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Skylar White Obituary
Skyler Spencer White entered life here on Earth December 7, 1989.
Skyler was called home on September 17, 2011.
During his short time on Earth he blessed us with his greatest legacy Aria Belladonna White which he created with his one and only love.
He never met a stranger. He was a friend to everyone.
He is survived in life by his mother Jennifer Bumgardner and father Brian White. Siblings Adelaide, Chase, Lillian, Kolby, Page, Sterling, Dallas, Montana and Serinity, grandparents April and Terry Bumgardner and Bob White, 7 aunts, 2 uncle and many, many very loved cousins.
He was preceded in death by grandmother Mary White and GranIrene and many others that have gone home before him.
Celebration of life and Pot Luck for our beautiful angel will be held Sunday September 25th at Lake Redding Park, Starting at Noon.
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Julie Kuehn
September 15, 2022
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Aria Belladonna White
April 27, 2020
I love you Dad and I miss you and Im 11 years old about to go in the 6th grade I'm getting scared I just miss you and I want you back I pray every night and I just keep hoping that one day I'll get to see you hopefully and and it's bin 9 years I miss you I just want you back but it's probably for the best God has plans for us he has plans for me besides if you were here right now just imagine I would be spoiled rotten brat God has plans for us we live we die that's just how life goes I wish that didn't I just wish that that's not how it goes I wish I don't know what I wish I just miss you I hope just one day to see you I really do I know you're watching back on me all the time you. I just don't understand how God would take you from me God has plans he's going to make sure that plan works to I miss you daddy love you so much.
I miss your handsome face
Julie Kuehn
January 14, 2020
Fun at the fair
Julie Kuehn
January 14, 2020
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Julie Kuehn
January 14, 2020
Beautiful face, beautiful heart and a beautiful soul! Heaven Scored we on earth lost but not forever! I'll see you again!
Julie Kuehn
January 14, 2020
We all miss you so much! You'll always be my little dude!
Aunt Julie
December 24, 2019
Miss you so freaking much nephew. The world will never be the same without you.
Aunt Julie Kuehn
December 18, 2019
XOXO Doda misses you angel
Aunt Julie Kuehn
December 18, 2019
I think about you everyday my precious nephew. It's been 8 years and it hasn't gotten any easier to live without your presence. I may not write to you everyday or visit you everyday but I definitely miss you EVERYDAY and look forward to the day that I get to see your beautiful smile again and give you a huge hug. I'll never let go!!! Please give all of our loved ones in heaven with you lots of hugs and kisses from your Doda. I love you Angel
Mommy
December 18, 2019
Mommy loves you with all my heart
Aunt Kasey
September 15, 2019
I always remember you, always love you.
Mommy
September 25, 2018
Missing you so much my sweetest
Jodi Kuehn
September 22, 2018
Thinking about you and missing you! I think who would you be today? I watch your cousins growing and know that you would be right there with them watching your babies grow up together. We are truly Blessed that all the babies are growing up together,we are just missing you! I love you Sky Guy. You live forever in my heart and memories!
Mommy
May 29, 2017
Time changes nothing mommy loves and misses u every second of every minute of every hour of every day till the good lord calls me home i will be missing you xoxoxoxo
Tammy
December 7, 2016
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Skyler. You are very missed.
Mommy
November 18, 2016
Missing you always
Jodi
June 7, 2016
Sky Guy you are forever in my heart and memories! I love and miss you DEARLY! Your beautiful baby girl spent the day with me Saturday. We had so much fun! There were so many things we did that reminded me of you :-) I am so Blessed to be able to watch a piece of you grow. I know you see all that we do and I hope you are pleased.
June 2, 2016
I remember the first time Skyler came to my house for dinner. I had been told, by my daughter, that his favorite food was spaghetti. So I made some spaghetti and garlic bread. Skyler seemed a little nervous but he quickly was running the show, with his sense of humor and his beautiful infectious smile. He had 'thirds' on spaghetti. A couple weeks later Skyler reciprocated. He showed up at our house with some chips and a HUGE plate of dip and a GINORMOUS tub of ice cream! He was so proud to bring food to share with us. That was a really fun night. We should had done things like that more often.
