazzocco
January 26, 2014
Marcia.... My Heart has broken hearing of your Devastating Loss. I met your Son once. After you and Sean left, I felt so happy for you. Your Son was truly an amazing Young man. He will always be in the Hearts of all who knew him.
Christine Wenzig
January 25, 2014
I was Sean's first grade teacher. What an amazing man he became. Sean accomplished more in his 31 years on earth than most people do in a entire lifetime. All his special gifts will be greatly missed by so many. My prayers are with his family. Sean, rest in peace. You made us all so proud . Good job.
Bill Mooney
January 25, 2014
My sympathy and prayers are with Capt. Ruane and his family. I served in the 48th wing, rest assured he will be forever honored and remembered there.
USAF Retired
Sally Moore
January 25, 2014
Thank you for your service to our country and paying the ultimate sacrifice. May you protect us now with your guardian angel wings from on high ...
I am a survivor, my father was a U.S. Airforce Pilot, Captain Robert A. Moore, age 31. I was a year old when his plane went down and he too gave his all...just wanted the family to know that I send my condolences and I am praying for you...God bless
January 25, 2014
Mike and Family- As soon as a saw Sean's picture I knew he was your son. Remembering all the fun times growing up in Kennedy, but saddened by such an unimaginable great loss that no parent should have to endure. Be very proud. Deepest sympathies to your family. Linda Redpath Porta
January 25, 2014
Our thoughts are with your beautiful wife, adorable little boy and all your family today Sean. It was a pleasure to have met and known you. We will miss your glorious smile. Sleep tight.
Terry
January 25, 2014
May God Bless the family of this extraordinary young man. I am so astonished by the dedication and bravery of these men in uniform who are willing to give their lives for me and people they will never know. I thank you for your service and providing a safe country for me.
Teddi Miller
January 25, 2014
Rachel, Liam, and the Ruane family-
We are so saddened by your loss! Sean was always a kind person who put others before himself. Our prayers are with you all during this time and always.
The Miller Family
riz
January 25, 2014
Mike and Family
we are so sorry for your loss may God be with you at this time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Riz and 80
Sandee Garza Schock
January 25, 2014
To the Family & Friends of
Capt. Sean M Ruane
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Your HERO. May He Rest In Peace. May God comfort You during this difficult time.
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Sincerely
Marine Vet Mom
January 25, 2014
A great leader and GIANT HERO. His foot print will not vanish but guide the light for others to follow. An Airman's Airman born to lead, guide and direct those in need. May GOD Bless him and his family and always know his Air Force Family is on his six. RIP
January 25, 2014
A MAN OF HONOR:SEAN MICHAEL RUANE
HIS SMILE, HIS FIRM HAND SHAKE, HIS CAREING WAYS, HIS HARD WORK ETHIC, HIS LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS, HIS DRIVE TO MAKE A BETTER SAFER PLACE FOR ALL OF US,HIS DEDICATION TO HIS FELLOW SERVICE MEN AND WOMEN,HIS LOVE FOR LIFE;HAS LEFT HIS MARK ON ALL OF US AND HAS SET THE BAR HIGH FOR US TO CARRY ON HIS LEGACY.
RESPECTIVELY WAYNE SUE FORSYTHE
January 25, 2014
MIKE MARCIA CATY
OUR LIFES ARE BETTER FOR KNOWING SEAN.
COURAGE-HONOR-DIGNITY-GRACE-JOY-PRIDE-HUMBLED ALL ARE WORDS THAT COME TO MIND WHEN WE THINK OF YOUR SEAN. OUR LIFES HAVE BEEN GREATLY BLESSED BY KNOWING SEAN. LOVE ALWAYS WAYNE SUE FORSYTHE
Bethany Cortese
January 25, 2014
Thoughts, prayers, and love to the Ruane family. Sean was a class act in every respect, and the world needs more people like him. So much gratitude for his years of service, we are thinking of his family and friends during this painful time.
January 25, 2014
MIKE MARCIA CATY
OUR LIFES ARE BETTER BECAUSE WE KNEW SEAN.HIS SMILE, HIS FIRM HAND SHAKE, HIS CAREING NATURE, HIS WORK ETHIC,HIS LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS,HIS DEDICATION TO HIS COUNTRY ,AND HIS LOVE OF LIFE. WE HONOR HIM TODAY YESTERDAY AND ALWAYS...
