Sheldon D. Paradis Jr.

Sheldon D. Paradis Jr.

Sheldon Paradis Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 28 to Oct. 5, 2008.

RAYMOND, N.H. — Sheldon D. "Shank" Paradis, Jr. 68, of Raymond, and a former longtime resident of Haverhill, died Friday, Sept. 26, 2008 at Wingate at Haverhill.

Born in Haverhill, son of the late Sheldon D. Sr. and Natalie (Resvan) Paradis, he attended local schools and graduated from Haverhill High School in 1958. He attended Boston College and the University of Massachusetts and was employed for over 30 years as an insurance and securities broker for Metropolitan Life Insurance Company.

An avid athlete all of his life, Shank was a three year letterman and member of the 1955 Haverhill High School State Football Championship Team. He was also a member of the football teams at Boston College and University of Massachusetts, Amherst.

He was a well-known runner and participated in numerous marathons including the Boston Marathon, Marine Corps Marathon and the Nip-Muck Marathon. In his later years, he became a bi-athlete, competing in the "Wild Man" Bi-athalon, considered to be one of the most difficult athletic events in New England and placed in the top three for his age bracket in three out of six years of competition.

He extended his athletic contribution to coaching football for Timberlane Regional High School from 1968 until 1970 and Haverhill Youth Football from 1970 until 1978, as well as coaching baseball in the Merrimac Babe Ruth League for several years. He also served as a football referee for several area leagues in his later years.

A member and past-president of the Haverhill Kiwanis Club, he was also a member of the Haverhill Bi-Centennial Committee, Saint John the Baptist Parish and the Knights of Columbus.

Survivors include his wife, Eileen T. Devlin, two sons, Sheldon D. "Shank" Paradis, III, of Berlin, Germany and Sean Paradis of Seabrook, N.H., two daughters, Lisa Paradis-MacGregor and her husband Rob of Bolton, and Jessica J. Paradis of Salisbury, two brothers and sisters-in-law, Wayne and Sandra Paradis of Canton, Ohio, and Brian and Maureen Paradis of Brookline, NH, grandchildren, Otto Paradis, Siobhan Paradis, Connor MacGregor, Bennett MacGregor, Grace Paradis, Madigan Paradis, and Jackson Paradis, three step-children, Beth, Andrea and Ryan Melnikas, and several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

ARRANGEMENTS: Relatives and friends may call on Tuesday, Sept. 30, 2008 from 4 to 8 p.m. at Berube-Comeau Funeral Home, 47 Broadway, Haverhill. His funeral will be held on Wednesday, Oct. 1, 2008 at 9 a.m. from the funeral home with a Mass of Christian burial at 10 a.m. in Saint John The Baptist Church, Lincoln Avenue, Haverhill. A private family burial service will take place in Saint Patrick's Cemetery at a later date. Memorial donations may be made to The Sports Legacy Institute at Boston University, 230 Third Ave, Waltham, MA 02451.

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September 22, 2020

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October 5, 2008

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September 30, 2008

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George Constantine

September 22, 2020

hard to believe it has been 12 years since Shank has left us. Often think of him and the memories we had together. RIP.

JOHN CASHMAN JR

October 5, 2008

TO KNOW HIM WAS TO LIKE HIM

deanna hurley

September 30, 2008

september 30, 2008
my prayers go out to shank and his family.as children we all played together in riverside. i was the only girl in the neighborhood, so of course became close to all my brother george's friends. i did see him now and than. he was a great person, i will always remember him.
deanna(bejian) hurley.

Carole Charron Dowling

September 30, 2008

My sincere condolences on Shank's passing. It was just two weeks ago that I spoke with Shank at Wingate. As a 1958 graduate of HHS, I know all of our classmates will surely miss him. My prayers are with your family.

Leslie Bejian-Payne

September 29, 2008

I was saddened to hear of Shank's death. My dad's life was so greatly influenced by Shank; thus, so was my family's. Many laughs took place between the Bejian and the Paradis clan! May Shank rest in peace and may all the memories heal your heart!

Carol (Sansoucie) Stephan

September 29, 2008

I am so saddened to hear of Sheldon's passing. I have wonderful childhood memories of him as we went to Crowell School and Haverhill High together. We lost contact after graduation and I don't know his family but I shall keep all of you in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Shirleyann Soltys

September 29, 2008

My sincerest condolences to the family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Shirleyann Soltys - coworker of Jessica

Brenda Gallagher Lamb Nelson

September 29, 2008

Please accept my condolences. When our Heavenly Father closes one door another is opened. Life is eternal and you will be with him again. I remember Sheldon very well. I moved from Haverhill in 1959 so I am not up on all the events of Haverhill.
Condolences again to you and your family.
Brenda Gallagher Lamb Nelson
My first husband Dave Lamb died when I was 37.

Barbara (DiBurro) Strickland

September 29, 2008

My sincerest sympathy to the family of "Shank." We were alumni of HHS Class of 1958. Shank was always a kind "teddy bear," who always had a smile on his face and was a born comedian. I remember him fondly. He and his family will be in my prayers.

lORRAINE D'AGATA

September 28, 2008

EVEN THOUGH I HAVE NOT BEEN IN TOUCH WITH 'SHANK' SINCE HIGH SCHOOL, HIS DEATH HAS CAUSED A LOSS IN MY HEART. SHANK WAS A GOOD FRIEND. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

LORRAINE (BENARD) D'AGATA

Larry Beekler

September 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy and sincere condolences to the family
of Shank. We were chilldhood friends, Grammer School and
High School Classmates, and played football together for
Haverhill High. Although our paths separated after High School, I often thought of him and have fond memories of
our time growing up together in Riverside.
Sincerely, Larry Beekler- N. Waterboro, Maine

Marilyn O'Leary Gilboard

September 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy on Shanks passing.

Marilyn O'Leary Gilboard - A friend from High School

Charles Bradshaw

September 28, 2008

Dear Wayne--I am sorry to have read about your brother's death. May he rest in eternal peace with the Lord. Sincerely, Charlie Bradshaw, HHS Class of 1962

GEORGE & BARBARA CONSTANTINE

September 28, 2008

PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES ON SHANKS PASSING. WE HAVE LOST AN OLD FRIEND FOR OVER 50 YEARS. MANY FOND MEMORIES ON THE FOOTBALL FIFELD, AS MY MET LIFE AGENT AND FINANCIAL MAN. GOD BLESS.

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