Cosette
June 1, 2016
Oh Sky Guy, words can't even begin to express how much I miss you. Your mommy wants everyone to write our favorite memory of you, but I can't think of a single one because there are so many. I love you buddy - love Aunt Cozy
lori carroll
June 1, 2016
Skylar blessed our lives (Sam Winn and Lori Carroll) with his ever-sweet presence during his elementary school years where he and Sam attended the JC School together. We spent a lot of time with Skyler and we had fun together. Often it was Skyler, Sam and myself going about in my old yellow car back and forth to Weaverville, out for Halloween, or just visiting with Jennifer and Addie and Skyler, Sam and me. At their house or at our little blue cabin. The boys were always up to their antics, and I was just sharing with my partner Jim yesterday how much fun it was for me. Such a precious window of time that I will always appreciate. Skyler was a gentle sweet presence in our midst for which I will always be grateful. Love shared during that time remains very special as friends are actually family, and in this case this was the situation. Much love and fond memory of Skyler White.
Shyann
January 31, 2016
Thinking of you today and every day. Miss you so so much cousin. Aria, Bryce, and Gabe had their very first sleepover last night. They were instant best friends. It's so sweet to watch our babies grow up together, I wish more than anything you were here with us making memories. We love you!!!
hailey e
December 9, 2015
Skylar, I love how You were always making everyone laugh in school - I miss you and will always have fond memories of you making up your own silly songs and just being a free spirit....
much love
Tammy Ferrari
December 7, 2015
Thinking of you today, I wish everything had turned out so different than it did. I wish I'd been a better friend to you; I think you probably know that. Maybe one day we'll meet again...I will try my best to make it to where you are. Thinking of you on your Birthday
mommy
December 7, 2015
Happy birthday my sweetest angel mommy misses you so much I feel as though my soul is being ripped out through my heart and I know you don't want to see me sad I just can't help the way I feel I should be throwing a party for you and celebrating 26 beautiful years I am so grateful for the time I did get with you and I know how blessed I am that God chose me to be your mommy and that blessing can never be taken from me I will hold and cherish all of those memories and years they will stay safe in my heart forever its just hard not to feel greedy and want more time I just feel like you were robbed of your future but I know I have to trust and believe that God has a bigger better plan for you I love you so much Son I will continue to love and honor you and your beautiful heart and I promise your daughter Aria will always know that she was created from love and that you loved her so much and anybody that ever knew you knows how true that is they were your world and love never dies XO's XO's XO's I can only imagine how beautiful your celebration is I will keep this candle burning to honor you on this day I can't believe it was 26 years ago today that God blessed me with my biggest blessing I've ever received (becoming a mommy ) and I will always be grateful till the good Lord calls me home mommy will be missing you my sonshine that smells like snow xoxo
mommy
November 30, 2015
Missing you
Rocco Family
October 20, 2015
We miss you Skylar, God bless
October 5, 2015
Xoxo mommy loves you sending hugs and kisses to heaven Xoxo
mommy
June 15, 2015
Mommy loves u
mommy
June 11, 2015
Mommy loves u I have felt u around us all week long u told me u wouldn't miss it for the world u didn't I felt u there xo so proud of ur little princess feeling truly blessed ur dad,Paige, Montana, and Dallas were able to celebrate such a special day with us I believe her favorite is uncle bontana and auntie wiwwi she truly is ur Lil clone good time all week long I love u my sonshine
Lori Carroll
May 22, 2015
I am thinking of Skyler this morning with love. a playful and sweet tempered child whose company and adventures we took together, Skyler and Sam and me. Skyler, never an imposition always a gentle and humor invoking presence in our life, I remain appreciate of that special window of time we shared.
Terry Bumgardner
May 21, 2015
Love and miss you Skyler
Cosette Carder
May 21, 2015
I love and miss you every single day!