LOVE WAYNE SUE FORSYTHE
WAYNE SUE FORSYTHE
Mark Godwin
January 25, 2014
I had the pleasure of flying with this man. He was kind soul, but knew what had to be done. He had the best mustaches in March, and I would fly into hell and back with him. You will be missed. God Speed. Your family is in my prayers.
January 24, 2014
Mike I was your neighbor growing up. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. May you find peace in your memories.
Jeanne Webb Hrebenak
Deb Navickas
January 24, 2014
Offering my sincere sympathy to the family of Captain Ruane.
Amy (Kimbler) Martin
January 24, 2014
I'm sending sincere condolences and prayers for Sean's family, on behalf of my Mother, Elizabeth Kimbler. She grew up and was best friends with Sean's grandmother, Mary Ellen Branigan Ruane. She feels very compelled to reach out to Paul Branigan and the rest of the family. Please know that she's praying for all and sends heartfelt sympathy.
David Nichols
January 24, 2014
My heart is heavy with the loss of a friend and fellow aviator. The void left by Sean's passing extends through the family and friends left behind, through the entire Rescue, SOF, and indeed military communities. I'll be wearing a Steeler's shirt in his honor at work tomorrow. An honor to have served with him. These Things He Did, That Others May Live.
January 24, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I did not know your son but from everyone that knew him, he was the best of the best. I am from a military family and have all the respect in the world for our military. Such a loss not only to his family but to our country. God bless you Sean, rest in peace. Jan Thomas, Kennedy Township Police Department
Melissa Teichman and family
January 24, 2014
May God bless Sean's family and send messages of love and peace. Sean touched so many lives with his kindness and love of life. His legacy is one we can all learn from. Rest in peace Sean.
January 23, 2014
Caitlin, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. My prayers go out to you and your parents and Sean's wife and his beautiful son. Your brother lived his life the way God intended--by serving others. Let the memories you have be the comfort you need to get through this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mrs. Greenaway (your former middle school English teacher)
Audra Frank
January 23, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss . He is a hero and God bless him and your family.
Thank you for your service!
Julia Spence
January 23, 2014
Thank you for your service. My prayers to the family. My your faith carry you through this time.
A Marine Mom
Dana (Citro) Morganti
January 23, 2014
god bless racheal and liam and the rest of the Ruane family. so so sorry for your loss. you are in my thoughts and prayers. give u strength to be strong! i love u with love cousin dana
January 23, 2014
TO SEAN'S FAMILY
MY THOUHGTS AND PRAYERS OUT WITH YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW. WE WILL ALWAYS BE GREATFUL TO HIM FOR PROTECTING OUR FREEDOM. MAY HE REST IN PEACE AND MY GOD BLESS YOU
john Ferguson
January 23, 2014
I would like to express my condolences to the Ruane family. I knew Sean when he was in the Montour band with my son Jonathan, Montour class of 2001, and I was in the band parents. Unfortunately I will not be able to be in Pittsburgh to pay respects to Sean as I am at Fort Campbell seeing Jonathan, who is in the USArmy, and his family.
January 23, 2014
Thank you, Captain Ruane. May God bless you and your family.
maria Reese
January 23, 2014
Thank you for your devotion to keeping us safe. You gave your all for us and I hope to be along the route you will take to your final rest. May God bless and keep your soul forever.
maria Reese
January 23, 2014
Thank you for your devotion to keeping us safe. You gave your all for us and I hope to be along the route you will take to your final rest. May God bless and keep your soul forever.
Matt W
January 23, 2014
Sorry for the loss to the family and friends of Capt. Sean Ruane. He died serving his country and doing his duty. I went to Montour, but did not know him. I salute you and may he rest in peace.
Tammy Sanders
January 23, 2014
I didn't know your son, but I am proud what he has done for all of us in this Country!!!! God Bless, you will see him again!!! RIP Captain Sean
January 23, 2014
Thank you for your services for our great nation. May you rest in peace.
January 23, 2014
My family and I express our heartfelt appreciation and thanks for your courageous serving of our country. You are the meaning of 'hero'.