Terry Bumgardner
May 14, 2015
Grampa Bumgardner
May 14, 2015
I love u cousin
Lori Carroll
March 4, 2015
Skyler, a sweet child whose company was easy to be around. I feel grateful to have had him as a companion to Sam, and to be friends with Jennifer and Addie, and with that a sense of community and family
Mommy
February 21, 2015
Xos
Lori Carroll
December 8, 2014
Skyler keeps our sky so bright, his shining star looking over us, as we think of him, our hearts are warmed
Mommy
December 7, 2014
25 years ago god blessed mewith ur most precious heart i couldn't believe he even thought i was worthy of such love u filled my heart with love understanding compaction that i didn't even know existed i will forever be so grateful for the time he let me love and nurture u u truly made me a better person and gave me more then i could ever imagine being ur Mommy was the biggest blessing i had ever been given although our time was short here on earth the unconditional love and memories will live on for infinity u were my most proudest moments i thank god aeach and every day for letting me b ur Mommy o the most beautiful man inside and out happy birthday Skyler Spencer White my big sky blu sky sky guy till the good lord calls me home i will b missing u evert second of every minute of every hour of every day Mommy loves u
mommy
December 1, 2014
Xos my sweet Angel Mommy misses u more every day
mommy
September 18, 2014
Xos always and forever in my heart till the good Lord calls me home ill b missing u my sweetest heart
Lori Carroll
September 16, 2014
remembering Skyler today, with love in my heart. Lori
Mommy
July 17, 2014
Xos
mommy
June 1, 2014
Mommy loves u son always and forever and infinity
mommy
May 17, 2014
Always in my heart and on my mind
mommy
May 12, 2014
Thanku son for who i am today mommy loves u
mommy
April 18, 2014
Xos
mommy
March 25, 2014
Xos
March 9, 2014
The daffodils are coming up and blooming and my thoughts this morning are of Skyler as spring comes on. xo
Mommy
March 8, 2014
Always in my heart u will live Mommy misses that sweetest smile in the hole wide world
Autumn Brawdy
March 6, 2014
Hi Skyler... I miss you so much... E very day I wish you were still here with us...
Autumn Brawdy
February 21, 2014
Hi Skyler everyday I miss you and I wish you were still here! I love you.
Mommy
February 15, 2014
Always in my heart and on my mind Mommy loves u
Lori Carroll
February 10, 2014
Hi Skylar, I got to meet your Mom, your two sisters, CJ and your Grandmother, plus some of your cousins when you were all little kids. And of course, the time you spent with us on our adventures, you, Sam and I, were really so much fun. we love you. Lori
Autumn Brawdy
February 7, 2014
I love you Skyler very much!!!!! <
mommy
February 5, 2014
Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Lori Carroll
January 17, 2014
When I moved to California you were seven in the second grade. Just a little guy and really a sweetheart. rather quiet. Everyone getting used to life at school. When I see your picture as a young man, I still see and know the boy that really captured my heart and that I was glad came into my and my son Sam's life. Love Lori
granpa
January 17, 2014
Grams an granpa April Clark and terry bumgardner. take care of grama April for us skylar. love you
Mommy
January 17, 2014
Missing u
Ur sister
January 11, 2014
Hey buddy I miss you I can't believe ur gone I'm getting married I know u would really like duke he's amazing you wanted even believe it I don't want I'm going to with out u there I miss you everyday I wish could visit all the time I really love you tell grandma hi for me and that I love her
January 7, 2014
see you soon.
Aunt Cozy Carder
January 7, 2014
Still missing you EVERYDAY buddy. Aunt Cozy will forever miss you that smile your beautiful and mostly your hugs. I love you my Sky Guy!!