Susan Mohrbacher
January 23, 2014
Our heart goes out to this wonderful family in the loss of their beloved Sean. Thank you Sean for serving our country and for being so brave. May God and his angels keep you safe now in their arms. ..You will forever be remembered in my prayers Bill and Bobbie Casper G.P.A.C.
Manslow's
January 23, 2014
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you. May he rest in peace.
A stranger who cares
January 23, 2014
I want to thank your husband/son/father for protecting us from evil - I pray for you and your family, and I know God will take care of him. Sean will always watch over you and protect you as he always did before. I pray that you find comfort in his memory, and I promise you, there will come a time when your tears will be replaced with smiles when you think of him
Kathleen Hopay
January 23, 2014
"Those whom we love and lose are no longer where they were before. They are now wherever we shall be." May time heal your pain until all that remains are the beauty of the memories and the love, always the love. Rest in peace beloved hero.
Kathy, Ryan and Holly Holly
jean
January 23, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss but I believe there is a special place in heaven for our fallen heroes. Please accept my thanks for your sacrifice.
Ken and Evelyn McClain
January 23, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to the Ruane family. What an amazing young man. God bless you.
January 23, 2014
Sean was my beloved friend. I have a very heavy heart. He was a high school classmate of my son who is also a member of the Air Force. Sean was a very sincere and wonderful person. I loved his smile. May God always keep Sean in his arms and bless him. Sean is my American Hero! May God Bless and share his love and compassion for all of Sean's family.
With deepest sympathy,
Fred Kauffmann
Montour High School Guidance Counselor (Retired)
Katie
January 22, 2014
Such an incredible person who will be sorely missed, Sean was second to none. We are all blessed for the time we had with him and for the lasting impressions he left in our lives and in our hearts. His smile will truly never be forgotten.
January 22, 2014
you have my sympathies...I couldn't imagine
Greg Allen
January 22, 2014
A true military hero, my condolences to his family, God Bless his family and friends and give them strength, we are thinking of you and your family Mike and Marsha
Love,
Greg Allen and Anna Dracar
January 22, 2014
I want to offer my deepest sympathy to the Ruane family. We didn't know Sean but want to thank him and his family for the greatest gift we have, our freedom. Sean gave his life serving his country. God bless you all and know your loved one wont be forgotten. He is a true hero!
The Lemley Family
January 22, 2014
Marcia, I worked with you many years ago. I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember when Sean was born and can't imagine the agony of losing a child. I am praying for you and your family.
Nancy Glavin
January 22, 2014
RIP Captain Ruane , Thank You for your service. The McGrady's Collier Twp. Pa.
Nadia Morgan
January 22, 2014
I didn't know Sean, but my husband did and greatly respected him. You are forever in my prayers.
Athens & Christopher Pellegrino
January 22, 2014
Rest in Peace Sean, you will be greatly missed. Thinking of the Ruane family during this time of sorrow. God Bless.
January 22, 2014
God keep him safe until you meet in Heaven. Thank you for his service to God and Country.
Marsha Kosh
January 22, 2014
The Ruane Family
My deepest sympathy to you on the loss of your husband and son. He was truly a hero, I am so grateful for his service to our country. May the Lord comfort in your time of sorrow. You are in my prayer's. God Bless.
Marsha Kosh
Ft. Myers; Fl.
January 22, 2014
We remember Sean as a young child when we lived in Kennedy Township. Jimmy ,my son, spent alot of time playing with Sean. Our family is very saddened by the loss of Sean and send our thoughts and prayers to all of his family and friends. Avis, Thad, Jimmy, Becky and Kathryn Ritter
Jeremy Stevens
January 22, 2014
Rest in peace Brother. My prayers go out to your family.
Monica Phillips
January 22, 2014
God Bless You, Sean. Rest in Peace.
Kevin, Patti, Beau, Brian & Vinnie Castelucci
January 22, 2014
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family
Terry Capp
January 22, 2014
Thoughts and prayers for Sean and his family. He was a good friend with so many at Montour and St. Malachy, including my daughters Laura and Chrissy. As a band parent, remember him always smiling, helping other band members, and having a good time.
Showing 1 - 100 of 106 results
981 Brodhead Rd, Moon Township, PA 15108
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more