Mommy
January 2, 2014
Happy New Year i know you r loving ur new chapter give my Mommy big hugs i love u so much son and i know we will b back together one day till then i will keep u here in my heart and always cherish our time together here on earth u were truly the most precious gift i could have ever asked for i pinky swear i will never let ur memories fade u will live on as long as i live
December 7, 2013
You are deep in my thoughts today. Happy Birthday Sweet Angel! Love Aunt Jodi
December 7, 2013
Thinking about you Skyler, and your beautiful Mother. I am glad you sent her some pretty snow as a sign you are watching over her. Love Lori
Mommy
December 7, 2013
Happy birthday
Mommy
December 6, 2013
Good morning my handsome son always on my mind and in my heart Mommy loves u so much son
Mommy
December 3, 2013
Wishing i was getting ready for ur birthday party Mommy will light a candle for u
November 26, 2013
thinking About you also today, Skyler. With Love Lori
Mommy
November 25, 2013
Mommy loves u ur on my mind and in my heart every second of every day ps ur daughter is amazing just like u
Mommy
November 12, 2013
Always missing u
Shyann
October 22, 2013
Miss and Love you so much! I think about you all the time!
Aunt Kasey
October 20, 2013
Skylar's guestbook will now be online permanently!! I am sure this would be a good place to gather our tales and memories of times spent together to share with each other. So pass the word along! Come share a fond memory or story of adventure that we can all keep together.
Lori Carroll
October 16, 2013
Dear Skyler, I am remembering how much your first/second grade teacher Greg like you, and he was so nice to 'the kids' yet I remember he really thought the world of you.
The first time I met your Mom was in JC Store with you and Addie and I thought how beautiful and sweet she is and what beautiful children you two were. Your Mom and I became good friends and I was happy to have her friendship. I used to take you and Sam to Round Table Pizza where you could play the game machines, and also to the place where you could rent games by the hour, as an activity after school sometimes. You slept over our house up in Sam's loft and you guys stayed up late, and Sam used to sleep over at your house too. I always enjoyed having you over as it seemed we always had fun. Love you Skyler. You have always been in my thoughts over all these years, without fail. Lori
Tammy Ferrari
October 11, 2013
My first time getting to know you was over homemade spaghetti. You made me laugh so many times, it was a very fun evening. I knew you and Chelsy were coming over for dinner but I hadn't known how much you loved spaghetti! My best memory is of the look on your face the day Aria was born, the look of complete and total amazement and love on your face as you held her. The memory I will always hold closest to my heart is of the day I told you I was sorry for so many things and I wished things had turned out differently. You gave me a hug, said 'don't be sad, we all make mistakes.' Thank you. Thank you for reminding me about kindness and forgiveness. Thank you for Aria,your Princess. Thank you for reminding me to try and be the best person I can be. The best way I can honor your memory, your life, is to be the person you expected me to be...for Aria and for Chelsy. And I promise you I will be. We all miss you. You live on through Aria Belladonna.
Lori Carroll
October 9, 2013
A candle will shine always in my heart. Lori
Lori Carroll
October 9, 2013
Dear Skyler, You and Sam and I spent a lot of time together, and you two boys filled my heart with joy. We had so many laughs together. Remember the time in the blue house at the Gonpa when the cup of grape juice slipped out of your hand and went up the wall and all over. You and Sam thought it was the funniest thing on the planet and had me laughing my heart out. And the time you and Sam were in the back seat of the car, had me stop at JC store for candy before going to Weaverville and I backed out and bumped the fender of a big vehicle, checked and no damage and continued to drive and the cop stopped me on the hill and you two were laughing your heads off in the back seat, while the cop gave me the run down. Too many special times to mention, but you were like my own son, and I loved you dearly for your free spirit, your sweetness and your gentle ways. You were a bright spot and a wonderful friend to Sam and me both, and I treasure the times we had together. I love you Skyler. Love Lori
lillian ur favoret girl!!
September 23, 2013
Skyler i miss u alot its really hard not having u hear but im glad ur in a better place ware u feel no pain and hurt well...anyways im doing an easy at school abt somthing i ucomplished in my life and im doing on how i learnd how to ride a skate bord and how u taught me..and me and chelcy r best friends lol ur dauhgter is the cutest thing she looks just like u and is the funniest thing ever! We all really miss u! You were my best friend and the best big brother in the hole world love you!! Xoxo
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